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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, OKECHUKWU CLARENCE ENYINNA, 41, born on March 18, 1975 and passed away on October 11, 2016. We will remember him forever.

A Memorial Mass will be held for him on Saturday, November 5th at 10.30 AM at Whitesands School, Lekki, Lagos. There will be a reception after Mass at the same venue accompanied by commentaries on his life. 

October 12, 2017
October 12, 2017
Continue to rest with the Lord.
October 11, 2017
October 11, 2017
Okey mummy, how can I forget you? The consolation is that you are now free from all pains. You are now resting in the bosom of the Lord. Rest on till we meet again. Mum
October 11, 2017
October 11, 2017
Lord have mercy, Rest in Peace Okey
September 29, 2017
September 29, 2017
I knew Okey for only a few months which were, for him, painful, exemplary and sanctifying and for me, full of practical lessons on the Christian value of pain. Especially after his last surgery, Okey suffered A LOT OF PAIN from the many needles stuck in him, the cancer medication and the unbearable pain in his stomach. He ALWAYS smiled and paid attention to me, encouraging me when I needed it most and only let us into the world of his pain ONLY when it was so unbearable but only for a moment as he immediately returned to his normal smiling face so as not to allow us to feel sorry for him. Now that he's in heaven - no iota of uncertainty about this, he's still smiling at all of us and sending graces to me ALL THE TIME.
November 10, 2016
November 10, 2016
I saw Okey a few times at the Hospital in the last month of his life.
I was moved and inspired by his concern for me and others who came to visit. He always said 'Thank you' and looked you in the face when you talked with him. Being a doctor, I know it took a lot of effort from him.
Okey, I'm grateful for your prayers during my exams. I am asking and will continue asking you for more now that you are more powerful in God.
Thank You.
November 5, 2016
November 5, 2016
Too many words here might sound superfluous but the fact is that a life well lived should be highly appreciated. Eyinna, in our own eyes, you left too soon, but then, God knows best. To the family of the departed soul, I wish you all the comfort of heaven. May the balm of Gilead bring you peace. Amen.
November 5, 2016
November 5, 2016
Okechukwu I still remember your words to pray along with you that God's "WILL" be done regarding your situation. You have gone to be with the Lord. ; Your Love to serve God through your endeavor; Your kind heart towards the common "Good of All" and your enthusiasm to impact your environment positively are virtues that you'll always be remembered for. You were a very special person and a friend. May you Rest in Perfect Peace in the LORD.
November 5, 2016
November 5, 2016
Dear Okey,
Sleep on my dear brother. Though we might not have been close back in our UII days but the last couple of months when we came in contact through forumn means a lot. You had a great fighting spirit.

Sleep on dear friend.

Classmate UI Elect/Elect
November 5, 2016
November 5, 2016
Looking back at our days in UI, Okechukwu has been a selfless, simple, diligent and God loving guy. He is always at your beckon to help with studies and to drive tutorials. I remember his days in Irawo, he brought me closer to God while in school and he is always looking for opportunities to let you know more about God.

Will miss you greatly, but I find solace in the fact that I know you are a good man and I am certain you are resting in the Lord.
November 4, 2016
November 4, 2016
Adieu CY, we love you but Christ loves you more, good night, good night, good night.

Classmate@UI Elect/Elect Dept.
November 4, 2016
November 4, 2016
I worked closely with Okey when he was the Head of the ICT Unit at LBS.He was my boss. He was hardworking and disciplined.His methodical approach to problem solving and his dedication to duty are worthy of emulation. He was a fine gentleman, a jovial and friendly fellow who treated everyone he came across with respect. He was simple and forthright in his interactions. I will miss his intelligent and brilliant conversations.

Okey lived a good life. Therefore, he is resting joyfully in the bosom of the Lord. Death has no power over him anymore.

Good night Okey and good morning tomorrow when we shall see again and part no more.
October 28, 2016
October 28, 2016
I worked with Okey at Socketworks and at PAU. As his boss at Socketworks, I can categorically say that he was a solid pillar in the Tech development and management team. We were lucky to have him. Rest in peace.
October 28, 2016
October 28, 2016
Really a painful exit, may God rest your soul. The consolation is that you are free from all pains.
October 25, 2016
October 25, 2016
Okey reached out to me when I moved to Lagos, right after my NYSC, and he was quick in filling up that much-needed space for a spiritual and professional mentor.

He made a great impact in my life and I will forever be grateful to him.

I am consoled that he is with the Lord and this far outweighs everything
October 25, 2016
October 25, 2016
It amuses me now when I think of it how Okey and I always found a way to have a chat when my life hit milestones or I was learning a few life lesssons.

It was good having my big cousin around to encourage me to relax and engage with the other young boys for whom Helmbridge was our sancturay. I ended up making some very good friends there.

Or when my mum passed and we spoke and he said "she's in a better place, you'll have to live your life now and grow". Not exactly the words I would have expected but very relevant at the time.

