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Patricia was born March 12, 1938 in Exeter, New Hampshire, the only child of Mildred and Thomas Rooney.  Pat met her future husband,  Richard,  while they were they both attending the University of New Hampshire, she an English major and he in the Electrical Engineering curriculum.  They became engaged while she was still a Senior and arranged to be married upon her graduation. They were married June 29, 1959 in Shelby, Montana, where he was working as a field engineer for a defense contractor.  They moved often during the early years, following Richards jobs.  Pat taught elementary school in New Hampshire before moving to California in the 60's.  Their son Thomas was born in 1961, while living in Missouri.  David followed in 1965, while living in Lompoc, Caifornia.  The family finally settled down and bought a house in Sunnyvale in 1970.  Patricia taught at several schools in the area, retiring as a 5th grade teacher from Empire Gardens in San Jose.  She received her Master's degree in Library Science from San Jose State in 1978. The Funke family got involved in the 4-H program while the boys were young.  Patricia founded the El Dorado 4-H club and was the community leader for many years.  She has served on the 4-H county council, but is best know for her role in the management of the stills exhibits at the Santa Clara County Fair.  Needle work and fiber arts were a passion of Patricia's.  She was very active in the following guilds; the American Needleworkers Guild, two local chapters of The Embroiderers Guild of America, and Glenna Harris Weaver's.  She represented  her local guild at the Conference of Northern California Handweavers (CNCH) and served the CNCH as it's Outreach Chair.  She is survived by her husband of 60 years, Richard, her son, David, daughter in-law Kathy and her grandchildren Nick and Beth.   

March 12, 2022
March 12, 2022
Pat would have been so surprised her birthday this year marks the closure of the SF EGA assets. She was such a presence in our educational outreach, with great humor during the good years, more difficult since she’s gone.
August 23, 2021
August 23, 2021
It is hard to believe it has been 3 years. She was such a wonderful lady. She ALWAYS made me feel welcome & freely gave her support & advice on any topic. I know she was a gift to many, but the stitching community lost a treasurer.
September 12, 2020
September 12, 2020
Time has gone so fast- but you are always remembered like it was yesterday❤️!
September 11, 2020
September 11, 2020
I was so sorry to find out you had passed on. I have been trying for years to find you. Reading your tributes, you had accomplished so much in your life and was so talented and loved. Sorry we never got together again. Your second cousin Carol (Stevens) Modest.
March 12, 2020
March 12, 2020
Remembering a sweet, talented and generous woman I was grateful to call my friend.

