This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, OBIORA JAMES IBEZIAKO 48 years old , born on August 28, 1967 and passed away on December 25, 2015. We will remember him forever.
Tributes
Leave a tributeHappy Birthday in heaven.
Alot has changed since you slept.
Sleep on dearly beloved Broda.
Missing you.
Goal Keeper.
Continue to rest in perfect Peace. AMEN
Uche
Peace perfect peace, bro
Keep resting peacefully...
Miss you my dear friend and bro.
Udo
"Kedu...?" as you'd always say in different circumstances, as you offered calm assurance.
Obimbo! Dreams shared, ambitions nurtured...
God knows best.
Keep resting peacefully, dear friend and bro
Merry Christmas!
Another Christmas without you...
3 years, yet so fresh...
Rest on, my dear friend.
May HIS light continue to shine upon you...
A good man gone too soon......May your warm soul continue to rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Happy birthday my dear friend and continue to rest peacefully, Amen.
It wasn't to be like this.
The dreams, vision, projections and expectations... Whither?!
You always counseled patience and calm... To this end?!
Your sudden transition, Obiora is quite heart rending!
May Almighty God receive your gentle soul in His bosom, Amen.
Thank you for your unalloyed friendship and forthrightness.
For your exemplary unflinching faith and trust in God.
For your humaneness and unapologetic candour
Good night, my dear friend and brother.
Fare thee well, Obimbo...the quintessential "Cecil Gee" gentleman.
Kachifoo...
Nike, you left much too early, but in your brief sojourn here on earth you left a positive impression on many people.
Shairman, I remember you with mixed emotions - laughter and tears. Go in peace, my brother!
Osondu.
...Obiora,never in a million years would I have guessed that you would go home before any of us your sisters, but God knew. Through the tears, the pain,the hurt, the incredible sense of loss, I am reminded that to be absent from the body is to be present with Christ. I know deep down that you are with Christ right now, and truly"Nsogbu adiro" as you would always say regardless of the situation. And so I will not mourn like one who has no hope. Instead I will thank God for the 48 years He allowed you to walk this earth.
I remember how much our mother longed for and prayed for a son. After multiple miscarriages/ still births,and 3 lovely daughters( that will be me and your 2 sisters) our mother like any other Nigerian woman desired a son. I remember praying with her, I remember when she told us we would have brother and he would be named JAMES IKECHUKWU. I remember when you were eventually born, August 281967, just before the Nigerian/Biafran war broke out. They named you JAMES OBIORA IKECHUKWU .(had to get that 'O' in there so you would have the same initials as our Dad!)
I remember during the war in Umuchu, how you would not eat until we put on a dance show for you, and so each meal time our Father's sister Echenwa would call us"Olukwanu o, bianu telu Obiora egwu." And we would joyfully dance our little hearts out!!
I remember how once in a while Echenwa would place you on my back and I would rock you to sleep. I say once in a while because the woman never put you down! Echenwa and our mother were more than sisters in law, they were great friends, and we were not just her brothers children, we were hers too, and more so you! I remember you used to say that our mother gave birth to you, but Echenwa was your mother!!!
I remember knowing you were extra special to every one, even to our mother who never played favourites! And you were special to us your sisters too. Growing up with you was a blast, we knew to be protective of you, and you made it easy.
I remember 1999 when I came home because our father was sick. I spent the night in your house in Lagos,and next morning on our way to the Airport, you stopped by your office to call Enugu and let them know we were on our way. Little did I know that our father had passed on. You came out no change in your demeanor,and we carried on till we got home and I got the news. I remember asking why you didn't tell me in Lagos, and your response? Ka gini mezi a".
And again in 2002, I remember, you and I alone in our mother's room,and you consoling me. You told me you did not cry because our mother did not die, that you and Nkiru watched her peacefully transition. You told me you wanted two things : first, that many would give their lives to Christ during our mother's funeral services, and secondly, that when your time came , that you would transition as she did! And by all accounts, you did too!!!
I am comforted every time I read the many many FB chats we had over the years. You finally agreed that you would come visit this summer!
I remember my last phone call with you on 12/23/2015, my birthday. Yes you were sick, and in the hospital , but you were your normal jovial self. You even pulled a prank on me by pretending you were so sick you couldn't talk, and bursting into laughter when you heard my alarmed voice! You sounded so good, I didn't even think to call on the 24th. Surely, I thought you would be home on Christmas Day, so I will call you at home! You sure did go home on Christmas Day,but I will now have to wait for that resurrection morning to talk to you, I have that hope.
