Time has not taken away our sadness of your absence. It is still hard to breath at times and our tears are still there. I have found that Jesus has taken over your job of caring for me. I am safe and I still smile, because just knowing that I'll see you again in Heaven some day. God is very good to me, but I believe you took my JOY with you when you left. Elayne moved back to Missouri. She is keeping on, keeping on! But it isn't easy. We are two lost women with only half a heart, because you two took our other half with you. I can't believe it is nearly the end of 2016. Nap and Carl, You'll be missed every second of everyday the rest of our days. You two were the LOVE of our lives.
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Togetherness
(Henry Scott Holland)
Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
that, we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference in your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect,
without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute, unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind
because I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting for you
for an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is passed. Nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be
as it was before – only better,
infinitely happier and forever –
we will all be one together with Christ.
"And when we die, we say we'll catch some blackbird's wing.
Then we will fly away to Heaven, come some sweet bluebonnet spring." (Nancy Griffith)
Tributes
Leave a tributeTime has not taken away our sadness of your absence. It is still hard to breath at times and our tears are still there. I have found that Jesus has taken over your job of caring for me. I am safe and I still smile, because just knowing that I'll see you again in Heaven some day. God is very good to me, but I believe you took my JOY with you when you left. Elayne moved back to Missouri. She is keeping on, keeping on! But it isn't easy. We are two lost women with only half a heart, because you two took our other half with you. I can't believe it is nearly the end of 2016. Nap and Carl, You'll be missed every second of everyday the rest of our days. You two were the LOVE of our lives.
For our families, it is also and will forever be, the day of Mona and Nap's rebirth. The day they defeated death, as promised by the Savior, and were welcomed into the fullness of eternal life with God in Heaven.
"Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let your perpetual light shine upon them. May their souls, and all the souls of the faithful, rest forever in your peace and glory. Amen."
My email address is dttx74@gmail.com.
God bless the memory of Nap Arne, a unique individual and a truly great guy.
Duke Twedt
I have a lot of really good memories of working and traveling with Nap. I especially remember and enjoyed the humor of a really great guy and the fact that he was always interested in getting something done. It's also great to see how happy he was in all the pictures. It was an honor to know him.
Peace to all in the New Year
And you know Nap and Carl are having a blast now that they are back together!
Today I went to the Holy Cross Lutheran Church (ELCA) service here in Rockport. Pastor Haynes has been visiting Nap since about 10 Nov. Pastor Haynes acknowledged Nap's passing into peace and glory and I could just hear all the ELCA friends and relatives now hanging with Nap in Heaven, how they must have been cheering when his name was mentioned at the service today! Also, so much of the music today was about Angels. It was perfect! Thank you Pastor Haynes and Holy Cross
BY SAM WALTERS FOSS
(1858-1911)
There are hermit souls that live withdrawn
in the peace of their self-content;
There are souls, like stars, that dwell apart,
in a fellowless firmament;
There are pioneer souls that blaze their paths
where highways never ran;
But let me live by the side of the road and be a friend to man.
Let me live in a house by the side of the road,
where the race of men go by
The men who are good and the men who are bad,
as good and as bad as I.
I would not sit in the scorner's seat,
or hurl the cynic's ban,
Let me live in a house by the side of the road
and be a friend to man.
I see from my house by the side of the road,
by the side of the highway of life,
The men who pass with the ardor of hope,
the men who are faint with the strife.
But I turn not away from their smiles nor their tears--
both parts of an infinite plan;-
Let me live in a house by the side of the road and be a friend to man.
I know there are brook-gladdened meadows ahead
and mountains of wearisome height,
That the road passes on through the long afternoon
and stretches away to the night.
But still I rejoice when the travelers rejoice
and weep with the strangers that moan,
Nor live in my house by the side of the road like a man who dwells
alone.
Let me live in my house by the side of the road
where the race of men go by--
They are good, they are bad, they are weak,
they are strong, wise, foolish--so am I.
Then why should I sit in the scorner's seat or hurl the cynic's ban?
Let me live in a house by the side of the road and be a friend to man.
This is one of Naps favorite poems. This poem hangs on my wall too.
Good Bye for now
Leave a Tribute
Time has not taken away our sadness of your absence. It is still hard to breath at times and our tears are still there. I have found that Jesus has taken over your job of caring for me. I am safe and I still smile, because just knowing that I'll see you again in Heaven some day. God is very good to me, but I believe you took my JOY with you when you left. Elayne moved back to Missouri. She is keeping on, keeping on! But it isn't easy. We are two lost women with only half a heart, because you two took our other half with you. I can't believe it is nearly the end of 2016. Nap and Carl, You'll be missed every second of everyday the rest of our days. You two were the LOVE of our lives.
For our families, it is also and will forever be, the day of Mona and Nap's rebirth. The day they defeated death, as promised by the Savior, and were welcomed into the fullness of eternal life with God in Heaven.
"Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let your perpetual light shine upon them. May their souls, and all the souls of the faithful, rest forever in your peace and glory. Amen."
Minnesota Birthday
Magic Nap
Nap was a very talented magician. He always had a trick up his sleave.
I was most amazed when he dove behind the couch with an empty wine bottle complete with cork inside? He popped up with the bottle in one hand, and the cork in the other! Amazing. Always an entertainer and lots of fun.
You are often remembered Nap.
Charles Mott
Friend and neighbor
Birthday in Bemidji
It's hard to believe it's been 12 years since we celebrated Nap's birthday at Irv's beautiful home with all the winter Texans. Big bluegills, birthday, berries and Bemidji.
Even Joe's Cabins was an interesting experience - bathroom sink in the shower. And not to forget the paintball berries.