January 27
January 27
Happy birthday in heaven dad. Still think of you often throughout my days,weeks, months. Miss you. Xoxoxo
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September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Dad, I sit here in my backyard fixing some lawn equipment and it hits me all the knowledge you passed on to me has made me the man I am today. The way to treat everyone with respect, the way to treat my wife and my children.
I shed a tear and then feel your presence. I cant wait to feel your hug again. I love you dad.
I shed a tear and then feel your presence. I cant wait to feel your hug again. I love you dad.
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Ten years. Words simply can't express the void you left behind. You were such an enormous personality and without you, everything is just a little bit dimmer. We have all gone on to live, laugh and love, but if you were still with us then our lives would be that much brighter, our love would be deeper, and our laughter would definitely be louder, longer and more frequent. We love and miss you Dad.
January 27, 2023
January 27, 2023
"In Loving Memory On Your Birthday"
Thinking of you today
Wishing you were here
Remembering you
With a mountain of love
And an ocean full of tears.
Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day
Unseen. Unheard.
But always near
Still loved. Still missed
And very dear.
Thinking of you today
Wishing you were here
Remembering you
With a mountain of love
And an ocean full of tears.
Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day
Unseen. Unheard.
But always near
Still loved. Still missed
And very dear.
January 27, 2022
January 27, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad. Mom, your sons and daughters-in-law, your grandchildren, and great grandchildren (you have two now because Ryan and Sheena had a baby girl this past fall) are all doing well. We love and miss you.
January 27, 2022
January 27, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad!
Time passes so fast as I look at our newest members of the family Percival & Estelle and our new path we have chosen being on the road in our RV. I know that you look over us every day and help guild me to make the right decisions.
Thanks, Dad for all you have taught me to be the best man that I can.
Time passes so fast as I look at our newest members of the family Percival & Estelle and our new path we have chosen being on the road in our RV. I know that you look over us every day and help guild me to make the right decisions.
Thanks, Dad for all you have taught me to be the best man that I can.
September 4, 2021
September 4, 2021
Hi Dad! I know you've been watching over the family so you know that we're all doing well. Your sons are happy and thriving and your grandchildren are building loving and successful lives for themselves. Your great grandson just started school and there is a second great grandchild on the way - a girl this time. Obviously we wish you were here to share these joys in person, but I know you are keeping on eye on everyone. Until we meet again.....
September 4, 2021
September 4, 2021
Dad eight years ago you left all your pain and struggles behind you, you also left many happy memories and moments in our hearts and minds. You will never be forgotten and will always be missed. Today I get to help my son Brody fix up a car he has, just like you helped me so many times, your memory lives on with the things you taught us and the way we pass them on to others. I love and miss you dad.
January 27, 2021
January 27, 2021
Happy Birthday Dad! You'd be so happy for us - Shawn retired (well had to because his shoulders are a mess - I know you can relate). We sold most of our property and we are living as nomads - doing as we please and going where we want to. Wish you could be here to join us on our adventures. You're watching over us though - this I know! Even though you've been gone awhile, you're still a part of our lives - because we talk about you frequently. So you're gone but not forgotten - never forgotten. Happy Happy Birthday Dear Man.
September 4, 2020
September 4, 2020
Hi Dad. Seven years ago today. We all miss you dearly. I know that you're watching us so you know about your great-grandson Percy; the awesome people your grandchildren have become; what amazing men your sons are; and the incredible women they are married to. HaHa. And we know that you're watching over Mom but she's a strong lady and doing just fine so you don't need to worry. Life goes on but it doesn't mean we've forgotten you and the imprint you left on all our lives - that's simply not possible. You live on-in our memories and our hearts. Blowing kisses to you in Heaven. Kim
September 4, 2019
September 4, 2019
Six years....we still miss you every day. I hope you and Brian are behaving in Heaven, but I suspect you're both using your charm and sense of humor to get into a little mischief. That's okay; we wouldn't recognize either of you otherwise. Until we see you again, know that we love you dearly.
January 27, 2018
January 27, 2018
Happy Birthday dad. You are gone but never forgotten.
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
I thought of you with love today,
but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday,
and days before that too.
I think of you in silence.
I often speak your name.
All I have are memories,
and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is my keepsake,
with which I'll never part.
God has you in His keeping;
I have you in my heart.
4 years has passed.....yet you are still missed every day.
but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday,
and days before that too.
I think of you in silence.
I often speak your name.
All I have are memories,
and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is my keepsake,
with which I'll never part.
God has you in His keeping;
I have you in my heart.
4 years has passed.....yet you are still missed every day.
