Memories of Noe Hamer, (1977 - 2020)

Share a special moment from Noe's life.

November 15, 2022

I think of you so much. Coogan’s closed shortly after you left us. We had many laughs there. In school. In the morgue during crazy hours.

We had such an amazing relationship. it will never be compared or replicated with anyone. It was The kind that only became better with time. When we argued- it was always strong, stubborn and obsessive. You were there for me and my family always and In all ways. Not many people knew we were still in touch—- we never lost touch. And for years. Over 20 years. And it was a privilege.

No matter what we had going on. No matter how busy. We made time for each other. School, Marriages, divorces, surgeries, family isuses- through good times and bad. You will always live in my left ventricle for its the strongest of the heart. We were honest— even if it hurt. I will always have a part of you. Our special days will always be celebrated just like you liked.

See you in my dreams, Stalker

to my beautiful brother noe

September 13, 2020

How I miss you so much there is never a day that goes by that I don't think about you I can hear you guiding me in the right way as you always have I even feel you next to me anywhere I am I know your not in pain anymore and I know your always watching over all of us and you will always be in my heart I love you so much rest in peace my beautiful noe til we meet again I will always think of you first always and forever

P. S. I'll never forget that you got me my first tattoo by the way Dani says hi homie lol we love you ❤️❤️

June 24, 2020

Talking about tattoos was something Noe and I talked about. We talked about why people got them, what they meant and the reason behind why people would get them. Noe's tattoos were a part of who he was. Noe told me that he wanted to get a tattoo that represented all the important women in his life and wanted it to start on his shoulder and extend to the front of his chest. Time had passed and a few days later we picked up the conversation about this tattoo that he had become so interested in. He mentioned how he had finally decided what tattoo he would get next. He then began asking me the birthstones of the women in our family and the colors of the birthstones. As time went by, I guess his tattoo artist had started working on this mysterious tattoo and Noe would occasionally say things like “You’re going to really like this”, or “ I can’t wait to show this to you all”. Finally, the day came and he told me, “I got a rose for each one of you and it was colored with the birthstone colors." It must have been days later that I saw it and Noe just smiled, lifted his eyebrows up and down said “It’s nice right”. I loved it... I just smiled and nodded.

May 19, 2020

Yo queria mucho an Noe. El era un buen muchacho,humilde, respectuoso, ovediente y muy educado.
Tengo dos recuerdos de Noe que nunca se me olvidaran. El primero es en la boda de Darcy cuando estabamos en la iglesia el fue al frente se arrodillo a horar y eso fue muy maravilloso de el. El segundo es cuando el me llamo en Enero y se ofrecio a llevarme a las citas de medicos si Mario no podia llevarme. Esa llamada se me ha quedado en la mente para siempre. Mas nunca voy a olvidar a Noe. Que Dios te tenga el la Gloria, que Dios te vendiga

My brother Noe

May 6, 2020

I want to share a story about my brother Noe. In 2004 Noe and I went to MetLife stadium to watch the 49niners play against the Jets. Noe drives his Ford Explorer suv there and parked in this huge parking lot. We didn't even notice where we parked the car. We went on to watch the game. We were about the only two guys wearing 49niners gear, everybody else was wearing green and they chewed us up alive yelling all kinds of things against the 49niners. We couldn’t do much against 30 or 40 thousands people. We were in enemy territory. The game started and the niners scored the first touchdown and Noe was screaming and yelling so loud that I though his lungs were going to come out. Again the 49niners scored another touchdown and Noe was going nuts. Now the score is 14-0 on the first half. The second half started and the Jets started to come back. They started scoring and scoring. First 3 points then 6 and on the fourth quarter they scored 13 points. Final score Jets 22 Niners 14. Noe and I were very quiet while everybody else was jumping in joys. The game is over we had a great time together and we head out to the parking lot, looked at each other and almost at the same time we asked where the heck did we parked the car. We looked at the parking lot which was packed with thousands of cars and we felt like dumb and dumber. Anyway we just started looking at all the sections and after a good half hour we finally located it and we got sooo happy when we saw the car that we just started laughing. Even though we lost the game I felt like we won because going to my first football game with Noe was one of the greatest moments I spent with him and I will never forget it

I didn’t consider Noe my brother in law, I considered him my blood brother. Noe was always available for whatever I needed him and time did not matter. He helped me with many things in the past. He always gave me good advises and was always there to lend me a hand. Every time I didn’t know or was confused about something I would call Noe and he would clear it out for me. There isn’t one day that goes by that I don’t think about him. I go to sleep with him in my mind. I wake up the first thing in my mind is Noe. This has been very very hard on me. I never felt this way before, I have lost loved ones but Noe’s death has hit me the hardest. I remember all the good times we shared together, in Coogans in special occasions when we got together we had a lot of funs. Noe was a great person to share time with. He was always happy, always laughing and joking. I just want to share some of the names he used to call me and I think were funny.Campesino, no sabes na, no sirve para na, lo unico que sabes es comer platano, mangu, biste ensebollao con tostones. Sucia, maria, plaga etc, etc etc

I will miss you forever Noe

Mario.

