Omowunmi,
My dear cousin, I’m grateful to have been in your life as long as it lasted, though I had not seen you in more than 2 decades before your passing. From the 70s when I first met, you and spent some time with you in England to when you reunited with us back in the late 80s in Lagos your strength of character and spirit was undeniable.

These memories truly shine on in my heart, and I cherish them still. Rest well, and looking forward to meeting up again.

My Beloved Omowunmi,
Today marks the third year since you left this world, and not a day goes by when I don't think about you and the immense void your absence has created in my life. It feels like just yesterday we were creating beautiful memories together, and yet it also feels like a lifetime has passed since I last held you in my arms.

As I sit here, surrounded by the remnants of our love, my mind wanders back to the countless moments we shared. Memories of your infectious laughter, your warm embrace, and your unwavering support flood my thoughts, bringing both joy and sorrow. While it brings me solace to remember the beautiful times we had, it also reinforces the painful reality that those moments can never be relived.

Losing you has been the most challenging experience of my life. The pain of your departure is a constant ache in my heart, a reminder of the deep connection we shared and the love that continues to endure in the depths of my soul. Your absence has taught me the true meaning of love, and through the memories we created, I have learned to cherish every single moment, never taking for granted the blessings life has bestowed upon me.

Our love journeyed through life's highs and lows, weathered storms, and basked in the rays of sunshine. Together, we built a life filled with love, happiness, and endless dreams. But fate had its own plans, and it took you away, leaving me to navigate this world without your guiding presence. Though the pain remains, your legacy lives on within me, inspiring me to be the best version of myself and to lead a life that would make you proud.

Our love story does not end with your passing, my love. It lives on in my heart and thrives in the memories we shared. The lessons you taught me about compassion, resilience, and unconditional love continue to guide me through life's challenges. It is through your strength and the love we cultivated together that I find the courage to face each new day, to carry your spirit within me, and to keep longing for a future where we shall reunite.

On this solemn occasion, I find solace in reflecting upon the incredible person you were and the beautiful impact you had on my life. I promise to honor your memory by living a life filled with love, kindness, and gratitude. Although you may not physically be here, your spirit is an unyielding force, reminding me to cherish every moment, to love fiercely, and to never take life for granted.

Thank you for the love we shared and for shaping me into the person I am today. I will love you always and forever.

Until we meet again,
Dare Julius Atomode

My dearest Omowunmi,
Today marks a day that we used to celebrate together, your birthday. Although you are no longer here with me, I wanted to take a moment to send you a posthumous birthday note. Though the pain of your absence remains, and my heart aches without you, I find solace in remembering the beautiful memories we shared
Every year on this special day, I would wake up before you to prepare a delicious breakfast in bed and surprise you with a bouquet of your favorite flowers. Your smile would light up the room, and your gratitude would fill my heart with warmth. I miss those mornings, and I miss you more than words can express.
Time has passed since you left this world, and while it hasn't been easy to move forward without you, I have learned to cherish the time we had together. The love we shared was truly one-of-a-kind, and I am forever grateful for the blessing of being your partner in this journey of life.

On this birthday, I want to let you know that I carry your love with me every step of the way. The lessons you taught me about compassion, kindness, and resilience continue to guide me through each day. You have left an indelible mark on my soul, and I am eternally grateful for the time we had together.
Today, I will light a candle in your honor, surrounded by the memories we created. I will celebrate your life, your spirit, and the impact you had on all who were fortunate enough to know you. Though you are not physically here, your presence is felt in every whisper of the wind, every ray of sunshine, and every beat of my heart.

Happy birthday, my beloved. May your soul find everlasting peace, and may my love continue to reach you wherever you are. Until we meet again.
With unending love,
D A

My Dearest Wife (Omowunmi)

I missed you so much. As I sit here, reminiscing about the beautiful moments we shared together, my heart feels heavy with both longing and gratitude. Although you are no longer physically present beside me, your spirit continues to shine brightly in my heart, guiding me through this journey that we once embarked on together, which I'm facing all alone now.

Oh, how I miss the warmth of your touch and the sound of your laughter. The way your eyes sparkled with joy and your smile illuminated any room you entered. Your voice whenever you call me sweetheart. Your beauty, both inside and out, forever etched into my memory. You were, and always will be, the love of my life.

There are no words adequate enough to express the depth of the love I hold for you then while alive and even in death, my beloved. You were the epitome of love and kindness, radiating a grace that touched the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing you. Your unwavering support and understanding were the pillars that held me up during life's trials and tribulations, and your gentle encouragement mouled me into a better person that I'm today.

Though your physical presence has faded, the love we shared remains eternally strong. It transcends the boundaries of time and space, connecting our souls across the realms. I find solace in the knowledge that one day, we shall be reunited in a place where love knows no bounds and sorrow is but a distant memory.