Thinking of you with love Pat.
Sara
September 16, 2018
September 16, 2018
It was with great shock&sadness that we learned of your passing. I will miss the great conversations & enthusiasm you had for crafts although we knew it was needle works that were your passion.
It has been a pleasure to know
Pat&Rich and how they shared their time,experiences...they were a inspiration to a lot of us.
They got the Calabash Gourd Group involved in the county fair,which has a benefit to all.
To Rich and family,
May loving memories help ease the
pain in your ♥️
September 15, 2018
September 15, 2018
Dear Rich, I know in your time of sorrow, you may not want to read this, but it does help me to write it down.. 
   It seems so strange, that only a few weeks ago, I was talking to Pat. Whether she’s happy or annoyed, I always enjoyed talking with and listening to Pat! She made everything sound interesting and fun! 
   I treasure the day we were learning Tenerife and she saw me struggling to thread a needle. She showed me an easy method to pop the thread up through eye, I still do it this way! 
   I know Calabash Gourd Club will miss Pat. The embroidery guilds will miss Pat. All the needlework and fiber arts shows she attended, will miss Pat. The Santa Clara County Fair will really miss Pat. But mostly I know, that I will miss Pat!
September 14, 2018
September 14, 2018
You will be missed very much. As a fellow librarian and a fellow stitcher I know how much you contributed to EGA and ANG over the years. Your efforts to get the Mt Madonna Needlepointers guild going were nothing short of heroic. Thank you. And also your support of fellow guild members showing off their needlework at the county fair each year. Thank you for all you did.
September 14, 2018
September 14, 2018
RIP Pat. As a colleague and fellow librarian I know how much you did for so many children. As a fellow 4Her, you added so much over the years to the program and the youth members.  At the fair you were indispensable. You are missed very much.
September 8, 2018
September 8, 2018
Farewell Pat
Dear Dick and all your family,
   Pat was my friend for over forty years and in so many unique connections that I hardly know how to express my sadness in hearing of your loss, our loss. She was so talented and capable and dedicated to the people and interests she cared about that her passing leaves us unsure how to support those areas where her expertise was key to successful continuity. The Santa Clara County Fair comes immediately to mind.
   I want to remember the happy times we shared, like the Fair, especially when it was two weeks long. There was also the 4-H summer camp at La Honda where Pat taught crafts, Dick and Tom barbecued and Lonnie and I spent a day at a laundromat drying out forty wet sleeping bags! Thank you, Pat, for introducing me to the woman who raised Mary, the black sheep that my sister adopted. That started my sister and her whole family off on a 4-H adventure and my sister became an avid spinner. I was privileged to be part of the County Fair Stills Building team working with Margie, Anna and Dick and the other talented judges and generous volunteers that Pat recruited.
   I was always delighted to find Pat and I had signed up for the same class. Once at the EGA National Seminar in New Mexico, Pat was the only safe and sane scooter driver in the hotel where about three dozen women had rented scooters most had never used before. It quickly became a Wild West rodeo experience just getting to class. Pat was the only one I didn't worry about being run over or hit by. Attendees are supposed to recall their classes, projects and teachers. I remember a lot of exercise, some of it dodging scooters, except for Pat's.
   Thank you, old friend for your calm demeanor, your quiet guidance and your pragmatic approach to all the problems life sent you. I enjoyed your company immensely and I will remember you fondly, always. My sincere condolences to you, Dick, and all your family.
Linda Randolphi
September 7, 2018
September 7, 2018
The 4-H community will miss Pat. Not only was she part of the foundation that made the stills area at fair run smoothly, she took time to acknowledge the youth and their efforts. Even last month, she asked me about my children and what they were doing now. She seemed to remember all of the kids and the new kids that had entered "outstanding" stills entries. It always warmed my heart, as I would enter the stills building and see Pat (with a big grin on her face) and the stills team. They seemed to have a blast, in spite of the tireless hours and random "odd" entry. Pat's absence will be felt in years to come. However, her attention to details will inspire others. My heartfelt condolences to the Funke family as you carry on with Pat always in your heart. <3
September 6, 2018
September 6, 2018
Pat was my back up mom when as a teenager I needed her most. She provided a solid and calm foundation for my life. I have so many very very happy memories of my life in 4H, at the county fair and in the library at Eisenhower Elementary School. All of these peaceful memories. I don't think we realize how much people impact us until we need the lessons they gave. In June my three year old daughter was diagnosed with kidney disease. In the middle of the night feeling very overwhelmed I remember that I already knew how to "do" this new life, because I had an awesome example. Pat and Richard were might examples of how to live life to the fullest. Thank you for loving me when I needed it and for loving all of us. Pat you are an important part of who I am. With love, Tracy
September 4, 2018
September 4, 2018
Pat's quiet composure could still reveal giddy enthusiasm for so many needlework outreach public efforts to be made in the 36 or more years since the regional EGA seminars at Mills College where we met, through this decade. Loved her determinations & encouragements. My sympathies & comfort to the family.
September 3, 2018
September 3, 2018
Dear Pat...through all the wonderful years of EGA and GPR you were indeed my mentor.  You taught me so many things and always inspired me to try new things. I loved hearing all the interesting stories you told about your childhood in New Hampshire. You made me laugh so hard! You are one in a million my friend. I feel lucky to have known you. You will never be forgotten.
September 2, 2018
September 2, 2018
I am so sorry to hear that Pat is no longer with us. For the last forty years that I have known her she is someone that you expect to always be there. She was certainly a fixture in the Embroider's Guild through her volunteer hours at the National level as Youth Coordinator to many, many jobs at the Region and chapter levels. She was also a great story teller. She kept us in stitches with laughter at many committee meetings with her tales of growing up in New Hampshire and the early stories of her travels with Richard.
September 1, 2018
September 1, 2018
We are sad to hear of Pat’s passing. She will be missed by her many friends in EGA. Her energy and enthusiasm for the stitching arts were beneficial to many. May memories of happy times bring a measure of comfort to her family and friends.
From Pat’s friends in the Evergreen Chapter of EGA
September 1, 2018
September 1, 2018
I am simply heartbroken... She is one of the many people I admire, precisely, for her quiet, behind-the-scenes, tireless volunteering. She even asked me this past fair what happened to the [lack of] Pivas' stills that she was looking forward to seeing (NB: we had quite a rough year, and only one mandatory still was entered). I was overcome with emotion asking myself how she could remember my kids from so many others...
Rest in peace, beloved Pat. You are and will be sorely missed...
August 31, 2018
August 31, 2018
