Kpos
Continue to rest up yonder. RIP

It's been 3 years since you left to be with the Lord. Continue to rest in the Lord's bosom.

Happy heavenly Birthday uncle. Missing you so much❤️

It's been 2 years without your awesome presence. You are greatly loved and deeply missed.

It’s been 2 years you left us, continue to rest well

It’s been two years already. You are dearly missed. We still talk about you, think about you, miss your laughter, the relationships you kept and connections built nothing is the same. Always in our hearts. Rest in peace❤️

It’s been 2years now uncle. This still feels so unreal. I think about you everyday. I love you and i miss you so much.

You would have been 58 Today, I still cry for you continue to Rest in the lord my Darling Big Brother

It would have been your birthday today. You left a vacuum that will always be felt, your laughter, your way with people, your boisterous personality.
We miss you always and forever. Continue to Rest In Peace.

It`s your birthday. Continue to Rest in the Lord`s bosom.

Happy birthday bro, continue to rest well

Okpos it’s a year today you left us to eternal glory. You are terribly solely missed by your friends, family and loved ones. May your soul continue to rest in eternal peace ✝️.

Hello Okpora, it's exactly 1 year today since you went to be with the Lord. It still does hurt like it just happened. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord. You live in our hearts and on our minds forever.

Dearest Big Brother,
It's been one year without you, I try to stay positive because it's what you would have wanted but it's hard, really hard, I still cry for you, The pain of your demise can't be described.
Continue to Rest in the lord

It’s been one year uncle. Still thinking about you everyday. I miss you so much and i love you so much, always and forever.

Happy Birthday in Heaven with the Angels. May your soul continue to rest in eternal peace.

I loved you like my Brother, you were always down to earth, you spoke to me always like we were compeers, you were an exceptionally confident person, it's sad to see you leave us but I know you will continually live in the Hearts of those you touched. May your Soul rest in perpetual peace my big brother.

A tribute by Mary Oyibocha-Agbajoh Esq

“It only just done on me today that Okpora was truly gone...
He was not just an exciting & cheerful being Okpora was the Connecting-Link of his family just as he was the Life of the Party,
You can never know which gate he belonged in the Oghene Family Clan cos Okpora was close to every one equally,
I remember his days in Yaba house, with his sisters, Okpora was always in high spirit “vibing” with his league of friends in his own corner...
Okpora was Life everywhere he went, With that smile & signature voice he was adorable to have as a friend & brother...

Even in death Okpora remains a rallying point for family & friends...”

ADIEU!
OKPORA OGHENE

Mary Oyibocha-Agbajoh Esq,

TRIBUTE TO OKPALEFE CHRIS OGHENE

FRIENDS, LOVED ONES AND FAMILY.

IT IS AN HONOUR AND PRIVILEDGE FOR ME TO PAY TRIBUTE TO A VERY SPECIAL PERSON, MY YOUNGER BROTHER OKPALEFE CHRIS OGHENE.

MY NAME IS OMONEFE JEFFERY OGHENE.

OKPALEFE WAS REMARKABLE IN SO MANY WAYS. HE LIVED HIS LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND TOUCHED SO MANY PEOPLE DURING HIS TIME WITH US, IS EVIDENT BY THE NUMBER OF CONDOLENCE MESSAGES RECEIVED BY US.

AS I REACHED OUT FOR WORDS TO EXPRESS MY THOUGHTS ABOUT MY BROTHER OKPALEFE, I REMEMBERED THE MANY VALUED AND MEANINGFUL ROLES OKPALEFE PLAYED THROUGHOUT HIS LIFE.

FIRST AND FOREMOST, I SEE HIM AS A FAMILY MAN. HE LOVED HIS FAMILY PROFOUNDLY. HE WAS A DEVOTED HUSBAND/FATHER/UNCLE/BROTHER AND FRIEND. LOOKING BACK, HE WAS ALWAYS A FAMILY MAN.

OKPALEFE TOOK ALL THE ROLES IN HIS LIFE TO HEART AND HE STROVE TO HONOUR, SUPPORT, GUIDE AND MOST IMPORTANTLY PROTECT HIS FAMILY. HE WAS AT HIS HAPPIEST WHEN HE WAS SURROUNDED BY HIS FRIENDS WHO WERE AN EXTENSION OF HIS FAMILY.

OKPALEFE WAS A GOOD FRIEND TO MANY!

