This memorial website was created in the memory of my beloved husband, Ned Lindemann, 75, born on July 14, 1938 and passed away on September 19, 2013. We will remember him forever.
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Happy Birthday to us Ned
Barbara
Six years ago today we had a lovely day. The new clothing we had ordered for you had arrived, and you were excited to wear it. After all, Pr. Heisley was visiting in the afternoon. During that visit you were joking with Pastor, laughing, having a good time. Pastor blessed us with Communion. As we started watching the evening news, you said you were tired. As you had not had your normal afternoon nap, I suggested you lay down while I prepared dinner. I tucked you in, kissed you, and said I'd wake you for dinner. That was the last conversation we had. When I went in to wake you, God had called you home. While I knew your pain had ended, mine was just beginning. How would I survive without my other half?
I have survived, but only because I know you are still with me, and that we will be reunited. My love for you is as deep today as it was on that day you had to leave. Thank you for loving me, Nedly, for being my strength, my friend, my husband. I'll love you through eternity.
I'll always treasure the wonderful times we had.
My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.
Love
Barbara
Two years ago today we woke up excited. The day before we were approved for a home health aide for 3 full days rather than half days. That meant we were going to be able to go to church on Sunday. And Pr. Heisley was visiting that afternoon. A very good day indeed.
We were having salmon for dinner, one of your favorites, but you said you were tired. You hadn't had your afternoon nap. I said that was no problem; we'd have the salmon the next night. I tucked you in. You said you wanted just a short rest, then we'd have some soup and watch TV. I went into the kitchen to put dinner things away. Then, when I went in to check on you, I found God had ended your pain. He had taken you home and Heaven welcomed a new angel.
You are with me every day. While I can no longer reach out and touch you, or hear your loving voice or see the love in your eyes, I know you are with me. Your love gives me the strength to go on. And I am secure in the knowledge that we will be together again when God decides to bring me home.
I love you, Nedly, and give thanks every day for the love you gave me every day of our lives together.
XX & OO
Barbara
XX & OO
Barbara
and XX & OO to your beloved Jan....
You know how I treasured the good times we three spent together - some of the best times of my life! My heart goes out to you at this difficult time - much love - Suzi
Jan, your tremendous loss is shared by so many. You remain in our thoughts and prayers, and Ned's name is written in our hearts.
With sympathy and love, Tim and Eric
I will always remember Ned for his gentleness and kindness; the consummate gentleman. I know how much you loved him and how hard the loss of this loving relationship will be for you. He will be missed. Much love, Kathy
Jan, I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Sending you love and hugs,
Heather Mann
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God joined us together in this life, and he will join us again in the next!
I remember how giddy with happiness Jan was from the very first day she met Ned - their love was meant to be! I was fortunate to have been welcomed to their warm and beautifully-decorated homes (courtesy of Jan!) both in Chicago and NYC, and Ned's hospitality and generosity were ever-present. As time went by, their love grew, and it was gratifying to witness their mutual adoration. Since Ned's passing, I know how much Jan is grieving. But, I also know that her spirit is resilient, and she will be strong in the knowledge that she will never be alone - Ned will always be with her.
Ned and Jan together, which for me was most often witnessed on Sundays at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church after their move to NYC, was a brilliant illustration of great love and affection. It was impossible not to notice the terrific time they had with each other and the tremendous care they took of each other. I am most grateful for these exemplary role-models. Thank you, dear Jan and dear Ned!