May 1, 2020

Noe Recuerdo el día que te conoci un hombre elegante y tranquilo, un hermoso ser humano independiente con un gran corazón.
La distancia nos separa pero nuestros mensajes tus llamadas inesperadas tus consejos eres una de las personas alas que yo mas admiro y respeto en mi vida fuiste un gran hombre y siempre estaras en nuestros corazones desearia poder aver hablado mas tiempo me siento orgulloso de tener la misma sangre en las venas que tu gracias por esas palabras gracias por esas llamadas eres un exelente hombre

May 1, 2020

Here is Noe with my wife Danielle he welcome her into the family like she has always been in the family he even gave her a nickname that’s the way he always he always gave everybody a nickname. Danielle nickname was D and she like it she could tell how close noe and I were. noe had the biggest heart any person ever had Danielle saw that we always has so much fun when we went to visit noe always had us laughing and sometimes staying up until the morning and even in the morning he was happy and making jokes everyday we were there was like a party he could see how happy dani and I are I miss him everyday dani misses him too we will make you proud of us noe as you always been of us
I’ll see you in heaven

My Beautiful Noe

April 29, 2020

My Beautiful Uncle: Here is a picture of my beautiful Noe and I on my high school graduation. He always inspired and supported any academic or personal goals that I would share with him. He always made me feel like I could do anything I strove to do. He still gives me that feeling...and I know he always will ❤️ He was constantly present, supporting and cheering us on. When Noe was there, everyone knew that he was there: his presence, demeanor, and distinctive voice are everything. Miss, and love you dearly BFF.

April 26, 2020

Febrero del 2001 fue cuando tuvimos la fortuna de conocerlos por primera vez aunque siempre estaban presentes pues mi mamá todo el tiempo hablaba de las historias que paso con mi Tia licha. Recuerdo que llegamos a NYC y fueron por nosotros ( Mamá , Mayte , y por Mi ) a el aeropuerto luego fuimos a el apartamento de mi tia despues de un rato llego Noe y me acuerdo muy bien porque no “ queria pasar a saludar “ y era por que estaba timido luego mi Tia lo trajo y lo saludamos yo estaba sentado y me pare para saludarlo y lo que me dijo no se me olvida y fue YO creia que todos los mexicanos eran chaparros y tu no . Apartir de hay empece a conocerlo. Timido ,chistoso, gracioso,amable, generoso, con un corazon grande ,pero sobretodo es una persona que AMA a sus hermanos , sobrinas y a su Mamá. Eso lo supe desde el principio porque siempre las y lo mencionaba, poreso es facil saber que quien lo conocio no lo olvida.

April 25, 2020

I remember that one time noe had the chickenpox and he was so sad because I had to go to school and he had to stay home because he was sick so he had peeled of them off and put it on my arm and said haha you have to chickenpox now so you have to stay home with Me hahaha

Even back then we were always hangout together that is something I will always miss but I know that no matter what he will always be by my side I will always love you and keep you close to me and my heart noe I will live my life for you and make you proud of me as you always were.

Wonderful Memory ~Angela R.

April 25, 2020

My heart is truly broken.... It is unbelievable and I’m still in shock, I don’t want to believe this is true.
I have so many wonderful memories of Noe from running throughout the halls of AAMI, him taking this crazy white girl from jersey for a ride in the middle of the shady areas of NY, while yelling out the windows, and our crazy conversations. Noe always had me laughing till my sides hurt. But as goofy and crazy as we were, we had some serious conversations. We didn’t speak that often but every time We did, we picked up right where we left off. Noe was always there to lend a helping hand, professionally and personally. His compassion and kindness will always be remembered!
I am proud to call him a colleague and most importantly a friend! Rest In Peace and until we meet again..... “frank and beans ! “
A Funeral Director’s Prayer :
Dear Lord,
Give me the patience needed to serve everyone as my own;
the wisdom to understand others feelings;
the knowledge to learn as well as to instruct;
the kindness to treat everyone equally at all times;
the strength to endure long hours and hard work;
the desire to serve others as I would my own family;
the compassion to be able to touch another’s soul;
the pride and the right to smile when I have served a family well;
and Lord, most importantly, the right to shed an honest tear when my heart is touched .
Amen
The LORD said unto him:
WELL DONE, GOOD AND FAITHFUL SERVANT

April 20, 2020

Noe,recuerdo la primera vez que viaje a Nueva York fue una emoción tan grande el saber de ustedes,mi mamá siempre hablaba de su hermana y de ustedes,recuerdo una ocasión que me estaba maquillando en el baño del apartamento de tu mamá,y tú te me quedabas mirando y te decía porque me ,miras tanto quieres aprender a maquillarte y me rei y me dijiste no ,te miro porque pienso que mi mamá ,se miraba igual que tú de joven,se parecen mucho en las fotos que tiene ella,después me las mostraste y si ,nos parecíamos mucho ,me encantaba tu alegría y como amabas a tus hermanos y sobretodo a tu mamá,i love Noe

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