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Her Life

Parents divorce

June 1, 2023
I remember some of my childhood, not a found memory but a memory all the same. Both parents separated living in different apartments, one night in particular when my dad's girlfriend Katie was watching us. My dad went to meet or mom leaving us behind, unbehold she was trying to get me and my brother but my dad's girlfriend wouldn't open the door. As the years passed I was told that our mom wanted to take us away from all of this, my dad used the word kidnapping her own children, all I remember was a brought orange holdall bag. As I ponder on this I keep wondering what it would have been like a life with our mom, instead of our father who didn't know much about raising a family - still doesn't to this day. Love you always mom. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Family

February 9, 2023
I have made a new years resolution with Tim to facetime the first Saturday of every month, including birthdays. I have a part time job cleaning, a preminent fixed abode, a steady, stable relationship so for me things are on the up Good willing. My life reminds me of the story of Job in the bible, where the devil makes a deal with God regarding Job's faith in Him if he waivers in anger towards God the devil gets his soul. God agrees to this so the devil takes away his wealth, job remained faithful to Him, so the devil takes his family, wife and his daughters yet job still remains faithful to Him. Now the devil is getting desperate so he targets jobs health to no avail he remains faithful to him, God reward him for his faith as the devil is left annoyed. This is how I see my life with what I've been through is me a better, non judgemental, no anger towards these trials, I'm wiser for it and living life knowing I'll be rewarded when the time is just right.

Sad news

February 9, 2023
I got in touch to find my boys Stephen, Andy and Horatio and it was what I expected they don't want to know their mother. I have left my contact details for them if they change their minds, I've not given up on faith as one day they might decide to open the door and I'll be waiting. 

New adventure

December 25, 2022
Started a new job cleaning for a family business, couldn't ask for a better job than this cleaning 2 hours a morning, five days a week .

My first Christmas in Meltham with my partner Titch, will be hopefully chatting to the rest of the family when Tim facetines me tonight ❤️. 

Christmas is a time for being with loved ones and family, Merry Christmas mom always in our hearts ❤️

In memory of my Mom who touched everyone's heart who knew and loved her.

November 6, 2018

Today is my Mom's anniversary 8 yrs since she was called upon, anyone who knew her feel free to leave a message on forevermissed.com on her page. Stories, pics, anything you like to share please do. 

Well loved mother, friend, sister and daughter. Always in our hearts, not far from our thoughts. Love always her daughter Jay ❤❤❤❤

Finally meeting the long lost sibling and new family

May 6, 2018

II finally met Tim and it was a shame mom didnt know she was 10 minutes away from her first born, she did have her favourite and the tim spent with my brother and his family is a holiday I won't forget at all.

Met my sisters Samantha Cochran with her kids Samuel and Christy but Cash I'm hoping to meet next time, met the mother in law Cindy and Christy was working as a newly passed teacher.  Tim works as a maintenance man and he is saving up the best he could so him and Christy can buy their first house, I have told him many a time to loose weight as I know Mom would be telling him the exact same thing.

Mom would have been so proud that we have found each other.

My mom

March 9, 2016

My mom was the best despite having a right time with my dad, although my mom had a son Tim from a previous marriage they had me and my brother Joseph they got divorced when we were vry young.

Our dad brought us back to the UK just like my mom I thought about her everyday, every birthday, and Christmas. My mom never gave up hope she had a strong faith in our Lord as she knew He would open the door when she was ready.

My mom had a huge heart very talented strong woman and a fighter, I found out she did everything in her power to provide for her family trying to hold down 2 jobs for us her kids. But that wasn't meant to be.

Patty remarried to Kenny for a number of years happily and in this time she set up her own skincare business Settle skincare this was world wide and her products changed so many people's lives of all age ranges and genders, happy as she was Patty still had a piece of her life missing....her kids.

Timothy at the age of 9 decided to put himself into the care of social services thinking he was helping his mom as he saw how difficult it was for her to look after the family and provide for them, Tim ended up joining the army doing his bit for his country and he came back to Texas unknowing destiny was going to bring mother and son closer.

Just as things where coming together at least speaking to her son Joe in London at a cost to me was worth knowing she had a smile in her heart, due to her health ailing her Patty moved to Texas, not knowing her son Tim was in the state and he is a married man Patty never gave up hope.

After finding out my mom passed a year later God opened a door and through Facebook my brother sent out a message to all those who were named Jaime Woollen and I replied and that's how we found each other, finding out that her address was 10 mins away from where they lived.

We will become a family again when the time is right one day soon but for now life is for living every moment to the fullest with no regrets.


Best friend

May 7, 2018

Your mom was really one of a kind a real beauty , heart and soul a loyal loving friend . I miss her a ball of energy always made me laugh . I met her at a bible study , I walked in and everybody else looked so normal , she was wearing a hat and I said in my head I want to sit next to her she is interesting and sure enough we became best of friends !