To when I went to visit him shortly before I went to England for my MSc in 2013. He was looking a bit tired but never once complained. He was graceful about how he felt and never once sought pity. His resolve was firm that he would not feel as if life dealt him a tough card. He had a smile on his face and we had a long discussion punctuated by disagreements but it was all love from him.

His clarity always inspired me and in a way has translated into the way I relate with people.He loved God and just wanted to be right in His pocket on all matters.

I'm sure he got a big High 5 from when he got to heaven. Rest well Cousin.
October 24, 2016
October 24, 2016
Okey was my coursemate at LBS EMBA12. We actually sat next to each other for the entire 18 months duration of the course. All through the course, i had thought Okey's condition was something he had battled with all his life. He unapologetically went about his business with so much dignity and responsibility that it's hard to believe he was diagnosed a couple of years before we met. An exceptional guy, brilliant, hard working, pious,dedicated and of high conviction, I truly salute his memory and believe that he was a rare gift to us to savour for a moment.
Rest well Okey. You were a star and you truly belong to the heavens. Adieu brother.
October 24, 2016
October 24, 2016
You lived for God. You died in The Lord. God's Peace on your soul. Amen. God console your loved ones.
October 20, 2016
October 20, 2016
Enyinna, the last three months (August-October 2016) of your life we became very close. That was a moment I knew you most; I held off expressing myself especially about your transition, but now I need closure. I still recollect my first phone call to you - you were so excited to hear from me after 18 years. While I asked you about your health, you were more interested in my welfare, life, and my job. We had chats on WhatsApp 2-3ce a week. I remember our phone conversations in August and September. I still remember your responses anytime I asked for your treatment (chemo and radiation sessions). Even when our classmates proposed to visit you in Enugu, you politely declined rather you asked for our prayers. As I go through our chats…. your “Thanks” at the end of each conversation amazes me.

Enyinna, I remembered all like yesterday. Even until the last Saturday of your passing when I spoke with you, you said you were frail, but I should remember you in prayer. Whenever I sent you a message, you always responded within 24 hrs. On Monday, October 10th, I sent you a message, and I expected a response as usual; my inner mind told me you had passed but kept waiting for your reply. On Tuesday night, I got the message on the Elect/Elect WhatsApp group of you passing. Okey, I know you are in a better place. No more Pain! No more Surgeries!! No more Chemo and Radiation!!!

Above all, GOODNIGHT Okechukwu Enyinna.
October 19, 2016
October 19, 2016
I have known you as a committed, persevering and cheerful person since your days of 1984 in Helmbridge Junior Boys Club, 6 Census Close, Surulere Lagos! Particularly so in those catechism classes while preparing you people for your First Holy Communion! Little did I know the Lord will call you to Himself so soon! May you rest in perfect peace!
October 19, 2016
October 19, 2016
Okey was first my student in the Executive MBA and a LBS colleague, then he joined the faculty of the undergraduate programme of PAU. He struck me by his insights into human nature, his fortitude (he never complained), his simplicity (he never wanted special treatment) and his spirit of service (he made himself available, ready to do anything that was needed). I am sure he went straight to heaven and I am taking him as an intercessor on matters related to PAU students.
October 15, 2016
October 15, 2016
Okey, I drove past Iroto a few days ago and I remembered the time we spent together working as volunteers for the medical team that visited Ijebu Iloti. You loved the work of God with all your heart and never allowed earthly pursuits to get in the way of your relationship with God. You never spoke first or forced your ideas on anyone but the values you stood for were never in doubt. Adieu Okey. See you in glory.
October 15, 2016
October 15, 2016
Eying was indeed a gentle spirit. May God grant him eternal rest
October 14, 2016
October 14, 2016
Eyinna, is a man I have known since my 1st day in UI. Going down memory lane, I do recall the 1st picture
October 14, 2016
October 14, 2016
It is very difficult to capture in black and white, the right words at times like now......

I'll always remember you as a man of faith. You diligently followed admirably, everything you believed in. This leaves me with the joy even at your untimely passing because I believe that you've always known to serve faithfully the Almighty God.
Journey home and well bro.......
October 14, 2016
October 14, 2016
Sleep on, beloved, sleep and take thy rest;
Lay down thy head upon thy Saviour’s breast;
We love thee well; but Jesus loves thee best
God-night! Good-night!! Good-night!!!

Only “Good night” beloved not “farewell”
A little while, and all His saints shall dwell,
In hallowed union, indivisible
God-night! Good-night!! Good-night!!!


Words cannot describe how I feel - A good heart has stopped beating, a good soul ascended to heaven.
Enyinna, we mourn because you left us but heaven is rejoicing for another soul has finally reached his true home.
A vacuum is created, no doubt, but the good Lord will grant your family the much-needed peace
Rest in the loving arms of the Lord till we reunite with you in eternity – Good Night!

