• 45 years old
  • Date of birth: Aug 25, 1969
  • Place of birth:
    Indiana, United States
  • Date of passing: May 26, 2015
  • Place of passing:
    INDIANAPOLIS, Indiana, United States
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Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Quantella Washington on 28th August 2017

I do apologize for such a late B Day Shout out......I did not know this page existed. I know for sure your spirit can feel all the love and you are very well missed. Fly High Beautiful Lady....."

This tribute was added by Dave Kensler on 27th August 2017

"A few days late, Happy Birthday, Paula! You are always present in my heart and soul. I miss you more than you could know and my love for you continues on. Thank you for all that you gave to me. Much love to you."

This tribute was added by Melissa Marble on 21st June 2017

"I miss you and love you so much not a day that goes by that I don't think of you I have pictures and you hanging up in my house do I still have your t-shirt that we may I still have some of the balloons and I have a lot of memories that I hold onto I'm glad that your struggle is over but I missed you I miss you tremendously I love you Sissy"

This tribute was added by ROBERT ALEXANDER on 27th May 2017

"Paula, there is not a day that go by without you being on my mind, I always  think  about  the  very  first  time i ever heard  about  you  and  knew  your  name, i  heard  of  you  from  watching  an  interview you  had  with  rev.  Jessie  Jackson  one  night on  tv, " nightline"  was  the  show  if  i'm  not  mistaken,  and  i  can  remember how  i reacted  when  i  seen  you  on  my  tv  screen,  i  remember  saying  to  myself "  OH  MY  GOD,  PAULA  IS  SUCH  A  CUTIE-PIE"...  after  i  obtained  your  address  and  started  writing  to  you  i  learned  what  such  a  beautiful  and  sweet  person  you  truly  were  and  i  remember  how  much  i  was  alway's  so  glad  to  hear  from  you,  and  to  this  very  day  you  still  are  on  my mind  and  inside  my  heart so  much.

    paula,  i  always  wanted  to  meet  you  in  person  to  give  you  a  
    big  hug  and  tell  you  how  much  i  love  you  and  how  much  i
    enjoyed  writing  to  you,  i  remember  how  each  letter  i  received
    from  you always made  my  day  feel  like  a  wonderful  day.  thanks
    for  all  the  wonderful  memories  paula,  young  lady  i miss  you  so  
    much  and  i  love  you  more  than  words  can  ever  say, although i
    didn't  get  to  meet  you  here  on  earth in  person,   i  will  definitely
    meet  you  in  heaven,  i  will  know  it's  you  by  your  beautiful  smile.

                                    R.I.P. PAULA  R. COOPER

                                             - I  LOVE  YOU -"

This tribute was added by Charles Eberhard on 25th August 2016

"Happy birthday Paula, today you would have been 47. You are missed down here, I hope the angels of the Lord are giving you a wonderful birthday  today."

This tribute was added by Charles Eberhard on 26th May 2016

"I remember how optimistic you always were, looking forward to the day when you could talk to and work with today's youth to keep them from  going down the path you had been on. You were such a beautiful person inside and out. The world misses you and all you could have accomplished. Our great loss is Heavens gain."

This tribute was added by MELISSA MARBLE on 30th August 2015

"as you know we just had a wonderful time getting together in ur memorie....we will do this every year from now on...love u"

This tribute was added by Cassidy Burgeas on 26th August 2015

"As your birthday passed, were looking forward to celebrating your life .I love you Paula, and im truly sorry you didn't know how much..You've impacted my life,taught me,guided me,helped me further my education and was a true friend to me ! Thank you so much for the memories that I have ..As this site says you'll be forever missed!!  You'd be proud to know we're honoring you this Saturday. .we love you !!"

This tribute was added by Charles Eberhard on 25th August 2015

"It is hard not having you here to celebrate your birthday. I hope you are looking down from heaven to see all of us that love you wish you Birthday greetings. We all miss you and love you. RIP me dear sweet Paula"

This tribute was added by Dave Kensler on 25th August 2015

"Happy Birthday Paula Cooper! Your last letter to me still sits in my work desk area and I have re-read it many times. While I wish I was sending you a birthday card like the “old days,” I remain forever thankful to have been a part of your journey. RIP and you will always be loved and remembered. I hope your soul has a great day!"

