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Pansy Joy Allem, 97, March 18, 1917 – February 23, 2015.  Born to Solomon & Ramza Hamaty in Jamaica, West Indies. Pansy was a beloved daughter, sister, wife, mother, aunt, grandmother, great grandmother, woman and friend.  All those who knew Pansy will miss her laughter, kindness, resilient strength and loving intentions. 

Pansy came to the United States from Jamaica to attend college.  While in the states, she met and later married Amin Allem on January 20, 1946.  After several years in Allentown, Pennsylvania, they made their home in Miami, Florida.  She was very active as a volunteer at her childrens’ school and a member of the Order of the Eastern Star.  Following her husband’s death, Pansy relocated to Palm Beach Gardens where she became an active member of the Palm Beach Gardens Women’s Club.  She had a passion of giving her time and talents to those around her; she was a true servant leader.  In 2013, Pansy moved to Tallahassee where she lived out her days surrounded by her daughter, grandchildren and great grandchildren. 

Some of her favorite times were spent at the water’s edge, feet in the sand and telling her family stories of her life.  Laughing with her was a wonderful treasure.

Pansy was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Amin Allem; brothers, Lynval, Evelyn, Edward and Emile Hamaty. She is survived by her children, Kay Stephenson (Mike), A.G. Allem, Roy Allem (Susan); sisters, Cynthia Skaff, Una Bardowell; grandchildren, Christina Lake (William), Michael Stephenson (Laura), Stephani Miller, Alyssa Allem; great grandchildren, Cooper Lake, Ava Lake, McKenzie Miller, Ella Lake, Scarlett Stephenson, Hudson Miller, Sloan Stephenson and Savannah Stephenson.

 A celebration of Pansy’s life will be held on Saturday, March 14th, at 11:30 am at St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, Palm Beach Gardens, FL.  In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in her memory to St. Jude Children’s Hospital or the Shriner’s Children’s Hospital.

St. Jude Children’s Hospital: https://shop.stjude.org/GiftCatalog/donation.do?cID=14262&pID=24671

Shriner’s Children’s Hospital:

https://www.shrinershospitalsforchildren.org/donate

March 18
March 18
Happy Birthday Grandma! Celebrating you especially today! Can't wait to see your wonderful smile again! I love you!
March 18
March 18
Happy Birthday mom.I love now and forever. Until we are all together again.
A.G.Jr.
March 18
March 18
Happy Birthday Mom, celebrating your 107th birthday in heaven with Dad and all of our other loved ones. We all miss you and think about you often. You would be so proud of your grandchildren and great grandchildren. Love you more than words can express. 
February 24
February 24
Hi Mom,

We all love you and miss you very much. I know you and dad are looking down and watching over us. God bless you and dad. Love you.
February 23
February 23
Oh mom my love for you has no end.Please give my best to Dad,Aunt Catherine and all the rest.You will always be a part of my very being.Until we meet up again.Love You so much.
Number One Son A.G. jr.
February 23
February 23
To a beautiful spirit and wonderful mother on the ninth anniversary of your being in the arms of the Lord, we miss you so very much. Your grandchildren and great grandchildren would amaze you. I still can hear that infectious laugh and smile. With all my love, Kay
May 14, 2023
May 14, 2023
Happy Mother’s Day to the most wonderful Mother in the whole world. Love you and miss you so much. Hugs
May 13, 2023
May 13, 2023
Happy mother's day Mom miss you always give my best to everyone I think about you all the time sweetheart.Love so much. A.G.Jr.
March 19, 2023
March 19, 2023
Dear Aunt Pansy,
Remembering you on your birthday. You will always be in my heart. I Love you.
Hoping things are great up there.
March 18, 2023
March 18, 2023
Aunt Pansy-
The memories of your home in Miami will forever be dear to me! You always made sure there was food at the table, joy, love and fun for all who visited your home! Thank you! I have no doubt that you’re in heaven with my beloved Daddy, Grandparents (Munair & Tatiana) , Aunt Deana, Uncle Eddie and of course your loving husband Uncle Amine and all those loved ones we have lost. I love and cherish you for all that you gave to so many during your lifetime! R.I.P.
March 18, 2023
March 18, 2023
Hi Mom,

Love your very much and today is your 106th birthday. I always think of you and dad and miss you very much. Love Roy
March 18, 2023
March 18, 2023
Happy birthday Mom until we are together again I love you J always and Dad and
Aunt Catherine . Give them my best. God bless you sweetheart. A.G. jr.
March 18, 2023
March 18, 2023
Happy Birthday Grandma! Love you so much! Looking forward to celebrating with you one day.❤️❤️
March 18, 2023
March 18, 2023
Happy Birthday Mom, today you would be 106 years old. Aunt Una just had her 100th birthday. My prayer is that you, Dad and all our family are together today having a grand celebration with the Lord and praising Him. We all miss you, Dad and everyone so much. Blessings Kay
February 24, 2023
February 24, 2023
Hi Mom,

