Dear Bhuaji, I remember when we first met you when we visited India when I was little. We came to visit you and you were so welcoming, warm and loving. It’s was like we had always known you and you loved us so much. We will miss you so much. May your soul rest in peace. Sending love and positive thoughts to you, wherever you now reside. Love from us all.

A message sent by respected Taya Ji (Col. Kulbir Singh Sahi) on February 26,2021

Since you have left us for ever we shall remember you Narinder during times of joy and sorrow. There is emptiness. There is loneliness and certain sadness around all of us.

A message sent by Amardeep Grewal

Sorry to hear about your great loss. Auntie ji was really a very amazing and loving personality. I always remember the moments I witnessed her wonderful company. ...I am sure in eternal world she will be proud and happy with Uncle Ji........Amen

I wanted to say a few words for my Gud Masijiit’s HARD to put into words how I feel about you leaving us Masiji , guess you are happy and United with Masarji now and we all will see you there in time though We all wish we had the power to make death go away from the face of the earth forever and never return. We wish to live on earth without losing anyone dear to us.  But sadly, death is inevitable. Masi ji you will be missed and I regret not calling you last month when I had intention I feel an emptiness in my heart ❤️ but I am going to live with the beautiful memories of you in Khurla Kingra when we all were living together miss those days when I used just hope over to have my favorite ‘’besan di barfi’’ I still remember last time when I visited Ucha Pind and you took out some and said See I still remember your favorite. I know Masi ji and Masarji we will be in your thoughts as you are in ours . Loads of love from your laddi puttar

A message sent by Navneet Virk, February 23, 2021

Tayiji will forever remain in our hearts.

A message sent be Harpreet Singh on February 22, 2021

ਬਹੁਤ ਦੁੱਖ ਲੱਗਿਆ ਭੈਣ ਜੀ।ਓਹ ਹੱਸਦਾ ਚਿਹਰਾ,ਧੀਮੀ ਤੇ ਮਿੱਠੀ ਆਵਾਜ ਚ ਹਰ ਇੱਕ ਨੂੰ ਸਤਿਕਾਰ ਨਾਲ਼ ਤੁਸੀ ਕਹਿ ਕੇ ਬੁਲਾਉਣਾ।ਮਾਮੀ ਜੀ ਦਾ ਜਾਣਾ ਬਹੁਤ ਦੁਖਦਾਇਕ ਹੈ। ਮਾਮਾ ਜੀ ਹੀ ਨਹੀ ਸੀ ਭੁੱਲੇ ਅਜੇ ਹੁਣ ਘਰ ਦਾ ਦੂਜਾ ਥੰਮ ਵੀ ਡਿੱਗ ਗਿਆ।

A message sent by Jasmin Sangha Hans, February 23, 2021

Auntie was a very kind personality and I remember her always having a smile on her face. Remember all that time spent with your family. Those were the good days.

A message sent by Gurpreet Singh Sahi, February 23, 2021

ਬਹੁਤ ਦੁੱਖ ਹੋਇਆ ਸੁਣ ਕੇ, ਪਤਾ ਨਹੀਂ ਸੀ ਕਿ ਐਨੀ ਜਲਦੀ ਚਲੇ ਜਾਣਗੇ ਤਾਈ ਜੀ ਪਰਮਾਤਮਾ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਦੀ ਰੂਹ ਨੂੰ ਸ਼ਾਤੀ ਬਖਸ਼ੇ ।

A message sent by Harinder Kang, February 23, 2021

Bhua ji was a wonderful personality. No words to express.

A message sent by Harneet Kaur Sahi, February 23, 2021

You will always be in our heart You were a great supporter and guide for our family bheji.

A message sent by Prabhkiran Sandhu, February 23, 2021

Bhuji was very good person. She will be truly missed and will always be remembered. May her soul rest in peace.

A message sent by Sarbjit Kaur Gill February 23, 2021

Bhenji was a very noble soul. She loved and respected everyone and they loved her.

A message sent by Auntie, Daljeet Sangha February 23, 2021

Narinder was my best friend and she was very humble and wise. We have shared our joys and sorrows together. I am going to miss her.

A message sent by Auntie Surinder Sangha February 23, 2021

Narinder was most sensible and sophisticated woman!

A memory shared by Aman (Patiala) February 21, 2021

I remember how excited we kids used to get everytime we visited Mama ji and Mami ji at Khurla Kingra. That was a "Happy House" for us. I have so many wonderful memories. Still remember Mama ji's favourite phrase "chlo bacheo lets do ash without cash"! We used to take immense pleasure by doing small things with them.

A message sent by Aman Bhen February 21, 2021

Shocked to learn about dear Chachiji's death. Totally at loss of words at this sudden and unexpected tragedy in the family. May her soul rest in eternal peace.

