Gone so Soon. Kizito you used to tell me to let you bother me because some day I will miss it. You liked to tell
me that I am your mom, your big sister, your “famiglia”! In July last year you told me you will be back in MD after the girls are settled in school. Mid-September you called me and was suspiciously calm... it felt like a punch in my gut when you told me your Dx where was that suddenly coming from, you’ve always been a healthy and strong guy. From then on, we talk every other day, we FaceTimed couple of times, your caring nature never let you one bit, you were concerned about your mama Eli’s health and made sure no one tells her about your disease, “mama Eli doit guérir”, it was your focus besides the girls well being. you often ask about my sister that you carried through her first round of chemo, singing to her “ôTamne Pius tiens bon”. Making sure that she remained positive, “le cancer c’est le
Mental la mère” ! "C’est rien”! “Tu vas battre ca". I told you it was just the other way around, and that you will hold on tight and be strong just like you told her. You told me to also keep it a secret to her, so every time she will tell me she has been unable to reach you, I will just say that you must be busy, that I have been expecting you since September. You ask me to do everything I could to get her back to America so she could live longer.
some day you made me talk to Paris, you told me thereafter to always encourage her future ambitions. How didn’t I read between the lines? 6 days before your passing I promised you to find sometime to come and see you, thinking we had the whole time before us, I kept telling you what type of food was good for you, at times you will be upset, you never said there was no need for good food for your body any longer, you should have said something. You knew you were leaving soon. It is heart braking to Think you went through all that alone. You never once wanted all the attention onto you.
When you started Immunotherapy I taught you had increased chances to find healing. God decided otherwise Grand Mopao, because he love’s you more, no more pain, no more throwing up, no more unanswered questions! K.Nforbi,
I am consoled by thinking the Angels will be dancing for you, and with you. Go and look over your Girls, I know they are your “world”, continue to be happy, the man, the legend.”, until we meet Again my “son” my “little brother”,
So Long.