On this day which would have marked your 58th birthday, I remember you like I do every other day. Honestly, I’m surprised at what has happened within four years. A lot that I know you too are aware of, but I’m just here to write it because I feel this is where I can write messages to you. Saying I miss you has become an anthem because I sing it everyday to all who care to listen. Your son-in-law, my husband wishes he had met you earlier in his life. He has become so attached to the stories I tell him about you and long to hear them always.
 Your son Kene is now a married man, married to an amazing Lady from our town and she is really taking good care of him. Chinwe international, I’m sure you would love her if you met her. How amazing is this? He has taken the responsibility of being the first son so well that you’ll just know he was born to be it, it’s in him and that has made us all really proud and I know it’s made you proud too.  
Chisom is doing really well as a mother to all of us. She has three amazing soldiers, Chinodebem, Dumkene and Obimdinachi, our rays of sunshine. They marvel me at their level of intelligence, they make this world seem bright for the upcoming generations. Her husband Nonso is doing fine and takes good care of everyone.
Do I still need to tell you about Nna and how he keeps making us proud? This is too much, he is proof that those who trust in the Lord can never be put to shame. You know he got a scholarship in Australia right? Even Dad has said that he doesn’t bother about Nnamdi because he knows that ya na Chi ya di n’nma. I know you see it all and he hasn’t let you down. Soon he would be thinking of settling down and I know God will send an amazing lady to him.
 Mummynne is now the latest mother in the family for now. Her daughter Ifemyolunna Skylar is so cute, our little ray of sunshine. She reminds me so much of her mother when she was little and I can imagine your facial expressions if you had met her Her husband is cool, Sammy International and he is taking really good care of her and their daughter.                                                          
My life on the other hand has been amazing. A lot has happened just this 2020 and I’m really grateful to God despite all. If you are with him (God) right now, please give him a hug from me and tell him that I see all that he is doing and I’m grateful. My husband Alex has really been supportive and has been an amazing hubby. He wishes you were here so he’ll always call you whenever I give him wahala lol. You can imagine, your little Ifu is a married woman and now has the responsibilities of taking care of a home. Just know that all that you taught me has really been helpful to me this times and I’m making you so proud. My mother-in-law reminds me a lot about you, I know you see how much she takes care of your daughter and it’s safe to say you know I’m in good hands.
Chinny is now the hottest right now. She has grown to become such a beautiful lady and I’m so proud of her. She is set to graduate this year and soon, Daddy can boast that all his children are graduates. It’s really amazing how she handles Daddy as she is the only one left in the house to take care of him for now. You know your husband can really be a handful especially now.
Daddy, your husband,is doing great all thanks to God. He is taking good care of himself, eating right and since this year, quit drinking beer. This is a great news and I know you are proud of him. He takes the job of being a Dad and a Mum so well that he tries to be available for each and everyone of us. Thank you for choosing him to be our Dad.
 A whole lot has happened and we wish every passing day that you are here to share it with us. It’s all good because we know you are aware of it all and you are our guardian. I miss you today, tomorrow and for ever. I miss waking you up to the birthday wishes and surprises. On Sunday was Mothering Sunday and I wished you were here to celebrate it. I wish we could still taste your amazing jollof  rice that you make every Mothering Sunday and share to the whole compound. I wish I could send you a massive birthday cake and send you lots of presents now that I know I can afford it. 
Happy birthday in heaven Momma, I love you more each passing day. Thank you for being a mom, a wife, a sister and a friend. Till we meet to part no more baby.❤️❤️❤️❤️