February 7, 2023
February 7, 2023
RiP mother
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Pamela Swadley, 65 years old, born on August 3, 1947, and passed away on February 7, 2013. We will remember her forever.
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February 3, 2023
February 3, 2023
Hello Mom,
It is that time of year, and this year plays harder. I just can't believe it has been 10 year's since I last hugged you, talked to you . Nathen and I was discussing how it feels like yesterday. You was right it did get easier without you, but there are times that just bring me down without you here. Well so much has happened in this last 10 years, so many times I wished I could have called you. I think you would be proud of the once long ago troubled soul I was. I finally got it mom , just did not happen fully till you was gone. Mom Nathen grew up and he is the kindest soul, so honest and a bit stubborn like his mom and memaw lol but you would be so proud of him . The girls are grown and not around , man mom that hurts...but that just makes me understand you more now.
I know your around from time to time,but it's been a while since you visited , have not smelled your perfume in a few years , maybe your up in heaven having the time of your life . You so much deserve it, your life was not an easy one mom, I know it and I am sorry it was as such. I will miss you till the day we meet again , love you your daughter Rhonda
It is that time of year, and this year plays harder. I just can't believe it has been 10 year's since I last hugged you, talked to you . Nathen and I was discussing how it feels like yesterday. You was right it did get easier without you, but there are times that just bring me down without you here. Well so much has happened in this last 10 years, so many times I wished I could have called you. I think you would be proud of the once long ago troubled soul I was. I finally got it mom , just did not happen fully till you was gone. Mom Nathen grew up and he is the kindest soul, so honest and a bit stubborn like his mom and memaw lol but you would be so proud of him . The girls are grown and not around , man mom that hurts...but that just makes me understand you more now.
I know your around from time to time,but it's been a while since you visited , have not smelled your perfume in a few years , maybe your up in heaven having the time of your life . You so much deserve it, your life was not an easy one mom, I know it and I am sorry it was as such. I will miss you till the day we meet again , love you your daughter Rhonda
August 3, 2022
August 3, 2022
Miss You Baby Girl.
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
Happy Mothers Day in Heaven.
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Happy Mothers Day in Heaven.
February 7, 2021
February 7, 2021
Miss You Baby Girl.
February 7, 2021
February 7, 2021
Mom I still feel as it was yesterday when I last hugged you and kissed ya. I have so many things I want to tell you and share with you. You was right that in time I would not think of you as much, but the heartbreak is still there. I do not think that will ever go away. I know you and Jimmy are in a much better place than this world. I have become closer to God as you wished I would. I miss you so much I pray your having all your dreams that you could not have here. RIP mom
February 7, 2020
February 7, 2020
Miss Ya Sis.
February 7, 2020
February 7, 2020
I can not believe it has been so long since I told you I love you. It really seems like yesterday we had one of our long conversations. Time is really funny thing. I miss you still and the pain like you said would fade away with time. I just do not want you to fade away. I had a dream two nights ago with you showing me on an old projector a memory we shared together that made us happy. I believe it was you just saying hello. You also had two legs and was very happy. Wished the dream would have been longer. I pray you are in heaven with your family whom you had not seen in so long. Knowing It will not be long before I am joining you and Jimmy as the circle of life will go on. Thank You mother for getting me back on the right path so I can. You helped me so much in my life , even though I fought all the way. So much you was right about and I can see it all now . RIP mom I love you always and forever
August 3, 2018
August 3, 2018
Another year gone by and still miss you.
August 3, 2017
August 3, 2017
"Still Miss You Sis."
February 7, 2017
February 7, 2017
Still Miss You Sis.
August 3, 2016
August 3, 2016
I miss you memaw ill never forget you
August 3, 2016
August 3, 2016
Miss Ya Sis.
February 7, 2016
February 7, 2016
It seems just like yesterday, my mom was right that the first year would be the hardest after losing a parent and life will take over and start to ease the pain. I still cry from time to time but I know ahe is near us and watching us. As she dances with two legs now
February 7, 2016
February 7, 2016
Rest in Peace Big Sister.
