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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Natakianika Anderson, 61 years old, born on November 25, 1958, and passed away on April 12, 2020. We will remember her forever.
June 19, 2020
June 19, 2020
Nikki my big sister our bond is unbreakable. You were such an integral part of my upbringing, especially my wild teenage years. Thank you for talking sense into my big head! For that I'm truly grateful! So glad I got to talk to you before they put you on the ventilator. Though our conversation was brief, I told you that I love you and you reciprocated the sentiment. I had no idea that would be our last earthly conversation. I think of you everyday and still play our favorite game Happy Color remembering all the pictures we would color and share with each other. I thank God for the time we shared. I love you big sister.
Ayana McCowen
May 27, 2020
May 27, 2020
I still remember what you whispered in my ear, second to last time seeing you, so sweet and positive, beautiful soul beautiful outside.Loving and Missing you always, Heaven is So lucky to have you
May 27, 2020
May 27, 2020
Cousin Nikki i will alway love you sorry to hear your gone rest in peace cuz
May 11, 2020
May 11, 2020
These words are from Momma:

It's hard to explain what an awesome, awesome feeling it is to bring life into the world. To see your baby for the first time. This cute little pink roly poly baby, beautiful! I was just awestruck, and in love. We came to be best friends, we talked about anything and everything. We made jewelry together and all kinds of crafts.

When I close my eyes and think about Nikki, I see my baby take her first step in life. What a life she had! I think about her and I remember. Her dad was working nights, I was asleep. I kept hearing this noise, and then I heard a big bang that really woke me up. I got a baseball bat and walked down the hall to see who or what was in my house. I got to the kitchen door, and there was Nikki on the floor in her little diaper. The big bang I heard was a pot she got out and spoon. She was sitting in front of the refrigerator with the door open. There was a bell pepper on the floor and some other stuff on the floor. I looked at her and said,"Girl?" She looked up at me with that big beaming smile and said, " I cookin'!"( I broke out in laughter)
She's been "COOKIN" ever since. I love her and miss her so much!

I love you baby girl, my very first. We've been through a lot together, and I'll see you again.

With all my love,
Momma
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
One of my greatest loves has lost her sister. My deepest and sincerest condolences for you and your family. My faith in Jehovah helps me deal with loss. His promise gives me hope that I will see them again without the curses of sickness and the imperfections of this world. I share this with you as a reminder that our loved ones are resting in that promise, and we can take comfort until we see them again....
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
These words are from Daddy:

It does not seem so long ago when our first born Natakianika was born. November 25. 1958. I remember well. Tamu and I were overjoyed . Our first child a beautiful healthy girl. We were in the military at that time the USMC to be exact. We were half way through a four year enlistment at that time. Often times I would be away from home for days and sometimes weeks doing Military field operations. I couldn't wait to get back to my wife and new baby. When I'd return home I remember when Nataki had learned to walk she would see me and run as fast as she could the way a one to two year old would run smiling, giggling and happy to see her dad. That is such a wonderful feeling . I'd pick her up. Hug her kiss her telling her how much I love her. Later in life there were many more memorable happy times. I miss you Nataki. I love you. I hold you forever close to my heart. The sad thing believe it or not, in your recent and last moments on this earth I love you more than ever. That's a fact. Your spirit lives on .

Daddy loves you.
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
REFLECTIONS: April 15th, 2020
    "She Is The Joy Inside My Tears"
Dedicated to my big sister:
    "Natakianika Nomali Anderson"

You are the Joy inside my tears;
When I lost my first child,
There you were with two beautiful ones to fill the void. - I thank you.

You are the Joy inside my tears;
When I felt so lost, unloved, and alone.
There you were with Loving Hugs and Kisses. You reassured me that I was never alone. - I thank you.

You are the Joy inside my tears;
When I was ill and could not eat anything at all, there were you and Dee with my burnt off the grill Polish sausages. And you put your foot off in that barbecue sauce my love. - I thank you.

You are the Joy inside my tears;
When we last saw one another face-to-face. You were your sweet little self as only you could be for me - my big sister The Joy inside my tears...

We talked; vented; shredded tears; connected; forgave; smiled and played games. Just like we used to play jacks for hours as children and adults. Jacks definitely was your thing. No one could do it like you tricks and all...  you are the Joy inside my tears.

I shed tears of pain now that you're not here to talk with hug nor kiss but Nikki, you are certainly The Joy inside my tears eternally ... I will see you the day after tomorrow my love. When you are awakened from your sleep. (JOHN 5:28,29)
Peace be still. She is the Joy inside my tears.

