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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, ONA LEE WHEELER, 33, born on July 10, 1930 and passed away on June 12, 1964.  

July 10, 2021
July 10, 2021
Happy Heavenly Birthday Mama! 91years and your forever young. I love and miss you always. Everything is moving along so fast in this world, I'm ready for our eternal home. Rest in peace, missing you today and feels like I've had a lifetime of missing you. Love always, your daughter, Carolyn.
August 29, 2017
August 29, 2017
I had prayed all my life to God, "please let me see my Mom again just once" .  It was so amazing to see you when you helped Uncle Charlie pass over , you were such a bright shining orb dancing all over the room as he called out "Ona Lee" . I sat and cried , my wish finally came true. He even said it was his sister, Ona Lee coming to get him and that the place was beautiful. I am so thankful for the video that was sent to me. I rest easy knowing that it was you. Love you Mama. Til we meet again...
July 13, 2016
July 13, 2016
hi Mom Happy Birthday a couple of days late. i have been babysitting Natalie's boys Weston and Waylon. They are so cute and i know you love them so. Kaitllin's son kyson is beautiful and has the grandest smile. i nicknamed him Smiley. love always Carolyn
July 12, 2016
July 12, 2016
Happy Birthday Ona. I pray, and surely know you are resting in peace. Say hello to Annie for me. God bless you. Bob (hugs)
June 12, 2016
June 12, 2016
Hi Ona, just checking in to show my support for your beautiful daughter Carolyn. Such a love she had for you, and such a tragedy she lost you when she was so young. RIP ONA. Bob
May 11, 2016
May 11, 2016
Happy Mothers Day mom. Good news here, Kaitlin graduated with two degrees in accounting and financial planning from Northeastern State university. I am a proud mother and you would be proud of her, she is a wonderful mother to Kyson and to Kole. Natalie is a wonderful mother and i could of not asked for better daughters. The boys are all doing good and growing up so fast. Being a grandma is fun, i wish you would of had the chance to be with your grandchildren and see them grow but I will always give them kisses and hugs from you too. Love and miss you mom, til we meet again.....
December 13, 2015
December 13, 2015
Mama, your first great granddaughter arrived on December 2, 2015 and I'm so excited to tell you how pretty she is! Her name is Scottie Marie Wheeler. Matthew and Brandi are so blessed! You would be so proud! I am so excited to be a great auntie,too! I wish you were here to see her but you will one day. Oh my i forgot to tell you Kaitlin's son arrived July 7th , Kyson James Adams, he is so adorable and cute! I love you Mama and miss you everyday!
May 10, 2015
May 10, 2015
Happy Mother's Day to you mama! I love you so much! i have been so blessed to be in my daughters lives for the past almost 25 and 24 years. I wish we could of had more time together but i just want you to know your loving spirit from God lives on through me and I just hope my daughters love me as deeply as i have loved you all my life.Kisses and hugs to you, til we meet again. p.s. Kaitlin's baby shower was wonderful yesterday she got so many nice gifts for her little man. You would proud for her.
February 28, 2015
February 28, 2015
Guess what Mama ,Waylon Keith was born on Christmas Day to Natalie. I can see your sweet smile. Oh how I have missed you now for 53 years not a day goes by that i don't wish you were here. My girls are doing great and oh also Kaitlin is going to have a baby in July, it's another boy , so now you have 4 great grandsons. Love you!
May 12, 2014
May 12, 2014
Hi Ona Lee, I don't know you but communicate with your daughter Carolyn on facebook. We kind of have mutual interests in that we both suffered a tragic loss. But like Carolyn, I believe we'll all meet again one day. We live on hope for the future after we leave this mortal coil we call earth. It will be a glorious day. But, I hurt for Carolyn as she lost you at such a young age. You both missed out on so much love and lasting memories. God bless.
May 12, 2014
May 12, 2014
This touches me deeply to write to you Ona Lee because so many times during mine and Tracy's marriage....I had wished you were there. I had wished you were there for him and I wished you were there for all of us! To love your awesome grandchildren and the families that surrounded them. It honors me to know that mine and Tracy's grandson carries your sweet spirit within him. And it brings great comfort to know that even though circumstances have happened through the years, we are all still very much family at heart. That makes me happy. 
What a beautiful part of you we are blessed with through Carolyn....it helps us know you here on earth until we meet you in heaven. A beautiful Wife, Mother, Mother-in-Law, Grandmother, and Great Grandmother you are .
May 11, 2014
May 11, 2014
Happy Mothers Day to you! All is well in my world except for missing you.My daughters ,Natalie and Kaitlin miss knowing you and oh yes your great grandson, Weston too.We will meet you in heaven, Oh what a glorious day it'll be! I have loved you all my life and not a day goes by that I don't think of you and wish you could of stayed in my life longer. I love you Mama! Happy Mothers Day!
February 9, 2014
February 9, 2014
I never had the opportunity to meet you in my lifetime because you were taken way too soon, Ona Lee. But, I know you well and have always loved you. I married your son, James Keith. He was my best friend and was so much fun. He loved you beyond measure and was so protective of you and your memory. He and I have 2 sons, John Stephen and Matthew Todd. John is named after your two babies who you lost early. Your daughter, Carolyn, is beautiful....she looks like you and has a sweet, sweet spirit. She and I are like sisters and when we both lived in Tahlequah at the same time, many people thought we were sisters! Keith loved her dearly and was like a father and brother to her. You had beautiful children: Keith, Carolyn, and Tracy. They all three have great-looking children: John, Matt, Natalie, Kaitlin, and Bryan. And, now you have great-grandchildren: Weston and Kingston! Thank you for being so pretty and so sweet.....your legacy continues.
December 8, 2013
December 8, 2013
Hi Carolyn, glad to see you got started on your moms memorial. This is a beautiful place for her, and will give you a chance to further heal as you write to her. Make sure you let her know what's been going on in your life. I don't know what our loved ones hear, see, or know about what we're doing, but just in case, we need to let them know we still love them today as much as yesterday. Your mom was a very attractive
lady. Carolyn, keep your site up, and pay homage to your mom. I wish you the best.
December 7, 2013
December 7, 2013
I remember the day my Mom died. I was playing outside in the front yard and a lady ( who I don't remember) came out and gently told me she had passed on. I will always remember telling that lady, " It's okay , she's an angel now and doesn't have to be sick anymore". I was almost 8 years old. I have missed her for almost 50 years now, but I have always felt her presence in my life and love her so much.

