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We are deeply saddened to announce the passing of Norma Dorothy Bruce. Norma passed peacefully at her home in Lauderhill Florida on July 30, 2020 after a brief but fierce battle with cancer, with her beloved husband William and her son Blair at her side. Norma was born in Corner Brook, Newfoundland in 1949, the third child of John and Isabella Young of Curling East. 
Norma wanted to be a nurse, a profession for which she had the perfect demeanor, but she could not because of an allergy to penicillin. After moving to Toronto in 1981 she began working at Petro Canada in North York and had a long career with Petro/Suncor in customer service and fraud prevention. Norma was a remarkably generous, open and caring person. Whether in Newfoundland, Ontario, New York or Florida, Norma made friends quickly. She made her kids’ friends into her adopted children, her friends’ kids into her adopted nieces and nephews, and her grandkids’ friends into her adopted grandchildren.  Suffice it to say, she has a lot of pseudo relatives out there missing her, as she welcomed all people into her family, home and heart. Friends and co-workers without local family were always at our holiday celebrations. She loved the Catholic Church and especially loved singing in the choir. It seems like a cliché, but to know her was to love her and most certainly for her to love you. 
Norma married George Madore in 1968 and had four wonderful children while living in Curling and Blomedown (outside of Frenchman’s Cove). The recession of 1981 led to a relocation to Toronto for better economic and educational opportunities for the whole family.  After forty-two years of marriage, filled with much joy, Norma was heartbroken at the passing of George in 2011. One of Norma’s nieces, Millie, said that Norma, the outgoing one, and George, the quiet one, were the perfect Yin and Yang. Rarely do you find a married couple who are so different but so well matched. Remarkably Norma did it twice in a lifetime. In 2013, Norma met Billy Bruce, a retired transit worker from Queens, NY. Billy was also recently widowed, and he and Norma bonded over their shared grief. They married in 2015. Norma and Billy both loved to be with other people – though Norma attracted them with sweetness and kindness while Billy entertained them with his sarcastic humor and caustic wit. It was another perfect match of Yin and Yang. Norma’s life with Billy was filled with complete joy. They lived in Queens, went on cruises, travelled regularly to Atlantic City, toured many more places, and eventually bought a condo in Lauderhill, Florida. This kind of travel was part of the life Norma had always dreamed of. It is so tragic that this bliss could only last for five years. Norma and Billy deserved so much more time to enjoy their lives together.  
Norma is mourned by her husband William aka Billy Bruce; her children Blair Madore (Margaret), Jay Madore (fiancée Jennifer Schafer), Scott Madore (fiancée Amanda Cameron), and Avril Madore; her grandsons Cole Madore, Jacob and James Madore (mother Kim), and Nathan Mulholland (father Ryan); her step grandchildren Ethan and AJ Vice (mother Jennifer), her exchange student granddaughter Naoli; her sisters Frances Luckhart and Sheena Iacurci (Guido); her brother Neil Young (Dulcie); William’s siblings Tom Bruce (Anne Marie), David Bruce, Claire Rayberg (Michael), Annie Bonner (Charlie), Brendan Bruce (Joan),  Maggie MacEvoy (Steve), and Christine Hamilton (Steve); her first husband George’s siblings Estelle Coady, Margaret-Rose Madore, Walter Madore (Jean), Mary George (Norman), Anne Coady, Jerome Madore (Marg), Cecelia Hefferton, Bernadette Holliday (Steve) and Irene Madore. Norma was predeceased by her parents, her first husband George Madore, George’s brother Alfred, and William’s brothers Bobby and Peter.  She is also mourned by her many friends, nieces, nephews, cousins and extended family members, whether in Canada, USA, Scotland, Australia, or Mexico.
September 4, 2020
September 4, 2020
I praise The Lord and thank Him for a fabulous 49 years of friendship with my Dear Friend, Norma.

We enjoyed sharing treasured moments with our husbands, children, in-laws, siblings, and worldwide relatives from both sides (whether near or far).

We spent endless days and years worshipping and volunteering for multiple foundations together at church/school functions, as Girl Guide leaders, in our Parent Teacher community, etc.

We laughed, cried, cheered and feared whether it was over a cup of tea with Norma’s homemade sweets, a game of cards, sitting at the trailer campfire, at some of her luxurious home-cooked meals (Christmas, Thanksgiving and otherwise), hosted by Norma and George or just a private night out to catch up.

Norma always had a tale to tell about her Veteran relative, the brand new car she won at the gas pump, or her life down home in Newfoundland, and so on.

