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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ogbuenyi(Mrs) Stella Akosa Uzoka (Nee UGEH). We will remember her forever.
October 5, 2022
October 5, 2022
Tribute to My Own dear Grandmother

Mummy Joe Ogbuenyi

Words will fail me to express how loving and caring you are to me and my family.

Your love is so genuine that it does not discriminate. Right from a very tender age your love remained steadfast, all through my childhood and beyond.

You are always willing to sacrifice inorder for those around you to be comfortable and happy...You were definitely the queen mother with the golden heart.

I won't forget in a hurry those days, when I called to let you know of my journey to Asaba, you won't go to bed until I arrive and your calls will keep coming till I safely arrive home.

We've always prayed that you live beyond this moment and we reciprocate that affection of a very dear Grandmother.

Mummy Joe, I will greatly miss you. Is very hard to believe you are gone. Sometimes I will reminisce loving memories of my experience with you..... Who would have told me that I won't celebrate the next Christmas with you.

You've always been my center of attraction whenever I want to visit Asaba and the first thought that comes to my mind is you.

You made home more meaningful, fulfilling and exciting to me.

Not to forget foodstuffs, you will always prepare as a take away each time I visit, this i can't forgot in a hurry....You definitely left a big vaccum no one can fill...eh Mama but why!!!

No doubt you're resting in the Lord's bossom till we meet again and depart no more, Until then God Almighty continue to rest your soul - Amen!

From Your dear grandson

Chiedu Emerokwam & Family
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
Ogbuenyi (Mrs) Stella Akosa Uzoka fondly called mama because of her motherly care and love to all that had came in contact with her. I found her very accommodating, lovable and likeable person. I did not live in PortHarCourt but l know that her house was where any new comer from Illah that wants to start his life stay. My relationship with the two children late Tony and his brother Nnamdi brought me close to this wonderful woman. She had touch the lives of many people.
May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
TRIBUTE TO:  A PRECIOUS AND INSTITUTIONAL MOTHER

No one can battle with the Lord or question Him.  He is the alpha and omega, the giver and taker of lives and everything under the sun.

Mama was peaceful,  a rare gem, pillar of support, a great achiever, caring, kind, magnanimous, passionate, hardworking , a disciplinarian and very compassionate. She was full of grace, so much love, integrity, divine wisdom and humility.

You feared and loved God, as well as loved your children and all who lived or came across you.   You left a legacy of sound, unique and awesome records in the sands of time.  She was also a seasoned philanthropist, instrument of good will, common good, and ephytome of hospitality, unity and brotherhood.

Mama was an institution of capacity building, human resource development and strategic management, who touched lives in so many ways.  As an institutional mother, she inspired those around her to be hard working, diligent and progressive, and strategically trained them in various professions and skills, to become who they are today.

According to my father in-law Diopka Akwaguna Christ Marah, your lovely family left in him   “a legacy to be cherished forever”. He never ceased talking about how he was natured by you and your husband to become what he is today as well as others so numerous to mention.

She was a paragon of beauty par excellence.  Her beauty was outstanding, infectious and very noticeable anywhere she goes.   Aside, she was a precious gift from God, with a pleasant and enviable personality.  The father Ogbuenyi Esekaogwu Edward Ugeh, a principled, handsome, noble and an exemplary man, loved and was very proud of her as a daughter and used to call her (Omoko), while his brother Late Mr. Samson Ugeh Alisa Italian Sanco the Amalinze the cat of Illah, who was very strong and brave in wrestling context, qualifies her as Nwagbolu- Omoko.

 

Mama was an epitome of generosity and among all other things, I shall never forget when Mama and Aunty Priscilla (Nee Mokogwu) Obinipko paid us a visit in the remote area where I lived in Lagos, (Okokomaiko ).  The road to this place, so bad and full of water lounge, and they came by a public transport. Till death this will remain indelible in my mind, all the way from Port Harcourt, whereas younger ones of the family find it very difficult to come with flimsy excuses.  She came along with a present and all the time will always bring crayfish for me whenever she sees anyone going to Lagos.   May your love and hospitality see you through and may the good Lord have unconditional mercy on your kind and gentle soul, and grant you eternal rest in His bosom in Jesus name.