HE COUND BE COUNTED ON AND DEPENDED ON ALWAYS. WHETHER YOU NEEDED SIMPLE ADVICE, AN EMPATHETIC EAR, A SHOULDER TO LEAN ON; TRAVEL COMPANION; IF ALL YOU WANTED WAS TO PASS TIME GISTING, DRINKING AND PARTYING - HE WAS THE MAN; READY, STEADFAST, WILLING AND GOOD FUN.

AS I WRITE THIS TRIBUTE, I KNOW MANY FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS TOO WILL MISS THE FRIENDSHIP THAT OKPALEFE BROUGHT INTO OUR LIVES. I AM SURE YOU WILL ALL REMEMBER HIM IN YOUR OWN VERY SPECIAL WAY.

AS I CONTINUE TO TURN THE PAGES IN OKPALEFE`S LIFE, I SEE OKPALEFE, A MAN DEFIANT AND UNWILLING TO SETTLE FOR LESS. HE LIVED A PRINCIPLED LIFE UNDERPINNED BY A STRONG SENSE OF RIGHT AND WRONG.

OKPALEFE WAS NOT A CRUEL MAN AND HE WANTED TO GIVE HIS CHILDREN THE EDUCATION THAT WOULD CULTIVATE THE SPIRIT OF FAIRNESS AND OF ADVENTURE IN THEM. HE SPOKE OUT WHEN IT REALLY COUNTED; HIS STRONG PRINCIPLES DID NOT ALLOW HIM TO LET SOMETHING WRONG STAND UNCHALLENGED. OKPALEFE CARED ENOUGH TO ACT - TO FOLLOW THROUGH. HE NEVER LET ANYONE OR ANYTHING STAND IN THE WAY OF MAKING THINGS RIGHT. WE CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW MUCH MORE HE COULD HAVE ACCOMPLISHED IN HIS LIFE WERE IT NOT FOR HIS ILLNESS.

AS I TURN THE PAGE AGAIN, I COME FACE TO FACE WITH OKPALEFE, A MAN OF PASSION AND A DEDICATED SUPPORTER. HE REMAINED A KEEN ARSENAL FOOTBALL CLUB SUPPORTER AND LOVED SPORTS GENERALLY.

I AM SO SAD THAT I WAS NOT ABLE TO COME TO SPEND SOMETIME WITH HIM WHEN HE WAS IN HOSPITAL. WE TALKED ON THE PHONE AND HE WAS CONFIDENT OF BEATING THE CANCER. HE WAS ALREADY MORE RELIGIOUS THAN HE HAD EVER BEEN AND WAS PLANNING TO DEDICATE HIS LIFE TO HIS TWO YOUNG BOYS.

OKPALEFE, BROTHER, IT IS VERY HARD TO SAY GOODBYE SO WE WILL JUST SAY... SO LONG! THE PAGES OF YOUR BOOK WILL NEVER BE CLOSED.

WE WILL REMEMBER YOU THROUGH THE MANY PEOPLE STILL LEFT BEHIND WHOSE LIVES YOU TOUCHED SO POSITIVELY. YOU MAY NOT REALIZE IT, BUT YOU LEAVE AN AMAZING LEGACY BEHIND, TWO HANDSOME AND BRILLIANT BOYS. THEY ARE YOUR LEGACY! THROUGH THEM YOU LEAVE THIS WORLD A BETTER PLACE THAN YOU FOUND IT AND FOR THAT YOU HAVE TO BE VERY PROUD.

OKPALEFE, BROTHER, WE WILL MISS YOU, BUT WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU WITH RESPECT, ADMIRATION, AND LOVE, ALWAYS, ALWAYS!


OMONEFE JEFFERY OGHENE

MARCH 1, 2021.

Uncle Chris,

I don't know how to start this, I'm still confused. You were bigger than life, even during the chemo, battling cancer you were the joy of any Room you were in and laughed and carried on as if nothing was going on. You'd lost weight but still somehow looked healthy, not someone on chemotherapy, the smile intact, the voice still there and completed with your wit and humour.

I'm so thankful for seeing you then, for the fun times during my teenage years in yaba where you always looked out for me and the last few times we saw each other ,I hadn't seen you in years and we just took off like we'd only been away for a few weeks. Giggling , meeting your friends and having a great time just catching up.

I can still see your smile now.

I know you're in a better place but still it hurts that you're not here saying hey my Nephew what's going on?

Love you, rest in eternal Paradise where no doubt you're smiling with the Lord above.

Okpora my brother, I can't believe you are gone. It is so painful. You left without saying goodbye.

Okpora Chris Oghene, you had a lot of love in you. You loved unconditionally. Your world revolved around your wife and children. You loved your siblings, nephews and nieces. You were a brother that never differentiated among your siblings. You were a good friend to your friends; so full of love and laughter and no time for malice. The pain we all feel having lost you is testament to this.

