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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Oladipo Oniwinde, 36, born on April 20, 1969 and passed away on October 22, 2005. Ten years ago, Bro. Dipo was snatched from us at the early age of 36, on the ill-fated Bellview Flight going from Lagos to Abuja.  Our consolation as a family is that he was with his soulmate, Nkiru Oniwinde, who was also on that flight. They left behind their 3 children who were ages 6, 4 and 18months old then. We truly miss you, Rest on in Heaven Bro, until we meet to part no more. We will remember him forever.

October 22, 2023
October 22, 2023
Time flies it is 18 years since you left this part of eternity but you are remembered still and I know the Good LORD whom You and Nkiru loved will continue to watch over your children enabling them to live lives that honour your memory.  From the days I knew You as my student at MBHS You already were displaying those Gentleman qualities that we remember and treasure.
Sun re o Oladipo omo Oniwinde.
October 22, 2023
October 22, 2023
I can't believe it's 18 years already. I still remember the positive changes you made in the bank through your work, innovative ideas, training, and most especially your guidance. You are forever missed. Continue to rest in peace Oga Dipo.
April 20, 2023
April 20, 2023
Thank you Rev. Jaiyesimi for the memories.
Happy 54th bro.
Continue singing with the Angels and watching over us all.
We miss and love you.
Give Nky a hug from us xxx
Words are not enough......
April 20, 2023
April 20, 2023
Dipo you would have been 54 today . You are not forgotten . I remember you saying to me in a playful way in your School days at MBHS Sir buy me a bottle of Crush to crush my thirst. The LORD will forever satisfy your children with good things and your memory and that of your dear wife Nkiru will continue to be an inspiration to us all not so much to count the days but to make the days count. Sun re o omo Oniwinde Baba Bolaji.
October 24, 2022
October 24, 2022
Always in our thoughts Bro Dipo and Aunty Nky. Keep resting peacefully
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
Dipo you are forever remembered Gentle, wise strong, intelligent and best of all a caring man who together with your dear wife Nkiru declined to sleep in Lagos so you could be with your children in Abuja on this day 17years ago.
We stand on the shoulders of giants and you, and Nkiru were giants.
You were both gentle giants and your children and all whom you loved and
loved you will continue to stand strong inspired by your legacy of love. The light of the love of our LORD JESUS that shined in your hearts will never grow dim.
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
Your legacy lives on. Continue to rest in peace Oga D.
April 20, 2022
April 20, 2022
Hmmmm....Rev. Jaiyesimi put it so well....you achieved so much in your 36years!
Happy 53rd bro!
Love and miss you in ways words cannot describe!
Rest on bro, rest on.....
April 20, 2022
April 20, 2022
Dipo you are forever cherished. Today you would have been 53 but then you
achieved so much in your short 36 years and your memory and what you lived and stood for continues to inspire us. Your life makes us want to live our lives better. May the LORD whom you loved and served continue to bless your family most abundantly. Truly the measure of a life is not how long but how well and Dipo you lived well.
November 23, 2021
November 23, 2021
It's been sixteen years, and strangely, I think of you sometimes with fond memories. We spoke on your way to Lagos for that fateful meeting, the plan was that we would have a detailed conversation when you return to Abuja - well, it was not to be. You are truly missed and I pray that the Lord will continue to protect and nurture your beautiful children.
sun re ore.
October 24, 2021
October 24, 2021
Continue to rest on Oga D.........forever missed.
October 23, 2021
October 23, 2021
I still can’t believe it you know. A little part of me is still hoping you will walk in and light up the room. Another year yesterday making it 16yrs. O ye olo’un.
April 20, 2021
April 20, 2021
April 20th your 52nd birthday. Oladipo you are not forgotten. The LORD will

continue to take care your son Bolaji and his siblings. Your life of loving

and faithful honest service will continue to be an inspiration to us all.

