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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Paul Norris, 58, born on April 7, 1954 and passed away on August 20, 2012. We will remember him forever.

A memorial for Paul will be held on Sunday, September 9 from 11am to 2pm at Porter Valley Country Club in Porter Ranch. The address is:

19216 Singing Hills Drive
Northridge, CA 91326

For more information on the venue, click here.

If you would like to honor Paul's memory, then please, don't purchase flowers. Instead, it was his dying wish to raise money to fight cancer, the terrible disease that took his life. To make a donation to Stand Up To Cancer, a groundbreaking initiative created to accelerate innovative cancer research that will get new therapies to patients quickly and save lives now, click here.

Thank you.

August 29, 2012
August 29, 2012
I would always be so happy when Paul could ref with me or work the game I was coaching. I'd go out of my way when running tournaments to try to get Paul. No matter what the situation was, he would joke, smile, and ref a great game. I learned alot from him when I started to ref. You could tell he was happy to be out there and he made everyone around him happier as well. I will miss him.
August 29, 2012
August 29, 2012
Paul always had a special place in my heart. I first met him as his 9th grade PE teacher, he later became the captain of my Culver City varsity basketball team and one of the main driving forces of the success of Zeppys Pizzerias in the 1970's. Paul was everything that you wanted in a young man, dedicated, hard working, loyal, smart, driven to be the best and just an all around GREAT GUY.
August 29, 2012
August 29, 2012
as a player, Paul was one tough son of a gun. his lack of height was never an issue, it only made him more determined. i remember a game against Hawthorne and their star 6ft 4in Mike Scott (who later became an all star baseball player for the
Astros). I decided to have Paul guard Scott. Although we lost the game Scott scored only 8 points and afterwards
August 29, 2012
August 29, 2012
Paul was pissed that he scored those 8 points. Paul was a real leader both on and off the court. He was always a pleasure to be around. You always knew where you stood with Paul. He earned the respect and love from all of his peers, teachers, coaches, employers and friends.I once told Paul's dad Phil that when I have a son, I want him to be like Paul. In one word Paul was a MENSCH. He was
August 29, 2012
August 29, 2012
a MAN. Although we did not see each other for quite some time, when Ted told me Paul was sick, it broke my heart. We last visited about 3 weeks ago and it seemed like it was 1967, we laughed, told old stories and reminisced about fun old days. My heart goes out to Marlene, their children, Ted and Judy and all of their extended families. God Bless you Paul, I know you are in Heaven with Him
August 29, 2012
August 29, 2012
Last year Paul and I officiated our first game of the season together...crazy how much can change in less than a year. He has been a constant friend and an on court companion that always had my back and lifted my spirits. My heart is warmed knowing that my little brother in heaven now has a new "favorite referee". LOVE YOU PAUL!
August 28, 2012
August 28, 2012
We were so fortunate to have Paul's introduction into our life, as one of our children's soccer coaches. Over the years our paths crossed many times and I always loved hearing about his boys and Marlene. I saw him often when he subbed and always that wonderful smile and warm eyes would say hello in the hallway. What a fortunate gift, having him in our lives!
August 28, 2012
August 28, 2012
Sad to hear of Paul's passing.
I truly enjoyed getting to know him. He was a very wonderful sub. The students enjoyed his style of teaching, his friendly demeanor and witty ways. May all who miss Paul find comfort.

John 14:1-14
August 28, 2012
August 28, 2012
I met Paul throught Basketball officiating. Paul was a hard working official that took pride in the games he worked. Paul was always looking to improve as an official. We, at the SFV BB Unit, will remember the battle that Paul fought against cancer.
God Bless you Paul. You will forever be in our Hearts.
August 28, 2012
August 28, 2012
Dear Judy,

