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The other day God called you home to live with Him above. He said, “It’s time my precious child to feel my arms of love”. He opened up the pearly gates and ushered you inside. Then smiled at you and welcomed you with His arms open wide. We can only imagine what Heaven's like but we’re sure you stood in awe. We can picture you in Jesus arms just taking in it all. We know you longed to be with Him to see His gentle face. To look into His loving eyes and feel His sweet embrace. We’re sure you fell upon your knees and worshipped at his feet. Then joined the choir singing songs and melodies so sweet. You lived your life down here on earth by serving God above. And now you’ll spend eternity singing Him songs of love. Oh how you loved Him all your days, you gave Him your whole life. Your love for Jesus shone so bright even in times of strife. You shared His love by how you lived you gave him everything. And  we can hear Him say, “Well done, ” for living for the King.  Thank you for your faithfulness for trusting in the Lord. For all the times you prayed for us and blessed us. Thank you for all the times you cared for us. We could never have asked for another earthly father but you. You deserve His best reward.  We know each day you said a prayer  for family and each friend. And we know that you were faithful  and prayed until the end.  We know you’re up in heaven now,  your face  we cannot see. But all those precious memories will always stay with us. We  knew someday you’d leave this earth and live with God above. But we’ll keep you in our  hearts and think of you with love.

 

Mr. Perry Wayne Ndip Arrey was a legend in his days a people's man. He was a devoted father, a loving/ supportive brother, in-law, son, uncle, godfather, grandfather and most of all a good husband and provider. Dad the giver, a servant to all; it was never too little for him to share what he had with others. Dad was a very punctual man.

 Daddy, the rocker, a mentor to many….Papa was a "rolling stone", handsome, playful, joyful, funny, he was a hero, a strong man from Ossing and most of all a friend to us and many others.
Dad taught us most of what we know; he was a hero and still is to all who met and spent time with him. He was so young, so young, at 63 yrs old, Dad’s work here on earth was completed, he lived a full life and needed to return to the Lord.
We could not ask for a better father, he was our strength, inspiration, courage and all. He lives behind 7 children and 3 grandchildren, in/ out-laws, many friends – family members to carry memories of him forever.