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July 10, 2021
July 10, 2021
Happy Heavenly Birthday Mama! 91years and your forever young. I love and miss you always. Everything is moving along so fast in this world, I'm ready for our eternal home. Rest in peace, missing you today and feels like I've had a lifetime of missing you. Love always, your daughter, Carolyn.
August 29, 2017
August 29, 2017
I had prayed all my life to God, "please let me see my Mom again just once" .  It was so amazing to see you when you helped Uncle Charlie pass over , you were such a bright shining orb dancing all over the room as he called out "Ona Lee" . I sat and cried , my wish finally came true. He even said it was his sister, Ona Lee coming to get him and that the place was beautiful. I am so thankful for the video that was sent to me. I rest easy knowing that it was you. Love you Mama. Til we meet again...
July 13, 2016
July 13, 2016
hi Mom Happy Birthday a couple of days late. i have been babysitting Natalie's boys Weston and Waylon. They are so cute and i know you love them so. Kaitllin's son kyson is beautiful and has the grandest smile. i nicknamed him Smiley. love always Carolyn
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Fried Chicken

December 7, 2013

We had a farm with cows, horses, chickens, and sometimes pigs. I remember Mama would go out to the chicken coupe and pick out a fat hen and then do her spinning dance. Do you know what that is? Well, She would spin that chicken round and round and flop it to the ground. It's head would come off. She was a petite woman but she was strong . She then dipped that chicken in a big black pot of boiling water, pulled it out and plucked the feathers. Keep in mind I 'm only 2 or 3 so I didn't have to help. Thank goodness! We then had her wonderful fried chicken or chicken and dumplings for supper. She was a great pioneer country woman in my eyes always.              












 

My Mom, the Seamtress

December 7, 2013

She could sew like nobody's business, She could take a flour sack and make something beautiful out of it. She would take a paper sack and make a pattern. I still to this day when I sew use a technique she used, (kitchen knives to lay on the pattern instead of pinning it). I remember having to stand still so she could fit my puffy dress to a t and every once in awhile I'd be dancing and wiggleing and she would accidently stick me with a pin. I'd cry and she would always comfort me. She had to make those puffy skirted dress for me cause she loved her little girl so. Smiles

Butterfly Kisses

December 7, 2013

One of my best memories of my Mom is the butterfly kisses she would give me. Do you know what that is? It's where you get close with your eye on the eye of a person you love making contact and flutter your eyelashes at them softly. Feel that love so soft! She was a soft loving mother whispering, " butterfly kisses for you".

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