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Never forgotten

February 27, 2019

Thinking of you and remembering all that i observed from you in the really short time i was able to. You were a great woman. I pray that your legacy remains. 

Thank you for being so strong and yet so sweet and kind. Thank you for the lives that blossomed because of you. Thank you for being an amazing person, ma.

I wonder how heaven is... i wonder how amazing the worship and constant hallelujahs are. May your soul continue to rest in perfect peace.

- Nwabundo Okoh

Never met Ronke Ladipo BUT.....

November 29, 2012

I feel so saddened because I'm just discovering that she's deceased. I was just googling her name because I aspire to meet her in person - and I couldn't believe that Ronke Ladipo is dead. She impacted my life without having met her - I emailed her in 2007 and she believed in my potential. I was sponsored "overnight" by SFH to participate in a conference in Germany and that was the beginning of my breakthrough! I would still love to contribute to SFH - as a tribute to this woman that I've long to meet but won't be meeting anymore on this terrestrial plains.

Truly we're grasses...and we wither. 

Julius#

thanking him always

November 8, 2012

Thanking Him Always

 

The Gospel according to Luke 22: 14 – 20 is part of the institution of Holy Communion as we know it, being indeed a refinement of the offering of bread and wine by King Melchizedek, a High Priest of God, before blessing Abram, (who later became Abraham) as recorded in Genesis 14:18. What is striking and bears examination and reflection is the thanks given before the giving of the bread and wine by Jesus Christ, and it is on this that the theme of this homily: thanking Him always is found. Today, a young lady, Ms Ronke Odutola, who died suddenly, literally in Church grounds, while pommelling herself for the gospel and Christ was laid to rest. As said in Romans 3:25 Christ, the Sacrificial Lamb was He: whom God set forth as a propitiation by His blood, through faith.”  In imitation of Him, through faith, with thanksgiving, Ronke was interceding for lost and troubled souls, and in pommelling herself for this purpose lost her life. Angels must have been singing as she passed on, for which reason all of us here must be thankful for her life. Ronke had her fair share of life, its burdens and joys; succeeded in her field of endeavor, and will certainly be missed more by those she labored to the death to save than even members of her family. As with every death it is fitting to remind ourselves of that life is transient and in all situations we must give thanks, and I first consider this from one of the examples our Lord Jesus Christ laid before He laid His life, as Ronke also in imitation of her Saviour and Master did. In instituting Holy Communion and asking that we do this in remembrance of Him with thanksgiving in our hearts, our Lord Jesus Christ first gave thanks to His Father for the bread of resurrection and the cup of salvation. The symbolism in this being giving thanks for His body and more so His blood – and therefore His life. His life because we know from Leviticus 17:11 that “… the life of a creature is in the blood and I have given it to you to make atonement for yourselves on the altar; it is the blood that makes atonement for ones life.”  Though the scripture here spoke literally about animals, it is a spiritual peak at the future of the Unblemished Lamb – the propitiation of all sin. Christ’s incarnate life was in the blood He shed for you and me at Calvary so there may be atonement for our sins, and release from bondage of this world – giving us passage to the next: eternal life. The body given for you and me, and the blood shed for you and me thus avails much, and because this pure blood of an unblemished and sinless Lamb is your pass over death, sickness and ills of this world, it must be a permanent mark on the door post of  your life. Christ the Passover Lamb said specifically in Luke 22:15 that “And he said to them, I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer” thus signifying His full knowledge of what ahead of Him. Trial, tribulation, insult, bodily harm, scorn, scoffing rudeness, injustice, wickedness, false accusation, crucifixion and death. Yet He nonetheless gave thanks. This He did to teach you that no matter the situation you must give thanks and praise God always. Beloved of God, you heeded the call to be a soldier of Christ. You have heeded the call to a better life in Christ. For these alone you must be grateful. Full of thanks because it is only by grace that we are called, by greater grace that we heed the call, and by his power that we stay the course. So worry not, rather be thankful, when your loved one passes on, or you face the vicissitudes of life. So in good times and bad times, in sickness and in health, in richness and in poverty, you must give thanks. There is no gainsaying the fact that men, whether or not blessed with provision are buffeted by the difficulties and challenges of this age, especially in these parts. A generation of spiritual indiscipline oiled by love of things material, licentiousness and supposed enjoyment of this life. An age, which but for grace, may have lost the rainbow – the covenant sign of seed and harvest through the ages. An age in which but for grace, (as said in Ephesians 1:7), of “… redemption through His blood … in accordance with the riches of God” superstorm Sandy, the floods we see in Nigeria, and the like elsewhere, would have been like the flood in Noah’s time. Luke 22:20 says “In the same way, after the supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for you.”  It is this new covenant, in and through His blood, that replace the covenant marked by the geographical phenomenon of a rainbow, which is here today and gone the next.  So as the Gospel says though Christ knew He was going to be poured, He still gave thanks. One could say that Ronke knew while fasting and praying fervently in supplication for the spiritual wholeness of others was pouring herself unto death in Christ. It is this same sense of gratitude expected of you that Christ displayed when He wanted to bring Lazarus back from the dead to physical life, as a precursor of eternal life, and in edification of the glory of God - as we can tell from John 11:38 – 44. Beloved of God, Christ knew that bringing Lazarus back to life will be the catalyzing factor that will coalesce the plan to put Him through pain no man had ever seen and thereafter murder Him – for we know from Luke 11:46 – 51 that it was this miracle of resurrecting the dead that led to calling of the Council of Pharisees that unjustly decided that Christ had to die, as suggested by Caiaphas the year’s high priest. What this ministers to you is that come rain or sunshine, even to the point of death you must give thanks. You must be like Jesus Christ who gave thanks in spite of the fact that He knew He had to pour Himself in order for there to be a third era for man, an era of the new covenant. Therefore, beloved of God, give thanks even if you have no child. Give thanks even if you have no spouse. Give thanks even if you have no work. Give thanks even if you have no money. Give thanks even if you have no good health. Give thanks even if you have no house. Give thanks even if you have bad school grades. Give thanks even if you have no promotion at work. Give thanks even if your child is wayward. Give thanks even if you have no good home. Give thanks even if you have no love around. Give thanks even if you all you have around you is strife and jealousy; oppression and all manner of unrighteous conduct. Give thanks because the blood of Christ avails for you, and His body is Bread for you to feed on to give you eternal life. A life free of all ills.