 

Adieu, till  we meet to part no more.

 

 

Ogbuenyi  Dr.  Ozili Maduka
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
Nnem Nwagbolu ,like my mum Monica calls you , You were a caring mother to us . It's painful you have gone home with your beautiful soul , I have no doubt that you have been received by all the saints in heaven, Hmmm! Eternal Rest Grant Unto you , and let Perpetual light shine upon you.May your soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God rest in peace,may they rest in perfect peace. Amen Adue Nne !
Your Niece Uju Aniukwu Okonta
October 1, 2022
Tribute to a Special Aunty
Though you have gone to be with the angels, mama lived a life worthy of celebration. Her kindness and love for mankind knew no boundaries, as mama welcomed everyone into her home with open hands. We were all treated as her children. In Mama, I saw kindness and simplicity at the extreme. Though you have left our world, your legacies and memories will forever live in our hearts. Rest in perfect peace Mama.
October 1, 2022
October 1, 2022
PASTOR OSEYEM L. AKOSA
TRIBUTE TO MRS STELLA NWAGBOLO AKOSA UZOKA   Mama was a Mother with a Golden Heart . She was a Very Caring Woman . Very Unique and Very Kind Mother who opened her House and Kitchen to Feed Many People were Not her Biological Children . She was An Epitome of Beauty , Goodness and Great Giver . A Great , Great Grand Mother Indeed . She trained other People's Children in Schools and University . I will Really Missed You Mama . Your Legacy Lives On . Whenever We travelled to the Village to Visit and Stay with You Mama , You always expressed Joy each Time . Absolutely , Mama was a Very Intelligent Woman with Electronic Brain at 80Years and Above Mama had Sound Remembrance of Things and Events. We are All Amazed at Her Sound Memory . Absolutely , Mama was A Loving Mother . We Fondly call Her , Mummy Joe . Abieu Mama , Abieu Very Kind Woman , Abieu Golden Heart Mother . PASTOR OSEYEM L. AKOSA .
October 1, 2022
October 1, 2022
If there is a life again here on Earth, I would still want to be called your son. You didn't allow me to miss motherly love as you closed the gap immensely and greatly when I lost my mum. I will forever be indebted to your genuine passion to see everyone around you happy. Your humility and humanity were top-notch. You were very instrumental to the person I am today. Continue to rest in power . Mama, you will always live in my heart because your legacy still leaves and speaks.
September 30, 2022
September 30, 2022
My beloved grandmother was an inspiration to me and also an example to all mothers. And we owe her the most heartfelt debt anyone could want for their grandmother, for her love, affection, guidance & understanding. Mummy Joe as fondly called by me lived a promised with destiny kept and she will be  deeply missed
Mama adieu
Mr& Mrs Maxwell Onyesi (Nee)Emerokwam
September 29, 2022
September 29, 2022
From: Dumebi, Chigozie and Fumnanya Akosa
My Sweet and beloved Grandma was caring and kind hearted woman.
My stay with her during Christmas season was an excitement because she takes care of us and ensured everyone was given enough food. I can't forget how she called me Dum Dum and my younger Bro Chi boy . Grandma, you are the best .
My Siblings and I, love you and will always remember your good memory and blessing to us.
May your soul Rest in Peace.
September 29, 2022
September 29, 2022
I am so glad I was able to see you before your demise.

I have known you to be loving and kind to everyone around you, including your children and we your grandchildren. Your memory will forever live on, mummy-joe.

Mama you were a mother to many and your contribution to the Illah community would not be forgotten.

Thank you for your sacrifices, your care and concern, your love and everything that you have done for us. Wherever you are, I know you are in a much better place. I will be forever grateful that you are my grandmother “onyechiayele-eze”. Adieu Ogbuenyi.

