WE meet on a blind date araend by my dad it was 15 September 1987  in fact he did not tun up for the first date as his nan had a full and he had to take her to hospital  and did not let me no but the foling week he did  but there was no spark and no kiss at the end of the night but the next day my dad put a note on his car  inviting him to a family BBQ so he came  we all when to the pub and on the walk back I grab his hand  and later that night the first kiss   we dated from then  but the following week he was away  with the Scouts  but he phoned every day   and when he came back we saw each other every night but Thursday as it was scout night   after one mouth he said he wanted to marry me  and on December  Christmas day we  go engaged  we then go married 1 October 1988   in horsham regtsta  did always whoted it bless and was planning to on our 25 anaverarey but he was to I'll to do that .Christmas that year we were excepting peter  he was born 5 September 1989 and with meditcall help we had Lucy 3 October 1994  we thought the family was complete  as  that is what we had dicusted but when they gru up there was a noll in my life  and we decided to try for one more I found out I was exstetin 27 December2007 after a car crash but to week later I lost it  but in December 2008 we toll everyone I was six mouth pregnant and  Luke was born  26 march 2009.