I count myself lucky to have known and spent time with Pat. I met her by attending the Greater Pacific Region of the Embroiderers' Guild of American region meetings. She convinced me to volunteer with Outreach, her position for a very long time at the region level. We had SO much fun at Maker's Faire; last time we attended I convinced her to purchase some furry ears - but our picture was lost to computer failure.
She always had a smile, a hug, and a kind word for me. Always encouraging me in my stitching, and trying to convince me to take her place as Outreach for region. Now, I am going to figure out how I can fulfill her request as a way to honor and thank her for all she did for EGA. I will miss you dearly Pat, have fun racing around up there. ;)
August 31, 2018
August 31, 2018
For the 18 years I have been a member of GPR and EGA, Pat was an inspiration and mentor. She always had a smile while gently nudging me onward to further service, listening to new ideas (no matter how wild) and rekindling my energy in whatever roll I was then playing on the Region Board or for my local chapter, Marin Golden Threads. It's a rare gift to be able to corral another person's best features, quell their poorest, and always to do it with respect and love.
Pat, you taught all of us so much; mostly that mentoring another person makes both of you stronger. In memory of you, we will pass it forward.
You hoo, angels 'up there': get cracking on your handcrafts; someone very special is there to guide you. Don't miss a minute with her; we all hold close the precious time she spent with each of us 'down here'.
August 31, 2018
August 31, 2018
There is not enough room to share all the support Pat gave to The Embroiderers’ Guild of America and our local Greater Pacific Region. Pat was always there, helping and guiding us, sharing her smile and words of encouragement. I didn’t know, until I read the description of Pat’s life that she and Dick shared their anniversary date with my husband Bill and me, just ten years apart. That makes the affection I have for Pat even more special.
The empty place her passing leaves in our lives can never be filled by anyone else, because Pat was an amazing, unique person. I miss you already, Pat. See you on the other side.
August 31, 2018
August 31, 2018
Pat will always hold a special place in my heart. I enjoyed years of friendship with her through EGA - seminar committees, classes, workshops, and the region board. I will remember her laugh, her passion for teaching, and her making fun of some fabric I dyed that didn't turn out very well. I will think of her and smile every time I see the embroidery on my "liver spots" fabric. And I can't help but wonder how many guilds she has already joined in heaven, or is she busy starting new ones?
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
As a young boy filled with way too much energy, Pat channeled that energy. Her continual support, patience, and sense of humor made my awkward adolescent years all the more survivable. The El Dorado 4-H Club was a second family. And while we learned how to raise sheep, lead conferences, speak in public, create projects, be silly, discover our own strengths and weaknesses, and really anything else that she brought our way, she corralled our teenage craziness guiding us into adulthood. Little did we know what she taught us would be so applicable to the world. And while we spent many late nights getting ready for the next Asilomar conference or completing the 4-H yearly record report or the mad dash figuring out how to remove a stain from a white shirt or pair of pants before presenting at the fair (all white uniforms for teenagers…really?), she would guide us through each crisis with levity and occasionally a well-deserved talking. The man I am today can be clearly traced back to the impact Pat had on my life. El Dorado might be a mythical golden empire, but what she gave us was very real, very valuable, and very loving.
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
I appreciate all she did for the stills exhibit. The fair will not be the same .Pat will be truly missed.
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
I appreciate all she did for the stills exhibit. The fair will not be the same .
Pat will be truly missed
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
I spoke with Pat at this year's fair and later saw the basketweaving that she shared with the county in the volunteers section of stills. I wanted to tell her how much I enjoyed her work. She's one of those people that you think will always be around.
I thank you Pat, for having a hand in raising my son as you did with all your 4-H kids. I will miss you.
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
We really looked forward to seeing you every year at the Fair (for the last 6 years!). You were still teasing us about our boxes and boxes of items just a couple weeks ago. We know we made it hard on you with all our items, but you got them right every single time... We also enjoyed seeing all the items that you made as well. We really appreciate all your efforts in making sure that everyone had a great time exhibiting. You will be missed.
Ethan, Ryan, and Nathan Chi
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
I’m sorry to of Pat’s passing. I have fond memories of Pat when I was GPR Director.
Sharon Barrea
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
I am so sorry to hear of Pat's passing! I met her my first night at SCVC EGA and she showed me how to make a quilters knot! I will miss her laugh as I remember hearing it often!
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
Wow, it seems like yesterday Pat and her husband was in Stills building at the Santa Clara County Fair, with Pat saying, "this entry doesn't go in this category; it goes over here." When people are invaluable and make a difference, the world seems to stop spinning with them gone. Their leaving seems to knock the world off its axis. Life stops when you hear that they are missing in our lives and have left this earth.  Pat, I thanked you then for all you kindness by your gift to the fair and for your love for kids. I publicly thank you now being the light that made youth be able to show their stills achievements to the community. 
August 30, 2018
August 30, 2018
Dear Pat - we will miss your drive, perseverance and persistence. I had the pleasure of working with you on Embroidery Bling project, the Makers Fair in San Mateo and saw you several times at the Gavilan EGA chapter meetings. You were an inspiration and shared your love and passion for embroidery with many. My heart goes out to your husband and family for their loss. I will remember the good times we shared. Thank you for being part of my life!
Liesbeth
August 29, 2018
August 29, 2018
Oh, Pat how I will miss your smiling face in spite of anything else that was happening to you. You made coming to The Fair seem like a breeze, If you could do it so could I. I will carry that cheerfulness with me always.
August 29, 2018
August 29, 2018
I am saddened to hear of the passing of my friend Pat Funke.  I got to know her in several needlework groups, South Bay American Needlepoint Guild, Gavilan Hills EGA, Mt. Madonna Needlepointers, and the Santa Clara Valley Embroiders Guild. We did programs together for the South Bay ANG Chapter for 2 years. She did the stitching demos and I worked with the teachers. She told me I needed to do that since she grew up an only child in the woods of New Hampshire and didn't have good people skills, mainly being around animals! 
She worked tirelessly for the needlework groups in various capacities, President, Programs, Outreach for chapters and the National EGA, Region Rep, it goes on and on.  And she was very involved in getting the needlework category in the Santa Clara County Fair.  She was also a devote weaver and quilter. 

