Patricia Kightlinger
Patricia A. Kightlinger
  • 64 years old
  • Date of birth: Oct 19, 1951
  • Place of birth:
    Boston, Massachusetts, United States
  • Date of passing: Feb 26, 2016
  • Place of passing:
    Port Charlotte, Florida, United States
Let the memory of Patricia be with us forever

Patricia A. (Fahy) Kightlinger, age 64 of Port Charlotte, FL, formally of South Boston, MA, passed away peacefully at home on February 26, 2016.

Beloved daughter of the late George "Spot" Ryan and the late Marie (Lydon) Ryan of South Boston. Devoted wife of Wendell Kightlinger of Port Charlotte, FL. Loving mother of Hilary Fahy Flaherty of South Boston, Jonathan Fahy and Fiance Jennifer Babcock of Quincy, and the late Marie "Mimi" McCarthy of South Boston. Loving Grandmother of Paige Fahy of Quincy, Maeve McCarthy of Maynard, and Liam Flaherty of South Boston. She was also the Great Grandmother of Jax and Ada Roobian of Quincy. Beloved Sister of Sheila Adams of South Boston, the late Marie "Mimi" Campbell of South Boston, and the late Alice Connolly of South Boston. Also survived by many nieces and nephews.

Patti had a great sense of humor, was always the life of the party and will be missed by many.

Relatives and friends are welcome to attend a memorial mass being held at Gate of Heaven Church, Thursday March 3rd at 10am. 

Patti may be kindly remembered at and on Facebook at

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Elle Mae on 19th October 2016

"Fat Pat:  I love you and miss you very much.  Always loved connecting with you on your birthday.  You are always in my heart and fondly in my memories.  I love you dearly."

This tribute was added by Maeve McCarthy on 8th May 2016

"I love you. Happy Mother's Day! Your with your little girl, which is all you've wanted. I went to pick up the phone today to call you to wish you a happy Mother's Day. I love you more than anything. Rest in peace. God bless be the best."

This tribute was added by monica carroway on 11th March 2016

"On behalf of all the Bingo friends at Charlotte Harbor Bingo, I wish to say that we will miss Patty.  Our sympathy to Patty's family.   Peace to you in heaven.."

This tribute was added by paula grant on 2nd March 2016

"RIP  Patty have entered into a  FREE  and Pain-less life let your WINGS  soar  you will be missed!!!!"

This tribute was added by Karen Macdonald on 1st March 2016

"My crazy friend....have many many memories going way back to SB Youth hockey going on all the were such a great Auntie too always supportive of your family......  FOXWOODS will never be the same without YOU.......Sheila so sorry for guys were so so close, my heart aches for you...You were a good sister and she always said it xoxo"

This tribute was added by Dotty Shea on 1st March 2016

"Pattie was a wonderful girl. I went to grammar school with her and she was always kind and generous.  I would like to extend my sincerest sympathy to Patti's family on this tremendous loss.   Pattie will always be remembered for the wonderful person she was."

This tribute was added by Kelly Butts on 1st March 2016

"Rest in peace Patty,  You were always so fun to be around.  The laughter you brought to Mimi and I while we were working at Dominics will never be forgotten.  Give Mimi and Big Dom a kiss for me."

This tribute was added by Joan Collins on 1st March 2016

My heart is broken.........Until we meet again.....   Love always, Joan      xoxoxoxo"

This tribute was added by Elle Mae on 29th February 2016

"Dear FatPat:  I love and miss you already.  We are saddened and shocked, but we know you are at peace.  May you be at peace in the arms of Jesus with your Mimis by your side.  You will be seriously sorely missed.  Your joy of life will live on in heaven and our memories with you will be forever."

This tribute was added by ICS Cremation and Funerals, Inc. on 29th February 2016

"R.I.P. Patti"

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