I met Paul 15 years ago when he was a Board Member at Mount Clemens General Hospital and I worked in Administration. Paul asked me to become his oncology office manager just over 5 years ago in September, 2005. It was then that our families became friends too. Paul offered to hire my daughters as summer temps for the healthcare exposure, since they both wanted to go into healthcare. They also babysat occasionallly for the Derderian children.
My husband Don and I went with Tracy and Paul, to a conference in Colorado in January, 2007. We kept their children entertained, while Tracy and Paul could go to dinner, etc. They introduced us to skiing and we introduced them to snowmobiling while there. Little did we know that 2 months later in March, 2007, Paul would diagnosis Don with stage 4 stomach cancer. He was always there for our whole family, day or night. He stopped at our home on his way home to check on him. Don went through chemo in our office and eventually had his stomach removed at Henry Ford. Paul called his collegues and we had the royal treatment when going to appointments. Don passed 10 months later, but with a close relationship to God with the help of Paul. Because we had joined Rockpointe Community Church just months prior to Don's diagnosis, with the encouragement of Paul. Our whole family benefitted from our closeness with God when Don passed. We continue to hold on to that strength every day.
In 2008, Paul started treating my dad for lung and prostate cancer after battling it for 8 years. Paul had the same concern for my dad and family as he had for all his patients. When Paul was diagnosed with cancer himself in April, 2008, it was devastating to all who worked for him and knew him. He had worked so hard to build his medical practice, take care of others, sharing God's word, and putting his family first. Now it was time to fight back. He put his total faith in God and fought so very hard to beat the disease that he had helped so many others deal with before him. Even though Paul was going through his own health issues, when my dad passed last fall, Paul came to his funeral.
Paul loved his family. Tracy was everything to him. Each child had their own special place in his heart. He always lit up when his cell phone rang while in the office, and it was one of the children calling to ask when he was coming home.
Paul will truly be missed. It is comforting to know that Paul is with Don and my Dad looking down on us. I am blessed to have so many angels in heaven.
Diane Houser