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Karaoke king, passionate chef and bar tender, musician, pop culture whiz, court jester, geek, baby tamer, passionate orator at any time on any subject, an ability to sleep through an earthquake, all with a racous and infectious laugh....

June 27, 2021
June 27, 2021
A big fan of Tesla (both Nikola Tesla and Elon's car company) I can't help thinking how much Patrick would have enjoyed the exploits of Space X. Wish he was still here to share that with him.
September 13, 2013
September 13, 2013
Dear Clare: We wanted you to know that you, your mom and all of the Roscoe family, continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. We hope that the fun and witty memories of Patrick give you comfort and peace. Our love always, Megan, Asif and the girls.
August 12, 2013
August 12, 2013
My sincere condolences, Clare, to you and your family. Every time I met Patrick, he was filled with such amazing energy, laughter, quick wit, and spontaneous ideas. I know you will draw strength from all of the wonderful memories and heartfelt embraces from everyone who loved him. It was too soon.
July 14, 2013
July 14, 2013
I will always remember Patrick as an energetic and highly entertaining cousin, whose presence kicked things up a notch. His knowledge of music, movies, and the arts in general never ceased to amaze me. His laugh was incredibly contagious and seemed to embody his boundless enthusiasm. RIP Patrick
July 11, 2013
July 11, 2013
Dearest Patrick...brightest star in heaven now...I had wanted to find you and tell you that I named my first born daughter Cassandra....I had meant to tell you for ages. I am so sorry to have missed the opportunity. You would love her. You and she are kindred spirits. I am sending your family my heartfelt sympathy. You are simply irreplaceable. Love and Hugs Always, "Cassandra"
July 8, 2013
July 8, 2013
To Clare and the entire Roscoe family, I extend my sincere condolences on your tremendous loss. I only met Patrick a few times, but his personality clearly filled a room and drew others to him. May you be comforted by your memories of him, and by the wonderful words and thoughts shared by so many here.
July 7, 2013
July 7, 2013
Pat: I was heartbroken to hear of your sons passing. Such fond memories of great times together in the past. Deepest condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Joyce Dickey and family.
July 7, 2013
July 7, 2013
I was only a long-distance friend who had the chance to meet him in person a few times. I am so sad he is gone. I am so terribly sad for all of you, his so-spectacularly-loved family and friends who knew him better. I only hope I can touch people's lives a little like he did mine. With all my heart. "love, love, love"
Melanie
July 6, 2013
July 6, 2013
My deepest condolences to the Roscoe family for the loss of my very great friend Patrick. I have had no words to express my grief until now after a wonderful day with the family, being regaled with stories about Patrick. I cannot thank you enough for helping me to celebrate what he gave to us.
July 6, 2013
July 6, 2013
I just found a quote that Patrick left as a comment on the Youtube clip of October Game playing at a club on Gottingen St. He was clearly very happy to have had that chance and left this comment:
"Bliss was it in that dawn to be alive
but to be young was very heaven!"
- william wordsworth
July 5, 2013
July 5, 2013
Patrick was a clear leader in our class at the Halifax Grammar School – not by force, but by sheer, brilliant wit. He was widely-known throughout the school for his to-the-word recitations of scenes from Monty Python, SNL, SCTV, Blues Brothers, Rocky Horror Picture Show, etc., and his performance, in grade 9, of the Yeats poem “The Scholars” is probably the world's best ever! ... Nerf!
July 5, 2013
July 5, 2013
My heartfelt best wishes go out to those who loved and cared for Patrick. His quick wit and biting sarcasm disguised a gentle and sensitive soul. He had generous talents crossing art and science, and will be fondly remembered for his uniqueness.
July 5, 2013
July 5, 2013
For me, Patrick was incredibly funny, zany, and creative. And his laugh! He had an infectious and singular laugh. My thoughts today are with the Roscoes, the Stewarts, and the Martlands, as they remember their remarkable son, sibling, and cousin, and nephew. He will be greatly missed.
July 5, 2013
July 5, 2013
An exceptional boy/man from an exceptional family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Feindel family
July 5, 2013
July 5, 2013
On behalf of all Brothers of Phi Kappa Pi Fraternity, I wish to extend our sincere condolences to Clare, Willie and family on the passing of your son and brother Patrick Roscoe. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.