I remember the last time I came to Warri; you, Onome and the children stayed with me in the hotel till I left Warri, we had such a great time together.

I thank God for your life. You lived a good life. You got married and had two beautiful children. You were such a hands on father and you and Onome did everything together especially concerning the children. You worried that your children are young but, by God's Grace, your wife and children will never lack. I promise to do my bit to support them.

I miss you and will forever carry you in my heart. Though gone I will never forget you.
Rest in perfect peace my beloved brother Okpora Chris Oghene.

Love,
Your sister.

Debbie Oghene

TRIBUTE BY UDU IDEH

Chris Okpora Oghene

A Painful loss

I came to know you through your sisters especially Omojevwe, since then it seemed to me that what was in your heart reflected on your face. That constant smile exudes cheerfulness, confidence, and happiness.

You meant different things to everyone who came in contact with you.

To me, you had time for everyone and were naturally blessed with the extraordinary qualities of being very realistic with no airs, witty, easily approachable, reaching out, highly interactive, and constantly beaming with smiles.

The last time I saw you was about 3 years ago during my dad`s birthday party. In your usual way, you practically dragged me to meet your lovely wife and introduced her to me. I also noticed that you were a caring husband, ensuring that your wife was well taken care of.

A selfless, dependable, and reliable person, always on the ground, taking charge and executing plans successfully on family occasions.

As a friend of the family, I know they have really lost a rare gem.

Sleep peacefully

Grant him eternal rest, oh Lord! And let thy perpetual light shine upon him.

Adieu, Okpora.

- Udu Ideh

Chris was a rare gem. He made life look so simple and he lived it well. I am forever grateful to God for bringing such a soul into my life. May he rest well. I will miss Him dearly. Rest well my friend.

TRIBUTE BY BRODERICKS UVIE ARIGBODI

To My Friend & Brother Okporualefe Chris Oghene

Okporualefe in Urhobo language means A Big Family is Greater Than/More Than Wealth.
Okporua in his lifetime lived up to the true meaning of his name. Once our paths crossed, he became a friend and brother. He easily & without efforts extended the relationship we had with my parents, siblings, wife & children.
Okporua had a special relationship with everyone he came in contact with & would go the extra mile to nurture & grow these relationships. He would always look for ways to bring his friends together. A
great giver, he gave his time to his friends and was always available to identify with & support his friends. He sacrificed both his time & resources available to him to support his friends & ensure they were happy.
Always happy & proud to identify himself as an Urhobo Man even though he was Cosmopolitan, I recall he would not fail to emphasize that he was from Ogoname- a village within the Agbarho axis.
Okporua loved his wife & children, very fond of them. I recall that even while undergoing treatment to address his health challenges, he ensured that his children came down from Warri to be with him.
Okporua loved life. He was always neatly dressed & generally had a good dress sense
At 57, Okporua lived an eventful life & ensured that he made a positive impact in the life of everyone he came in contact with
May Okporua’s Soul Rest In The Bossom Of The Lord. Amen

Brodericks Uvie Arigbodi

An Encomium to a Worthy Brother

Bros Okpora Chris Oghene.

Words aren't always enough when I enormously remember our times together Bros, you always address me to anyone around you as your blood brother and amazingly you acted a brother to me all along your lifetime and even on your sick bed, you were much concern about the well-being of my health.

Of Okpora Chris Oghene, I can truly say "there goes a man dedicated to the service of his fellow man and his home town with malice towards none and goodwill to all"

Adieu Bros.... Death doesn't know how to kill. You will forever remain in our heart.

Your Brother
Chief Mark Adigbo

TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER OKPORUALEFE CHRISTOPHER. A. OGHENE