I am so very sorry for the loss of your brother. I know that you must miss him terribly. Although he and I never met, I'm sure that I would've liked him. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time and always. Love you, KJ xo
August 27, 2012
August 27, 2012
Paul life will not be the same, without you on the Basketball Court. I personally miss you paul, I have learn alot from you on and off the court. You had love for everyone and a giving person,,,, I was glad I was able to reachout to you with an "Prompting Card", before you left us, to go home to a better place....LOVE YA MAN.
August 27, 2012
August 27, 2012
I was so sad to hear about Paul. It was great to reconnect with him when our daughter started playing club basketball 6 years ago and he refereed many of her games. He also subbed for me several times. His positive attitude and love of kids and basketball was amazing. I always tried to have a Gatorade for him at games and if I didn't he would give me a hard time. He will surely be missed!
August 27, 2012
August 27, 2012
Paul was truly a wonderful man. I am blessed to have had the chance to work with him at Pico. Once he found out that I liked donut holes, he always brought them to me when he was on campus. The kids loved having Mr. Norris as their sub. He touched so many lives and made so many smile. I will miss him dearly and think of him often. My thoughts and prayers are with his wonderful family.
August 27, 2012
August 27, 2012
Paul your Spirit will always live with in me . You are truly a wonderfull human being and humanatarian . I will trully miss your pleasantry as I officiated many games with you . You are very special and I feel honored to have your path cross mine . I love you for being you , Paul . It is hard thinking that I will not see you officiating or having a pleasant conversation with you. God Bless
August 27, 2012
August 27, 2012
May God Bless your Soul dear Paul, he was a great person and a very good official, I've worked with him many games over the years and enjoyed it because he was a very good partner and a great human being as well with very good sense of humor, he will be greatly missed on and off the court.
August 27, 2012
August 27, 2012
Paul will never be a "was" to me, but will always be an "is". The man was as genuine and as easygoing as it gets. The guy always started with a smile and ended with one. Some of my most enjoyable games in Burbank were with him and we always began our ref set with a hug and laugh, and finished the night with it. . .a permanent class act, through and through. . .
August 27, 2012
August 27, 2012
One of my all-time favorite referees. He was so personable, friendly, funny, and humble. He would talk to you during the game ... and more importantly, listen patiently as well, which was such a great strength of his . He could make players and coaches smile during games. And ... he understood the game and people, and kept things in perspective. He will truly be missed.
August 26, 2012
August 26, 2012
(continued from below) knew that he was the heart and soul of the group. Take a look at the photo of our intramural softball team at UCLA. Can you believe that group of guys from the same dorm floor won the university championship? I can, because we had Paul Norris. This week I lost a very dear friend and my greatest teammate.
August 26, 2012
August 26, 2012
(Continued from below) His great skill combined with his keen sense of the game allowed him to outplay opponents who were bigger, stronger and faster. He was the playmaker and leader: quarterback, point guard, shortstop and even the placekicker ( I was his holder) and always made each of us better. He may not have gotten all the accolades and attention but his teammates (continued above
August 26, 2012
August 26, 2012
From the moment we met in 8th grade our friendship was rooted in sports. We were teammates in junior high, in high school, on intramural teams at UCLA (we were also roommates) and even city league teams after college. Paul was my teammate more times than anyone else in my life. He was often the smallest player in the game but he was usually the smartest as well. (to be continued)
August 25, 2012
August 25, 2012
It’s that smile, eyes sparkling -- his pure joy we recall
Such a positive up-for-fun life force was Paul
Indian Guides when Tanner and Jesse were small
Coached soccer with Candy, refereed kids’ basketball
In our hearts and our minds he’ll forever stand tall
Paul Norris embraced life – now his spirit enriches us all.
August 25, 2012
August 25, 2012
I loved my brother so very much....and my heart is filled with joy for his memory.....I am not going to celebrate his death, but I am going to celebrate his life....he, as all in this family R Amazing.....and I was only there on holidays.....Paul may not be here but his energy is in all of us who new him.....
August 24, 2012
August 24, 2012
Dearest Marlene and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of Paul's death. There are no words. He was too young to leave this life with so much more to contribute. He left a legacy of love and strong family commitment. You are in our prayers and we are sending you thoughts of love, courage and peace. In love and sympathy, Linda and Roger