Greg Brown, President
July 5, 2013
July 5, 2013
Patrick figures prominently in my best memories of growing up in Halifax. He was a great friend, and it is not an exaggeration to say that he changed my life – through music, of course. Following his example, I took up percussion in grade 7, throwing violin lessons out the window in the process! I never looked back, and drums have been a favourite pastime ever since.
July 5, 2013
July 5, 2013
On behalf of The FitzGerald's we would like to extent our deepest sympathy for your loss. The Roscoe Family have been long stand family friends and this has come as quite a shock. God Bless.
Paddy and Dunny FitzGerald (and Family)
July 5, 2013
July 5, 2013
I always smile when I remember cousin Patrick, a truly unique and memorable soul. A Walt Whitman quote makes me think of him: "This is what you shall do: love the earth and sun and the animals, have patience and indulgence toward the people, re-examine all you have been told at school or church or in any book, dismiss whatever insults your soul, and your very flesh shall be a great poem."
July 4, 2013
July 4, 2013
When I think of Patrick, I think of laughter. He had an ability to turn a dull meal into an event to be remembered. As a child, Patrick held an almost mythical place in my mind; constantly challenging my preconceptions... 
Your passing leaves a space that cannot be filled, Patrick.
July 4, 2013
July 4, 2013
Heartfelt condolences to Patrick's family. An outstanding gentlemen he was and gone too soon.
July 4, 2013
July 4, 2013
My heart goes out to the Stewart, Martland and Roscoe families as they gather in both body and spirit, to say goodbye to Patrick. He was my cousin-in-law and I am grateful to have known him. Eloquent, mystical, musical. I will always remember his infectious laugh.

Halifax did well to defer their fireworks onto Patrick’s day. Tomorrow will be perfect.

Goodbye Patrick.
July 4, 2013
July 4, 2013
Patrick was both the most serious and the silliest person I have ever met. He was always seeking out the best that life had to offer so that he could share it with friends. He had more talent, wit, and intelligence than any person I have known. I was always amazed at the number and calibre of friends he had; a true testament to him. His absence leaves a giant hole in the world.
July 4, 2013
July 4, 2013
Patrick, my nephew, was always a lively wee man as a child with a remarkable ability to entertain! Whether Dracula suddenly appearing outside the window at Lizard, or playing improvised melodies on the piano, or chatting happily in the Waldorf Astoria about all the shows we should see, he never faile to amuse and stimulate. An extraordinary person, I dearly remember and miss him. xx John
July 4, 2013
July 4, 2013
I knew Patrick as a youngster and he could light up a room with his smile and laughter .... and what a mischievous grin! I recognized the youngster that I knew as I looked at the photos of the man that he became. To Pat and " the kids", you are always in my thoughts and prayers, but especially now.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
I am so very, very sorry for you all, and I send everyone my love from too, too far away. Patrick is an impossible person to sum up. I remember vividly, in high school, Patrick's laugh - it was like a whole-body, sort of elastic, or maybe electric reaction! Quite hilarious and contagious. I admired him and his many talents and I shall miss him.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Patrick's passing! All my condolences to his family! My heart goes out to all of them, but particularly Will.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
It was with deep sadness that I heard of Patrick's passing. Pat you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Whenever I thought of Patrick I would smile. He had the gift of bring joy to all the lives he touched.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
There's so much to say that it's hard to isolate single thoughts. A ridiculous amount of talent, an endless capacity to recognize and nurture the talents of others, an uncanny ability to add just the right amount of unpredictability to any given situation, and a laugh that will never be replicated. In my grief, my sister told me, 'Your friends never leave you.' She's right. Cheers, dude.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
Patrick was so loyal, candid and such a good friend ...he had amazing taste, was so well read and could sing like an angel. He was so well spoken and I think he was a great writer and social critic. My sincerest condolences to his friends and family ...we will all miss his loving encouragement wry humor, fun attitude and applied intelligence.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
I went to high school with Patrick, knew him at CKDU and thereafter around Halifax. He was one of the most creative and fun people I have ever known, with a clever wit and sense of humour that were infectious. I thought of him often and fondly. I am shocked and deeply saddened to hear of his death. I send my best wishes for peace and comfort to his family and close friends.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
To the Roscoe Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. My memories of Patrick are very happy ones. He was a kind person, who loved to entertain others.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
Hey Patrick,

