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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Patty Breen Hughey, 64, born on May 20th, 1946 and passed away on November 6, 2010. We will remember her forever.

December 5, 2023
December 5, 2023
Hi Mom, it's been busy time of year for us this year hasn't been easy for us. New home,new job, new furbaby, gas issues with British gas company still haven't gotten the correct address, google have finally corrected our address on google maps 

In a few days it's a year for me working as a cleaner at bluebell Trading Ltd, happy anniversary Mom 13 yrs ❤️ our Lord called you gone but not forgotten always in our heart's love ❤️ always your daughter Jay ❤️
May 30, 2023
May 30, 2023
ahh Patty.. Was there anything you couldn't do when you set your mind to it? And God help anyone that got in your way!! I gained so many qualities from the short time my life was blessed with knowing you and Kenny so close. So many GREAT times.. and so many lessons learned from you I didn't even realize at the time.

Every now and then we meet someone that we wish we'd known our whole life - and you are certainly one of those.. have thought of you SO many times through the years, but I know you knew exactly where you were going, and embraced that next part of your journey like you embraced all those challenges of life - with courage and love, a tear here and there, but so real, so true.. You touched so many Patty. Again, I was blessed, like I mentioned. God bless you Patty.. say hi to my son Ryan! Love ya girl!
May 20, 2023
May 20, 2023
Happy birthday to you mom, 77 yrs young hope ur celebrating in heaven with family and friends that the Lord called upon. There's not a moment that passes ur not in my thoughts ur always in my heart, still ave plenty of catching up to do wen we meet on our Lords kingdom. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
May 20, 2023
May 20, 2023
Patsy would be 77 today. It's been 13 long years without her, very hard on me because we were so perfectly matched.
Looking forward to being reunited with her in the hereafter.
May 15, 2023
May 15, 2023
Had a change of doctors, glad I did as they're more helpful than the previous one.

Still having issues with my back so I'm having an MRI scan on the 05/29/23, morning appointment this will be looked at as it ain't getting better so it could be an operation to fix the problem or just pain management .

Got new tattoo on the back of my right hand watercolor, it's a squirrel covering the scar from a rottweiler bite. The tattooist did an excellent job of covering it up .

I'll keep you posted about the scan, I'm volunteering in a shop charity and it's great. I'm doing 6, hrs per wk, 3 hrs per dy on addition to my paid job in the mornings at bluebell Trading Ltd.
May 15, 2023
May 15, 2023
Happy Mother's Day mom, I don't know Kennys address or I wud have sent you a mother's day card.

Anyway, we'll catch up next time we meet ❤️❤️❤️❤️
March 20, 2023
March 20, 2023
Happy Mother's Day, still miss you so much.

To my mother in heaven, thank you for always loving me and guiding me. Even though you are no longer here with me I can still feel your love guiding me. You are always in my heart. I love you and miss you dearly.

Lover your daughter Jay ❤️
November 6, 2022
November 6, 2022
In Loving Memory of a Special "Mom

You were the most truly wonderful mom
a treasure that can never be replaced
You nurtured me with your tender love
and supported me in every way
One in a million, I will never forget
the precious times we shared
Memories of you I will always cherish
knowing how deeply you cared
mom, our special bond was priceless
you were my dearest friend
I never doubted your compassion
right until the very end
Your love meant the world to me
I miss your warmth, so gentle and kind
Your spirit will live on forever in my heart and in my mind

Wish I could have more time with you, but our day will come, love you forever your daughter Jay ❤️
November 6, 2022
November 6, 2022
12 years ago at 5:30 in the morning Patsy passed. I still cannot accept it, and find it hard to believe. Patsy will be forever young in my mind. I miss her every minute of the day.
May 20, 2022
May 20, 2022
Happy birthday Mom,

Tim broke his foot on the job lol, but he's going to be OK laid up 4 the nxt 3 wks. I'm helping a friends out today shopping then spending time with my new boyfriend Titch, he's going to colour my hair and 8 gad my nails done also so tonight we'll attend the party lol. I hope your doing good missing you everyday but our paths will cross again one day, have a great time in heaven celebrating 76yrs younger looking great as always love you so much Jay
May 3, 2022
May 3, 2022
Happy mothers day Mom, I know we were apart from each other but every day I miss you so much. As time is fleeting I know we'll meet again soon, but not today but when the time is right. You'll always be here in my heart and thoughts, love always your daughter
April 8, 2022
April 8, 2022
Mom, I think I have the perfect guy and I think you would have liked him, he is very easy going, protecting of me, gentleman and we have a lot in common and we both fwt on rather well. His name is Richard 'Titch' Maxwell, yes a bit of Scottish blood in his DNA very lucky person treats me better than anyone else has and I love this guy so much and he loves me also we're planing to move in together and spend the reat of our days in this life together ❤️
December 29, 2021
December 29, 2021
Merry Christmas and a happy new year Mom.