My Darling Big Brother,My brother whom I cannot fault, my brother with a heart of Gold, my brother whom I can call at anytime, whom I can share my worries with, my ideas with, my big brother who was my biggest supporter, my brother who makes me feel like the most beautiful and perfect sister in the world(when he calls out my name BARBS) my brother who Is always happy and proud to introduce me as his little sister whenever and wherever, my brother who can't keep malice with anyone no matter what, who tries to reach out to you even when you're mad at him,Every family has that one person who brings everyone together and Okporua was that person in our family, he loved everyone, showed everyone around him love and care, he was always around whenever we had an Akpofure or Adigbo event, he felt pain when I was pained,I remember how exited he was when I visited him at the hospital, "Oh See my sister oooo, Abeg I go call you back" (he told the person he was on the phone with) my darling sister is here, we had a great laugh and he said he was craving for mama putt's Beans and dodo and I had to go get it for him but as usual his ever protective self asked me to leave because it was getting late, this pain is too much, Even on his sick bed he still made sure he called his Neice(Diana) on the 31st of January 2021 and sang a birthday song for her, we are heart broken, who is going to call out "See Diana" oh Dear lord,this pain is too much, I had the best big brother ever, I knew how much love you had for me right from when I was a little girl, you never changed your love for me and that same love you showed to my daughter(your niece) You were an excellent uncle, God bless your soul,
You loved your family so much, your wife Onome , chovwe and Toba were your world and you were everything and more to both Onome and your lovely sons, I pray that the Almighty Lord will comfort your wife and kids, yes, we are hurting but we know that you are smiling down at us because you are in a better place now, I'll never forget you, I'll never forget your love, I'll never forget all our happy times, words failed me, I'm still in shock but I know that because God loves you more, he chose to end your chapter here on earth to begin a new one in his kingdom, Rest on Big Brother

Your sister
Erieyovwe Barbara Oghene-Ruha

Chris Oghene was a close friend to my husband Wale Atake. Pronouncing his name ‘Okpora’ always proved challenging to me at the beginning.

A friend of mine then in the University of Lagos, introduced me to Wale and Chris. I cannot remember Wale ever visiting me in the University of Ibadan without Chris by his side. Their friendship between them further led to my closeness to his entire family where every evening was spent at a pepper soup joint in yaba close to Chris’s abode at the time.

Once you became close to Chris you automatically became part and parcel of the Oghene family.

Chris was an ardent supporter of Arsenal. While my husband, as they say, was a diehard Man United fan. Therefore, it was not uncommon to witness heated Arsenal and Man United arguments between them especially during half time of any game.

I will surely miss the times I am called to intercede in their never-ending squabbles after a football game. Often, I will receive calls, as early as 5am from Chris complaining ‘Ewe your husband is not picking my calls because of very little argument we had over football’. I learnt early never to get involved in their issues because they always found a way of resolving their issues themselves.

It will be difficult to ever find a friend and brother like Chris again. Always so happy, so motivating, in good and bad times, always supportive of Wale and I.

He shall be sorely missed.

May God grant him eternal rest and bless him with his glory.

Mrs. Ewemade Atake

TRIBUTE TO OKPORUALEFE CHRISTOPHER ARAYUWA OGHENE – A PAINFUL EXIT

On Wednesday the 10th of February 2021, I received the news that the life of my friend, confidant and brother has been cut short. Obviously, I was shocked and saddened by the news. Like many, I had hoped and prayed that Okpora would recover fully, having battled cancer so bravely. Indeed, I had cause to be hopeful because when we last met in December, shortly before I travelled on vacation, he seemed to be recovering well and in good spirit. On my return from vacation, I was however shocked to hear that his health had deteriorated. We spoke over the phone on few occasions and we both remained hopeful that he would pull through. Sadly, this was not to be.

As some may know, I first met Okpora and his brother Ighofose during our primary school days. Ever since then our friendship grew in leaps and bounds. The bond between us became stronger after we found out that our parents were very close friends. My late dad would affectionately refer to Okpora’s dad as “O Vico!” each time they met. Okpora’s dad, was the most cosmopolitan Urhobo man I ever met. The fact that Okpora took after his father’s fashion sense would therefore have been obvious to Blind Barthemeus of the Biblical era.

Like all true friends, Okpora and I sometimes had our disagreements (and there were many). Even though I was two years older, Okpora was always the bigger person whenever we had such disagreements. Without a second thought he would always be the first to reach out to me, regardless of who was at fault (and I was mostly at fault). Okpora had such a forgiving spirit and was a kind soul. He was always that brother you could count on. He had a genuine spirit of sacrifice for his friends and loved ones, a trait that is rare to find these days.

Always with a smile on his face, Okpora was full of life, love, charm, and cheer. He was never a man to give his wicket away hence, he had a good innings. He lit up any room he entered with so much positivity, humour, and an infectious energy. It is ironic that someone so full of life is now no more with us. It is indeed true that the good people among us are taken away too soon. Perhaps these beautiful souls adorn the gardens of heaven, away from the harsh realities of our world, where they suffer no more pain and hurt.

Although his time with us could be regarded by many as brief, Okpora’s life was surely eventful and impactful. He gave his time and resources generously, loved unconditionally, and lived his life to the fullest and on his own terms. Like Saint Nicholas, he was a lover of children and was very endearing to them. It is heart-breaking that now that he has children of his own, they would not fully experience what a wonderful person their father was. I pray that their memory of him will always be for good and that our Good Lord bring comfort to his lovely wife Onome, and the rest of his family in these difficult times.