We all love you very much and miss you. You were the best mom, grandma and great grandma we could have. Tell dad I said hello and I look forward to when we are all together again. Love Roy
February 23, 2023
February 23, 2023
Hi mom, of course I think of you all the time. You are the greatest mother one can have. I'll always miss you, Dad, and Aunt Catherine and look forward to meeting up with you again God bless you .Love you so much. #1son A.G. Jr.
February 23, 2023
February 23, 2023
To the sweetest Grandmother - I miss you so much! Seems like just yesterday we were laughing and talking up a storm to one another. I miss those days so much - especially as I get older. Please know how much you are loved! Can't wait to see you again and that beautiful smile!

All my love - Christina
February 23, 2023
February 23, 2023
Aunt Pansy. You left lasting memorories to your family & friends...Rest in perfect peace
February 23, 2023
February 23, 2023
To the Sweetest Mom in all the world, I miss you so very much and especially your calming nature, beautiful smile and infectious laugh. Although you are in heaven with our Savior, Dad and loved ones who have passed; you will always be with me as you have a very special place in my heart.  Lots of Love
February 23, 2023
February 23, 2023
My heart is full this morning thinking of you. Today is the 8th anniversary of you going to be with the Lord. I can't wait to see you again and love you so much!
March 18, 2022
March 18, 2022
Hi mom. Happy birthday. I am sure you and dad are having a good time with the family on your birthday. We all miss you very much and think of you all the time. Love you and give our love to dad. Roy
March 18, 2022
March 18, 2022
Happy Birthday mom ,Hope you , dad, and aunt Catherine are together and well. I look forward to the day we are together again.I think about you often.How could I not think about you sweetheart.I love you now and forever.
A.G.  #1 Son
March 18, 2022
March 18, 2022
Good Morning Mom, Wow today we celebrate your 105th Birthday. I know you and Dad are in heaven with the Lord and all of our loved ones having a wonderful time in eternity--give everyone hugs from all of us here on earth. Lots of Love, Kay and Mike. 
February 25, 2022
February 25, 2022
Hi Mom,

We all love you very much and miss you. I know you and dad are having a good time. We good not ask for a better mom. Love Roy
February 24, 2022
February 24, 2022
Love you mom everyday.How could I forget you. You have a permanent place in my heart. I look forward to the day we are together again
Love you always A.G. #1 SON
February 23, 2022
February 23, 2022
Grandma,

We miss you all the time, and that beautiful smile.

Love always,

Michael and family!
February 23, 2022
February 23, 2022
Time does not go by that I do not remember and miss you so very much. You were always there to love and take care of our family. I especially loved watching you dote over your grandchildren. They talk about you often.
Sometimes when spending quiet time with the Lord, I feel you watching over me and almost see that smile and hear that infectious laugh. I know you are together with Dad and our other loved ones. What a time you must be having with everyone. All my love. Kay 
February 23, 2022
February 23, 2022
Grandma - oh how I miss you! You were the most wonderful person and my confidant. I have countless memories of our time together and anticipate being reunited with you some day! Your beautiful smile, laugh and humor are with me always - such an incredibly bright light!