Sun re o my dear friend and ex- student.
April 20, 2021
April 20, 2021
Singing with the Angels....trust you had a heavenly birthday bro. Happy 52nd!
Love you forever ❤️❤️❤️❤️
October 23, 2020
October 23, 2020
Rest on bro ❤️
It is well with us.
Thank you for the love and the memories.
We love you and miss you immensely.
Rest on......
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
Oga Dipo, correct paddy. The kind of boss anyone would wish to have. You were smart, articulate, detailed, very organized, strict, but very kind. I remember when the news broke today, 15 years ago, my God, I couldn't comprehend. The whole office was in mourning; I remember for an entire week, no one did anything productive, and after that, the condolences kept pouring in. That's when it really sunk in that you were gone. I kept replaying the interactions we had; it was always easy to come to you when in a fix. You always understood. I still remember what you told my husband about me at our wedding, "she's a tough nut to crack" because of my wahala (laughs). He still teases me about that. I'm thankful to God your legacy leaves on through your children and siblings. Continue to rest in peace, oga Dipo. Forever in our hearts.
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
15yrs ago today, the news broke. I remember hitting the closest chair when I saw your names on the list. I remember the goose bumps that overwhelmed me before breaking down in tears. I remember calling Oyinda in the US who was inconsolable. Keep resting Bro Dipo and Aunty Nky. Your legacy lives in your blessed children
April 20, 2020
April 20, 2020
Happy 51st birthday bro, my Angel in Heaven.
Continue to rest in God’s bosom
Love you forever.
#ForeverinourHearts
April 20, 2019
April 20, 2019
Happy Heavenly Birthday Bro! How we miss you... I know it’s been a difficult period for us all just knowing that you would have been 50 today. It was most certainly difficult for me but I’m grateful to God all the same. Thank God for all the things we could get up to today in your memory. Thank God for Mum and Dad that keep going and going all to ensure that your babies are loved, cared for and equipped for the real world. They are really strong and I know it is your memory that keeps them going.
I don’t want to get too sad today. Keep resting in the bossom of the Lord. Kiss Aunty Nky for us. I love you.
April 20, 2019
April 20, 2019
Today the 8th of April was a difficult day for me. I cried for almost 2 hours thinking about you. So much has been going on in the world that triggered a lot of emotions but I had it all bottled in for about a month now... the Ethiopian airline crash, the death of a family member who was in his prime, and most recent, the killing of an American rapper who had a young family, was just getting recognized for all of his hard work and was loved by his community. Everyone of these incidents tore through my heart and made me miss you so much.
So in my usual mode of trying to prepare for the week and what we have planned for your birthday on that Saturday.... I call Lola Onajin to wish her a happy Birthday and invite her to the house on that Saturday... I start to open up to her a little about how the last month has been (I’ve stayed busy), and I didn’t realize when I burst into tears.
Planning your birthday brought me to tears, the memory of telling mum and Dad about Wonuola’s plans for your birthday, and how mummy started crying haunted me.... how Daddy couldn’t look at me as I spoke.... how Zeze wouldn’t be present on that day cos he has to be Off site... how I may have to explain to Laolu all by myself the significance of what we had planned for what would have been your 50th Birthday.
Oh how I cried... 14 years later and I’m crying like it just happened yday. Fela came over and wiped my tears whilst I was on the phone with Lola. After I hung up with her, It kept coming down because I missed you...I miss you... I miss Aunty Nky, and I know your babies miss you, mummy and Daddy miss you, Zeze, Sist Doyin and Sis Lape miss you
I felt overwhelmed with emotion, my chest was hurting, I had a headache... I felt like I was gonna pass out. I messaged Yomi immediately to tell him how I felt. I messaged Sist Doyin that I was stomped on how to include Laolu on your birthday.
I’m still sad... still teary eyed. It is because u r no longer with us that mum and Dad didn’t celebrate their 50th year wedding anniversary... all she remembers is that it was a few weeks before she became a Mother for the first time.
We all miss you so much... I miss you terribly. I can’t believe I have cried so much today...I want your birthday to be a beautiful day... I pray that It means something to Laolu. All I want is for them to know of you and the legacy you left behind.
For As long as there is breath in me, Bolaji, Wonuola and Laolu will be loved and cared for. All of your loved ones friends and family will carry on the great work that you started on them.
I love you bro.. I miss you so much it hurts. It is because of the hurt I feel that I know I want you forever in my heart. I will try and fall asleep now.
April 20, 2019
April 20, 2019
Dipo we would have been preparing for your 50th. In all things we say thank you Lord. You left behind three beautiful children who are carrying on greatly. I know you and Nkiru are super proud of them. You live on in them.
April 20, 2019
April 20, 2019
Praise God. Golden Jubilee celebration of MOTHERHOOD.
ALADE, GOD bless your soul. I will always love & cherish your memory.. Stay blessed.