Even as I mourn the loss of my dear friend and brother, I can proudly say it was a privilege to have crossed paths with him and I enjoin everyone to celebrate his life and memory. He has played his part on earth; a life well lived and has returned to his maker.

Till we meet again on the resurrection morning, sleep well and goodnight my bro!!!

ADEWALE ATAKE, SAN

Dear Okpora, it is with great sadness to hear that you passed. You fought hard to stay alive. It is quite surreal, I always believed you were going to be okay, but you answered God’s call.

It is so sad that I can’t hear your loud voice call “Yievu how nah?” “How your children?” “That’s my sister!” Okpora you were full of life and there was never a dull moment with you. You were a great guy and always the life of a gathering. You had such an awesome personality as people naturally gravitated towards you.

My husband loved you like a brother and when you guys first met, it just became a natural friendship.

You were a great father. Whenever we spoke, you always talked about your boys and if they were with you, you would say, “ Chowve and Toba come talk to your Aunty in Canada”, you were a great brother, uncle, friend and husband.

You will be greatly missed and your impact on us will never be forgotten. May you find rest in the hands of the Lord.
Your sister,
Yievu

TRIBUTE BY ADETUTU WILLIAMS

To my Uncle Chris


Uncle Chris, Uncle Chris…

It feels like only yesterday I was home from college for Christmas and I saw you, so full of life and full of energy.

Usually not a morning person, I would wake up every morning around 5 am because you would wake up every morning around 5 am. As I heard his boisterous voice chatting and laughing on the phone for hours, I would think to myself, “how is uncle Chris already so awake at this time and I can barely keep my eyes open!?”

You told me stories of how I used to be your “little friend” and how you would drive me around Lagos in my mum’s old Honda. You spoke of your sons with such pride and joy and told me how you couldn’t wait to see them grow. In fact, I remember how excited you were that your family were coming to Lagos for Christmas; you made sure everything was perfect for them, even down to ensuring that the fridge was well stocked with your sons’ favourite sausages.

You fought so bravely that even living under the same roof, I never knew the true extent of your pain. I can only take solace in the fact that now, you feel pain no more.

A devoted father, husband, brother, uncle, and friend, you will be sorely missed dear uncle Chris. Gone too soon, but the Good Lord knows best. Sun re o, sweet uncle, sun re o.

Love,

Tutu, your niece

TRIBUTE BY YOMI ADELOYE

Uncle Okpos, as I fondly called you, your journey to the great beyond took me by shock, but as they say, who are we to question God.
I have very fond memories of you, from when you used to visit early mornings, to those Christmas parties at Godwin Okigbo. I also remember those times you promised me Ralph Lauren shirts and would always ensure you came into town with 1 or 2 shirts, making me look fly back then in school.
I just cannot imagine not having you around again, forever!!! Whenever I remember the memories and the fact that I will not see you again, chills run through me.
Who will fill your role? Obviously, no one.
Sleep well, till we meet to part no more.
Yomi Adeloye (your nephew).

TRIBUTE BY IGHOFOSE OGHENE

To my brother Okporalefe Oghene


There are no words great enough to explain the importance you had in my life not only as a brother but as my best friend, and for me, the day you left was the saddest one of all.

As children, we shared many memories together.

From nursery to boarding school, I remember how we used to laugh at the smallest of things. How we would joke, fight, play and cry. Though everything we did we always did together. Now, I cherish every memory and always smile when I look back. For you, Okporalefe were, through the Grace of God, my brother by chance but my greatest friend by choice and that is a bond that is unbreakable.

As we grew older, I remember how our bond strengthened. We told each other everything. All of our secrets, dreams, and goals. We would spend hours talking to each other; conversations about family, clothes, and music. The love we shared and the similarities we had were remarkable however you as a person were even greater. For the man you became was so kind and generous. All qualities with such rarity that there will forever be an empty space in our hearts.

However, God has called you home and you are in a better place now. I am forever grateful that he gave us you as our brother here on earth. I love you.

May your vibrant soul Rest in Perfect Peace.

Your brother - Ighofose

TRIBUTE BY KOFO ADELOYE

To my Uncle Okpos


My uncle Okpos was my mother's youngest brother. He was everything, a good father, a wonderful husband, and a loving uncle, and a great friend. Death is inevitable. God saw that you fought this battle, and he took you in his time. I will miss you and would cherish all the times we had together. I can proudly say that I am fortunate I had you as my uncle.
Continue to rest in peace uncle Okpos.