Chekwube Emerokwam.
September 29, 2022
September 29, 2022
Good nite Mama.
A very loving and caring mother. Your kindness was very examplary.Mama was so kind that her home was the easiest destination for everyone with need and concern. The good lord will show kindness to your soul as i pray that you will rest in perfect peace. Amen
September 27, 2022
September 27, 2022
My grandmother, Was so loving, I will miss you grandma and I won’t forget you, Favour loves you so much, Rest in prefect peace .

Favour Akosa
September 26, 2022
September 26, 2022
Ogbuenyi Stella Nwagbolu Uzoka Akosa

My dear sister, I was privileged to have you as a sister, sweet are the memories I have for you. You were such a beautiful, kind, generous and hospitable sister.
Anyone who knew you when you were alive will never forget you in a hurry, but always remember you for, at least one of the above qualities.
I pray that the spirit of love, peace and unity you have in the family will be emulated by the ones you left behind.
Sister, may your gentle soul and that of the other faithful departed, through the mercy of God Rest in Peace. Amen
Your sister,
Mrs L. O. CHIDI
September 24, 2022
September 24, 2022
To my dear sweet mother. Mama Lolo Looking back at my life, I realize how many sacrifice you made for our family and countless others. I am so thankful for a mother whose life was a blessing and who loved with higher love. You gave selfisflessly to me and many others. I remember people calling you Omoko because you were so generous to others. Out of the abundance of your heart, you brought up and gave generously to so many others. You taught me how to navigate life in every stage. I remember learning how to trade at a very early age in your market. You were a fashion icon. You nurtured and loved me unconditionally. Coming from greatness, you always remained so humbled. I remember every single day you told be igadi which I will treasure for the rest of my life. Time will heal, but neither time nor reason will change the way I feel. The gates of memory wil never close. I miss you more than anyone knows and I am proud to call you my mom. You instilled in me the importance of education and vowed to raise your children in the legacy of education. I look at my children and they are who they are because of you. Isaiah 57:2 says those who enter higher upright enter into peace and I know you are in a peaceful place. Rest on until we see each other again. From Nneka Akosa Chima
September 22, 2022
September 22, 2022
Mama was a pacesetter, peaceful and caring mother, you will hardly know she was not my biological mother. She was a mother to all especially the role she played when I newly married my wife. Your hospitality was second to none,the kindness you have shown me and my family will forever be green in our memories. I and my wife will forever miss you. May your soul rest in the bossom of the Lord Amen . Goodbye Ezi gbo nmadu, a woman with the heart of gold.
From Prince Uzoka and Family.
September 22, 2022
September 22, 2022
Mama was a pace setter, peaceful and caring mother, you will hardly know she was not my biological mother. She was a mother to all especially the role she played when I newly married my wife. Your hospitality was second to none,the kindness you have shown to me and my family will forever be green in our memories. I and my wife will forever miss you. May your soul rest in the bossom of the Lord Amen
September 22, 2022
September 22, 2022
A real light from our household gone ,I pray that God almighty grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change.very privileged to be your son, you made life easier during your days with us on earth. Chances were given to strive in life .You remain forever in our thoughts ,Rest in peace splendid mother
September 21, 2022
September 21, 2022
Inclusion in my life is a gift and an honor. You've seen me as a baby, and you've seen me as a man with responsibilities. Your children were blessed to have you as their mother; you were kind, loving, active, and creative. You invested your best in me, and that's a part of what I still value and hold dear. You, more than most, understand the value of having close friends and family.

The world will be better off because of your incredible legacy. It's hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that you're gone and even harder to measure other people's lives against yours. When there's a major problem on the ground, you call me "NNABUIFE," and when things are going well, you call me "UGEH-ENYI." When I was with you, I felt like I was with someone very special. I've watched you get older, yet you've never stopped caring about others and displaying love. The kindness you have shown to others will always be remembered. When I think about you now, it's your sense of humor that I miss the most.