“You stay where you’re at and I’ll come where you’re to” was a favourite saying of Norma’s that I’ll always cherish. True to form, her marriage to Billy Bruce highlighted this statement with Norma making her marital home in the USA.

Norma was famous for lasting relationships in all the communities she lived and worked in.

I miss you so much, Norma. Thanks for the fond memories.

Until we meet again, please Rest In Peace. Forever in my heart, ❤️ Bernadette Patience
August 13, 2020
August 13, 2020
Norma lived two houses down from us, instantly became part of our family, and welcomed us into hers with open arms. Auntie Norma always sewed my figure skating costumes, and came to every show to watch me wear them proudly. She taught me to paint, and always inspired me to be creative. She had the nicest shoes, the best style, and the kindest heart. She showed me how to be an incredible friend, a strong woman, and how to go above and beyond. I’m so blessed to have met her, and her beautiful family.
I’ve never met such a selfless and beautiful soul like Norma. If I turn out to be half the amazing woman she was, I’ll consider myself the luckiest girl in the world.
❤️
August 9, 2020
August 9, 2020
My favourite memories of Norma are of her and my mom, Susie Barnes, chatting in mom’s small confectionery store in Frenchman‘s Cove. No topic was off limit, lol! When I was about 9-10 years old, Norma would often take me (and a friend or friends) to her place in Blow Me Down where we would hang out on hot summer days eating snacks she prepared and just laying around in the sun. While distance eventually physically separated us, I always had fond memories of her (oh, that smile!!), and she will always hold a special place in my heart ❤️ Be at peace, you beautiful soul❤️
August 7, 2020
August 7, 2020
I had the privilege of meeting Norma as one of her clients nearly 15 years ago and for years, I spoke with her every week until she retired. I truly cannot think any other person who truly embodies the phrase "to know her was to love her", as written above, the way Norma did. She was truly inspirational and she brightened up the world she leaves behind. My sincere condolences to all of the family morning her loss.
August 7, 2020
August 7, 2020
Norma was a light in the world. She filled her life with love, laughter and kindness for her family and friends. Her faith gave her the strength to overcome all trials in her life. We worked together from 2002 in the Petro-Canada North York office until she retired from Suncor; as a team of Health and Safety ladies. As a pair of mother hens, we protected all our co-workers by keeping our priority to keep them safe. I will miss her, but I know that I will see her again in heaven. May her memories fill you with God's loving peace and love that radiated from her soul.
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
My first memories of Norma was when she married my brother George. As a teenager I enjoyed staying with her and George and at that time Blair and Jay when they lived in Curling. Although Norma was only a couple of years older than me, she was like a much wiser big sister. As an awkward teenager she tried to instill some confidence in me. Sadly I did not always listen to her Motherly advice.
As an adult our times together were very limited but will always be treasured.
My latest memory was when she and Billy visited me and Steve in Virginia on their way to Florida.
I was so glad she had some wonderful times with Billy and that he treated her with so much love and respect. We visited a little town call Smithfield and area. As we drove past some cotton fields Norma got as excited as a kid in a candy store when she saw cotton fields for the first time. We had to stop by the roadside so she could get some better pictures. 
Fondly remembered. Rest in peace Norma. Gone too soon
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
I met Norma at Petro-Canada many many years ago. George made my son a baseball, bat, hat holder about 30 years ago cause Norma knew he loved baseball. I can only imagine her explaining to George why he had to do this! Over the years we maintained our friendship and even managed to spend time together in Florida. I will truly miss her. Condolences to the whole family. Billy, we will be in touch when we get back down south. May her memory be a blessing to you all.
August 5, 2020
August 5, 2020
we are so saddened about Norma ,she was way to young ,deepest condolences to all of the family may she rest in peace,
August 4, 2020
August 4, 2020
The world has truly lost a remarkable lady. I worked with Norma for many years at Petro-Canada. We worked together in the Customer Service Department. Norma was really like a mom to many of us. My fondest memory was during my first pregnancy with my daughter Danielle. Norma arranged my baby shower at work and she put all of her heart and soul into it. At that point I knew she was not only a co-worker but also a true friend. Norma was always there to listen and help when times were tough at work and even in our personal lives.  When she met Billy Bruce I could see how happy she was and the travelling and fun she was having. She quit work to live her dream which she did. It is unfortunate it ended too quickly. Norma is in Heaven now and will still watch over everyone. My prayers go out to her wonderful family that she loved so dearly. Rest In Peace Norma. 
August 4, 2020
August 4, 2020
Norma was a dear loving sister in law ,forever the kind and generous teacher, mother and nurse
I was barely a teenager when she married my brother George and I spent a lot of time at their house in the early years. Even though miles parted us we always kept in contact. She will be sadly missed...gone too soon. May she rest peacefully Love Irene
August 4, 2020
August 4, 2020
I was very saddened to know that my Normie had passed away. I met Norma at Petro-Canada in 1995, when I first started there. I was chatting with Margaret and talking about something that had happened and then speaking to Norma a short time later and she was saying the very same thing Margaret was talking about. It took me awhile to realized that they were related. Normie was a force to be reckon at PC and I will miss her dedication to the job but more importantly, I will miss her laugh her conversations and her hugs. Now with God you rest Normie.
August 4, 2020
August 4, 2020
She was like another mom to me when I was living with them. Sad I didn't see her one more time. She spoke at our wedding. Forever remembered and missed. Blair, Jay, Scott and Avril. My heartfelt condolences. ❤️
August 4, 2020
August 4, 2020
I met Norma sometime ago and she is someone you never forget. I am so very sorry that we weren't able to meet my last time in the city, but I will never forget you!!
August 4, 2020
August 4, 2020
I was saddened to hear about Norma's passing. I remember my first attempt to make a pie from scratch and found my crust keeping cracking. I called Norma for help and she said "I am on my way". 5 minutes later, she was at my house and helped me fixed the pie crust. An hour later we had apple pie and tea. That was my fondest memory of her. Norma, may you rest in peace.
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
I was George's hangout buddy growing up. I first met Norma at the bowling alley(Georges second home at the time) while home on leave from the Army. Unfortunately I wasn't at home for their wedding. Norma was a beautiful looking woman, who always set a standard in deportment and humanity. Her qualities are amply displayed in her children. So sorry she never made it down in her last planned trip. Blair, Jay, Avril and Scott you will always miss her but you'll never forget her smile. Condolences. Aunt Jean and uncle Wally
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
Norma was my workplace mom for many years. And sometimes it was awkward especially when she was reporting to me. I think it’s safe to say that sometimes she overstepped the boundaries BUT it was always well-intentioned and always because she was trying to be helpful.

