1st Year Anniversary of his Death
My dear Norm, I’m gonna tell you what’s on my mind this 25th day of June 2011. It all started in the summer of 1982 when I met your father, time went by and we got engaged then we both decided on the date of the wedding on June 25th, 1983. That’s where we both became one and started planning our lives together and planning a family that we cherished...Your brother came along and we were so happy to have him and then he became sick and I got pregnant for you son...We were suffering with the news that your brother Mikey was mentally challenged and he wouldn’t live a long life but in the meantime the news that we were expecting another little one was the perfect timing because it brought us joy and hope that we were blessed to have other children. You finally came into our lives and you were so precious and dear and you hadn’t carried the same genes as your brother so that was a great relief to hear good news... Your brother was so sick and also suffered with Epilepsy and had many seizures day after day and we were thankful that you didn’t have the same sickness of Tuberous Sclerosis. When you were 2 years old we found out that you had Leg Perthes a bone disease that deteriated some of your hip bones and made you not capable of walking, you were put in a full body cast for so many months and then you were in braces for a couple of years and most of the time you were in the wheelchair. It put alot of stress on our family. Me and your father were falling apart so we decided to go our separate ways. It was our fault for our separation because there wasn’t alot of communication between us both ways, we always took good care of you guys and shared custody of you both. You, both boys gave us what we had dreamed of and we don’t regret one day with you’s. We always stayed friends and in good speaking matters for our children sakes because that’s how much we loved you both. Some days were rough but most of all we enjoyed being parents and we always made sure that you guys deserved the best. Years went by and I met the man of my life and you really liked him too. I started seeing Real on March 10th and at the time it was the worst date because my father had passed away on that date but it sure turn things around because it became our anniversary and that date became one of my favourite days. Real is someone very special in my life and it was nice that you had accepted him in our lives too. He gave us love and a new life that we enjoyed sharing with. Your Dad Gilles did the same he met this wonderful women named Lyne that you loved as well and brought joy in your father’s life as he also deserved. Everyone was in Happy Land all over again till this day... The Day, June 25th that we your parents had became one in the year 1983 was one of the happiest day for us till last year when we got the news that you had passed away on that same day...That date turned out to be the worst day of my life... I cannot describe how painful this was, to lose your child, so young, so happy, so loveable...It’s still hard to accept... Well today is the 1 Year Anniversary of your Death and I still can’t believe that your gone forever and that you won’t pop open the door and make us jump out of our chairs... It’s sad to say that I am never gonna be able to hug and kiss you again... Your brother Mikey is taking it hard because he enjoyed you so much and misses you so and he doesn’t understand that you’ll never be around us again...Please watch over him, Norm... And for Me & Real and Dad & Lyne well, we will always miss and love you and you’ll always remain in our hearts...It will take time to heal but you will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN SON, always on our Minds and Hearts...Watch over your love ones and may you be happy in your new life and hopefully when our time comes we shall reunite together again with Arms Wide Open...You will always be Mommy’s Boy...Till Then, Take Care and Please give us strength to get through this dreadful day... Love You Always, MOM J