Please know that you are loved and remembered by everyone in my family and will never be forgotten. While I am eternally grateful to God for the life you lived, the joy you brought to so many people's lives, and the wisdom you imparted to those around you, I know that things will never be the same. It has led the way, and it will do so again in the future. We (my wife and I, and our three kids) will miss having you around. May the Lord offer you rest and tranquility, both now and always. Goodbye, Sweet Mama

From,
Ken Nnabuife Ugeh.


September 17, 2022
September 17, 2022
Tribute to Ogbuenyi (Mrs ) Stella Comfort Nwagbolo Akosa Uzoka ( Nee Ugeh).

Mama was a peaceful and caring woman. Always showing concern and standing up for any form of injustice.
You were quite a lady, so kind and thoughtful. Your support for my wife in particular, family and others in general is an eloquent testimony of your kind heart. We will forever salute you because you have been there always to support and guide us.
We pray you find peace and rest in the bosom of the Almighty God. Adieu!
From:- Mr & Mrs Benjamin Chiedu.
September 15, 2022
September 15, 2022
Ezinne, Ogbuenyi Stella Nwagbolu Uzoka a.k.a. Mama Wokoma as she was fondly called, was a great Entrepreneur, a loving and a caring mother with a heart of gold. Her home at No. 24 Wokoma Street, Port Harcourt was actually thought to be an extension of University of Port Harcourt Students Hostel as she accommodates freely any Illah and even none Illah indigens that have difficulty with accommodation. She was indeed a great mother to all, free and too generous to a rare gem.
Adieu mama. You were awesome in life. Thank God Almighty for the legacy you bequeathed to your children and all those who had the privilege to meet and know you.
Rest on, in the bosom of the Lord.
Azuka Johnson Odili.
September 13, 2022
September 13, 2022
TRIBUTE TO OGBUENYI (MRS) NWAGBOLO AKOSA UZOKA.
Mama has gone to rest with our Lord Jesus Christ. She was one of the matriarchs of Illah people in Port Harcourt. Mama was a good,kind hearted and industrious woman.
As at 1972, I lived with mama and her husband before I started working with WILBROS NIG. LTD; I noticed Mama's generosity towards people around her.
Your demise broke my heart but God knows the best. May God in His infinite mercy grant your soul eternal rest in His blossom in Jesus name amen.

From: Mr Christopher Marah
September 9, 2022
September 9, 2022
TRIBUTE TO MY MOTHER Rev.Evangelist Chris Akosa.
 Mummy JO, as you are fondly called by me and others, your demise from the planet earth left a great vacuum in the family. Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of those who have given their lives to the Lord Jesus Christ. Psalms 116:15.
 I could remember remember those days you use to sing this song to me; Onoly-noloy Christopher... the song you fondly sing for me. It is quite too painful to know that we will miss you. Oh! the cruelty of death so exhibited with no arms to lean on. I can't help when I sit and reminiscence over the years we spent together, especially the last memory I had with you at the hospital, you said should hold your hands to pray with you. I held it for a moment. After the prayers, I never knew that will be my last time to relate with you .
Mummy Jo, you are indeed an embodiment of goodness and kindness,a devout christian,a successful business woman who has fostered many children,a counsellor; your admonition and encouragement lifted many from the shackles of life's challenges.They call you Omeogo and that is what you are.I cannot exhaust your virtues and sterling qualities,but as you have transcended to the celestial to be with the Lord,we are confident that your good deeds are footprints that will continue to speak in our lives.Your son

Rev.Evangelist Chris Akosa loves you!
September 7, 2022
September 7, 2022
Ogbuenyi Nwanyi, Nneoma,

A beautiful woman has gone home, an accomplished merchant, a beloved mother of plenty and mother of all. A woman with a beautiful soul, kind and generous, a center piece of a generation, a mother of our time.

Rest on Good Woman for you have completed a good race. May the good Lord grant you eternal peace as you rejoin your lovely husband, my uncle, Ogbuenyi P. N. Akosa Uzoka in eternity, Amen .