Each day, I am reminded of the lessons you taught me, and I strive to live up to the love you showered upon me. Your love has given me the courage to face life's darkest moments and to never lose hope, even in the face of adversity. You continue to inspire me, my angel, and I carry your love within me like a beacon of light shining so bright and can not be deemed.

I resently visited some places we once frequented together, seeking solace in the memories we created. The laughter, the tears, the dreams we shared — they are etched into the very fabric of my being. And though your physical presence has vanished, your essence lingers in every corner of my life. Every book, every photograph, and every whisper of your name brings comfort and a reminder of the love we shared.

My love, as I pen down these words, I want to thank you for gracing my life with your presence. You have taught me the true power of love, and for that, I am forever grateful. Our love will forever be the guiding light that leads me towards a life of purpose, compassion, and heartfelt connection with those around me. You will always be in my heart. The children miss you so much, we all do.

Until we meet again in the realm beyond, know that my love for you shall never wane. I carry your memory with me everywhere I go, and I cherish this love we shared. Thank you for being my everything, my rock, and my inspiration. You will always be the beating heart within me.

With all my love, forever and always.
Continue to rest in peace, my love 

D A.

It's exactly 2years today that you left us. I missed you and the children too does. We know you are with the Lord and watching over us.
You are not forgotten and will never be forgotten, the memories of your time with us is still propelling us and making us strong.
You will always be in my heart. Continue to rest in peace.
You are still the one even in death.

Happy post humous birthday big sis. I remember your 28th birthday at G18- University Quarters...just like yesterday. I am still in denial about your passing. May God continue to console and keep the family and friends you left behind.

I just don't know what to write. I thought by now the pain would have reduce but as the days passed the more painful it has become. I miss you so dearly. We all miss you. Continue to rest with the Lord till we meet to part no more.

Happy posthumous birthday! I miss you greatly

Happy Birthday sis .. missing you

Dear Sis,
You were and will always be one of a kind. Your strong and warrior-like personality cannot easily be forgotten. Adieu…Continue to sleep well.

Sister Wumi,

I still remember the shock I felt when I was told that you passed.
Continue to rest in peace.

Continue to rest in the blossom of the Lord.

We miss you, Big Sis. ️

My sweetheart, forever in our hearts. We missed you everyday. Rest well. Always in our hearts.

missing you sis.

You will forever be missed. A year has rolled by and I am still numb for words. Sleep tight till we meet again to part no more at the feet of Jesus Christ of Lord and Savior. Sunre o.

Miss you Emu! I can't believe it's been a year already. Fly on beautiful soul till we meet again.

Miss you like crazy sis, just like that its been a year, I know you're looking down on us keeping us safe and giving us strength. Hug Topsy, mom and dad for me. 
love you

It's hard to believe a year has passed by, your passing is still so raw as ever
Glad to know your family you left behind are doing well
Your passing has changed my life forever and I think always of your gentle beautiful soul that left this earth so soon.
I pray for Grace still for your family to continue to bear this huge loss.
May you continue to Rest in Perfect Peace beautiful Omowunmi.

It’s been a year Wumi. I m still in shock but what can we do. I know you are in a better place. You will always be in my heart.

It's exactly one year today since my wife Omowunmi left us, it's been a long year without you, my wife, my friend my master planner. We thank God for his mercies, provisions, and sustenance. He was, He is and He will always be our protector.


My Love, we make plans, we set targets, we dream dreams, we prayed and we said to God help us and bless us with long years together, nobody knew that I'd be standing right here alone writing this to you. I miss you. Nothing told me that it wouldn't last forever, we always see the bigger picture of everything together. All that I went through, you were standing there by my side and now you are gone but never forgotten. The bond that we have will never be broken the love will never get lost.

Once again thank you for raising our children well, they are all coping well knowing you are resting with the Lord. We all miss you so much. I hold every memory of our 22years together so dearly and it will never fade away, nobody will ever take your place. (remember my former Sigma Pensions slogan "together forever ") always on my mind

Rest on my love till we meet to part no more.

It has never cross my mind that I will be the one to write tribute to you. My love, I don't really know what to write because I still can believe you are gone.
Ours was made in heaven because despite all the challenges you stood by me to the end. God knows why you have to go now.
I thank God for giving you to me as a wife. You were my rock, my propeller. You gave my love, joy, happiness and above all three beautiful children. You trained them so well that I will forever be grateful. They miss you, we all miss you. L will never forget our joke ( imaginary shade) I will miss Your smile and always looking forward to weekend to be with you and the children. You will forever be part of me and nobody will ever take your place.
You never joke with Catholic faith. My love I kept my promise, I gave you a befitting Catholic burial.
Rest well in the Lord till we meet again. Love you in life and death.
D.A

We love you but Jesus Christ loves best, we bid you good night with eternal rest in peace.