The above is as written by Mummy.

My heart broke all over again reading this from her. I don’t know how she does it, how she stays so strong! But she does somehow, she does.

I’ve been in bed, crying.
I’d had plans (thanks to Wonuola) to release balloons today in celebration of your birthday, but then found out it’s a health hazard as balloons are not biodegradable. So I opted for butterflies instead, which I ordered well in time but sadly they are still yet to be delivered.
I am determined to release the butterflies in celebration of your golden jubilee even if it means postponing the release.

Your childhood pictures being dug out by Oyinda today, pictures of you with Bolaji, Wonuola and Laolu, pics of you with Nkiru, of you with the parents and us your siblings, you looking so alive in those pictures had me all knotted up inside and in tears!

Fourteen years later and it’s still so hard.....

Happy 50th birthday to my angel in heaven, we love you and will always miss you.
Your spirit and memory forever lives on in our hearts.
May God continue to comfort and guide all of us you left behind, till we meet to part no more....

Rest on bro

Love you to eternity.
October 24, 2018
October 24, 2018
Miss you terribly, love you even more, keep watching over us from up there...forever in our hearts.
October 22, 2018
October 22, 2018
Rest on bro, forever in our hearts xx
April 22, 2018
April 22, 2018
So 3 days ago, I was getting anxious and moody cause your birthday was coming up. But then, I remembered my promise from 2 years ago. So 2 days ago, I celebrated you... my mood was light all through that day. I ate so much ijekuje cos I thought, hey I'm celebrating my bro. Needless to say I miss you a lot. I thank God for giving me the most amazing big brother, for letting me know you, love you and always remember you. Miss you loads Bro Dipo, miss you.
April 20, 2018
April 20, 2018
Didun ni iranti olododo....sorely missed and forever in our hearts.
Have a heavenly birthday bro, singing with the angels
November 2, 2017
November 2, 2017
I didn't forget the 22nd...in fact I spoke to the folks much late at night...we've all found our coping mechanisms I think...which I'm glad for. You and Aunty Nky remain in our hearts always...thank you for being my big bro. I love you and miss you dearly.
April 20, 2017
April 20, 2017
DIpo .. keep on living forever in our cherished memories ...

Akinsola oloruko mi ... rest well ...
April 20, 2017
April 20, 2017
Hey big bro, today I got up, someone ruffled my feathers a little bit, but I didn't let her get to me. I kept my cool, and I'm handling this day with a smile and confidence, unlike some years back, when I would feel like I should be celebrating with you, and be crushed that I can't. Well, I am celebrating you today. I love you, and miss you, have a heavenly birthday Bro. Dipo.
January 28, 2017
January 28, 2017
I really wish you were here, they are doing it, and by God's awesome grace, Bolaji, Wonuola and Laolu will continue to excel. Your legacy will forever live on.
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
My Dear Friend - Dipo, I woke up this morning and your memories came so fresh in my mind. I remember in 1992-1993, how you would drive in your Volkswagen Santana car all the way from Agbara, pick me at Festac town and we both go to the office - PwC at Alaka Estate. I remember how we handled the audit of Evans Brothers Publishers - Ibadan, how we all crack jokes in the audit room at Alaka Estate with the likes of Tola Ogundipe, Tunji Olanipekun, Felix Egbon,Peter Amangbo, Elias Igbin-Akenzua, Osere Alakume, Udom Emmanuel and Osere Alakhume. I know you are resting with your wife. RIP My friend.
October 24, 2016
October 24, 2016
The memories are still very fresh
The pains are still very real, but you remain forever in our heart.
October 22, 2016
October 22, 2016
I think I struggle with this day...I think I am still in denial of it 11 years on...I remember it like yesterday...how the news was broken to me by a phone call from Fola- just updating me about news from naija....totally oblivious to the fact that I would know anyone on the said flight....I remember rushing her off the phone because I recalled Daddy mentioning as I saw him off to the airport the night before that you were also heading back to abuja from Lagos as he was leaving the UK...and then it all unfolded...Daddy didn't pick up his phone as i called fervently so I called abuja directly in the hope of speaking to Nkiru...oh how my world fell apart with those words from Onyinye..."my aunty follow uncle go lagos, we never hear from them."