A message sent by Avtinder Basra on February 23, 2021

I was deeply saddened when I heard about passing of dadima. I will always cherish the memories I have of her. I especially remember how she used to scare me by moving her front 2 teeth when I was little. I will miss her.

A message left by Rashpal on February 23, 2021

We three (me, Namrat and Avtinder) have lovely memories with Nanima, Nanaji, Avi Massi, Neetu Massi and Manu Mamaji. Those days of our childhood will be cherished and remain close to our hearts forever. Nanima & Nanaji will always be showering their blessings from the heavens above.

(Note: Rashpal, I can relate to your last sentence. Mum lately started saying to Birinder. Don't worry if I am not here but I will shower flowers from heaven above on your wedding. Thank you for reminding me this. Love Avi xx)

A message sent by Harkiran Basra on February 22, 2021

A beautiful soul, full of love and faith ascended to heaven away from us, but closer to God. Words cannot describe what I am feeling.....God rest dadi ji's soul. We will always miss her.

Memory shared by Supinder Chohan on February 23, 2021

Have many happy memories of staying at Khurla Kingra....one struck the most is how as children we always knew when its time for Phuphar ji to be at home from work. Bhuaji used to get all dressed up and sit in front of window to receive him.

Dear Nanima, there is so much that I wish I could say to you … but one thing is for sure, you have given me the BEST example of how to be a great mom, wife, and human. You and Nanupapa truly gave me some of my favourite memories and experiences that have shaped who I am today.

I keep hearing you sing - “Kinna sohna tenu Rab nay banayaa, dil karay vekhdi rawaan” and seeing your beautiful smile. Since my childhood, you sang me this song and continued to sing it during one of our last talks. This always made me feel like the most special girl in the world. Your praises and motivational words always made me feel so blessed and thankful for everything that I have - you instilled that same confidence in me that you did for Mama, Massi, and Mamaji.

I was amazed to see how you put in 150% in all of your relations. You were always helpful no matter the situation - providing wisdom, support and offering a cheerful story or joke that could instantly lift spirits. You taught us the value of family and the importance of honouring relationships by appreciating each other's uniqueness. You had a flawless way of teaching us lessons through creative stories and analogies. You were an elegant and diplomatic woman, but also had a mischievous, fun, and extremely competitive side that we often saw while playing cards.

The saying “Good de bache Good” is very accurate. Thank you so much for raising Mama the way you did - because of you, I have a wonderful upbringing and an amazing mother. Your way of thinking and your way of doing has been passed down to us from our parents, and that is how I know you will always be here with us. My dear Nanima, you gave this world so much warmth and joy, and I was lucky to be a part of it.

I will always be your princess and hope to be as wonderful of a Queen as you were. For now, you enjoy your time with Nanu and we can chit chat later :)
I love you ❤️

For my dearest Bhuaji,

You have been an important part of my life since childhood. I will always remember the time we spent together. In particular, I enjoyed when I was able to regularly visit you at Khurlakingra while I studied at Jallandhar. You were always affectionate and humorous. You will always be in my heart and missed. May your soul Rest In Peace.

“Oye hoye mere shone putt,,,”- Mummy
Sat Sri Akal mummy !!
This was the greeting message I use to get from mummy ( mother -in -law) .
To be a son in law of this family, it was matter of pride for me . She always gave love and due respect .

Her punctuality of time, micro- management of money , sitting together on dinning table , sitting around her and talking very softly and discussing small chores of life were few things that she liked .

She was very honest and fair in her dealings with everyone. Her way of looking - eyesight was very sharp and intelligent , she will do complete X-ray in few seconds . Less talkative and more observy.
She had ability to keep the strings of family , relatives , connected.
She was a energy booster in the family.
“ Bachhe appan bomb bula dene hai”


Her way of living a graceful life will always be remembered .
“ Mummy you gave me your daughter- a strong headed partner who has inherited your footsteps and I’m sure to lead a successful future with her “.

I pray to God to keep your soul in peace, your dealings and memories will always be cherished .
Love you Mummy !

So many beautiful memories with you auntieji from the time when we were all in India. We all used to go to Niku park, the gurudawara sahib and used to take the bus home sometimes. I clearly remember you used to say there was no need for the fifth child after Manu.
You will be dearly missed and still cannot believe you left us. Memories made forever and will stay forever in our hearts.
Simmi

Dear Auntiji- one of the nicest personality I have ever known. You have always given me the warmth of a mother. It is very hard to make my heart understand that you have departed. May you find peace in your next life. Love you and will always miss you.

Aunty ji - you were such a kind and warm soul and always treated us like your own family. You had the softest voice and a remarkable ability to make anyone feel calm in your presence.