All my love now and forever - Christina
February 23, 2022
February 23, 2022
Fond memories of dear Aunt Pansy...I can still hear your laughter. Rest in perfect peace
February 23, 2022
February 23, 2022
Many thoughts of you this day Grandma! Miss you more than words can say. I love you!
June 14, 2021
June 14, 2021
Dearest Pansy Happy Birthday. I think of you every day and miss you more every day. I can see you keeping everybody entertained and giving them all
the jokes laughing and keeping everybody happy. I love you dearly and miss you And at my age 98 years I am sure I will see you soon. Cynthia went to see you At 99 years so I am the last one left of the family. Bye now until I see you.
I love and miss you. Una
June 14, 2021
June 14, 2021
Good Morning Mom, I think about you all the time and today it is even stronger. Thirty Seven Years ago today, Dad went home to be with the Lord and now the two of you are together through eternity, laughing and smiling with the rest of our family in heaven. Hugs and Kisses for you both. Love forever, Kay
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Happy Mother’s Day. You are always in my thoughts and prayers; you were a wonderful Mom, Grandma and Great Grandma and we all miss your warm heart and infectious laugh. God bless✝️
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Hi mom,
I cannot believe you are 104 today. I know you and dad are having a good time. Alyssa is getting close to graduating from Medical School. We all miss you very much and we love you.
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Happy birthday Mom.Love you always and forever and look forward to the day we all will be together again with Dad too. A.G. Number one son !
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Happy 104 Grandma! Today we will remember you with joy, laughter, and the knowledge of how blessed we all were to have you in our lives. Until we see you again. I love and miss you so much!
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Happy Birthday to my dearest Sister Pansy in Heaven - I can see you So happy
with that famous laugh. I still think of our times together and still miss you.Until we meet again may your memories be eternal.
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Happy Birthday Mom, you loved God, family and friends. Today you are 104 and your laughter and infectious smile remain in our hearts. We miss you and think about you everyday. Alyssa is going to graduate from medical school in May and Cooper will be 20 this week; praying you and Dad will celebrate from heaven. Your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren always recall the fun times with you. Love, life and laughter surrounded you. God Bless
March 13, 2021
March 13, 2021
It’s hard to believe it’s been 6 years. I miss you so much! We love you and think about you often.
February 24, 2021
February 24, 2021
Pansy, my dear beloved sister. I miss you so much and think of you often and all that you have meant to me. I cannot believe it has been six years since you went to be with our Lord. Looking forward to seeing you again Rest in Peace.
February 23, 2021
February 23, 2021
Hard to believe that it has been 6 years since you went to be with our Lord. I love and miss you so much! Until we see each other again, I'll remember all that we have shared and all that you have meant to me...your infectious laugh, wonderful stories, and the most loving heart. Give a kiss to grandpa for me!
February 23, 2021
February 23, 2021
To the most loving Mother - Six Years today you went to be with the Lord, and are rejoicing with Dad and all of our family in heaven. Together you are angels looking down on those you love. Christina, Michael & Stephani all miss you.
Your great grand-children are growing in their relationship with Jesus and continue to love and remember their "GG". Alyssa will soon be a doctor, Cooper is in college and Ava, Ella, Scarlett, Sloan, Savannah Pansy-Kate, Mackenzie and Hudson are so loving and beautiful; you would be so proud of them. Hugs & Kisses, Kay
February 23, 2021
February 23, 2021
Remembering you especially today....Many fond memories. Rest in Peace Aunt Pansy.
February 23, 2021
February 23, 2021
Dearest Grandma!

We miss you dearly every day! We often cherish the wonderful times and fond memories. I often hear the sound of your joyous laugh in my head, and it still makes me smile. Rest in peace to one of the sweetest souls we have ever known! God Bless always!

Love,

Michael and family
March 18, 2020
March 18, 2020
Celebrating you today which would be your 103rd Birthday! Missing you and dreaming of seeing your smile again. I love you so much Grandma!
March 18, 2020
March 18, 2020
FOND MEMORIES OF YOU AUNT PANSY...YOU LIVED LOVED AND LAUGHED. REST NOW ON PERFECT PEACE 
NIECE SONIA
March 18, 2020
March 18, 2020
Happy 103rd Birthday Mom. I am sure you, dad and all of our loved ones that are in heaven are celebrating with you today! We miss and love you very much. I can hear your laughter as you say "My Lord" that is good cake.  Hugs & God's Blessings!
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March 18
March 18
Happy Birthday Grandma! Celebrating you especially today! Can't wait to see your wonderful smile again! I love you!
March 18
March 18
Happy Birthday mom.I love now and forever. Until we are all together again.
A.G.Jr.
March 18
March 18
Happy Birthday Mom, celebrating your 107th birthday in heaven with Dad and all of our other loved ones. We all miss you and think about you often. You would be so proud of your grandchildren and great grandchildren. Love you more than words can express. 
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My Confidant

March 19, 2015

I know you are smiling down on all of us!  Your smile was contagious and I will forever be grateful to God for blessing me with such a wonderful Grandmother.  I have countless memories of our talks, so many things I confided in you....and you were always intently listening and offering my a shoulder, a hug, a laugh and incredible wisdom.

Thank you for showing me the meaning of unconditional love and support!  You are forever in my heart and mind.

Love always - Christina   

Happy Heavenly Birthday Aunt Pansy

March 18, 2015

Until we see each other again Aunt Pansy, rest in peace.  I can hear your sweet and unique voice  speaking to us all. I can also hear my beloved Grandma Tati singing Happy Birthday to you.   Thank you for your love, wisdom and beautiful memories, you were at all the special ocassions....our wedding and the Christening of all 3 children. We are so blessed to have had you for so long.  We will miss you.

Love always
Monique, Marcus, Jayda, Nadia & Brandon  
XOXO

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