Although we haven't seen much of her in the past couple of years due to being ill, she was there in spirit and we would know how she would react to certain ideas or situations. 
Pat and I talked about some health issues we had in common and it was comforting to know she understood what I was going through too.  She started to teach me how to needlepoint but I didn't get too far, but she was very patient! 
All of the needleworkers who knew her owe much to the Pat and the life she brought to all the chapters.
Kim Graham
Co President Gavilan Hills EGA Chapter
August 29, 2018
August 29, 2018
Sally & I loved to spend time with Pat, she will be missed.
I know how hard it is for all of you as you are faced with creating a new life without her.
I wish you all the best as you heal from this .
Roger
August 28, 2018
August 28, 2018
I appreciate everything you did for me when I first joined 4-H. You were the one who inspired me to enter my record book for county competition.

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March 12, 2022
March 12, 2022
Pat would have been so surprised her birthday this year marks the closure of the SF EGA assets. She was such a presence in our educational outreach, with great humor during the good years, more difficult since she’s gone.
August 23, 2021
August 23, 2021
It is hard to believe it has been 3 years. She was such a wonderful lady. She ALWAYS made me feel welcome & freely gave her support & advice on any topic. I know she was a gift to many, but the stitching community lost a treasurer.
September 12, 2020
September 12, 2020
Time has gone so fast- but you are always remembered like it was yesterday❤️!
Recent stories
August 28, 2018

One summer, my parents decided that my sisters and I should help set up the stills building at fair. We spent all week at the fair helping with judging and set-up. That was when I met Mrs. Funke. I would avoid her because I was afraid that she might talk to me. Yikes! She was direct and to the point. As an 8-year old I was afraid of her. It took me years to find out that she was actually a really nice person.

Year after year, I would return to the Fair and Mrs. Funke was always in the Stills Building. I don't know how she had the patience to do all of the stills judging and set-up for 30+ years. Most of the current 4-Hers don't know how many still exhibits their used to be. She put in so much time and effort to keep the Stills Building looking good with the kids' exhibits.

She was a Club Leader for El Dorado for years and later formed the Empire Gardens Club. She held those clubs together, she was the glue. The Empire Gardens 4-H club was in a low-income area and she fought to keep that club alive too. 

Pat Funke was a dedicated 4-H champion who persevered for decades to keep the program going. I am amazed at everything that she has done. She gave her heart to the 4-H program. Every time I see the Stills building at Fair, I will continue to remember her. 

Traveling to the Regional 4-H conference

August 28, 2018

The Funke family had a motor home they affectionately called Grover.  I remember one trip as an All Star. We were traveling to UC Riverside to attend a conference.  Our team was hanging out in the back of Grover, talking and playing cards the whole way.  It was one of those really hot summer days, and at the top of the Grapevine, Grover overheated and stopped running.  Poor Pat, she had 5 crazy teenagers to deal with as well as a broken down motor home, with miles to go before we reached our destination.  This was in the days before cell phones.  We all wanted to help, so I remember us crossing I-5 to find a telephone at the ranger station across the way.  Pat stayed calm and let us help her solve the problem.  She was grace under pressure, always believing in the power of kids.

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