Pat was born mentally challenged. I think God gave her to our family because he knew our family would love her and give her a good life. Pattycakes will always be missed by many, she has touched so many lives. Even the new family members that was not born at the time of her death knows her.she loved to play cards or any game that you would play with her. She would save poptabs and turn them in to help people woth kidney dialises. She loved babies. She was the world to me. Mom would let her stay with me and i kept her for around 30 years on and off she knew she was differemt when people would stare at her, I would always tell her that only means you are special. It never really bothered her when mainly kids would look. She was always happy in life. She just wanted to be loved and our family showed her just that. God received his special person back. Doctors said she wouldnt live tp be 7 yrs old. Bit God gave her to us for 60 yrs. Thank you Lord.pattycakes loved to go to the circus and to the zoos, the large snakes would scare her but she loved the big elephants. her favorite ride was the gravity ride, she loved to dance and wasnt that bad at it either.her favorite person to listen to on the radio was michael jackson, her favorite nascar driver was kasy kane. she loved to swim and lay out, liked to drink a beer once in awhile even though she knew i never liked it, she would say, me old enough, and i would have to smile inside of coarse. she wasnt much on pets only birds, she never wanted to take care of them other than that she loved being around them, guess in some ways that makes her smarter than alot of us. never took much to make her happy. i miss you so much sissy. she was the oldest of six children, proceeding her in death were her father Jack c. Grubb and Lillian Messer Grubb, her brother Earl L. Grubb and a very special uncle who she adored Willie Marcum Jr. her grandparents Willie and Evie Marcum and Henry H. and Kathlene Grubb.