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
it's hard to believe four years have passed. I still feel your presents with me. last night me and kim found a clover plant on the dog bed on the porch. this is odd because the only thing ever found on the bed is a dog. today and on every anniversary of your passing I see a hawk glidding above me the same way I saw one the day of your passing then I find a hawk feather I now have four of them in your old coffee mug near your pic. when I need strength I think of you and I find it. thank you dad I love you.
September 3, 2017
September 3, 2017
cailltear mo athair go deo.
September 4, 2016
September 4, 2016
Another year has come and gone and thoughts of you are continually on our minds. Shawn just spoke of you the other day as he mentioned how you must have had a hand in what had made him decide not to punch someone he had thought deserved it. We laughed it off as I could see you doing the same. The continued lessons we learn don't always come from who we would expect them to. The things I learned from you I will always have and treasure. Thanks Dad!
September 4, 2015
September 4, 2015
It's hard to believe that you have been gone for two years now. For someone that had a huge impact on me it comes as no surprise memories of you will live on for a very very long time. We all miss you Dad.
January 27, 2015
January 27, 2015
Happy Birthday Dad. I feel your presence often and see your spirit daily...in your son Shawn. I love and miss you but know I'll see you again some day.
January 27, 2015
January 27, 2015
Happy birthday dad, today I will honor your memory by doing a kind act like you did so many times expecting nothing in return. I love and miss you.
February 2, 2014
February 2, 2014
Big Pat, The dad, I never had. I miss you.
October 23, 2013
October 23, 2013
Mary,
My heart and love go out to you and your family. Pat was a good man Bertie always talked about him with great fondness now they are together. Your in our thoughts and prayers we love you very much.
Bob and Gail
My heart and love go out to you and your family. Pat was a good man Bertie always talked about him with great fondness now they are together. Your in our thoughts and prayers we love you very much.
Bob and Gail
October 5, 2013
October 5, 2013
Dad, as I start a home improvement project this weekend I am reminded of the many things you taught me and the void I now feel in my life, I wish I could pick up a phone and ask you what to do next. A friend told me recently "a man doesn't become a true man until they lose their father." I wish I wasn't a man yet.
October 1, 2013
October 1, 2013
Thanks to all for your heartfelt thoughts as this is a man who I could have truly called dad myself. "Big" Pat was everything, I learned over the years, was what a true man really was, not perfect mind you. Who the hell wants to be perfect? Pat wasn't, nor am I, but I have a special place in my heart and wonderful memories of the man who guided me through my developing years. Love you Dad.
September 24, 2013
September 24, 2013
Dad,
I miss you so much but this comes as no surprise considering the impact you had on my life as my father and guide. Instilling in me what you learned from your father and experiences along the path of life on this earth. Thank you dad for being the man you were my hero.
I LOVE YOU Shawn
I miss you so much but this comes as no surprise considering the impact you had on my life as my father and guide. Instilling in me what you learned from your father and experiences along the path of life on this earth. Thank you dad for being the man you were my hero.
I LOVE YOU Shawn
September 20, 2013
September 20, 2013
Mary, I am so sorry to hear of this sad news, I always have great memories of you and Pat from my childhood at the corner store and then when you came back in my life at the lab. I think of you often and I hope you find comfort in your family at this time. much love, Millie
September 14, 2013
September 14, 2013
Jim and Bev, I'm very sorry to hear about the passing of your brother. I know he was ill so you can take comfort in knowing he's no longer in pain and has now gone to a better place. I'm sure he'll save everyone a place in heaven! Take care of yourselves. Leona
September 12, 2013
September 12, 2013
Rarely have I come across a man with a bigger heart than Pat. Our prayers go out to you Mary and know that Pat's spirit lives on in his sons and grandchildren. We love you, Bob, Tara, Maggie, and Sam.
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
"Aunt Mary and the boys"....such a sad day to say goodbye to your Husband and Dad. We all have shared the love/info chain here in Vermont.Will remember lovingly times at your house when you babysat us as kids. Pat with his sweet cheeks and great smile. My Mom is also sending her love and faith. We love you.. Don,Christa,Jamie and Jennifer Richer and Marsha Baldwin + Family xx
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
Pat I just wanted to Thank you for loving Kelsey and Trevor and leaving them with such great memories! It was a beautiful thing watching you hold them and love them..... especially your Kelseygirl! The kids were so very blessed to have you! God speed my friend. We will always miss you.
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
I want to express my deepest sympathies to the McGrath Family at this most difficult time. I don't know if you remember me but my Dad, Mickey used to work with Pat on the Burlington Fire Dept and I watched your boys a few times. You are my thoughts and prayers Mary...