Your niece. Kofs baby as u always called me.

TRIBUTE BY FRANCES OMOJEVWE OGHENE

Okpora was my older brother. Although we did not see regularly as he lived in Warri and I in Lagos, we were only a phone call apart. These calls were short as he did not really care for long telephone conversations.

Okpora was so sociable with a collection of friends from many parts of the country. As a result of these friendships, he knew many states in the country as he traveled to these states in support of his friends.

When you informed us about your illness, we rejected it in God’s name, but were prepared to stand by you and with you to beat it. We did everything humanly possible- I remember all the sleepless nights spent collecting new information on how to beat your illness and sharing it with you. I became the go-to for all possible treatments- from CBD oil to Sour Sop tea, fruit, garden egg leaves, etc.

I am still struggling to come to terms with the fact that you are gone! How can this be true!! We spent Christmas and New Year with you, Onome, your two boys- Chovwe, Toba, and our brother, Tarhe. We all had a wonderful time.

When I read your message on 2nd January that you were on your way to Warri for a few days, my heart sank as something inside of me told me that you should not have gone on that journey and that you also knew that……

I can still hear you singing the song “We lift God’s name higher” during our prayer sessions in the hospital.

I am so sad as we wanted you to live so badly, but God knows best.

You will be sorely missed. Rest in the bosom of Our Lord Jesus Christ my beloved brother.

Your sister,

Frances Omojevwe Oghene

TRIBUTE BY EDIRIN AFOLABI

Okpora my beloved brother, it was nothing but a total disbelief and sudden shock when I received the news of your passing. Well, The Almighty and Unquestionable God, knows best; He gives and takes as He pleases.

Wednesday 10 February 2021 was really a sad day for all who knew Chris Okpora Oghene; his passing was one too much to bear. There is no doubt that he was a people's man; nice, jovial, sociable, and never a dull moment with him. He will forever be missed; I pray he finds rest and everlasting peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Okpora, continue to sleep the good sleep in the watchful eyes of The Almighty God.

Goodnight (Adieu) my dear beloved brother. May the Lord God comfort us all and his sons be blessed at all times; Amen!

Your sister


Edirin AFOLABI

TRIBUTE BY JIFE WILLIAMS


Okpora, fondly called Okpalefe by our dad, was unique in many ways.

Speaking to him was always easy. I can’t recall ever having an argument with him; he would always say, “Jife, you know I no get problem!” and that statement couldn’t be truer! Every time we spoke on the phone, he would answer in a cheery tone asking, “Jife! How na?”; his upbeat optimism contagious to all who knew him.

You see, Okpora had a special knack for getting along with everyone he crossed paths with; his relaxed and casual style made him easy to get along with. The very young and old were comfortable with him and it is no wonder he had numerous and diverse friends. Each time I called him, he was either with a friend or going to meet a friend and I was always in awe by how he managed to know and to get along with so many people.

I watched with surprise and pride how he made everyone, from his healthcare providers to the support staff, comfortable in his company. I was even more amazed when he recently, in his usual fashion, introduced himself to my Parish priest at the end of a Sunday Mass before I had the chance to introduce them. I had already told my Priest about him and he was happy they connected as they struck up a long conversation. That was Okpora for you- friendly and fearless!

Okpora was courageous, strong, and full of energy. He was always on the move, even as he took his treatment. In the last months he spent with me in Lagos, I wondered how he managed to stay so upbeat, crisscrossing the chaotic streets of Lagos despite my attempts to slow him down. It dawned on me that he thrived on been on the move, and so he was until the very end.

He fought his illness with determination, strength, and grace. Okpora was full of life and wanted to live so badly. We wanted him to live so desperately. At quiet times, he would remind me about his young family- his two boys -Chovwe and Toba, whom he loved so much, and his lovely wife aka “baby”. I would usually hear him very early in the mornings talking to them as they got ready for school and saw how he would do anything for his family.

Okpora, I pray that Chovwe and Toba grow up to achieve your dreams for them. I pray that Onome is able to find comfort in the bosom of the Lord. We prayed and hoped for divine healing, but in the end, we resign ourselves to our Faith that teaches us that Our Lord has the final say! He is the king of kings and Lord of Lords!

May Our Lord who knows the beginning and the end, have mercy on you and grant you eternal rest, Amen. Adieu, Okpora as you Rest in perfect Peace.

