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This memorial website was created in memory of Nila Said. We will remember and love her forever.
April 27, 2021
April 27, 2021
Nila,I wish we could go out for a walk and talk like we used to do. Me and Nila went out a lot, we used to walk for hours. Was so fun!!!!!

I miss you,Nila... Today I woke up and I felt like I wanted to talk to you!
Nila was such a sweet girl!Strong and sweet at the same time!!!!!!Mi manchi tanto!!!
She used to gave me so many advice and she was fun and sweet. She had such a positive energy, genuine and kind.
I miss you!
I wish you were with me right now;eating cakes with me like we used to do and talking about music and watch videos on YouTube.. But unfortunately we can t do that anymore..
Now your beautiful soul can rest in peace at least. Mi manchi davvero tanto.
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
The first time I met Nila, I noticed two things about her first. Her hair and her smile. Her hair was so thick, long and beautiful and from there on I would always ask her tips on how to grow my hair. As a matter of fact, I started my natural hair journey after meeting Nila and she was always willing to give me advice anytime I would ask her and so I say thank you Nila, it truly meant so much to me.

Nila's smile was so infectious and she was always smiling. A smile so beautiful naturally makes you smile and Nila possessed that ability. Even when she would frown it was always followed by a smile which would lead to laughter.

It hurts that you left us so soon but the wonderful memories you left us will remain forever. God bless you Nila and rest in eternal peace.
Love Nour 
April 6, 2021
April 6, 2021
Nila said- the most lovely person I met , a sister to me , a friend to me and the best person I could of ever meet, so kind, so caring and yet so funny . I thank her for ever moment of support when I was going through struggles , she was there for me and there for my best of friend Johan , who both of the people I love dearly have built such love and good moments , the journey was always being there for Johan and Nila, I looked up to both as brothers and sisters and I will never forget every moment and laugh I have with Nila, she told me to be confident to be strong and to be me. I will never forget every word and moment I had with my friend And my sister nila , and this poem to describe her and my friend with Johan as well :

Not so long ago, the journey of life
became hard and difficult,
My troubled mind made the waters
seem too deep and stormy,
a weakened spirit made the hills
feel steep and hard to climb,
a weary heart made the paths
seem long and endless.
And the land of hope, joy and peace
became distant and impossible to reach.

Then that special person entered our lives
took control of our journey,
with her kindness, her patience and her love.
And like an Angel, on her wings
she guided me through the waters
which gradually became shallow and calm,
on her wings she carried me up through the hills
and they became easier to climb,
on her wings she took me along the paths
and they were long and endless no more.
And now the land of hope, joy and peace,
though still some distance away,
seems to be within reach again.
She was the angel ,
She was our light.

God bless Nila said and I will never break my promise , I will always be there for her and her loved ones .

From bilé
April 3, 2021
April 3, 2021
Nobody embodied the spirit of our college years better than Nila. She was studious sometimes and funny always. Without her, those years would have been a drag.

Wishing everyone the strength to endure this incredibly difficult time. I think we will see her again but until then, her kindness, humour and friendship will be sorely missed.
April 3, 2021
April 3, 2021
My interaction with Nila wasn’t for very long at university but she was such a lovely, friendly and good hearted person. I was devastated to find out about her untimely passing. I hope her family and friends are staying strong in these strange circumstances. I am truly saddened by this news and hope everyone can reach out to a loved one to remind them and yourselves how much you care about them. Rest in power Nila x
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
It was a pleasure to know Nila! A true friend!!!
I will always miss her..
Is so difficult to find the" right words"... She was my friend, she was so kind and joyful, she was so fun to be around!!!! She had such a beautiful smile.She was strong and sweet at the same time, such an amazing person.
She will always be my friend!!!no matter what.
She will be forever remembered in our hearts always.
I miss you so much!


April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Nila will always be remembered for the joy she brought to everyone’s lives.

Nila was a very kind, caring, funny & assertive person with a big heart!

No matter who she was with, Nila was the glue that bounded everyone together!

Thank you for the good memories!
Rest in peace x
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Nila was one of the nicest people I've ever had the pleasure of knowing.
She gave me great and/or comforting advice on any topic and would always introduce me to new things she was excited about.
She also loved to test out whatever beauty related thing she was learning on my face lol! We loved to shop, primarily what our post-uni meet ups were for.
But I mostly loved Nila because she loved what she loved and was unapologetic about it (including sushi unfortunately for me), she was the cutest savage.
I'm so proud of all that she went on to accomplish after uni, whilst being the best mum. It was a pleasure to do life with her and I will miss her immeasurably.

Love you loads Nila Nils
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Nila was such a beautiful, kind, caring soul. Always a joy to be around.

She brought light into every room she walked into.

You will truly be missed and your memory will live on forever.

....till we meet again...
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Nila was an extraordinary person. It was easy to have an ongoing conversation with her and find common interests that we shared. I will always be grateful for her acts of kindness. A loving mother, a selfless friend, a caring daughter and a courageous sister. She will be forever remembered in our hearts always. May she rest in eternal peace.
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
She was amazing, funny and always bubbly. She could always light up the whole room, with her energy.
March 29, 2021
March 29, 2021
Nila, you have shown me what it means to truly be a good person. I told you we were bound by fate - you can't escape the never-ending supply of Twisters (Kiwi centre) you promised me. Here or in the next life, I'll have what is owed...

You left an immense mark on my life and I thank God I was able to know you as a friend, as my lover and the mother of my child. I love you more than I can say. I'll see you soon Muni x.