We all miss you both sorely, I guess I can't stop asking why? But God knows best.

Till we meet to part no more egbon mi, continue to rest in the bosom of our eternal Father.

Love you forever xx
October 22, 2016
October 22, 2016
Am truly humbled at the significance of your short stay in this World.

I praise God for the way He helped your immediate family to deal with your passing including your wife's passing .

I praise your family for the way they have carried on your legacy .

I hope we will meet at the feet of Jesus .
October 22, 2016
October 22, 2016
Yesterday, Daddy, Bolaji and I went through albums of old pics, and Daddy kept saying that Aunty Nky did a good job of taking pics because we didn't really keep albums growing up. Me too, I'm glad we have all of these memories to look back on. Daddy misses you, he kept saying "he looks like me here" I just smiled. And Bolaji just wants to be like you... I kept smiling while trying to keep Fela from tampering with the pics. Yes, it's another 22nd, and I smile because I felt you close yesterday, and today I know that I am working towards the promises I made earlier this year on your birthday. I miss you Bro Dipo, we all miss you and Aunty Nky. Love you always
October 9, 2016
October 9, 2016
I wish I could just call you to say hi......ugggh. I'll say it anyway. Hi Bro, miss you loads.
April 20, 2016
April 20, 2016
Happy Birthday Bro Dipo! You are sorely missed. I miss you so much, we all miss you. This year, your birthday has been easier for me, 'cause I finally came to terms with some things. It finally dawned on me that it's time for me to step up. That within the short time you spent on this earth, the love, care and legacy you left for Bolaji, Wonuola and Laolu is more than most have done in a lifetime. I've always said it, you are nothing short of a legend, and if I am half the person you were, I would be content. I am honored and privileged to be your baby sister and Aunty to your kids and I will always be here for them. Have a heavenly birthday, and from this year forward, I will be sure to have a slice of cake on your birthday to celebrate your life. I love you. E sun re o.
April 20, 2016
April 20, 2016
Oladipo, my friend, my colleague, my brother. You are unforgettable.
May God continue to be with Bolaji, Wonuola and Laolu. May your children continue to be a source of joy to your parent. You sure said your farewell to me, visited few days to your death, even Nky also dropped by my office few days before, we even made plans to return to Abuja together. Though your life was short, but very eventful and you touched so many. You left at the time we needed you most, I still miss you a great deal.
April 20, 2016
April 20, 2016
Hmmm...it doesn't get easier...no, not really...
But I thank my heavenly Father for His grace, His mercy and His provision. He has been faithful and many have been supportive which is a testament to how you impacted their lives...our loss is immeasurable but we remain comforted by the memories...knowing you are looking down from heaven and keeping a close eye on all that you hold dear...have a heavenly birthday egbon mi, love you till eternity xxx
October 25, 2015
October 25, 2015
Losing a loved one is the hardest thing in the world. Life cut short too soon but well lived. One can only thank God for your life and that of those who God blessed you with to care for the children you left behind. That your children are doing well and loved, will never make up for not having mum & dad but they have the next best thing if ever there was.
Continue to rest in eternal peace.
October 22, 2015
October 22, 2015
This day never gets any easier for me. I don't know how not to give credence to what this day is. it's definitely another year without you and Aunty Nky...it's 10years ...I know for a fact that we all miss you, but we will continue to remain strong. E sun re, Orun a ke yin.
April 29, 2015
April 29, 2015
Bro Dipo........your passing still makes me cry when I think about it. Been a parent now makes it more painful but your little ones are making us all proud. I remember the last time I saw you, you were trying to buy a new cooker for Aunty Nky from mega plaza and couldn't decide on the brand she would have loved.......lol. We miss you ....e sun re oo
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
...never met you but a lot of good things have been said about you..for all those you left behind,may God comfort them...death couldn't hold you down...memories of you will live forever in their hearts...sun re!
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
May their souls continue to rest in peace and may God continue to console and grant peace the family and loved ones they have left behind.
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
May they continue to rest in perfect peace! To all affected by this tragedy, I pray that the Almighty God will continue to be your source of comfort . God bless their children
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
Orun re o...egbon, ki Olorun tubo fi orun ke yin...words fail me...even after all this time...
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
Another year, another birthday. We miss you so much. Have a heavenly birthday bro.
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October 22, 2023
October 22, 2023
Time flies it is 18 years since you left this part of eternity but you are remembered still and I know the Good LORD whom You and Nkiru loved will continue to watch over your children enabling them to live lives that honour your memory.  From the days I knew You as my student at MBHS You already were displaying those Gentleman qualities that we remember and treasure.
Sun re o Oladipo omo Oniwinde.
October 22, 2023
October 22, 2023
I can't believe it's 18 years already. I still remember the positive changes you made in the bank through your work, innovative ideas, training, and most especially your guidance. You are forever missed. Continue to rest in peace Oga Dipo.
April 20, 2023
April 20, 2023
Thank you Rev. Jaiyesimi for the memories.
Happy 54th bro.
Continue singing with the Angels and watching over us all.
We miss and love you.
Give Nky a hug from us xxx
Words are not enough......
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April 20, 2020
Happy 51st birthday bro, my Angel in Heaven.
Continue to rest in God’s bosom
Love you forever.
#ForeverinourHearts
May 15, 2015