This year has been like a roller coaster with more downs than ups, also filled with a few life lessons. Everything in life needs to be worked on no matter how rough the journey gets, there will be smoother times ahead ❤️
November 6, 2021
November 6, 2021
The day to day life struggles with Patsy were pure heaven for me.....my only solace is the hope of being reunited with Patsy.....the smartest, the bravest, the greatest person I've ever known.....was she an angel sent from heaven?
I wonder sometimes .




July 12, 2021
July 12, 2021
Well mom, I have made the leap of faith and moved to texas, trying to make a better life for my husband and myself. Staying with Tim and his wife till I get everything sorted out, and hopefully be in a position to be able to support my family.

I'm fighting to get him to join me from the UK, God willing he will be here on the 20th then we can start our married life together in a better situation for the both of us.

I do miss him soooo much but I know with Him on my side anything is possible, as its been over a week without him and feeling incomplete but this will happen soon as I pray for his safe return to me ❤️❤️❤️
November 6, 2020
November 6, 2020
Hi mom,
It's been 10yrs since the Lord has taken u frm us so soon, wish I could talk to you now.

As time has passed there hasn't been a day that has gone by I haven't thought about the family and u, but I am thankful for all that time we had before u left us to at our Lord's side. I still keep in touch with Tim and he is finding it tough in his life and marriage, just like me trying to save someone I care about from alcoholism but it seems helpless just now.

Love always ur daughter Jaime ❤️
November 6, 2020
November 6, 2020
I miss you every second......it's not true that time heals grief
May 20, 2020
May 20, 2020
Being in Patsy's presence is an honor, a blessing, and a privilege ...miss you every second that ticks.
May 21, 2019
May 21, 2019
Happy Birthday Mom 73 yrs young, there isn't a day that goes by we don't think about u..
Missing you loads looking forward to meeting you again when the time is right love always your daughter Jaime.❤
May 20, 2019
May 20, 2019
November 6th, 2010 at 5:30 am Patsy left this earth. I will never get over losing her.
I wonder sometimes if Pasty was angel from heaven....no recorded female angels in the Bible.....but I wonder sometimes
November 6, 2018
November 6, 2018
November 6th, 2010 at 5:30 am Patsy left this earth. I will never get over losing her untill we are re-united.
May 7, 2018
May 7, 2018
Party's birthday, is May 20th. Loving YOU mouse.........all the days, and all the nights.
May 6, 2018
May 6, 2018
Happy birthday Mom as we all know you will be celebrating with God and loved ones we haven't forgotten love you always ur daughter Jay xxxx
November 6, 2017
November 6, 2017
Mom you would have been sooo happy that Tim and I got to meet each other I know it's been 7 yrs to the day but there isn't a day that goes by that we don't think about you. Thanks to Karen Slattery Fulton all of this wouldn't have happened God made sure everything happened for a reason and that reason was for us to whole and complete as a family Stay blessed Karen and thank you
November 6, 2017
November 6, 2017
Just to be in Patty's presence is a privilege, an honor, and a blessing. I count myself as the most fortunate man that ever lived, to be married to her.
May 20, 2017
May 20, 2017
Patsy is my heart and soul. I love and adore you every second of the day.
May 20, 2017
May 20, 2017
Happy 71st birthday Mom I know it's been a while since I last visited not has a moment passed without you being in my heart and not forgotten love always Jay xxxxx
May 6, 2017
May 6, 2017
Patty's birthday is actually May 20th, 1946, May 6th. I worship and adore her every second that ticks.
November 8, 2016
November 8, 2016
Mom, the years may pass with a blink of an eye and life may go in a heartbeat but the memories I have of you will always shine bright like the stars in the night sky lighting the way and guiding the way.

Love always your daughter Jay xxxxx
August 9, 2016
August 9, 2016
I know Patty better than anyone on earth. It is an honor, a blessing, and a great privilege, just to be in her presence. There is not a second that passes, that I am not loving and adoring her.
Truly, she is greatest person I know, or have ever known.
March 10, 2016
March 10, 2016
Our vessels maybe long gone but our spirits will live on and I know my mom is watching over all those who have been apart of her life all those she loves.