Love from the middle sister
Tiyani Sanders

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June 19, 2020
June 19, 2020
Nikki my big sister our bond is unbreakable. You were such an integral part of my upbringing, especially my wild teenage years. Thank you for talking sense into my big head! For that I'm truly grateful! So glad I got to talk to you before they put you on the ventilator. Though our conversation was brief, I told you that I love you and you reciprocated the sentiment. I had no idea that would be our last earthly conversation. I think of you everyday and still play our favorite game Happy Color remembering all the pictures we would color and share with each other. I thank God for the time we shared. I love you big sister.
Ayana McCowen
May 27, 2020
May 27, 2020
I still remember what you whispered in my ear, second to last time seeing you, so sweet and positive, beautiful soul beautiful outside.Loving and Missing you always, Heaven is So lucky to have you
May 27, 2020
May 27, 2020
Cousin Nikki i will alway love you sorry to hear your gone rest in peace cuz
Her Life
May 10, 2020
Natakianika "Nikki" Anderson was born November 25th 1958, at Camp Pendleton Marine Corp Base in Oceanside, California. She was the joy of new parents Tayarikondo and Tamu Kuanda. She was nothing but big cheeks and smiles. You can best believe that characterized her throughout her entire life. 
In March of 1960, this little family plus one, (her new baby brother Shaka), moved back to their hometown Detroit, Michigan. Nikki's childhood was filled with plus one additions, 5 times more she became another child's big sister as she was the first of seven. Although she had a quiet mild spirit, she had no problem straightening you out when you crossed that line. 
Nikki enjoyed baking, sewing, making jewelry with her mother, and going to summer camp. Listening to records on her little  psycodelic contact paper covered phonograph; the Jackson 5, Al Green, and reading "Right On!" magazine was her pastime pleasure. Out of all the games that kids played she liked tag, and jumping rope.  But "JACKS" was her thing! I mean that girl could play some jacks, using two packs of jacks and never missing a beat. You'd be sitting there awaiting your turn for what seemed like hours, she wasn't getting out. Basically you were just being taught and entertained by watching her work.
She received her formal education at Detroit Public Schools; Macculloch Elementary, Drew Jr. High, and Cody High , where she excelled academically. Shortly thereafter, she became a teenage mother. 
In October 1976, She gave birth to her handsome baby boy (Shaka). Lavishing him with all the love and warmth as only a mother could. College had to be put on the back burner. So this young mother went to work as a Nurses Aide at Nightingale West Nursing Facility. 
In October 1979 she gave birth to her baby girl, her lil twin (LaDonna). Nikki pushed herself to manage motherhood and work. Five years after the birth of her precious daughter and with the full support of her family, she and her children moved to East Lansing, Michigan where she attended MSU and obtained her Associate's Degree in Business. 
Upon graduating Nikki moved back home to Detroit where she juggled various jobs and caring for her children.  In October 1994 Nikki gave birth her second handsome baby boy (Roger). Again this hard working mother met the challenges of caring for a newborn and holding down various jobs; some with very demanding hours.
Finally in 1997, she procured a position as a  Linehaul Operator (bus driver) at SMART. She discovered within herself a renewed sense of purpose and this filled her with joy. She wasn't your average bus driver she was a Professional Coach Operator. Everyone there loved her outgoing, caring, warm, sunshine personality especially her passengers. She was a very industrious employee up until she retired in 2011.
Surprise! Surprise! Surprise! The spring of 2003 came and unsuspectingly love was in the air. Nikki was reunited with the love of her life Dwight Anderson. Oh, what a happy time it was for the two. It had been years since they had seen one another. They picked up right where they left off, as if they'd never parted. Only this time they had maturity and its wisdom on their side. She happily accepted his proposal of marriage, they were wedded on June 26, 2004.  They shared many good times raising Roger, going fishing, perusing casinos, taking road trips, watching westerns, just spending that quality time together. Without a doubt she was a very capable and virtuous wife. God, in His word, describes her best in Proverbs 31:10-31. She will truly be missed by many.
Cherishing her memory are: her loving and devoted husband, Dwight K. Anderson, her children; Shaka K. Kuanda, LaDonna S. Kuanda, Roger C. Woods Jr., her grandchildren; Brandon Booker, Purity Kuanda, Jayden Kuanda, Daniel  Kuanda, her father, Tayarikondo Kuanda; her mother, Tamu Kuanda, her mother in law, Amanda Anderson; her brothers; Shaka Kuanda, Kwame Kuanda (Sandra), Shango Kuanda (Michele), and Tayari Kuanda (Teri); her sisters Tiyani Sanders (Jeffrey), and Ayana McCowen (Keith); her sisters-in-law, Josephine "Josie" Henyard (Ronald), Joyce Allen, and Jeanette Anderson; her nieces, nephews, along with step children and a host of other relatives and friends.




 

 


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May 10, 2020
Nikki  has been in my life for so long that I didn't consider her as my sister in law she was just another big sister to me. I loved her so much and I'm missing her greatly. Love You Big Sister 

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