Fondly remembered...

Ogbuenyi Chukwumalieze, Joseph Nwegbu 
September 7, 2022
September 7, 2022
Dear wonderful mother and grandmother, With heart filled with tears and love I write this tribute to you . The little moment I was able to be with you was a great moment filled with love and care from you , you took me as your own grandson just the same
Way you treat my friend and brother Chuks , it was such a great honor and privilege to have a little moment with you . You are such a strong woman and a Gods giveth. I believe you are in Gods right hand and all I wish is for God to keep your soul and make it rest in his blossom Amen . We love you mama.
September 7, 2022
September 7, 2022
Grandma’s room is empty; she moved away.
She departed this life and is gone to stay.
There was no struggle, but with great ease
she closed her eyes and took her leave.My Grandma was one sweet, loving soul.
I had no doubt where she would go.
We all knew Grandma walked with God
and bound for heaven to get her reward.No way we can know the lives she touched
because that gracious soul gave so much.
She would share her rice, money or meal.
We had many talks as she sipped her tea.
She shared years of wisdom with me.
She taught me family values and to be kind from her action cause they say actions speaks louder than voice ,
but she always had Jesus on her mind.Her love was evident in so many ways
in her kind words and on her smiling face.
Grandma’s leaving is heaven’s gain,
but one day I will see her again, I miss you grandma and I love you so much.
September 6, 2022
September 6, 2022
TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR MOTHER (Nneanyi Onyeoma)

My dear mother, it is very hard to say goodbye. You left a big vaccum that can never be filled.

Your love and care for me and my family will be remembered always.

Mama I will ever miss you.
You left Us with a big emptiness.

A great, compassionate and loving mother you are not just to me but to my children and grandchildren and the entire family.

Mama loosing you was a big blow.

Loving memories of you is what I depend on now!

You paid the price to support and assisted me in many ways possible.

Mummy Joe, everyday I think of you, you were my thoughts yesterday, today you are and tomorrow you will be and forever.

My dear loving mother, your heart of gold was unbiased, not just to your children but to everyone. With this sweet heart you showed genuine love and care for everyone that came your way. All that matters to you is that everyone should be comfortable and happy. Is very unfortunate that death had to take you.

May your gentle soul continue to rest in peace!

Adieu my Sweet Mother!

Adieu Nneanyi Obioma!