This tribute was added by Kristy Johnson on 2nd August 2015

   You was such a great and intelligent person. I have so many memories with you from Rockville. I really and truly appreciate everything you done for me and especially you mentoring me through the good, bad and the ugly. Thank you so much! You are truly missed. R.I.H. TT""

This tribute was added by Dana Stevens on 22nd July 2015

"Hey Nana I love you and I still can't grasp the thought of knowing that your gone....I know your in Heaven becuz you were a Angel on earth....On August 29th we are goin to get it in for you in the Nappy City and your favorite and my favorite color (Purple)will be worn to perfection!!!!I love you and miss you as so many others do keep flying Nana,keep flyin....Love your child Dana a.k.a Stank"

This tribute was added by Stephanie Clemons on 22nd July 2015

"Paula...I remember a few special talks we had the most but those are our secrets and i get to laugh about them when I think of you instead of being sad cause your gone....we are going to celebrate you for your birthday together as the family we all were inside and as one of our family passes we find we still are today...MISS you"

This tribute was added by luciana yzaguirre on 22nd July 2015

"I love u paula.. Theres so much to say but i will save all that for the weekend of your birthday.. You are missed by so many and loved by all.. It still seems unreal to me. Fly high beautiful..."

This tribute was added by Melissa Marble on 21st July 2015


This tribute was added by MELISSA MARBLE on 9th June 2015

"our lives together started back in 1993 an went till 2015 you were like a sister to me behind the walls an out!!!! i miss our talks, ur smile, an most of all i miss u !!! but i do understand now all that you told me that lead up to this im just glad you are at peace now love you sissy"

This tribute was added by Charles Eberhard on 8th June 2015

"I will never forget the times we had visiting, you was such a beautiful person. You will be missed forever by those of us that love you. RIP my dear sweet Paula. May God wrap his arms around you give you peace."

This tribute was added by Dave Kensler on 5th June 2015

"Paula…For 25-years I could count on one certainty…when I went to the post office to pick up my mail from my PO Box; on one of those trips there would be a letter from you! Even when I knew your finances were tight and the cost of a postage stamp was “expensive,” you ALWAYS found a way to write me! You never failed me. Yet over the last week, more than once, I have wondered if I failed you.

Then, these amazing experiences started to happen and are continuing...between clicks, links, messages, online chats, emails and so on, I began to “meet” the people in your circle of life! Paula Cooper, you have put together one amazing “quilt of people.” Almost every area where I feel I let you down, I have met someone who had your back covered in that area! It is truly remarkable.

This is a “quilt” which will never fade, tatter or disappear because it is held together by one common thread…we all miss you deeply and love you! As my tears begin to dry and the sleepless nights are less frequent, I can wrap myself in the warmth and love of your quilt, look up and see your shining, peaceful soul! :-)"

This tribute was added by Lena L. on 4th June 2015

"I stumbled upon this page by just looking for anything "Paula." We all miss you sooooooooo much at the office. I miss your early morning smiles that greeted us every morning. You weren't just a co-worker to me, you were my friend. You would always say that I was a mentor to you but you didn't realize how you were the same to me too. You were such a fast learner & eager to learn more & more & I was eager to give you more...lol I shared my stories with you & laughed with you. I miss those days. The office hasn't been the same since you left. Some of your "favorite" (she would laugh at that) clients  have been calling because they heard what happened & are hurt by your passing. You meant a lot to them too. You are sorely missed. Rest easy queen. Oh & "Papi" got a little sad today after mentioning your favorite candy & looking to see if there were more in your stash:)"

This tribute was added by Coaretta Hughley on 3rd June 2015

"May God Bless your Family and Love Ones... Paula was near and dear to some people I thank God for the conversions that we did have the times I did get a chance to sit down with you and get to know you, I'm sure you didn't Know the impact you had on so many people."

This tribute was added by MELISSA MARBLE on 3rd June 2015


This tribute was added by sherri armuth on 3rd June 2015

"I am so blessed that God allowed our paths to cross and thankful that I was able to spend time with you, laughing, crying, eating your amazing food!!! You taught me much about life, about overcoming adversity, and arbor myself.  I will forever hold those memories dear, and forever hold a very special place in my heart for you.  RIH my friend."

This tribute was added by Dawn Adams on 2nd June 2015

"May your glory and smile last for entirety in people's hearts and souls. Paula, you touched Roz's and I's lives in different ways for different reasons. We pray you are finally at peace. And we all will meet again in the future. Watch over the ones that loved, cared and had special feelings for you. We still need you in one type of way. Love Roz and Dawn."

This tribute was added by Minnette Trent on 2nd June 2015

"Rest In Peace my dear sister. May your soul be at rest!!!! I love you and will miss you. Always Nettie!!!!*"

This tribute was added by Bill Pelke on 2nd June 2015

"You are in God's loving arms for eternity.  You will be missed by many friends including the thousands who had hoped to meet you some day.
You will not be forgotten  Through you I learned about the great gift of God, forgiveness.  May I use your memory to encourage that message to others.   My heart is broken, I loved you very much <3 and will always love your memory."

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