Rev. Prof. Konyin Ajayi

Emmanuel Chapel

The Adunola, Plot L2

401 close, Banana Island,

Ikoyi, Lagos.

konyinajayi@gmail.com        

 

 

HEROS DON'T DIE by Chinazo N. Ujuju

November 8, 2012

She lives on

In the hearts and minds of all she influenced

She lives on

Although she is no more

The legacy she left behind

Lives on

 

A timeless example

Of hard work

A transparent life of Honesty

Though she is far away

So we cannot laugh

And share our hearts with her

 

She lives on

The memory of all she was

Will never be forgotten

She lives on

For her foot prints are left behind here!!

 

As we put our foot here too

To work in Honesty

Touching lives by what we do and say

The legacy of this great Hero

Still lives on!

And will never die!!!

Nazo 23rd July 2005

Modified 7th Nov.2011

November 7, 2012
As I look at you in this picture Which was your outing on my Wedding day! I totally believe the saying of The teacher that indeed There is a time for everything on Earth: A time to laugh and another to cry, A time to hold on and another to let go, A time to embrace and another to PART, ADIEU!!! Amiable Dr L Rest in peace Daughter of Zion.
November 5, 2012

Anabsolute gem. We were classmates in UCH. concerned for others. would visit me in hospital when i ws ill with Funlola, my cosin Yinka.
Saw her at our reunion in England. Same infectious laughtr. I was so proud of her and her work in GFH. little did i know that this would be the last "shadowing" of her.
Sun re o fiend. You will be forever missed but you have gone on to greater things.


Dr Adebayo Olujohungbe
Associate Professor of Medicine
Winnipeg.
University of Manitoba, Canada. 

In All Circumstances

November 2, 2012

TODAY’S WORD from Joel and Victoria Osteen

 

Are you giving thanks in   every circumstance? This might seem like a stretch at first, especially when   you are going through a season of difficulty. But notice today’s verse   doesn’t say to give thanks “for” everything, it says give thanks “in”   everything. In other words, no matter what’s going on, find something to be   thankful for. Don’t just focus on what’s wrong in your life; focus on what   God will do in your life.

When you are thankful, it   opens the door for God to move on your behalf. That’s why it says “this is   God’s will for you.” He wants you to be close to Him to receive His strength   and power by giving thanks. That’s why we should always have the attitude   that says, “God, in spite of what’s happened, I choose to be grateful. I may   be sick, but Father, thank You for being my healer. Thank you for giving me   great friends and family.” Or, “I may be struggling in my marriage, but God,   thank You for being my restorer. Thank You for giving me another sunrise.” As   you give thanks in everything, you will see God’s hand move mightily on your   behalf, and you’ll come out of that difficulty better, stronger and wiser   than before.

A PRAYER FOR TODAY

 

Father God, today I   choose to give You thanks in all things! I know that You are a good God, and   You have good plans in store for my future. I bless You and thank You for   another day to sing Your praise in Jesus’ name! Amen.

Ronnie my Sweet Sister

November 2, 2012

I first knew sis Ronke when she came home on holidays with my big sister from Queens School Ibadan in the mid-seventies.  Coming from a home of similar conservative values to ours, she blended into our family immediately and was instantly loved by my parents, my maternal grandmother especially (who named her Arike) and the rest of us in the family.  Infact she bacame my Mother's 4th daughter.  Subsequently she and my sister alternated holidays between Ijebu and Ibadan and were mostly inseparable. They later both continued to ISI for A Levels during which our house was again hers.  When she was in UI Medical school, again she was never far from the house and I was a common fixture in her rooms at Idia hall and ABH. In Lagos during my NYSC, I was always that thorn she could not get rid of. Over the years nothing changed and our sibling bond only grew stronger.  
On September 19, 2012, I went to the office to see her in Abuja and it was all good. Initially in a hurry, I later relaxed when I realised she was not ready to let me go quite as quickly.  She laughed cheerfully in appreciation of my total submission to her wishes when I then asked for a cup of tea and even made it for me by herself.... little did I know I was spending the last time with her.  I truly thank God earnestly for the privilege of that last day with her.  Later that day after she got to Akure, I called her to confirm her safe arrival  and wish her well.  We agreed to meet up in Abuja soon which was never to be.
Sis, I miss you so much and your passing is so, so painful but we must accept God's Will.  The best go early or so they say and yours is definitely no exception.  We thank God for your legacy in your handsome sons and will spare nothing to ensure they get all the support.
God will comfort your mother, siblings and the rest of us your extended family.
Rest in Peace Sis..... Love you Forever,
Orisunmbola 