August 8, 2015
August 8, 2015
I miss you ,your birthday was hard reminder your gone, I keep myself as busy as I can, But this year has been hard not to have you to talk to..
August 3, 2015
August 3, 2015
Happy Birthday. I Miss You Pam.
February 8, 2015
February 8, 2015
I miss you mother, I would have wrote yesterday I was trying to drown myself from this date , It is still hard not to pick up the phone to call you , I drive past the home sometimes. Nathen still gets upset ,he loved you so much and has been hard on him. We miss you and I hope your dancing ,seeing your parents and all things you wanted now
February 7, 2015
February 7, 2015
I Miss You Pam.
August 19, 2014
August 19, 2014
i miss you
August 3, 2014
August 3, 2014
Happy Birthday mom I really do miss you , so many times I want to talk to you ,but can't .This year really more than any other time I need you .
August 3, 2014
August 3, 2014
Happy Birthday Pam. I Miss You.
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
I just want to say your birthday has passed and it was hard as I found myself in the store looking for your gift. Nathen is has hard time cry misses his memaw he sleeps with your pillow and your smell still in it. I cry not from guilt as we had said everything we can to each other and was very close but i cry because I no longer have you in my life to talk to or share things or go out with
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
Big Sister I know you are in a better place hope to see you there someday. Love Your Little Brother
February 25, 2013
February 25, 2013
I didn't know Pamela, but i can tell she was an amazing woman by all of the kind words. I just want to share comfort from the scriptures at Revelation 21:3 &4-where Jehovah God promises to wipe out death forever and to resurrect our loved ones who have fallen asleep in death to a paradise earth through his son Jesus, free of any pain they would have suffered before.
February 23, 2013
February 23, 2013
http://youtu.be/_AlylMhav7w for you mom still missing you
February 23, 2013
February 23, 2013
From Nathen: She was a great grandma,it really sad that she died,it been hard time to go through it.:( I am so sad and my mom is too and I miss her and I cry
February 23, 2013
February 23, 2013
My mom went through more than any human being should ever go through. Through it all she always loved. Everyone. If our friends came over they became her adopted children. If she met someone she considered them a best friend. How anyone could go through so damn much and still be half the woman my mother was I will never know. I will always miss you, yet never really believe you are gone.
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
( Safely Home ) Im home in heaven,dear ones.oh so happy and so bright!There is a perfect joy and beauty in everlasting light.All the pain and grief is over,Every restless tossing passed;i'm now at peace forever,Safely home in heaven at last. pt.1
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
There is work still waiting for you,So you must not idly stand,Do it now,while life remaineth.You shall rest in Gods own land.When that work is all completed.He will gently call you home;Oh,the rapture of that meeting Oh,the joy to see you come!
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
"( I'm Free ) Dont grieve for me ,for now Im free Im following the path God laid for me.I took his hand when I heard him call I turned my back and left it all.I could not stay another day to laugh,love or play.Tasks left undone must stay that way.I found that place at the close of day.If my passing has left a void fill it with remembered joy. pt. 1"
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
A friendship shared,a laugh,a kiss.yes these things,I too will miss.Be not burdened with times of sorrow.I wish the sunshine of tomorrow.my lifes been full,I savored much good friends,good times,a loved ones touch.Perhaps my time seemed all too brief;Dont lengthin it now with undue grief.Lit up your heart & share with me God wanted me now,He set me free.
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
From Sabrina Link: Memaw I will not forget your famous cinnamon toast you made for us, Memaw was a great woman and loving, She was strong and funny. I will miss the times we shared, I am so glad to have had the time I had with such a remarkable woman. She always had good advice when you needed and she always made you feel good about yourself, I will miss you and will see you one day
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
Memal was the most amazing person if you got to know her. She loved her children, grandchildren & everyone who was close to her without regards to judgement. She forgave & let go. She cherished & loved god I remember the stories she would tell me. She helped me find my faith. She had a heart of gold. I loved her so much! She was a warm person with constant love & devotion to give.