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October 12, 2017
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Continue to rest with the Lord.
October 11, 2017
October 11, 2017
Okey mummy, how can I forget you? The consolation is that you are now free from all pains. You are now resting in the bosom of the Lord. Rest on till we meet again. Mum
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A Life that Shamed Death: "ThisDay" Publication

December 1, 2016

This article is culled from the Nigerian daily newspaper, “ThisDay” of 26th Nov. 2016 and may be accessed at the website: http://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2016/11/26/a-life-that-shamed-death-okechukwu-enyinna-1975-2016/

A Life that Shamed Death: Okechukwu Enyinna, 1975-2016

By Tunji Olaopa

Most deaths speak only about death, its loss and pain. This is the norm, since our corporal frames is attuned to react to the definitive departure with despair. Yet there are some passing on that despite not diminishing the loss yet is suffused with luminous hope that it shames death. Okechukwu Clarence Enyinna’s death on October 11, 2016, was a manifestation of the later.

Okechukwu, 41 years, was the first of six children born to Mr. and Mrs. Thaddeus Enyinna of Ezinihitte Local Government Area of Mbaise in Imo State. An alumnus of Kings College Lagos and the prestigious University of Ibadan, Okechukwu graduated with an honours degree in Electrical Engineering in 1999. He obtained a Masters degree in Business Administration from the Lagos Business School in 2009, M.Phil in 2015 and was due to defend his PhD in IESE (Business School of the University of Navarra, Spain) by the end of this year.

After graduating from the university, he worked at Socketworks Nigeria Limited, an information and computer technology company, rising to the post of Manager of Computer Software Engineering Services. He later worked as ICT Manager for Lagos Business School before being appointed to the post of Lecturer in Ethics at the Institute of Humanities of the Pan-Atlantic University, Lagos.

Yet it was not Okechukwu’s impressive resume that moulded the core of his existence. It was rather a long adventure with Love. Okey and his three siblings-Uzoma, Nnamdi  and Chima - started  taking part in activities in the Boys’ Club in Helmbridge since their primary school days. At Helmbridge, the three brothers stood out with their exemplary characters. Apart from excelling in academics, the three brothers also excelled in sports.  Uzoma was a master dribbler in the football field. His dribbling runs along the right flank to mesmerize the defenders and score a goal earned him the sobriquet “Tigana”, the name of the then French national team player.  In the field of play, Okey was a defensive midfielder. He knew how to gracefully stop the ball so that the aggressive strikers would not score a goal.  After participating in Helmbridge activities for a long time, Okey decided to become a Numerary member of Opus Dei, a Personal Prelature of the Catholic Church, on 21st August 1990. Incidentally at that time he was a student of Kings College. He therefore lived 26 years of silent, hidden and exclusive dedication to his vocation. With his unfailing apostolic zeal, he brought many of his friends, professional colleagues and acquaintances closer to God.

 The dispatch rider rode in fury to spread pain and loss but must have been obviously disappointed on finding one who had prepared long for this event. Okey had suffered a degenerative illness since 1998. Earlier this year he was diagnosed with a terminal cancer.  He received the cancer sad news with resignation to the Will of God. He never complained.

As I walked into his hospital room, the respirator blinking with multi-coloured lights, Okey looked up with that trademark smile and serenity of his. He was reading a journal article on his laptop, which had a picture of the Madonna displayed at the corner of the screen. It might seem ordinary but I doubt if I will have such frame of mind to continue studying in the midst of an impending journey to the other side. Although his strength was ebbing away, rather than crave for pity, he assured me of his prayer for my dad (who is yet to recover from an auto crash a year after).

On another occasion, Okey was consoling his parents. He was conscious of the searing pain they were going through on account of his condition. Yet he told them not to worry, that everything will turn out fine, “it will be fantastic.” His was an optimism that not even a terminal illness could stifle. 

Each of the few visits I made to his hospital room was like an existential peering into life.  There is no doubt that Okey bore his illness with Christian equanimity.  Throughout the period of his illness, he was always calm and serene even when it was obvious that he was experiencing pain and great discomfort. In his clutches he patiently and happily trudged along the pathway without soliciting for assistance. Okechukwu’s hospital bed was like a professorial rostrum that dispensed knowledge with such ineffable grace. Okey displayed a humility that was so natural that it can be easily missed and a radical courage for a world that that desires happiness without suffering. Till the very last, he was ever conscious of the need of others, and did not seek undue consolations. 

With somewhat facial expression, he welcomed all who came to visit him at the hospital.  His was a living faith, which drew strength from within, so much so that his bedside was above all, a cathedral of the redeeming power of the Cross. His last wish was to watch the “Passion of the Christ.”

Okechukwu Clarence Enyinna took the sting off death by his exemplary life. He danced in cadence of the ordinary to attain the extraordinary ecstasy of a deep union with God. Like His Master, whom he faithfully served, Okey showed that there can be a death that does not lead to despair. Okey’s death speaks life, the Life that commenced at death, a Life that destroyed death!   

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