Even though time has passed since you departed from Earth, I still think about you a lot. I don't know how old you would be this year...but I think it's old :).
Just kidding. I know you are loved in heaven, but you are still remembered and loved here, too.
I read somewhere that those in heaven can still pray for those they leave behind. If this is so... Keep praying. We need it. Pat, you and Askia are still missed very much by your family.