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Miss Mary I am so sorry to hear about Pat. He was a great guy and will be missed. I wish I could be there for you :( Please feel free to call me or email me if you need to chat. I'm sending you a great a big hug! Please know that I'm thinking of you at this sad time. My sympathies to the rest of your family as well. Be Strong Miss Mary!
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Pat, you were a good friend when you lived in Vermont. I have missed you and Mary through the years.
My heart goes out to Mary and the kids.
My heart goes out to Mary and the kids.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Dear Mary,we are so sad to hear about Pat.It was so nice to see you and Pat at the class reunion.Our Prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family.Love Linda and Bob
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
We are better for having met you and enjoyed the brief time we spent in your home, making your home improvements a reality. You had great vision. (And we shared the same thoughts about computer technology.) Thanks for making us comfortable and welcomed in your home. Mary, please know we are just a phone call away if you need anything.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Of course, we will miss seeing Dad in family gatherings to come. You know what I will miss equally much? That random phone call to see how we are doing. I Love you, Dad. I will miss your strength, smile and wisdom. I hope you are at peace.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Dad, I will miss your guidance and strength you provide me in every example of the way you lived your life. Laugh at life's follies, Help friends in need, Be a teacher of what you know, Live life simple as you can, be the best friend, lover, and husband you can.
I look forward to seeing you in the next life.
I look forward to seeing you in the next life.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Mary sorry to hear of the passing of Pat. You are all in our thoughts and prayer. The Babcock Family
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
I remember when we were building a bird house and we kept getting dive bombed by robins. These memories will never leave my mind. I miss you but I know that you are not suffering any more. I love you grandpa.
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
Though my time with you was short compared to your many family and friends, my love and respect for you runs deep. From the first time I shook your hand and introduced myself, my heart felt at ease. I knew I was in the presence of a man with a warmth, depth of character and spirit to which I would likely never fully know. Thank you for loving me and welcoming me into your family.
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
Pat was a good man. I will never forger his smile or laugh . God bless all of you .
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
Very sorry to hear this. Where did time go? Just want to say Hi and I hope to see you all sometime. You sure helped me out a lot, unconditionally, and I will never forget that. Thank you for your kindness.
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
Mary, Sorry for your great loss. Pat's gentle spirit lives on in his three sons, Patrick, Shawn and Brennon. He will be missed by many and thought of often by family and friends alike. Mary, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Darlene Ashley and Ruth Chandler.
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
Its only been a few days but the loneliness is great. I know that the passing days will get easier and I will be able to get along without you here but the hole in my heart will never heal completely. You were the best father, husband and friend a girl could ask for. There is joy also that you are no longer in pain and I know you will be here with me to help me through.
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
“If a man has any greatness in him, it comes to light, not in one flamboyant hour, but in the ledger of his daily work.” - Dad, you were one of the greatest.
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Pat was a good friend to many, many people including myself and will be greatly missed. Much love and heartfelt sympathy, Judy & Dale
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
bheith ar a suaimhneas mo athair
"be at peace my father"
"be at peace my father"
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January 27
January 27
Happy birthday in heaven dad. Still think of you often throughout my days,weeks, months. Miss you. Xoxoxo
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Dad, I sit here in my backyard fixing some lawn equipment and it hits me all the knowledge you passed on to me has made me the man I am today. The way to treat everyone with respect, the way to treat my wife and my children.
I shed a tear and then feel your presence. I cant wait to feel your hug again. I love you dad.
I shed a tear and then feel your presence. I cant wait to feel your hug again. I love you dad.
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Ten years. Words simply can't express the void you left behind. You were such an enormous personality and without you, everything is just a little bit dimmer. We have all gone on to live, laugh and love, but if you were still with us then our lives would be that much brighter, our love would be deeper, and our laughter would definitely be louder, longer and more frequent. We love and miss you Dad.
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kelsey and grampa at burlington water front
kelsey dad and trevor at burlington water front
trevor and grampa at burlington water front
Brennan & Beth's wedding 9-7-12 (2)
50th anniversary
Ireland trip - we found our coffee shop
Ireland
Duke with Dad
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September 8, 2013
From Duke: I will miss you the soft pats on my head and the yummy treats you always gave me.
my husband, my friend
September 6, 2013
by mary mcgrath
Pat was a great family man. No matter how many kids I took into our home and the length of time they lived with us didn't matter. He always had a good time with them and became a father figure for many of them. We had as many as 10 other kids living with us at various times. We always had a good time no matter what the circumstances were. He worked hard and played hard. I'm sure he will be missed by many. I know I was blessed to have him for 50 years. He will always be in my heart. Thank you Patrick for all the wonderful years good and bad. I miss you so much.
dad in true character
September 5, 2013
This to me is one of the many true faces of Dad, animated to the fullest, always looking for the laugh and the opprotunity make people smile,