Adieu Ogbuenyi Mummy Joe!
Mrs Roseline onyedinma Emerokwam
September 5, 2022
September 5, 2022
Our beloved mother was a quintessential woman, a Rare Gem, the Bedrock of our world, an Epitome of indomitable spirit, a giant amongst women and a destiny lifter. Your Elegant Beauty of love, kindness and Hospitality is unmatchable. You are a great inspiration to all your children, relatives and others. The joy you brought to us will never be forgotten. You are truly a beautiful soul ever created by the Almighty God.
We will always remember you with fond memories and deep sense of gratitude for the selfless love you gave us and others too many to mention. Thank you for being a great woman. You have indeed fulfill and accomplished your purpose/ calling on Earth. Our blessed hope is that we will see you again one day in Heaven.
Your legacy lives on in us. We love you immensely. May your sweet and gentle soul rest in peace in the kingdom of our Lord Jesus Christ- Amen.
By: Clement/Silver Akosa & Family.
August 30, 2022
August 30, 2022
You exhibited extra ordinary love, kindness and generosity that knows no bounds. I remembered growing up in Port Harcourt, you showed me motherly care and left the doors open for me. I was always welcomed. Thank God for a life well spent, and May the Almighty Lord grant your soul perfect rest.
August 29, 2022
August 29, 2022
My beloved Mother in law was generous and kind hearted woman who impacted greatly to people in need . A woman with passion and heart of gold; we are griefing that that we miss you greatly but heaven is rejoicing that you joined the saints.  Late Chief (Mrs) Stella Uzoka '' or Mama as I usually called her, was the best anyone will ever think of having as a mother. She was receptive to visitors and also, were entertained . Consequently, she was humble, hard working and honest. You death is a huge loss to me How ever, I am consoled that you are resting peacefully in God's kingdom.
I missed you Mama. May your gentle soul continue to rest in peace. Amen
From your daughter in law. Mrs. Akosa Awele Perpetua
August 27, 2022
August 27, 2022
Death is inevitable, is a supreme price that all must pay! In spite of this, we still grieve when we lose our beloved ones.
The pain of losing my sweet and beloved Mom on 18th May,2022, has been extreme and emotionally hard on me to overcome. I never expected that day will be the last I saw my mom .
Ogbuenyi ! Mrs Stella Nwagbolo Akosa, I am still griefing at your demise and wondering where else to get the affection and care you gave equally to your children. As a child, recall in 1990,after the death of our father , my elder siblings were in the university, you provided and ensured they completed tertiary education.
Mami joe! as fondly called by us your children, was a definition of a virtuous woman and sweet Mother who deprived herself of basic comfort for good of the family.
You taught me to be generous and kind hearted to people in need of assistance. Even when you are bed bound at the hospital, you beckoned on me to give some hand gloves and detergent to a Nurse for an admitted patient in need.
My Sweetest Mom! you are my mentor, source of progress, courage, humility and generosity.
You are rare gem and one in a million, I am in pain and wish it was dream.your death is a huge loss to the family.
We are consoled that you lived a good life and also, comforted that your legacy lives on . I know you are resting well in God's bosom .

August 19, 2022
August 19, 2022
Very painful indeed. But in all, not with regrets. Ogbuenyi Mama Nwagbolu Akosa Uzoka touched my life as well as so many. In Port Harcourt, she was a mother for all. She fed many as far as you are from Illah resident or visits Port Harcourt. I regret her absence. I called her regularly and she notices my voice without mentioning my name with Shout "0mustBe" meaning Ogbuenyi Must Be. Mama, my prayers remains, may your soul and the souls of all the faithful departed through mercy of God continue to rest in peace for ever and ever. Amen




August 13, 2022
August 13, 2022
For My Grandma!!!!
Your kindness and love were so special, And your heart so pure and true . You made the world a better place . Just by being you.
I miss you GrandMa, So dearly . I wish you were here with me . Words cannot describe the loss I feel having to say this last goodbye . Not to have you here with me To wipe the tears from my eyes. But you’ll never be forgotten, In my heart you’ll always be. And until we meet again Mama Joe like we fondly you Grandma , I’ll keep your memory safe with me .Adieu The best Grandma
August 13, 2022
August 13, 2022
Best grandmama. It was sad to hear you had left us, even sadder for me that I couldn't see you when I came to Nigeria, but you remain forever in our hearts. Rest well in the blossom of the Lord dearest mama. Love you forever.
August 13, 2022
August 13, 2022
To my awesome and loving grandma, a woman I call blessed, saw her children's, children's children, making me believe this is possible, with all that's going around. Nne shin ne thank you for being the best grandma and woman you were,
you were selfless even to your last days on earth, you still thought of everyone else, ensuring we were all fine and doing great, you never complained but will give your arm and leg till people around you were satisfied. I am happy the pain is over and you are in a better place, the footprints you left are to big for anyone to fit, I salute you grandma as you rest in the blossom of our Lord Jesus. Sleep on Nne shin ne, you are fondly missed.
Your granddaughter
Tolue

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October 5, 2022
October 5, 2022
Tribute to My Own dear Grandmother

Mummy Joe Ogbuenyi

Words will fail me to express how loving and caring you are to me and my family.

Your love is so genuine that it does not discriminate. Right from a very tender age your love remained steadfast, all through my childhood and beyond.

You are always willing to sacrifice inorder for those around you to be comfortable and happy...You were definitely the queen mother with the golden heart.