Your sister,


Jife

Okposbaba!!! There is no boring time with you, you were a good man, very caring, full of life, bubbling, very sociable and popular too. Thank you for the time we spent together, I remember with fond memories the parties, the travels, the laughs, the good times, the ups and the downs, the fights we had, The love we shared. Okposbaba I love you my Brother, if only I had told you more often. You will be greatly missed my Brother.
You will forever live in my heart. Rest In Perfect Peace Brother.

Edoja G. Odibo Snr.

Okpos.!!! . My Okpooossss Beleke.. Today , heaven is celebrating the entrance of good hearted man , a happy camper , a generous man, and a truely devoted friend. The radio was playing our song and I was doing our shoulder dance to that song ... just before I got the call you passed .. I screamed Okpos Beleke! Why? right then I knew you were in Peace, happy and dancing to heaven. Acuna Matata ! Part of the circle of life !...you came , you saw and won Big time! whenever your story is being told it will be that you did not have an oil well but whatever you had you shared and touched everyone beautifully!.. Your generosity is second to None.. I pray the almighty God Comfort your family and trust me Bro your memory is great in my heart and i shall never forget all the fun we shared ! Until we see to depart no more , May your loving soul Rest in perfect Peace. Adieu!

My heart is heavy as I write this tribute and words cannot describe this difficult moment. He touched so many lives by his selfless and countless acts of kindness, always giving and never expecting any favours in return.
Since he passed away, things have not been the same.We didn’t get to say goodbye, but now all we can do is cry and remember the memories we made. I remember, when ever i would talk to him and he was always energetic, he would speak so fast and his words were sometimes hard to understand, but it was always very nice talking to him. He was loud, outgoing and the life of the party. There was never a dull moment when he was around. He might not be alive in human body but he is still alive in our hearts. Death has robbed us our best, but it has not extinguished the light. The fire will continue burning forever.
Rest in paradise Uncle.
Love,
Sarah your niece

Death, be not proud


Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
For those whom thou think’st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul’s delivery.
Thou art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell’st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally
And death shall be no more; Death, thou
shalt die.

- John Donne.


Kpora has conquered death.

Rest on Big Bro.

Tribute to my brother, Okpora.

Where do I even start? I`m yet to fully process what has just befallen us. This feels surreal, like a terrible nightmare!
"Okotie", as you would fondly call me. I can still hear your voice.
Death has never come this close, not even with daddy`s passing many years ago. You were a big part of my life. Whenever I was with you and everywhere we went together, you would always introduce me to your friends and everyone that was around you. All of my close friends knew who Okpora was; Tarhe`s big brother. You always wanted me around you and there was never a dull moment whenever we were together. So lively, even when I was coming to see you at the hospital. You stayed strong in spite of the painful medical procedures. I prayed, and I was hopeful.
"How Paris", was the first text message you sent me when I was away. You always stayed in touch.
Okpora Oghene you lived life to the fullest. You eventually got married and had two beautiful children.
I take solace in the fact that you`re at peace and free from the pain.
To live in the hearts of those we love is not to die. A thousand words would not bring you back, I know this because I have tried; neither will all the tears, I know this because I`m still crying, still grieving.
Okpora Oghene, never to be forgotten. You are going to live in our hearts and in our minds forever.
Till we meet again, continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord.
Adieu, big brother.

GONE TOO SOON!

So many questions. Why did you go? Could you have fought a little harder?
Okpora was my big brother we didn’t see or talk too often it feels like it has been forever but the times that we did,he always had a way about him he could just pick up like no time had passed. When you come from a family as big as ours you definitely need a sibling like Okpora he could get along with any and every one and almost never held a grudge.
I remember how he will come to our house and announce his arrival even before he got to the door calling out our names very loudly, anyone who knew him knows he had a loud voice and spoke really fast sounded like he was excited and in a hurry. When he called your name his voice was always high pitched like he was “hailing” you, It was so funny.
When I first introduced my now husband to him he quickly took to him and he soon started calling him by his middle name always so loudly and fondly like he had known him for ages. I found it so hilarious how he never called his name once he will call out repeatedly KESTER! KESTER! KESTER!each time with a smile before finally asking how nah?
He teased me a lot after I had my daughter like baby sister now had a baby whenever he saw the kids he never failed to tickle,giggle and make them laugh he was so good with kids I am so glad he got to have his boys howbeit for a short time and so sad that he wouldn’t be here to watch them grow, I hope they are reminded how much he loved them.
Life gives us no warning, reminding us that the pleasures of this earth are fleeting. It is my prayer that you are at peace and in a better place. You will be greatly missed brother, our family will never be the same we will cherish our memories of you.
Rest peacefully. Forever in our hearts.