Norma was one of the most caring and thoughtful persons that I have ever met. She had the biggest heart and such a strong sense of right and wrong. The world is certainly worse off without Norma but at least we know that she influenced so many people in a positive way. Let Norma’s love shine through us all.
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
As an elementary classmate of Avril’s I have the best memories of her mom. We were new immigrants to Canada and we didn’t understand any of the Canadian customs. She was always warm and welcoming and is still my quintessial idea of what a loving Canadian mom should be.
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
So sad to hear of Norma's passing. As a friend of her son Blair, she received me many times at her home in Toronto, for family celebrations, and even a couple of times for Christmas and Thanksgiving: she always treated me as family, with love, kindness and lots of food and sweets. She made me feel at home, and I will always be thankful that she welcomed me at her place, when I had to be away from my own home. May she rest in peace. She will always live in our memories.
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
So sorry to hear of Normas passing.She was still young and enjoying life.For she worked all her life to help support her family. May she Rest In Peace.
Fly high with the angels Norma.
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
So saddened to hear of aunt Norma’s passing I always enjoyed my visit to her home, especially here in Ontario, as this was my only family. She always gave you a warm welcome with a hug & kiss and treated me special. We usually shared a good meal together, with lots of conversation and generally ended up with a game of crib. ❤️ May you Rest In Peace, you will be greatly missed. ❤️

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September 4, 2020
September 4, 2020
I praise The Lord and thank Him for a fabulous 49 years of friendship with my Dear Friend, Norma.

We enjoyed sharing treasured moments with our husbands, children, in-laws, siblings, and worldwide relatives from both sides (whether near or far).

We spent endless days and years worshipping and volunteering for multiple foundations together at church/school functions, as Girl Guide leaders, in our Parent Teacher community, etc.

We laughed, cried, cheered and feared whether it was over a cup of tea with Norma’s homemade sweets, a game of cards, sitting at the trailer campfire, at some of her luxurious home-cooked meals (Christmas, Thanksgiving and otherwise), hosted by Norma and George or just a private night out to catch up.

Norma always had a tale to tell about her Veteran relative, the brand new car she won at the gas pump, or her life down home in Newfoundland, and so on.

“You stay where you’re at and I’ll come where you’re to” was a favourite saying of Norma’s that I’ll always cherish. True to form, her marriage to Billy Bruce highlighted this statement with Norma making her marital home in the USA.