August 24, 2012
August 24, 2012
It was certainly a pleasure to know Paul and we became good friends. All of us enjoyed working with Paul on the court. He was always willing to mentor anybody who wanted help. I was especially grateful for Paul assisting in the last few years helping me train the new officials in Burbank for our youth basketball program. You will be missed, my friend.
August 24, 2012
August 24, 2012
Such a very nice man. I had the privilege of working his last game with him this summer – before he knew the cancer had come back. He wasn’t feeling well that night, so he had a suspicion. We had a 3 bagger, and after the first game, I sent him home early as he was struggling We all had a gathering a month ago at Olive Park in his honor he seemed fairly vibrant. We had some great laughs and he see
August 24, 2012
August 24, 2012
"My relationship with Paul was strictly professional: He a referee and I a basketball coach. In fact, he would occasionally officiate in games my teams played. I was always impressed with his love of the game, his desire to get the call right and his ability to make all of us realize "it's just a game." His "love of the game" and his engaging personality will be missed."
August 24, 2012
August 24, 2012
It was a true privilege to have worked as a substitute teacher with Paul Norris. My son adored him when he was occasionally in his classroom. Whenever we saw one another, whether at school or out in our community, Paul always had a smile and a laugh to share with me. He will truly be missed by all that knew him. I will remember him as a gentle, amazing, and loving educator and friend.
August 24, 2012
August 24, 2012
For The Family,
We are very sad to know Mr. Norris is no longer with us. He is our favorite substitute teacher at Pico.He made the class laugh, he always remembered our names, he played with our dogs at valet, he even remembered the dogs names! We will miss him very much, no one can fill his Nike shoes. Rest In Peace Mr. Norris. Marcel and Nina
August 24, 2012
August 24, 2012
I am so proud to have had my big brother Paul in my life. We always had plenty of laughter growing up. I hope all the teasing was out of love, Paul. He was so smart and kind; never a bad thing to say about anyone. To Marlene and the "3" sons, I saw the love he had for all of you. So many great memories for you. Thank you Paul for the joy you brought. Miss you much. Love you Forever, Judy.
August 23, 2012
August 23, 2012
I feel so honored to have met Paul. He was an extraordinary man. I always felt his positive spirit and love for kids and family through our conversations. Thank you so much for creating this wonderful website. And I thank God that this blessed spirit came into my life, even though it was only for a brief period of time. A truly remarkable man who will be missed by many.
August 23, 2012
August 23, 2012
I remember Paul and Marlene taking care of my baby Brooke when I went on my honeymoon. Paul and Marlene were so sweet and kind to her,all the while they were expecting their first anytime. The kindness they showed and with love they took great care of my only daughter.
My heart goes out to the entire Norris family
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April 7, 2021
My Brother Paul:
to you Paul. In a restful place:
my memories of the most special man I have ever met. We loved playing together as we both grew. His was the most special person ever walked this earth... He made sense of the ups and downs of all things pertaining to life. 
and was taken from us at the early stages of life. Ppl who had the privilege to have met him
are lucky. I miss him. Rip Bro. We hookin up very shortly. RIP MR ALL THINGS GOOD IN THIS LIFE. BROTHER STEVEN. LOL
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Thinking of you on your birthday Paul. Miss you much. Your sister Judy...

September 17, 2012

My earliest memories are of Vaquero Court.  That cul-de-sac felt safe and welcoming, like our own Valencia version of “The Wonder Years,” complete with great neighbors.

Directly across the street was the Norris family:  The boys and their hockey gear; Marlene, who gave my sister and I her beautiful dance costumes to play dress-up in; and Paul.  Paul was so vibrant.  Literally.  His golden-tan skin seemed to reflect his energy, love of life, and charisma.  The specific memories have faded, but I know that when I picture Paul, I seem him with Marlene and my parents chatting and laughing.

I was 6 years old when we left Vaquero Court.  Years later, it was a point of pride to take friends to Pauli’s and explain (over some seriously yummy garlic bread) that I knew the Norris family.

There are childhood memories that root you and bond you to certain people no matter the time or distance.  Paul and his family are a special part of these memories for me.

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