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December 5, 2023
December 5, 2023
Hi Mom, it's been busy time of year for us this year hasn't been easy for us. New home,new job, new furbaby, gas issues with British gas company still haven't gotten the correct address, google have finally corrected our address on google maps 

In a few days it's a year for me working as a cleaner at bluebell Trading Ltd, happy anniversary Mom 13 yrs ❤️ our Lord called you gone but not forgotten always in our heart's love ❤️ always your daughter Jay ❤️
May 30, 2023
May 30, 2023
ahh Patty.. Was there anything you couldn't do when you set your mind to it? And God help anyone that got in your way!! I gained so many qualities from the short time my life was blessed with knowing you and Kenny so close. So many GREAT times.. and so many lessons learned from you I didn't even realize at the time.

Every now and then we meet someone that we wish we'd known our whole life - and you are certainly one of those.. have thought of you SO many times through the years, but I know you knew exactly where you were going, and embraced that next part of your journey like you embraced all those challenges of life - with courage and love, a tear here and there, but so real, so true.. You touched so many Patty. Again, I was blessed, like I mentioned. God bless you Patty.. say hi to my son Ryan! Love ya girl!
May 20, 2023
May 20, 2023
Happy birthday to you mom, 77 yrs young hope ur celebrating in heaven with family and friends that the Lord called upon. There's not a moment that passes ur not in my thoughts ur always in my heart, still ave plenty of catching up to do wen we meet on our Lords kingdom. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Her Life

Parents divorce

June 1, 2023
I remember some of my childhood, not a found memory but a memory all the same. Both parents separated living in different apartments, one night in particular when my dad's girlfriend Katie was watching us. My dad went to meet or mom leaving us behind, unbehold she was trying to get me and my brother but my dad's girlfriend wouldn't open the door. As the years passed I was told that our mom wanted to take us away from all of this, my dad used the word kidnapping her own children, all I remember was a brought orange holdall bag. As I ponder on this I keep wondering what it would have been like a life with our mom, instead of our father who didn't know much about raising a family - still doesn't to this day. Love you always mom. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Family

February 9, 2023
I have made a new years resolution with Tim to facetime the first Saturday of every month, including birthdays. I have a part time job cleaning, a preminent fixed abode, a steady, stable relationship so for me things are on the up Good willing. My life reminds me of the story of Job in the bible, where the devil makes a deal with God regarding Job's faith in Him if he waivers in anger towards God the devil gets his soul. God agrees to this so the devil takes away his wealth, job remained faithful to Him, so the devil takes his family, wife and his daughters yet job still remains faithful to Him. Now the devil is getting desperate so he targets jobs health to no avail he remains faithful to him, God reward him for his faith as the devil is left annoyed. This is how I see my life with what I've been through is me a better, non judgemental, no anger towards these trials, I'm wiser for it and living life knowing I'll be rewarded when the time is just right.

Sad news

February 9, 2023
I got in touch to find my boys Stephen, Andy and Horatio and it was what I expected they don't want to know their mother. I have left my contact details for them if they change their minds, I've not given up on faith as one day they might decide to open the door and I'll be waiting. 
Recent stories

Having a day spent with bf daughter and herbf

October 8, 2022
Tomorrow we're meeting lara and her bf, all of us are going to the garden centre tomorrow. We will see how it goes and l'll let you know how we get on love ya mom ❤️♥️

Lucky escape

October 8, 2022
I recently had a fall down some wooden stairs which are in a poor condition, new owners suggested that we use them till they have sorted out the lock on the back door.
Then wen the accident happened they pulled their finger out sorted the lock on the door after the fact with antislip stuff on the stairs, all of this is visible from the photos I've taken as well as suffered as a result of the accident. 

I spent 6 hrs in A&E up at the hospital for them to give me a few painkillers, tell me I have soft tissue damage r/side of my back, shoulder, hip and a strong possibility I broke my r/hand pinky. Despite having a couple of slipped discs with a hernia to boot on a disc.....

Mazikeen has been great never left my side, plus my partner has been there for me also. 

New piercing

May 3, 2022
I finally managed to get another piercing this time in my tongue, it will take a bit of getting use to . I've also dyed the bottom tips of my hair blue to match my nails , also it's my boyfriend's fav colour we've just had our 7wk anniversary on Saturday 30/04/22. He is a keeper mom alot better than the the last one and he is Catholic also, we are made for each other and get on so well in a way that we couldn't have imagined ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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