Norma was famous for lasting relationships in all the communities she lived and worked in.

I miss you so much, Norma. Thanks for the fond memories.

Until we meet again, please Rest In Peace. Forever in my heart, ❤️ Bernadette Patience
August 13, 2020
August 13, 2020
Norma lived two houses down from us, instantly became part of our family, and welcomed us into hers with open arms. Auntie Norma always sewed my figure skating costumes, and came to every show to watch me wear them proudly. She taught me to paint, and always inspired me to be creative. She had the nicest shoes, the best style, and the kindest heart. She showed me how to be an incredible friend, a strong woman, and how to go above and beyond. I’m so blessed to have met her, and her beautiful family.
I’ve never met such a selfless and beautiful soul like Norma. If I turn out to be half the amazing woman she was, I’ll consider myself the luckiest girl in the world.
❤️
August 9, 2020
August 9, 2020
My favourite memories of Norma are of her and my mom, Susie Barnes, chatting in mom’s small confectionery store in Frenchman‘s Cove. No topic was off limit, lol! When I was about 9-10 years old, Norma would often take me (and a friend or friends) to her place in Blow Me Down where we would hang out on hot summer days eating snacks she prepared and just laying around in the sun. While distance eventually physically separated us, I always had fond memories of her (oh, that smile!!), and she will always hold a special place in my heart ❤️ Be at peace, you beautiful soul❤️
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August 3, 2020
Married to George Madore
1968 — Corner Brook, Newfoundland, Canada
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August 11, 2020
Aunt Norma holds an extra-special place in our hearts. I knew Norma before Doug and I ever met. As a student employed at Petro-Canada for a few summers, I had, like so many, become friends with Norma. I had strongly considered not going back again in favour of finding work in my field of study. But Norma communicated an invitation for me to come back to her department through my father at work one day. That tipped the scales for me and I chose one last summer in the Petro-Canada offices. Coincidentally, her nephew Doug happened to be temping there. We met that summer and for us, the rest is history. Doug and I have been happily married for 27 years. Norma has been an important part of our family over the years. Godmother to our son Tristan, and well-loved grand-aunt to our 4 children (now all adults). She will be profoundly missed at our family milestone events. Norma will live on for us through the many cherished memories we’ve been privileged enough to share. We love you aunt Norma!

Doug, Camille, Alexa, Tristan, Savannah and Tallin

Norma - our angel next door

August 11, 2020
You couldn’t ask for better neighbours than the Madore family right next door! We had the honour and privilege to move in next door in 2001 and spent many wonderful years with them developing a wonderful friendship that lasted long after they moved away. 
Norma was such a special friend, mentor and beautiful human being and I miss her everyday - her wisdom , her love of life and her sense of humour got us all through many ups and downs over the years. I always knew she was there for a chat, a cup of tea and a comforting shoulder if I needed it. We even built a secret gate in our fence that she would pop in at night and we’d have a glass of wine out in the pool and talk and laugh about life. There are so many memories with the whole family - Afternoon games in the backyard, cheering on the Leafs, our trip down to Nova Scotia in 2005 with Norma and Avril and Blair and their families - just to mention a few! 
She was always Auntie Norma to my daughter- Bethan and gave her so much over the years in life lessons - every December the girls would gather at Norma’s feet as she taught them crafts and read them wonderful stories. Every spring when it was ice show time she would sew their costumes and then proudly come to watch them skate and cheer them on. 
Norma - you were an angel here on earth and I miss you more than words could ever say - thank you for sharing yourself and your beautiful family with us over the years - you will forever have a place in our hearts - love you so much XoX 

The first time I saw mom cry

August 10, 2020
I remember the first time I remember my mother (Norma) crying. We spent every summer in our A-frame cabin at the family land near Blomedown mountain, called Madore's cove or "da cabins". We had no electricity and used propane lights and a wood stove. We had a battery powered transistor radio to listen to news in the morning and the top ten songs each night. One morning, the announcer said "ladies get you handkerchiefs, the king is dead". My mother burst into tears. It was incredibly disturbing to me - as she was my rock and I did not believe anything could upset her. She explained why Elvis was so important to her and we all calmed down. Later that night, as always, we listened to the top ten to hear our favorite song - "Telephone Man" by Meri Wilson - a silly song filled with innuendo that went right the heads of us kids, as we danced around the cabin in glee. Later in life I looked up the song only to be shocked by the lyrics. Many a music aficionado thought the the success of such a song hastened the death of the king. 

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