February 18, 2013
February 18, 2013
Oh how I miss you mom, Who would have thought that me and you would have been such best of friends. My heart feels like it has been rip from my chest. I still pick up the phone to try and call you, I miss talking to you everyday. I missing visiting you , I even miss when we have our fights. I am so happy I was able to know who you was and share your memories and life. I love you 4ever
February 18, 2013
February 18, 2013
My mother , if you did not take the time to get to know her , you lost out. She was the strongest ,bravest woman she had a heart so big, she was forgiving and loving. She was funny and life was always interesting with her . She cared about her children so much no matter what they may have done or was doing to her or others. She loved her grandkids so much. My best true friend in the world
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February 3, 2023
February 3, 2023
Hello Mom,
It is that time of year, and this year plays harder. I just can't believe it has been 10 year's since I last hugged you, talked to you . Nathen and I was discussing how it feels like yesterday. You was right it did get easier without you, but there are times that just bring me down without you here. Well so much has happened in this last 10 years, so many times I wished I could have called you. I think you would be proud of the once long ago troubled soul I was. I finally got it mom , just did not happen fully till you was gone. Mom Nathen grew up and he is the kindest soul, so honest and a bit stubborn like his mom and memaw lol but you would be so proud of him . The girls are grown and not around , man mom that hurts...but that just makes me understand you more now.
I know your around from time to time,but it's been a while since you visited , have not smelled your perfume in a few years , maybe your up in heaven having the time of your life . You so much deserve it, your life was not an easy one mom, I know it and I am sorry it was as such. I will miss you till the day we meet again , love you your daughter Rhonda
It is that time of year, and this year plays harder. I just can't believe it has been 10 year's since I last hugged you, talked to you . Nathen and I was discussing how it feels like yesterday. You was right it did get easier without you, but there are times that just bring me down without you here. Well so much has happened in this last 10 years, so many times I wished I could have called you. I think you would be proud of the once long ago troubled soul I was. I finally got it mom , just did not happen fully till you was gone. Mom Nathen grew up and he is the kindest soul, so honest and a bit stubborn like his mom and memaw lol but you would be so proud of him . The girls are grown and not around , man mom that hurts...but that just makes me understand you more now.
I know your around from time to time,but it's been a while since you visited , have not smelled your perfume in a few years , maybe your up in heaven having the time of your life . You so much deserve it, your life was not an easy one mom, I know it and I am sorry it was as such. I will miss you till the day we meet again , love you your daughter Rhonda
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August 3, 2022
Miss You Baby Girl.
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October 20, 2013
It has now been eight months since you passed away , and it still feels like it happened today. The memories that I had and thought I had long forgoten has flooded back to me in these past months. Maybe it is you placing them back in my mind so I will not forget . Being without you in my life has been a big life change for me , I am no longer the same person as I was, I am not sure who I am any more. Mom Without you is one of the Hardest things I faced as I never imgined a day I could not call you , or a day I could not spend with you . I am so happy of all the times we talked and the stories you shared of your past with me good and bad, I am so happy I grew up in time to become your best friend and a better daughter . I feel lonley without you and I can not help to be shelfish and want you back with me, although I know you no longer suffer as you did here on earth, I know our last deep talk was of you saying you Loved me and talking about when you will die and we got what we both needed to say to each other out ,but I still feel like there is more to say . My heart aches and my life will never be the same without you Mom.
I miss you and love you till I get to see you again God willing ,Your daughter and best friend Rhonda.
Thanksgiving Day
February 18, 2013
This photo was taken on 11/2012 . Pamela came over to spend Thanksgiving day with Rhonda and Alladdin , All who attended was Robert Swadley, Pamela Swadley,
Sabrina Link, Kristina and Robert Johnson, Nathen Fankhauser, Ashley Sims and her children. I (rhonda) had cooked a huge meal and turkey, my mother(pamela) ate so much, she really had a very good time, talking and shareing memories with all of us, she told my husband(alladdin) about how my best friend Ashley and I got in so much trouble as teenagers and how much she proud of Ashley and how she grew up.How proud she was of me as well and that was one of the best Thanksgiving I think I will ever have , never knew it would be my last with her. God rest your soul Mom
In Photo : Robert Swadley, Pamela Swadley, Alladdin Shareif