Nina as a Sister
My mom was blessed to be born into a two parent household. My grandparents cared for her and their other children. Her siblings were Effie, Clarence, Queen Victoria, Issac, Willie Mae, Curtis, Wesley Barnard, Harry, Benny, and Matthew Jackson. My mom loss two of her siblings and her father during her childhood. My mom's father drowned in a boating accident in 1928. Her sister, Queen died in 1926 from Thyphoid fever, and her brother, Wesley died in 1928 in an accidental shooting. I remember my mom telling me that she could still hear her mother screams in her mind after losing her husband and children. Unfortunatley, in those days counseling did not exist, so the surviving parents/siblings had to learn to cope without the assistance of those specializing in grief counseling which are offered now. In those times, family and friends comforted those who were grief stricken by cooking, cleaning and caring for their children. My mother, also, remembers that while her mother was screaming, her neighbors were comforting her through those traumatic experiences.These experiences shaped the woman my mother became later in her life. She had a strong.fear of water and never liked to wade in the ocean. When I was a little girl, my parents always took me to the beach and my mom made sure that I did not go in the water past my ankles. She, also,took me to the doctor quickly whenever I became sick; she didn't rely much on over the counter medicine and wouldn't take any chances on my health. She, also, did not like guns and voiced her strong opinions whenever my dad would take his out to clean his gun. My dad owned a beautiful gun with an ivory handle which my mom promptly gave away shortly after he passed away.