Late Mrs Pamela Nkechi Anyain (Nee Osigwe) was born in Lagos on the 28th of August, 1976 to the family of Mr & Mrs John Osigwe of Ndiakwu, Otolo, nnewi in Anambra state. She attended Adaranijo Primary School, Shomolu rom 1983 - 1989. She proceeded to Hope Bay College, Orile Lagos for her secondary education  from 1990 - 1995. She had her tertiary education at the Bayero University, Kano between 1997 and 1999 where she obtained a Diploma in Library Science. Pamela met her husband in 1999 by a special providence of God's revelation while the husband was in far away Niger Republic on a foreign military attachment. By the divine will of God, she got happily married to Wing Commander Timothy Anyiam on the 12th of August, 2000. It was a marriage made in heaven and enjoyed on earth.

'Nkem', meaning "My Own", as fomdly called by her husband, was a devoted Christian, virtuous and loving Military Officer's wife, caring mother of five adorable children, anointed Choir Mistress and a pragmatic Christian Women Leader. She was the proprietress of Divine CHoice Christian Resources Centre, Ikorodu, Lagos.

Until her transition to heaven on the 22nd of February 2016, she enjoyed mutual cordial relationship between her in-laws, colleagues, brethren and members of her extended family. She pursued peace with all men and holiness without which no man shall see the Lord. She is survived by her husband, five lovely children, Favour, Faith, Samuel, Fortune and Fervent, including her aged mother, father-in-law, mother-in-law, brothers, sisters, brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law. She will be greatly missed especially for her caring, cheerful, amiable and godly personality.

Rest in Perfect Peace, Nkem!