I won't forget in a hurry those days, when I called to let you know of my journey to Asaba, you won't go to bed until I arrive and your calls will keep coming till I safely arrive home.

We've always prayed that you live beyond this moment and we reciprocate that affection of a very dear Grandmother.

Mummy Joe, I will greatly miss you. Is very hard to believe you are gone. Sometimes I will reminisce loving memories of my experience with you..... Who would have told me that I won't celebrate the next Christmas with you.

You've always been my center of attraction whenever I want to visit Asaba and the first thought that comes to my mind is you.

You made home more meaningful, fulfilling and exciting to me.

Not to forget foodstuffs, you will always prepare as a take away each time I visit, this i can't forgot in a hurry....You definitely left a big vaccum no one can fill...eh Mama but why!!!

No doubt you're resting in the Lord's bossom till we meet again and depart no more, Until then God Almighty continue to rest your soul - Amen!

From Your dear grandson

Chiedu Emerokwam & Family
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
Ogbuenyi (Mrs) Stella Akosa Uzoka fondly called mama because of her motherly care and love to all that had came in contact with her. I found her very accommodating, lovable and likeable person. I did not live in PortHarCourt but l know that her house was where any new comer from Illah that wants to start his life stay. My relationship with the two children late Tony and his brother Nnamdi brought me close to this wonderful woman. She had touch the lives of many people.
May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
October 2, 2022
October 2, 2022
TRIBUTE TO:  A PRECIOUS AND INSTITUTIONAL MOTHER

No one can battle with the Lord or question Him.  He is the alpha and omega, the giver and taker of lives and everything under the sun.

Mama was peaceful,  a rare gem, pillar of support, a great achiever, caring, kind, magnanimous, passionate, hardworking , a disciplinarian and very compassionate. She was full of grace, so much love, integrity, divine wisdom and humility.

You feared and loved God, as well as loved your children and all who lived or came across you.   You left a legacy of sound, unique and awesome records in the sands of time.  She was also a seasoned philanthropist, instrument of good will, common good, and ephytome of hospitality, unity and brotherhood.

Mama was an institution of capacity building, human resource development and strategic management, who touched lives in so many ways.  As an institutional mother, she inspired those around her to be hard working, diligent and progressive, and strategically trained them in various professions and skills, to become who they are today.

According to my father in-law Diopka Akwaguna Christ Marah, your lovely family left in him   “a legacy to be cherished forever”. He never ceased talking about how he was natured by you and your husband to become what he is today as well as others so numerous to mention.

She was a paragon of beauty par excellence.  Her beauty was outstanding, infectious and very noticeable anywhere she goes.   Aside, she was a precious gift from God, with a pleasant and enviable personality.  The father Ogbuenyi Esekaogwu Edward Ugeh, a principled, handsome, noble and an exemplary man, loved and was very proud of her as a daughter and used to call her (Omoko), while his brother Late Mr. Samson Ugeh Alisa Italian Sanco the Amalinze the cat of Illah, who was very strong and brave in wrestling context, qualifies her as Nwagbolu- Omoko.

 

Mama was an epitome of generosity and among all other things, I shall never forget when Mama and Aunty Priscilla (Nee Mokogwu) Obinipko paid us a visit in the remote area where I lived in Lagos, (Okokomaiko ).  The road to this place, so bad and full of water lounge, and they came by a public transport. Till death this will remain indelible in my mind, all the way from Port Harcourt, whereas younger ones of the family find it very difficult to come with flimsy excuses.  She came along with a present and all the time will always bring crayfish for me whenever she sees anyone going to Lagos.   May your love and hospitality see you through and may the good Lord have unconditional mercy on your kind and gentle soul, and grant you eternal rest in His bosom in Jesus name.

 

Adieu, till  we meet to part no more.