I feel even more grateful that you got to meet my son, Narayan, last year - especially now knowing that would be the last time we were to meet.

May you and uncle ji forever rest in peace and may Waheguru bless your soul x

You’ll always be missed dadimaa ♥️

Was talking to mumma yesterday and I was like I know we are sad here but think for once if other world actually exist she’ll get to see her parents, brother, specially Sahi saab and all other beautiful souls that were part of her life.
I am sure you and Sahi saab are having good time.

Dearest Uncle and Auntie Ji.. Though I was not connected with you through blood relation but whenever we met I never ever felt felt that your love and care for me is less than the love you both do to Avi Neetu and Manu. Your beautiful smile and lovely words always made me to feel special. Even when you shifted to ucha pind ,number of times I went to see the house where you lived in Jalandhar. The reason was I loved that place because there I got much love care and blessings from you both. Though we have not met much after my marriage but I never felt this. At times I always finds you near me. You might have completed your life journey you will always be in my heart with same beautiful smile and blessing us
MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE

Message from Raman sent on February 22, 2021

Very beautiful pictures of Mama ji and Mammi ji. They are proud and happy together..

(Note: Raman earlier asked me whether I ever saw Mum and Dad having a fight....you know I had to admit I never seen them fighting in my life. But it can't be true can it!!!....however they did live a very graceful life. Inspiration to us all how two very different personalities can gel together so nicely Thanks Raman xx Avi)

Message sent by Nirreet Virk on February 22, 2021

Dadi maa was the one who actually praised me from heart after my Nani maa left. Such pure and genuine soul . I will always keep her in my prayers..I know dadi maa will be happy in heaven..

Message from Ruby Mander sent on February 22,2021

I am really sad to hear about Bhuaji's news....I have many memories of Bhuaji right from my childhood to 2019 on my last visit to her at her home. She was always a very loving and welcoming person to me. I am sure she is going to leave a big hole in the tapestry of your family. I pray with all my heart that Waheguru ji bless you all with courage and strength to cope with this loss and to give Bhuaji's soul her resting place at his feet. Love Ruby

Dear Mama, I know you must be telling Papa everything that he missed over the past 5 years. I also know that you are finally at peace and must be very happy to be with him finally. Knowing that you two are together, brings me comfort. However, there are many things that I would like you to know.

I will miss you when there will be no one calling me first thing in the morning to check on me. You were my support after Papa was gone.

I will miss you when there will be no one to mend the damage I cause with my straightforward attitude. You were my glue that held every bond and connection together.

I will miss you when there will be no one to remind me to call my relatives on special occasions. You were my Public Relations specialists to maintain my favorable public image.

I will miss you when there is no one to show me the other side of the mirror and see other perspectives. You were my devil's advocate to appreciate the difference in opinions.

I will miss you when there is no one to give me tips on savings and running home effectively. You were my go-to person in the time of need.

You were a true king-maker, a good advisor, a cheerleader, and a woman with class and pride!

I will always miss you when I have my accomplishments to celebrate and sorrows to mourn. I will be fortunate if I could be the same wonderful mother to Mehar and Jasraj as you were to us.

Goodbye nani ma.
All the memories you left me with bring a smile to my face.
All the knowledge you taught me makes me feel powerful.

Nani ma is the only one who I was able to relate too, she was my Capricorn buddy. We both were so practical about everything. The things she taught me is what shaped me into the young man today. I knew that if everyone wanted to go out shopping and leave the house, nani ma will stay at home with me and eat custard with me. We loved being ourselves and so different from everyone. Your life is the representation of dignity and perseverance through any kind of situation.

My nani ma was an outcast from everyone else and she loved it.
My nani ma was a symbol of compassion, she treated everyone well.
My nani ma was a role model for me as she became my teacher as I got older.
My nani ma was the best at making pinia.
My nani ma was the most understanding lady one can ever imagine.

In my heart, forever in my mind. Neetu's son will make you proud.
This is a celebration of your life, and when I close my eyes I want to see you dance with nanu papa.

I am no longer sad that my time with you is over, I am happy that it happened.
Love you forever from neetu's son Jasraj!

Bhuaji will forever be missed. She was always so loving and caring. One of my favorite memories during our trips to India was to visit her in Ucha Pind. She will always be in our memories.

Our beloved Bhuaji will always be missed and will always be with us in our memories. We will always remember our Bhuaji as smiling, caring, loving, welcoming and joyful. May God rest her soul in peace.

Mum never said it but two people she loved the most were me Avu and her Birinder ...Sorry folks I couldn't resist had to say!!! Mum we will carry you in our hearts the day I die. Me and Birinder are eternally grateful to waheguru ji for how You and Dad guided and protected us through ups and downs of our lives. May you both rest in peace xxx