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A Memorial Service for Paul will be held at the UW-Whitewater Connor University Center in the Old Main Ballroom on October 25th, at 11:00 am.

Connor University Center:
228 Wyman Mall
Whitewater, WI 53190
Campus Map:
http://www.uww.edu/campus/uwwmap.pdf 

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to The Nature Conservancy or Fairhaven Senior Services. 

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved husband, father, grandfather and friend, Paul Lauritzen.

This site was created in hopes of gathering stories and memories of Paul. We would like to create a book to compile these stories and document the impact Paul had on the many people's lives he influenced. We all know Paul loved to pull pranks, so if you were an accomplice or the victim of one of these pranks please do share. Please visit the Stories tab to contribute.

July 10, 2022
July 10, 2022
My favorite times are with Lois and remembering all the good things Paul gave to his students, family and friends. He lives on with all of us.
July 10, 2022
July 10, 2022
Paul was a great man and is deeply missed. He always treated me like I was part of the family.
My love to Lois and Jeff.
Thanks for your kindness and generosity ❤️
Marc
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Paul was a master trickster. You had to be on your toes not to be a victim of his fun tricking.
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Thoughts of Paul's caring heart and spark always brings a smile.
June 19, 2019
June 19, 2019
I am so lucky to have Paul's wife Lois as my friend. We share many memories of his pranks as well as how he touched so many people.
June 19, 2019
June 19, 2019
This man pretty much saved my life by counseling me when I was arrested for selling marijuana in 1993. I am forever greatful for what he did and he was a good instructor as well. I did eventually finish my masters in 98 and have been teaching for 20 years. God bless you Paul and your family and friends.
July 9, 2018
July 9, 2018
Paul's legacy lives on in his wife, Lois, and his fabulous family. He is always present and remembered with respect and love.
July 10, 2016
July 10, 2016
Paul was an incredible man, his son Jeff was my best friend in highschool and the Lauritzen family treated me like a second son.
I have many fond memories with them including playing tennis, basketball, working at the woods, and fishing just to name a few.
He has left a beautiful legacy behind him with all the people he had an impact on in his life..
July 9, 2016
July 9, 2016
My family recalls lovely memories of Paul's sharing the woods with them and letting them sleep in the tree house. An experience they will never forget. I will never forget this gentle giant.
November 23, 2014
November 23, 2014
I have always considered Paul to be a quiet hero. He has touched so many lives. He took a chance on me for which I am forever grateful. He is an inspiration to everyone. We all can learn so much from how he conducted his life. Thank you Paul.
October 26, 2014
October 26, 2014
What a wonderful celebration of Paul's life on Sat. Oct. 25th! Thank you to the family and close friends who spoke at the memorial and shared such wonderful stories. They were so meaningful. My love goes out to Lois, Karen, Lisa, Jeff and their wonderful families in this time of loss. I wish you peace as you move forward.

There are many themes across these tributes and in talking with those who knew Paul. He was a mentor, highly skilled athlete and coach, cared so much for the youth in our community, was a trickster, a tall-strong man, cerebral, inclusive in the sense of equity for all. Paul offered his skills and resources out and those who accepted had avenues opened to experience things they never would have without him. 

Karen and I have been friends throughout our lifetime and I consider Paul and "Mom" my family. Paul was always someone I looked up to literally and he let me know how short I was on a continual basis -"Yes, among giants" I would say. Paul had this skill to know the amount of pressure/challenge to offer out. I could take a pretty good amount and offered it back as I grew older. We had fun with our exchanges, always leaving with a smile.

Paul helped me to hone my skills in basketball, tennis, ping pong, stilt walking, apple picking, cider press cranking, weed pulling, planting, ice cream eating, trampoline jumping, trick playing, road biking, and the list goes on.

My favorite story was when Lois was "at her end" on a hot day with no air conditioner. Paul must not have thought they needed it and Lois made a statement that she would not return until she got cool air. She, Karen and I headed out and boy did we have fun! Let the shopping begin. It started with matching outfits for Karen and I and didn't end there. With every fun adventure we had we started to say, "Thanks Paul!" Paul had no idea what was going on when we came back with our outfits on, giving him a kiss on his cheek with a "Thanks Paul". Lois got her air that day and we continue to say, "Thanks Paul" with a twinkle in our eye many, many years later. I don't know that Paul ever knew the extent of our excursion that day!