Here's a swallow to the only man in the room bigger than me, even though you're a half a foot shorter. Love you, buddy.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
We never did that song, Patrick. I hope you gots some good jams now... Phil
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
Although I only met Patrick a few times, I feel like I knew him very well. His family were constantly talking about what a bright, charming, kind, and good person he was. The times I met him only seemed to confirm this. My deepest sympathies to Pat, Will, and the entire Roscoe family. You guys are like my family, I love you all and share your grief. Rest in peace Patrick. GOD bless you.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
Pat ...Ed and I were so sorry to read about Patrick in this morning's paper...From all the marvellous messages of condolences I have no doubt he was an outstanding son..even though we did not know him well we are willing to accept the tributes of those who did. We send our condolences and love to you and your family and you are all in our thoughts today.
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
I worked with Patrick in the 90's. He was a real renaissance guy: he could talk in an intelligent and entertaining way about so many topics. What a great brain he had. I have many fond memories about all of the interesting non-work things we talked about while we were working. His passing is shocking and sad. To his family, I extend my deepest sympathy. Your son/brother made an impact
July 3, 2013
July 3, 2013
I knew Patrick less well than I would have liked. We worked together for a short while at Kaleidescape, and his cheerful, witty demeanor was always welcome. As of course was his ability and intellect.

Patrick was one of those people who make your sense of the world better just by your knowing they're in it.
July 2, 2013
July 2, 2013
Patrick was one of his - younger - class whom my class found genuinely interesting. Others in our years grew at whatever rate into wit and sophistication - Patrick was clearly born with the former, and forged his own version of the latter. As I read the recollections of those who knew him over the intervening years, I have a keen sense of deja vu - the child was indeed father of the man.
July 2, 2013
July 2, 2013
I must go down to the seas again, to the lonely sea and sky,
And all I ask is a tall ship and a star to steer her by.....
John Masefield
July 2, 2013
July 2, 2013
A tribute.-Patrick was a reflection of his parents and carried his mother's name and love of music with pride.The tributes to Patrick are shared by his mother and siblings who can all take some credit for who he was. The flow of superlatives in the tributes is a source of comfort for family, all of whom are revived by the genuine expressions of love. With deepest sympathy, Larry and Elise
July 2, 2013
July 2, 2013
I always associate Patrick with Toronto, in part because my feelings about both have been similar. As a kid I was suspicious - too many black t-shirts, too much weird music and generally too big for my internal map. As an adult - the opportunity for discussion, the great imperfections, the weird music. How could I not love? You'll always be the Elsa to my Ricard Patrick. Love Kate
July 1, 2013
July 1, 2013
Kate Bush; David Bowie; obscure movies; Othello for hours AND hours AND hours; office attire on Saturday mornings (socks always optional); childish glee; deep and often dark, but always intense conversation; painted toes; angst; intelligent; generous of home and spirit, this is the Patrick I remember. May you find your peace old friend. To the Roscoe Family, my deepest sympathies. xx
July 1, 2013
July 1, 2013
Although not my brother by blood, certainly a brother of my heart. Quite possibly the smartest, and most definitely the most effervescent person I've ever had the pleasure to know. Will love and miss you always and I hope and pray that our paths will cross again on the next turn of the wheel.
July 1, 2013
July 1, 2013
Family gatherings will not be the same; we will miss your quirky ways, humour and wit. No more entertainer extraordinaire (for kids and adults alike), quiche maker, Mafia master, and all round delightful, fun, and wonderfully endearing person. RIP Patrick
July 1, 2013
July 1, 2013
I first heard the name Patrick Roscoe when I was 15. He was legendary. I spent ages hearing about him, even seeing him play but never meeting him. And when i did - I understood. Patrick was a singular human being. I'd never before met anyone like him and never shall again. It's tragic we lost him but it's wonderful that we ever had him. Clare, thanks for this. I'm so sorry.
July 1, 2013
July 1, 2013
The candle image is fitting -- a candle that burned bright and gave off a great warm glow. And one gone far too soon. Thank you, Clare, for setting this website up.