So unexpected

November 1, 2012
Dr L, This is not what we planned...we talked about weddings, dreams, retirement, graduations. We prayed for friends. families, children, people, this organization. We talked about the future, travels, going to ministry, catering, preaching, mentoring, coaching. We discussed, laughed and prayed about many things...but this was definitely not one of them. Precious in the Sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.

Poem for Dr. Ladipo by Ugochukwu Okokoh

November 1, 2012

Bow to death owe we!
See thee, no more when we live!
Perfection we, when passed thee.
In grief, our heads bow when we heard thee!
Thy belly with no fill!
Our blossom flower, thou taketh away!
Thy swallow, no contentment.
All we have, thou wilt take.
All we plough, and store,
thou makest us to leave
with none to share!

Alas! thou taketh one jewel from us.
An Amazon, our friend,
colleague, beloved thou taketh!

She came, saw, stooped too low to conquer!
All the spoils from war shared by the unknown,
To die, is to live!
Work with thee again
after resurrection swallow death!

Adios Amigo, Madame!
Adios, our dearly beloved!

Be Encouraged...

November 1, 2012

Dr Ronke... we will not mourn like people who have no God... that's what you would have told us. Thank you for the opportunity to know and work with you. Thank you for your openness, your kindness, generousity and honesty. Thank God for giving us you for the length of time He did...

This bible verse stays with us:

1 Thessalonians 4

The Hope of the Resurrection 13 And now, dear brothers and sisters, we want you to know what will happen to the believers who have died* so you will not grieve like people who have no hope.14 For since we believe that Jesus died and was raised to life again, we also believe that when Jesus returns, God will bring back with him the believers who have died.   15 We tell you this directly from the Lord: We who are still living when the Lord returns will not meet him ahead of those who have died.*16 For the Lord himself will come down from heaven with a commanding shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet call of God. First, the Christians who have died* will rise from their graves.17 Then, together with them, we who are still alive and remain on the earth will be caught up in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. Then we will be with the Lord forever.18 So encourage each other with these words.

  

Mother/Mentor/Friend

November 1, 2012

Dr.L was a number of things to quite a lot of us. She mentored, taught, advised and even convinced a number of us on so many things. I still can't imagine SFH without her. I remember her laughter and her approachable personality. I will miss you terribly after you have just played a very important role in my life/career. Adieu Doctor L!

My Dearest Friend - IYA

October 31, 2012

Dr Ronke Ladipo (Iya) is not only a former colleague but my dearest friend. I met Iya 13 years ago and our spirits knitted and have stayed knitted ever since. Nine years ago, I gave birth to my twins in Florida USA. When I was leaving for the US, we only focused on my getting there safe and did not quite think through the return journey except that I had a return ticket for myself. When the twins were delivered and then came the challenge of transporting them back to Nigeria with only one accompanying adult. We had the option of my husband flying over to the States to help carry one during the very long journey back here, or to buy a full ticket for one of the babies to be given a seat as one adult is only allowed one infant ticket and then I would have to struggle all by myself to take care of them on the long flight. When Ronke who was studying in Harvard at the time learnt of my predicament, she offered that I come over to Boston with the babies and she will carry one and I will only pay for baby tickets. And that was what we did. On October 30th 2003 I flew to Boston and she carried one of the twins to Amsterdam and then on October 31st from Amsterdam to Nigeria. Yesterday was October 30th and today is 31st.   

I had my first set of twins pre-term (pre mature) back in 2001. It was Ronke that saw the children in the incubator and with her training as a medical doctor knew they were not receiving the care they require. She drove me around Allen avenue, Opebi and Adeniyi Jones streets in Lagos looking for a suitable hospital to transfer them to. She stood by me all through the two weeks after when my first daughter was battling for her life. When my daughter died two weeks after, Ronke provided medical advice for home based care after my surviving twin and I were discharged from hospital and was still acting as surrogate mother to my children up till now.

Two years ago I lost my father as suddenly as Ronke left and as usually she was there for me and found her way to my home town at Nnewi to support me during the burial.

Ronke was a virtuous woman, a true professional, a dedicated staff, loving, loyal, dependable and a friend in a million. She was my confidant and I cannot recount the countless times she stood by me in prayers, moral support and provided me accommodation for three months after I came back from studying in the USA in 2005 before I secured my own accommodation.

I will deeply miss you my dear friend till we see Jesus face to face.

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