Your sister,
Esse

Tribute by Ogbonnaya Onuoha Agbaeze
Met Kpora through my Late Cousin Victor Abaeze over 25 years ago. Kpora was more of a Brother than a Friend, for he was comfortable in my Village, Item in Abia State and made friends with a lot of people from my Place.
Kpora was always there for his Friends and will always be at any occasion connected to his pals even if it meant spending days out of his base or making long journeys to be there.
Will really miss your wise words to me especially whenever I am going through tough or emotional times. Goodbye my Friend, my Arsenal Brother. May your Soul Rest In Lord.

Okpozue cannot believe you have passed onto eternal glory. May the almighty give your wife, children, loved ones and entire family the strength and fortitude to bear this loss. I’ll forever remember the fun times we all had during our time in London. May your soul rest in eternal peace. RIP ✝️

A Tribute by Gborokins.

Okpora Chris Oghene.... A death too many

My UCE Senior Barrister Eterhisan Oputu described Kpora as he is fondly called as - effervescent and ebullient and I can't agree less. Kpora was so so full of life and will never be caught worrying about tomorrow.

Kpora is a people's man. Nice, jovial, neat, social, vivacious and intelligent. If you are close to Kpora, you will agree with me that he is indeed a brainpower. Kpora knows something about everything. From geography to pure science, humanities to politics and places, our man can never disappoint you. Tell him to name the Newcastle team that almost won the EPL in 1995/96 season for example and you will be shocked.

One cool Sunday evening over room temperature glasses of wine, I wanted to test Kpora's acclaimed intelligence by his close friends and I asked him about Scandinavian countries but before I could add a jack, he was telling me the cultural, linguistics and historical ties that linked Sweden, Denmark and Norway together. Mr Kpora was fun to be with. His knowledge of world history is legendary. He remembers events with accurate dates.

He was of a privileged background who entered our great citadel of learning - Urhobo College Effurun at age 9. After UCE he went to the United Kingdom where he willingly hosted warri boys visiting London. On one occasion, about 7 years ago, I asked him how it was working in London. Kpora pulled his designers glasses from his eyes and touched me lightly saying the following words.... 'Gborokins, I nor ever work for London. I dey get funds from home steady. Infact na me dey sort people out'.

Kpora was never a proud person despite his cool background. He detest imperious people and will never give an undue credence to a rich or privileged person. He will not fail to tell anyone that smart intelligent people don't necessarily make money in life. It's Grace he would emphasize.

I remember an encounter with him in 1990 in broad Street Lagos as I was searching for job opportunities after NYSC. Kpora was well dressed in a sharp trendy complete suit. I was so proud and happy to be around him. I told him he has arrived and he laughed.....

'Gborokins, nothing o. This Lagos is unnecessary false life. It's just packaging. You better pass many people you see with heavy suits'. He gave me lunch money which was his last dough in his wallet and removed the tie on his neck and gave it to me. 'Guy when u go any interview, wear white shirt with this Pierre Cardin tie and if the interviewer na guy man when know weti dey, you go get the job'.

Kpora has a unique way of giving anyone encouragement. He was never envious of anyone - infact he will sing praises of anyone that is doing great. But there was a caveat - never attempt being over bearing. He will tear you apart with words.

Kpora is a man around town and knows every big happening guy. If kpora does not know you, it means you are not a near top person.
Kpora is very sociable with a special dress sense. Be it t-shirts, trousers, shorts, shoes, belts, wrist watches etc whatever he adorns, it should be a brand name. The Kpora I know will never compromise quality.

He did not marry early but never had any regrets. He loved and protected his beautiful wife the way you would want your son in-law to be. He adores his two sons unconditionally. Matter of factly, seeing Kpora with his sons in church, you would want to have children after 50 years. His boys were always well dressed in the best of garments. He enjoys lifting them in his broad shoulders. He loved the Catholic faith and was on several occasions member of annual harvest committee.

Kpora loves football and Arsenal fc was his favorite team. He was very passionate about Arsenal to a level where he stopped seeing their live games. Ask him why and he will quickly tell you that he wants to live long. He likes to keep fit and will never skip his early morning brisk walk around Bendel Estate where he lived.

Kpora was a very generous person and will not hesitate to give a friend his last dime. He loves his alma mater - UCE and never stops recalling the good old secondary school days. He loved his friends and he was a man one can trust.

He started having health challenges late last year. He got the right treatment and we were all glad he was ok. He even flaunted his nice family recent photographs on social media and we were all happy for him. Sadly, yesterday, Wednesday mid week, news filtered in that our man could not make it. This is one death too many. May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.