My dearest, dearest, dearest friend Norah Idornigie.
I’m writing this with a very heavy heart and with tears dripping down my face. You’re gone!!!, so hard to believe. So many years of a great and true friendship – we shared so many moments, happy, not so happy and life’s issues in general. We turned to each other when things got tough. We had no secrets, never lied to each other, always brutally honest and full of respect for each other. Parkwood School, we ran together in one accord until I retired last year.
A loyal friend and a great listener. I always admired her ability to stay calm in difficult situations whereas I would go from zero to 360 degrees in minutes and she’d say, Kemi, you’re a drama queen, calm down.
Remembering some of the happy moments: Norah, how far, what are we doing this weekend?; Kemi, send someone to the fence, the groundnut soup is ready; How many wraps of moin-moin do you want, let me add your own to the pot; I’m going to Mile 12, what do you need?; What are you wearing today oo, we can’t be doing aso ebi to school every Friday ore. Last year, we decided we were going to learn how to swim so we could have things to do together in old age. I lasted only one lesson whilst Norah managed 3 or so I think. So many plans, all of them with both of us in the picture……my heart bleeds.
We walked the cancer journey together, it was rough but we prayed and hoped. You were strong in faith and held on through it all. It’s tough to say this but “In all things, we give thanks”. Thank God for the extra time He allowed you to spend with us, Thank God for all the special moments we shared and Thank God because He will wipe away our tears and comfort us.
I’ll miss your smile
I’ll miss your sincerity
I’ll miss your unique voice when we jist
I’ll miss your love
Farewell my friend, my girls second Mummy.....Fly with the angels Norah.
Kemi Osiyemi