My first encounter with Claire was at the reception at Mother Teresa Medical Centre during my first day of duty there. I got attracted to her at first sight, I commented on her beautiful hair do and her reply went this," Thank you doctor, I know I am a fine girl. Infact, I'm surprised at how beautiful I am!
I loved her spirit, Her confidence!
Claire was a strong girl. She was a fighter. She was confident, funny, open minded, easy going, and very caring.
Claire loves herself to a fault! She loved to dance, sing, make videos of herself and take pictures. Once Claire sights me trying to take a selfie, she quickly runs over and says, "hey! How dare you take a pic when the "fine girl" is not there. And then boom, she enters into the pic.
There was a time early last year, I got a new phone, and I was at the reception desk with her, checking out the features of the phone, I had to attend to a patient so I left my phone with her.
By the time I had finished seeing the patient and went back to get my phone, Claire had snapped about 50 pictures of herself and made numerous beautiful videos of her dancing, singing and miming songs. I still have those on my phone till date.
I was always happy when our duty clashes cos I always find time to sit with her at her desk when I'm less busy as she always has this strong positive energy around her! So at any opportunity I have, I am with her.
Claire hated needles, but she loved medicine. She always wanted to know new cases, watch deliveries, watch surgeries and surprisingly she was very brave. She told me one day that if she was given another chance, she will be a medical doctor.
Claire is very caring. She will buy me fruits, bring my share of goodies whenever they have a function at in her home, or when there is a church program and she or her mom is involved, Claire will make sure she brings my own share of " item 7". God bless her soul!
I left mother Teresa March this year, but there is no week that passes without Claire checking on me. She never loved to bug her loved ones about her personal issues, Claire will prefer to keep it to herself so she doesn't make you worried! About 3 months ago, her mom called me and told me Claire was ill and admitted in LUTH. I was very destabilised during that period. I disturbed her mom with calls on a daily basis to ask how Claire was faring. I really appreciate Claire's mom for her patience cos I think I was beginning to become a nuisance with my incessant calling.
One particular day when I called to ask after her health, Her mom told me that she referred to every female doctor that attended to her as "Dr Belinda"! I was really touched to the extent I cried that day after the call. Prayers for Claire to get well never departed from my lips during her days of admission in LUTH. My joy knew no bounds when her mom called one faithful day to inform me that Claire had been discharged.
I spoke to Claire, and from the tone of her voice, she sounded much better. I promised to visit her soonest at her home which we both looked forward to.
About a week later, I called to inform her of my coming over but she told me she had some NYSC stuff to do and from there, she will be going to St Francis to pray at the Blessed Sacrament. So I decided to see her there. What a delight and joy to see My Claire Bear on her feet again! Cheerful and funny as ever! We talked for a while and I promised to take her out on her birthday which happens to be 28th of July. Little did I know that was going to be the last time I would see my Claire.
We talked a couple of times on phone afterwards, last time we spoke was about a week to her demise. Only for me to be informed on the 1st of July that she has passed away!
Claire, you will forever occupy a large part of my heart. You were one person that I always loved to be around. Despite all that happened, I still remain grateful to God for making our path cross. I strongly believe you are in heaven alongside the saints as you lived a very Chaste life on earth. You will forever remain in my heart, Claire bear. I love you like a mother loves her daughter. May God console your family and all your loved ones you left behind. Keep resting, Dear Claire.
Dr Belinda Jolayemi