TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER-IN-LAW.
When the angels came for Daddy at about 12 hours after his 91st birthday, my wife and I were devastated.
Inspite of his age of 91 and failing health, we had taken his continued existence on earth for granted, partly because of his physical strength at that age and partly because he was always there for others.
Before I married his daughter, Ibilola, Daddy had already become like a father to me, to the admiration of my parents . For this I am truly blessed.
He was a Christian elder statesman, with a good loving heart and extremely modest. He was a generous giver towards the things of God.
He cared about you, but would not want you to experience stress on his account. We were not comfortable about the latter aspect, but it appears to be the way God created him.
I still recall his attitude towards the planned celebration of his 90th birthday, last year. The children wanted to sieze that opportunity to celebrate him and we had all thought he had succumbed, though reluctantly, to celebrating the date with a brief service and a modest reception. But as the date drew nearer, to my surprise, he called my wife aside one afternoon when we visited him at home and pleaded with her to convince all the children, that he would not want any celebration beyond his sitting room and the garage! All venue and the Event Centre related bookings were therefore put in abeyance; though we were still hopeful of a change of heart by him. And when Covid-19 lockdown eventually came, putting paid to any planned celebration, we became more convinced that truly, his God, as always, had absolute control over his affairs.
Daddy and I would sit and have heart to heart talks. Even when he started showing signs of illness, he still shared some of his heartfelt feelings, as he kept living his life through God.
God had his way; He’s taken him home now.
As a lawyer, Daddy was my client. He was an intelligent client that any lawyer would love to deal with. He knew his rights to the fullest extent under the laws. For a retiree, he was excessively tolerant towards his tenants. Despite accepting far less than economic rents, he still wanted to know if the tenants, especially the young ones, were coping well. But he never liked to be cheated. Daddy appreciated our written status reports and accounts and when necessary, he gave his instructions in his fine handwriting. As soon as he saw his statement of accounts, he would give instruction to raise bankers’
cheque for settlement of his tithes. His well constructed English was always a beauty to read. He would listen carefully to your legal advice and take his decision after considering your advice. It was a battle convincing Daddy not to pay our law firm for services rendered to him. That is Daddy for you.
Daddy kept himself well informed about world events and news.
He was a believer in IT: His Ipad was not only for reading the Holy Bible and Open Heavens; He would often use his iPad to google the nutritional value of any food before eating it for the first time.
With the exit of Daddy, the strongest branch of the Awoyinfa Family Tree of Ijebu Jesha in Osun State might have fallen. From discussions, he held strongly to the Awoyinfa family heritage.
Daddy, your children, grand children and great grand children will miss you, but when they remember all the good times,the happiness, the visits, your times with them , your sense of humour, the love and the serenity of your final hours before going home, their minds will be at ease and at peace.
May you enjoy your stay with God. And may your beautiful soul rest in Perfect Peace.
Thank you Daddy and Good night.
Your son, Babajide Owootori