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April 27, 2021
April 27, 2021
Nila,I wish we could go out for a walk and talk like we used to do. Me and Nila went out a lot, we used to walk for hours. Was so fun!!!!!

I miss you,Nila... Today I woke up and I felt like I wanted to talk to you!
Nila was such a sweet girl!Strong and sweet at the same time!!!!!!Mi manchi tanto!!!
She used to gave me so many advice and she was fun and sweet. She had such a positive energy, genuine and kind.
I miss you!
I wish you were with me right now;eating cakes with me like we used to do and talking about music and watch videos on YouTube.. But unfortunately we can t do that anymore..
Now your beautiful soul can rest in peace at least. Mi manchi davvero tanto.
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
The first time I met Nila, I noticed two things about her first. Her hair and her smile. Her hair was so thick, long and beautiful and from there on I would always ask her tips on how to grow my hair. As a matter of fact, I started my natural hair journey after meeting Nila and she was always willing to give me advice anytime I would ask her and so I say thank you Nila, it truly meant so much to me.

Nila's smile was so infectious and she was always smiling. A smile so beautiful naturally makes you smile and Nila possessed that ability. Even when she would frown it was always followed by a smile which would lead to laughter.

It hurts that you left us so soon but the wonderful memories you left us will remain forever. God bless you Nila and rest in eternal peace.
Love Nour 
April 6, 2021
April 6, 2021
Nila said- the most lovely person I met , a sister to me , a friend to me and the best person I could of ever meet, so kind, so caring and yet so funny . I thank her for ever moment of support when I was going through struggles , she was there for me and there for my best of friend Johan , who both of the people I love dearly have built such love and good moments , the journey was always being there for Johan and Nila, I looked up to both as brothers and sisters and I will never forget every moment and laugh I have with Nila, she told me to be confident to be strong and to be me. I will never forget every word and moment I had with my friend And my sister nila , and this poem to describe her and my friend with Johan as well :

Not so long ago, the journey of life
became hard and difficult,
My troubled mind made the waters
seem too deep and stormy,
a weakened spirit made the hills
feel steep and hard to climb,
a weary heart made the paths
seem long and endless.
And the land of hope, joy and peace
became distant and impossible to reach.

Then that special person entered our lives
took control of our journey,
with her kindness, her patience and her love.
And like an Angel, on her wings
she guided me through the waters
which gradually became shallow and calm,
on her wings she carried me up through the hills
and they became easier to climb,
on her wings she took me along the paths
and they were long and endless no more.
And now the land of hope, joy and peace,
though still some distance away,
seems to be within reach again.
She was the angel ,
She was our light.

God bless Nila said and I will never break my promise , I will always be there for her and her loved ones .

From bilé
Her Life

BS Economics

March 30, 2021
Between 2010 - 2013, Nila studied and graduated with a BS in Economics. Her focus was on international development. 

Master of the Universe

March 30, 2021
In 2018, Nila graduated with an MS in International Development Management. She recieved a masters degree with merit and a distinction on her thesis that studied the impact of educational attaintment on economic happiness in the developing world. 

Nila did this all whilst working 2 jobs and taking care of her family.

Opal

March 30, 2021
On 12 June 2014, Nila gave birth to her daughter, Opal. Labour was a 2-day affair and involved inducing and the use of forceps. 
Recent stories

A song

July 28, 2021
Hey Nila,

I've been watching Dragonball GT again. The intro song is a perfect reflection of how I feel. Enjoy!

Bit by bit, I’m falling under your spell
Your smile’s all I need to see to know we’ll
Leave this endless darkness, saying, “Come along with me!” Hold my hand

Back when you first came into my life,
I recalled a place that I knew as a child: a special place, one that I held close to my heart
Won’t you lead me in a dance down this winding road,
Where light and shadow entwine to take hold of the thoughts of the one left far behind?
Know that sometimes, I want to turn around and see the things that I’ve passed on the journey,
But know with love on my side, with courage and pride, I’ll fight; I will carry on

Bit by bit, I’m falling under your charm
You’ll keep me and all the world far from harm
Bring hope to everyone; take in your hands eternity
Even when it seems that I don’t need you,
Just know that I am in love; can’t wait to
Leave this endless darkness. Won’t you come along with me? Hold my hand

Father's day

June 21, 2021
My first father's day without you. It was a strange day. I cried a lot when I visited you. I didn't feel good. But you visited me last night and spoke to me in my dreams. I hadn't dreamt about you for many weeks but you came to me last night. We hugged, we kissed and we spoke. I rubbed your feet and told you things will change - I will be better - and you told me they already had. 

You were dressed in the Pyjamas I liked on you (the white/biege ones) and looked so beautiful. 

I woke up crushed. I woke up and realised I had been dreaming. I cried. I'm crying as I write this story. I miss you so much Nila. But I thank you for continuing to comfort me when I need it. 

I love you Nila and can't wait to be with you again :)!

Our baby turned 7!

June 21, 2021
Hey Nila,

Opal turned 7 last week. We celebrated her birthday in the park with friends and family. I did my best to organise something - but it didn't compare to what you would have done. In fact, it planning Opal's birthday showed me just how organised and thoughtful you were.

It goes without saying, you were immensely missed. I never imagined I'd be celebrating Opal's special day without you. I know you were with us in spirit but we all needed you here in person. 

I love you Nila and can't wait to see you again :)!!!

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