 

 

Ogbuenyi  Dr.  Ozili Maduka
Her Life

Ogbuenyi (Mrs) Stella Akosa Uzoka

August 12, 2022
Ogbuenyi (Mrs) Stella Akosa Uzoka was born into the family of Obi Ugeh of Umuosodi, Ajaji Village, Illah Town, Delta State. Her father was Late Pa Edward Esekaogwu Ugeh and her mother was Late Mrs. Emeshindo Ugeh (nee Odili).

Mama as fondly called lost her mother at a very tender age. She was the only child of her mother. After the death of her mother, she was sent by her Father to live with her aunt, Mrs Nwabuje Ifeobikwu at Umutei. She was later taken from her aunt to live with Mrs. Margaret Ajoh (Nee Chidi Mokogwu) and her husband in Rivers State where she was taught how to weave and make clothes.

Mama was very vast in many languages aside from her local Igbo language, she spoke Kalabari, Ogoni and Ikwere fluently.

At the age of 18 years old, mama relocated back to Illah with mama Margaret. Her beauty, intelligence and morals led her to her heartthrob. She got married to Ogbuenyi Paul Akosa from the Uzoka family in Ogbe-Olu, Illah Town, Delta State.After their traditional marriage, mama moved to Aba to join her husband who at that time was working at J. Allens. Pa Paul was so accommodating and helpful. He welcomed everyone to his home, in fact his home was the first point of call for any relation who came to Aba and mama did not fail in her duties to make sure that everyone who visited was comfortable in her home.

Mama was a huge blessing to Pa Paul and these blessings were evident in all areas of their lives.She was an industrious woman who never entertained idleness or laziness in any form. In her quest to succeed in life she started petty trading from her home which later expanded to include other businesses such as snuff and soap making.

In 1966 she did her white wedding. She married Pa Paul Akosa Uzoka at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic church, Aba.

Shortly after her wedding the civil war started in 1967, and mama had to relocate with her family to Illah. She remained in Illah until the war ended in 1970.

After the war, her husband-Pa Paul was transferred to Port-Harcourt and mama had to relocate with her family to Port-Harcourt where she continued her business. She became well known in her snuff business, and she introduced many men and women into her line of business and also encouraged them by giving them goods on credit.

Mama had no formal education, however, she improved herself by attending an Adult Education Program. She was able to read, write and sign documents where necessary. She was someone who ensured she was self-sufficient at all times and learnt to drive even when it was not very common for women to drive at that time.

Mama was a devout Catholic and was the patroness of Catholic Choir Diobu Port-Harcourt. She was crowned with the title LIFE MOTHER before she relocated to Asaba in Delta State.

She was the founder and President of Otu Ebeifedimmadi in Illah the once reigning and colorful Otu-Egwu in Illah.

Mama traveled to many places both Home and Abroad. She visited Los Angeles and San Francisco in the USA.

She was ADA ISI of the Obi Ugeh Royal Family.

She lived a simple life. She was generous, caring, humble and loved everyone. She was called a woman of Gold (Omoko), a woman of substance who instilled morals in all who came across her. She encouraged and trained many successful people. She was very proud of her family (Uzoka, Ugeh and Odili). She was a gift to the world.

Mama passed on peacefully on Wednesday 18th of May 2022 at exactly 7.00 a.m. She was 86 years.

Ogbuenyi (Mrs) Stella Comfort Nwagbolo Akosa Uzoka leaves behind a remarkable legacy.

She is survived by children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, brothers, Sisters, nephews, nieces, cousins, in-laws and friends.

A glorious exit of a gentle, loving, caring and peaceful woman, A mother to all. An ICON.

Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord and let Perpetual Light continue to shine upon her.

May her gentle Soul Rest in perfect peace.

AMEN

SLEEP ON…...



TRIBUTE TO: OGBUENYI STELLA COMFORT NWAGBOLO AKOSA UZOKA

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Mama

August 18, 2022
A real light from our household is gone ,I pray that God almighty grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change.
I am very privileged to be your son, you made life easier during your days with us on earth. Chances were given to strive in life .You remain forever in our thoughts ,Rest in peace splendid mother
Your son
Paul Losie Akosa

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