I am lucky and grateful to have known Patrick.
June 30, 2013
June 30, 2013
Reading through a series of David Bowie quotes - just about all of them apply to Patrick! Here's another...

I'm an instant star. Just add water and stir.
David Bowie
June 30, 2013
June 30, 2013
I have nothing to declare but my genius.
Oscar Wilde, 1882

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June 27, 2021
June 27, 2021
A big fan of Tesla (both Nikola Tesla and Elon's car company) I can't help thinking how much Patrick would have enjoyed the exploits of Space X. Wish he was still here to share that with him.
September 13, 2013
September 13, 2013
Dear Clare: We wanted you to know that you, your mom and all of the Roscoe family, continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. We hope that the fun and witty memories of Patrick give you comfort and peace. Our love always, Megan, Asif and the girls.
August 12, 2013
August 12, 2013
My sincere condolences, Clare, to you and your family. Every time I met Patrick, he was filled with such amazing energy, laughter, quick wit, and spontaneous ideas. I know you will draw strength from all of the wonderful memories and heartfelt embraces from everyone who loved him. It was too soon.
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The Fire Station Incident

July 8, 2013
I'm afraid I cannot shed any light on the 'once is funny' quote but I can clarify the 'fire department' incident. This happened long before I had met Patrick (or my husband, his brother, for that matter) but it is one of my favourite Patrick stories, and not because he may have been a little embarrassed by it, or because it is rather funny but also because it speaks of his intrepid adventurous spirit, even at a very young age. It happened when Brigid was a baby and Patrick was a toddler. His mum, Pat, had just given him and Brigid a bath, and trusting that the baby gate she had across the top of the stairs would be a sufficient deterrent, was drying off the baby. A few moments later she realized that Patrick, who was apparently impatient to get on with their usual afternoon walk, was nowhere to be found on the upper floor. He had some how made it over the gate and had gone out the front door. In a panic Pat called Patrick's dad at work (who immediately set off to go looking for him) then called the police. The police, naturally, needed a description so asked "what is he wearing?" to which Pat had to reply "to my knowledge - nothing". The policeman's response to that was "well ma'am, he shouldn't be hard to spot". Fortunately, Patrick's dad remembered that he loved to visit the fire station at the corner of Robie and Morris Street (several block away and across four lanes of traffic!!!!). He went there immediately and found Patrick, starkers and happy as a clam visiting with the firemen and climbing around on the trucks.
July 8, 2013

Patrick Roscoe!

I remember you—we met when you were nine years old.  You were in a class with Belinda Smith and Jane Fairhurst, Chrissy Mitchell and Ben O’Hallaron, Joseph Glube and Lon Holland—but of all these you were the most mercurial and lively.

A few years later I returned to the Grammar School, an apprentice drug-dealer, selling joints for two dollars, three for five—it was a Halloween dance and you came dressed in drag—a bold choice for a twelve year-old—you approached me on the stairs to the AV Room and, leaning off your back foot, head tilted sideways, you said, “For two dollars I’ll throw up on your face.”  “For two dollars, you’ll—wait, what?”  You shook your head at my confusion and moved on to your next audience.

My drug dealer friends did not understand your Python-y performance art, but I admired it, though I was a little scared for you, and many, many years later when we met again inToronto, and I reminded you of this long-ago incident, you blushed and bought me a drink.

You were acerbic, always, unpredictably erudite, and though you challenged my notions about things, you always showed me that you thought what I was doing was worthwhile.  I thank you for that.  And when next we meet, please allow me to buy the drinks.

Gold Disk

July 5, 2013

I worked with Patrick in the 1990's at a company called "Gold Disk".  

He was designing breakthrough multi-media (audio, video) software for the Amiga personal computer.  He sarcastically debased my love of heavy metal music (at that time), and yet proceeded to "digitally sample" a few cut riffs from a "Cinderella" CD for use in one of the demo's he was preparing.  He belatedly admitted there was some small amount of usefulness for that musical genre.
:-)

He and I had wonderful verbal jousts, and he was outstanding at the one liner.  I still have emails from back in the 90's when the internet was just being created that I went through today and found so many funny moments.
 
He signed his emails "- Paty "El Rodente" Roscoe" for reasons I will never understand...
 

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