So my beloved Ujuora, I will forever miss you, but we will take solace in knowing that you are with God, and that we have you living in your four children...Kamsi,Adaora, Fumnanya, and Uchenna. They will by the grace of God carry on your legacy and our Father's name." Ezi John .O.Ibeziako ama echi nata". Your sisters and I , God helping us ,will become to your wife Chinelo as Echenwa was to our mother. Rest in Perfect Peace.
Dear Nike, as fondly called. Classmate, Friend, Companion.
Your humble nature is worthy of emulation. Miss You.
Rest in Peace,Brother! We shall all see again in Greater Glory!
I cant get myself to accept your transition.
As soon as i got that painful call i screamed and kept saying its a lie and refused to accept it.
I told my husband that we must break the protocol and gather all the Men of God that had assembled for our annual RCCG LETS GO A FISHING program me to pray for your resurrection including our guest speaker Pst J .T. Kalejaye.
Bros m i was so sure you will get up and stay much longer with us.After all the prayers OBI you did not rise. Pst J. T told us that you would have come back to us if God wanted you to do so.
OBI, I remember growing up with you, i remember the days we played football together and you and i were a team of two with me as your goal keeper and the garage was our goal post,challenging Uche, IK and Chuchu. Despite the fact that they were THREE against us TWO we always defeated them lol lol .Bros you will give me a HI five and we would hug when we scored but when they scored us you will laugh at me and say Nini i na fe esepa ebe afu Ik enye anyi GOOO. it was so much fun. Fun Loving Bros!!
OBI, I remember our trip to Jos to visit Aunty U in the 80s, I particularly remember our visit to wild life park and how cold i was because i had left my cardigan in the car I must have under estimated the weather. Bros u looked at me and said Oyi ana tu gi ? I nodded and you quickly pulled out your sweater and gave to me.That is typical of you. Kind and affectionate Bros!!
OBI, In 1995 while going to look for you in Ajao Estate i met my husband PJ. You told me that he was your friends friend and encouraged me to marry him.That day you begged me that due to tight work Schedule you would not be able to take me out for lunch. Bros you gave me N4000 and told me to make sure i go somewhere nice and treat myself.
Bros i took your counsel and eventually married John. Thank you for that counsel and encouragement. It was you that God used to fulfill my destiny of early marriage.
OBI NWANNEM you eventually became my neighbour i recall how i used to send my maid to call you for lunch whenever i made a sumptions meal.
Nwakaibeya, you made my trip to Ibuzo during Iks trad memorable we were together in Aunty Nkirus house in Illah .We gisted through out the night with Aunty Nkiru, Bros we laughed and played as we remembered our childhood days, at interval you will signal me to go to Aunty Nkirus fridge to get drinks. I remember how i grapped your chicken from you. We played till about 2am when i forced my self away because of my early trip to lagos next day.
OBI my telephone conversation with you on the 23rd of Dec 2015 was somehow, you promised me that we shall see at the wedding despite the fact that you were yet to get the invite.Bros in a nutshell you said we are family and no need for formalities or protocol with family members. Thats how simple you are.
OBI you are one bros i never had cause to say WAKA SHEGE to in my mind as child and even now that i have grown lol lol
OBI i bu Odogwu !!!
OBI I bu nwakaibeya !!!
OBI i bu onye eji eje mba !!!
Obi I bu dike!!!
OBI i bu onye oga adili nma!!!
Obi i bu onye eziokwu!!!
OBI i malunma na ese okwu!!!
OBI i bu Nwannemmmmmmmmmmm!!!
Thank you for the 41 years you shared with me.Nnaa jee nke oma. Ilusie kene lum Father Abraham ,Mama, Papa,Mama Chinwe, Papa Emeka na Mama Adanma.
Nwa Oma Sleep On till Resurrection Morning.
Adieu !!!!
From Your goal keeper
Nini.