"Thanks Paul"! Love you. Andrea
October 23, 2014
October 23, 2014
Paul was a great man and mentor for me. His son Jeff is my best friend from high school. Paul and Lois treated me like a second son and adopted me into their family. I have many fond memories of the adventures we shared together including the Whitewater invasion of Gulf Shores Alabama every spring. I spent many hours at the Lauritzen woods and to this day will never forget the sweet apple cider Paul would make.
The Lauritzen family has always been very special to me and I can never thank them enough for the love they have shown me over the years. Paul and Lois will always have a special place in my heart for their kindness and generosity. Thank you Jeff for being my friend and brother.
Love, Marc Durette
October 22, 2014
October 22, 2014
Whitewater lost a great man in Paul. Paul had a huge impact on my life from working out on his land, pruning trees, making apple cider, cutting fire wood, playing ping-pong, and even as a coach in basketball. He always had a noble project on hand whether it be working on environmental projects, working with youth, teaching, or coaching. I miss those summer and winter days out in the woods and the great mentorship Paul always provided. He'll be missed, but his impact will not be forgotten.
October 9, 2014
October 9, 2014
When I think of Mr.(Dr.) Lauritzen I think of the bicycle rides to the Woods to work, the tractor rides, apple cider, the basketball trips to the gym, and the interest he always showed in me as a person. A great man, with a great family.
September 29, 2014
September 29, 2014
Dr. Lauritzen was an amazing mentor when I was working on my MEd. He guided me through the PhD and was instrumental in my success.

My favorite prank was when I attended a CEC convention in DC with Dr. Lauritzen and some other faculty members. There was a little kerfuffle about the traffic on the Beltway and at one point when we were not moving, Dr. Lauritzen leaped out of the car and yelled "Help, I'm being kidnapped!" The kerfuffle turned to laughter in no time!  Another was when he was called as a reference for my current job, he identified himself as my parole officer! He was not only an academic mentor, but a life mentor who taught us to laugh and enjoy! He will be missed.

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July 10, 2022
July 10, 2022
My favorite times are with Lois and remembering all the good things Paul gave to his students, family and friends. He lives on with all of us.
July 10, 2022
July 10, 2022
Paul was a great man and is deeply missed. He always treated me like I was part of the family.
My love to Lois and Jeff.
Thanks for your kindness and generosity ❤️
Marc
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Paul was a master trickster. You had to be on your toes not to be a victim of his fun tricking.
Recent stories
June 3, 2023
I have recollection of Paul wanting to take me to his property as a child around high school age with my younger cousin. I don’t recall why he was so adamant about me visiting the property and riding on a tractor trailer along a trail. He then insisted that I ride back to his house in his pick up truck in the passenger seat with my young cousin. My parents who were apprehensive and equally as weirded out by this followed closely behind. Just sharing in case others have equally unnerving accounts. This all stemmed from the Kiwanis/key club organization we were both apart of
September 26, 2018

I am so lucky to share memories of Paul with his wonderful wife Lois.  We sometimes get to laughing so hard at his many antics and gags he would pull on one and all.  He will always remain in my memory as an outstanding role model.  Lucky for us his family keeps Paul's memories with  us.  

Swedish "sister"

October 8, 2014

We were sad to hear that Paul passed away. Our thoughts go to Lois and the children with families.

Paul was my "American brother" since 1957, when I was an AFS exchange student in the Lauritzen family in Rock Island. He was then already married to Lois and had moved out. My first memory of Paul is when he came to visit. Standing in the doorway he said: "Look, Agneta!" and then he "fell" straight forward and only just before he hit the floor, he put out his hands to prevent an accident.

Another memory, from 1978, is a visit with Paul's family in Whitewater. Paul had a wonderful way with our boys, then 10 and 7 years old. He even let them drive his tractor in his woods. Unfortunately, the tractor crashed into the garage door.

The passing of time is inevitable, but memories remain.  

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