Hmmmmn, may God grant you mercy and eternal rest Wunmi. You were a dear aburo, watched you grow up and it's so painful to lose you at such a young age. Your late Mum was my mentor and it's so sad for me. May God strengthen the family you left behind. Love you. Sis Kemi Sanni

Wumi, it was with shock and great sadness l learnt of the news of your sudden passing. It was like a punch in the gut. You are too beautiful a soul to go so soon.
I will miss your warmth , your beautiful smile , the ease with which you relate with your friends, your exuberance. Thank God for all the beautiful memories of growing up together in Ilorin.
I pray for strength and fortitude for your family to bear this huge loss.
May your beautiful Soul Rest In Perfect Peace and may your memory be a blessing. 

...God knows best, Rest in peace. ️

You had a beautiful heart Wunmi, always smiling, making everything easy around you. When I saw you 2 yrs ago after about 30yrs, you made the reunion so effortless and lovely because of your beautiful heart. People like you don’t come by often, you will surely be missed Emu. Rest on my dear friend ❤️

Your passing brought an awakening in my mind of the power in your personality... you had the gift of being a true and solid friend from a distance. I know you are with the saints and that is my consolation. May the good Lord help us that are left behind to learn from you so that your legacy of showing true Love to all will live on. Continue to rest in peace Omowunmi.

My sweet cousin, so articulate, caring, selfless. You were more than a cousin . You were my sister and I will miss you. Always laughing!. We had plans but we can’t question God. You are in a better place. Sleep on Wunmi. Rest In Peace.

My darling Whummy, it was with great shock that i received the news of your demise. We chatted just a few days before that and you were hail and hearty. I am at a loss of words. Can't believe i am having to write a tribute. So many memories to recall from University days and beyond with Mama Emu, Pops, Ovie and Topsy. Sis, I will really miss you checking up on me. Our catchup chats, your love and your caring self. I pray that we will continue to find solace in the Lord and God will comfort your husband, children, brother and the rest of the family. Sleep well in the Lord, beautiful soul.
Love always, Anike Odunlami

Wumi, you kept it 100% real all the time. You showed love so effortlessly. You had a smile and a shoulder to lean on for everyone. It was easy to be your friend and sis. You lived in love, readily excusing other's shortcomings. You are missed ❤

Eternal rest grant unto her oh Lord, and let perpetual light shine on her. May her soul rest in peace. May her family be consoled in Jesus name, amen

My dear cousin Wumi, I reminisce and celebrate you though we had not been in touch for a long while. I still see your smiling face, strong personality and carry these memories of you with me and how you touched my life in some way as I look forward to seeing you again in the life to come. Rest well dear!

Emu Paripa! ....as I fondly called you. I remember your selflessness, your impeccable command of the English language and how real you were. Too many good memories from high school to college and beyond. Rest on my friend, I'm definitely going to miss you encouraging words and sisterhood. Sun re o!

Dearest cousin, it's with shock & a heavy heart that I write these words of tribute to you! You were more than a cousin, you were a sister, a friend, a wonderful, loving, caring, kind, warm & sincere soul, always had a listening ear. Ahhhh you will be missed! Rest In Peace, till we meet again!

Jumoke

Whummy, I can say you're one of the best if not the best of God's creation. Despite your challenges, you gave it your all, you have ran your best race selflessly and have now stepped off, this moving train called life.
The rest is left to those of us left behind to pick up from where you left off with humility to God.
Keep sleeping on ore, at the blossom of Our Lord Jesus Christ in peace till we meet to part no more.
Goodnight.
Rest in Peace.

Sis as myself and a host of others fondly called 'Wumi was a lively soul and bubbly character with an infectious smile. Our parents were good friends early on in their respective marriages and long before they completed their respective families. She was the definition of an "Americana" as a younger child and U.S.A returnee of the 1980s. She was tall with a good build and no comprehension of the Yoruba language at the time. Our paths possibly crossed twice, maybe thrice in childhood as our families were domiciled miles apart.
University education brought me to Ilorin and 'Wumi became a feature as the eldest child of my guardian. She was humorous, loved watching movies, lived very simply and related very well with everyone. She cherished family and her love for her siblings was pure. It was gut wrenching to receive the news of her sudden death. God's comfort, peace and strength are my prayers for her beloved brother, Ovie, her husband, children, extended families, friends and loved ones. May 'Wumi's beautiful soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.

A beautiful soul inside and out. Rest In Peace.

Gone too soon. You’ll be sorely missed big sis. Till we all meet again. I love you. R.I.P