Fast forward to 2015,you created the whatsapp group, 'Independence house boys 1984 set' ,brought all of us together from different parts of the globe,albeit in the virtual world and held center court with your charismatic,unbridled sense of humor which seemed to materialize magically from nowhere since you were not among the funniest in our Independence house set.Even when attempts were made to use the same 'old fgce jokes' on you,you disarmed everyone with your self-deprecation.When I followed your example and created the 'fgce 1984 set' whatsapp group and made you the first group admin,I knew there would never be a boring moment in the forum but even I under-estimated your hilarious,captivating humor.You enthralled everyone and got most of us hooked on the group.You were planning a reunion of Independence house boys 1984 set for this Feb 2016 and I was looking forward to visiting Nigeria again and trading stories and barbs with you just like school days but God had other plans for you.Adieu Obiora (Nike),my friend till we meet to part no more.
Your spirit and the fond memories will live on with us.
God will comfort and strengthen your wife,Chinelo,siblings and cousins
-Josy
The able chairman and chartered cashier you will be missed till we meet at the feet of the master Jesus.
Leave a Tribute
Happy Birthday in heaven.
Alot has changed since you slept.
Sleep on dearly beloved Broda.
Missing you.
Goal Keeper.
Obi always adding value and supporting to make things happen
Memories of times spent with OBI at Anty Diatis wedding
Cherished Moments with OBI My Big Bros!!
Uncle Obiora,
I cant get myself to accept your transition.
As soon as i got that painful call i screamed and kept saying its a lie and refused to accept it.
I told my husband that we must break the protocol and gather all the Men of God that had assembled for our annual RCCG LETS GO A FISHING programme to pray for your resurection including our guest speaker Pst J .T. Kalejaye.
Bros m i was so sure you will get up and stay much longer with us.After all the prayers OBI you did not rise. Pst J. T told us that you would have come back to us if God wanted you to do so.
OBI, I remember growing up with you, i remember the days we played football together and you and i were a team of two with me as your goal keeper and the garage was our goal post,challenging Uche, IK and Chuchu. Despite the fact that they were THREE againt us TWO we always defeated them lol lol .Bros you will give me a HI five and we would hug when we scored but when they scored us you will laugh at me and say Nini i na fe esepa ebe afu Ik enye anyi GOOO. it was so much fun. Fun Loving Bros!!
OBI, I remember our trip to Jos to visit Aunty U in the 80s, I particurlarly remember our visit to wild life park and how cold i was because i had left my cardigan in the car I must have under estimated the weather. Bros u looked at me and said Oyi ana tu gi ? I nodded and you quickly pulled out your sweater and gave to me.That is typical of you. Kind and affectionate Bros!!
OBI, In 1995 while going to visit you in Ajao Estate i met my husband PJ. You told me that he was your friends friend and encouraged me to marry him.That day you begged me that due to tight work Schedule you would not be able to take me out for lunch. Bros you gave me N4000 and told me to make sure i go somewhere nice and treat myself.
Bros i took your counsel and eventually married John. Thank you for that counsel and encouragement. It was you that God used to fufill my destiny of early marriage.
OBI NWANNEM you eventually became my neighbour i recall how i used to send my maid to call you for lunch whenever i made a sumptions meal.
Nwakaibeya, you made my trip to Ibuzo during Iks trad memorable we were together in Aunty Nkirus house in Illah .We gisted through out the night with Aunty Nkiru, Bros we laughed and played as we remembered our childhood days, at interval you will signal me to go to Aunty Nkirus fridge to get drinks. I remember how i grapped your chicken from you. We played till about 2am when i forced my self away because of my early trip to lagos next day.
OBI my telephone conversation with you on the 23rd of Dec 2015 was somehow, you promised me that we shall see at the wedding despite the fact that you were yet to get the invite.Bros in a nutshell you said we are family and no need for formalities or protocol with family members. Thats how simple you are. Yes you ARE and not WERE because you are sleeping in the Lords bosom.
OBI you are one bros i never had cause to say WAKA SHEGE to in my mind as a child and even now that i have grown lol lol
OBI, i bu Odogwu !!!
OBI, I bu nwakaibeya !!!
OBI, i bu onye eji eje mba !!!
OBI, I bu dike!!!
OBI, i bu onye oga adili nma!!!
OBI, i bu onye eziokwu!!!
OBI, i malunma na ese okwu!!!
OBI, I bu nnukwu nwoke !!!
OBI, i bu Nwannemmmmmmmmmmm!!!
Thank you for the 41 years you shared with me.Nnaa jee nke oma. Ilusie kene lum Father Abraham ,Mama, Papa,Mama Chinwe, Papa Emeka na Mama Adanma.
Nwa Oma Sleep On till Resurection Morning.
Adieu !!!!
From Your goal keeper Sis,
Nini.