Dipo & Nkiru, it's almost 10 years now and it seems just like yesterday when I called your office to find out why I was not getting thru to you and Nkiru as I had an appointment with Nkiru that faithful Monday and I received the rude shock.  The good ones don't last.

We worked together at PWC, You met Nkiru at PWC, I also met and married your friend and colleague Adesina in PWC, that union is blessed with 6 wonderful kids.
You are forever missed, and I always remember to say a prayer for your 3 children. May they fulfil their destiny.  May God continue to watch over them.

Egbon mi

April 4, 2015

I have so many great memories of my brother, like how I was always the first to meet all his girlfriends including Aunty Nky or like how he always gave me money every time I needed it, or how he stopped me from hugging him when he came home from UniPort Harcourt with chicken pox (he yelled STOP from a distance as I ran towards him), but the memory I’m gonna write about happened when I was in JS1 in 1993. I had come home from FGGC Sagamu for an eye exam, and my mum took me to the opticians at Lapal House in  Lagos Island, it was while I was at the opticians that a riot broke out in Lagos Island.  My Brother, Zeze,  had taken the car out after he dropped my mum and I,  but he could not come back to pick us because of the riot. Infact, there were no taxis or public transport anywhere, so my mum and I walked over to where Bro Dipo was working at Tinubu. He was then at Pricewaterhouse but was auditing somewhere on the Island, so we went over to join him there.  Anyway, we found out that the office he was working from was closing because of the riot so we could all go home together.  My mum, my brother and I set off from Lagos Island looking for a bus to get us home because we were going all the way to Agbara Estate. I remember so well that we walked all the way from Lagos Island passing through Eko Bridge, by the time we got to National Theatre, I was tired of walking, and we had no idea where we would get any form of transportation.  So guess what, Bro Dipo put me on his back and kept walking, he carried me like that all the way to Orile in his shirt and tie while my mum walked behind us. It was at Orile that we finally got a bus.  Yesss, my brother was my SUPERMAN.

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