December 19, 2011
December 19, 2011
daddy do you remember the first day I drove by myself in Morgantown, WV right after I had my license and I drove from work to the house at night without my lights and got a warning and you laughed so hard asking if I thought the lights would just come on without me turning them on?
December 19, 2011
December 19, 2011
Daddy, how are you doing this morning? Daddy ! can you hear me daddy! Na who de for arashie? Daddy u de for arashie? Daddy! Can you hear me calling? I need to talk to you..its important. Ok call me back ok….I need your opinion on something…ok talk to you later…
December 17, 2011
December 17, 2011
They say "the worse things in life come free to us". I refute this dad. You came free to us and you are the best we could ever hope for. You shall forever be our father and we shall make you proud...
December 15, 2011
December 15, 2011
I just feel sad that I missed talking to you for the last time..my call got there too late...I wish I called back as Efu told me...You have always been that ''always smiling'' daddy and uncle...full of life and fun..we will miss you uncle ...may you rest in perfect peace.
December 15, 2011
December 15, 2011
Sister Christiana and kids, cling to the memories and let them find way to heal you. The love and laughter,the joy in the togetherness you shared, will make you strong.You'll come to realize that your time together, no matter how long, was meant to be, and that you were blessed to have such a precious husband. Stay strong. Patience Mbeng. FOR THE MBENG FAMILY...
December 15, 2011
December 15, 2011
Uncle Perry, May the good Lord welcome you into His Kingdom in peace. The Lord said in my fathers house there are many mansions, Uncle your's is ready thats why He called you home. May He give us the strength to console grandma during this hard moments. Dear cousins please accept our sincere sympathy. Linda Ebot from Senegal
December 15, 2011
December 15, 2011
I light a candle for you daddy! my heart hurts daddy! ahhh this is just a bad dream
December 14, 2011
December 14, 2011
Perry has left a huge vacuum in our family. The news of his death hit me like a ton of bricks. I however find solace in the fact that he did lots of things for other people, putting smiles on faces that could have been stoney for a long time. The referee and the organizer of wrestling matches has gone, but his memory lives on. I will always be proud to have him as an uncle. Joachim Arrey.
December 14, 2011
December 14, 2011
Daddy,
you bring the sun out everywhere you go
Your smile brightens my day
your words continue to give me courage.
Know that I love(d) you, then, now and forever
until me meet again.....
#2
December 14, 2011
December 14, 2011
Papa....
LIKE WRESTLESS WAVES THAT TOSS BACK AND FORTH, ARE THE WORDS IN MY THOUGHTS AS I TRY HARD TO FIND THE BEST WAYS TO EXPRESS THE IMPACT YOU HAD ON ME AS WELL AS ON MY KIDS AND THE VACUUM YOUR HOMEGOING HAS LEFT..SEEING YOU IN ACTION AND/OR LISTENING TO STORIES ABOUT PAPA FROM EFU..GIVES ME MORE CAUSE TO THANK GOD FOR HOW YOU LIT MY LIFE
December 13, 2011
December 13, 2011
Dad..
you rocked my boat all my life, you swayed me from the storms when i came face to face with the storms. you inspired and helped me. you taught me how to be bold and courageous by living the example yourself.
December 13, 2011
December 13, 2011
Dad you taught me how to write and pronounce the letter "r" properly- "rice" correctly instead of "lice".. you were there when i first went on stage to do my rhyme and you were there when i went onstage again to defend my thesis, i was the only girl and the only black on stage.. u stood there tall, squared your shoulder, smiling like i was the only one in the room.. i made you laugh......
December 13, 2011
December 13, 2011
Hey uncle... You are finally going to join your friend and inlaw; you the very cheerful but fearless, the very sincere and caring, the very swift and sweet, with whom I proudly share a name, a family, a tribe. Uncle may you rest in perfect peace. Perry Yenika Agbor
December 13, 2011
December 13, 2011
My heart just bleeds at this moment. My uncle had a heart that never hardened. He had a smile that never faded. His promises were silent, unwritten and unbreakable by distance and unchangeable by time. I was lucky to have you like an uncle.will always look up to you for blessings. We love you uncle because you were an honorable human being.. Emmanuel ayuk njoklaw ,Esq.
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December 10, 2023
December 10, 2023
Hi Uncle Perry!
Thank you for giving us so many reasons to miss you 12 yrs later.
Thank you for always welcoming me with a smile.
Thank you for all those times you visited and picked us up from Saker.
Thank you for working so hard to creat a great life for your family.
It is tough not having you physically here but we know your spirit lives on. Keep smiling in heaven.
We miss you!
Ebot :-)
December 10, 2023
December 10, 2023
12 years dad! I am still looking out the window, I am still listening for the phone to ring hoping to hear your voice on the other side. I am still believing that at least I will hear your voice someday. I miss you so very much. Whenever I didn't know what to do I would come to talk to you about any and everything, even the things girls aren't comfortable sharing with their fathers I shared with you....
Oh! dad if you only knew just how I need you right now, if I could only hear you say to me once again "Efu-moh'ndem" or even tell me not to worry that you are praying for me every night and that it will be okay.
You always told me to look up and trust in the Lord. You thought me to believe in myself and go for what I want. You thought me to stay strong and never stop fighting and hoping until my heart stops beating. You always reminded me that I can do all things through Christ who strengthes me.

The best man I ever knew, loved and still love, he has been gone 12 long years......hmm!
I LOVE YOU DAD, ALWAYS AND FOREVER
July 18, 2023
July 18, 2023
Happy Belated Birthday Uncle .
We miss you and Daddy so much.
Stay blessed in heaven.
Ebot
Recent stories

4 years now and it still hurts like yesterday

December 10, 2015

Daddy,it hurts to think you're not here anymore. Although I can't help but smile with tears in my eyes to think of how we cherished you and every moment of our lives together wheb you were still with us.we muss you daddy





4 Years today

December 10, 2015

Hello Daddy,

4 years today (still counting  ) since you left us for a better place. 

You will never be replaced in our hearts and minds, we thank God for sending you to watch over us always.. you know what i mean.

So Long...

Efu 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD

July 16, 2015

It's almost 4 years since the Lord called you over...I miss you and I will still say Happy Birthday even though you are not here..

Somehow, I still feel you near me and in times of difficulties I feel you even closer..

Thanks for the unconditional love you showed us, that love will reign forever from generation to generation..

PEACE!!!! 

P/S
..and, OH!!  we got a mini you chez nous.. DD is amazing..AB still talks about you from time to time. He cries when he thinks about you. That boy does not want to play soccer but after I told him that you were a pro and that you would love for him to at least know how to play, he agreed to play.. playing for grandpa..  

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