You will always be in our hearts
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Note: Doris Day was one of Peter's favourite singers so we have included a couple of her songs as background music for the website. Que Sera, Sera (Whatever will be, will be) was often sung by Peter and is reflective of his approach to life. If you would like to turn the music ON/OFF, all you have to do is select the speaker icon at the very top of the page.
Viewing and Cremation - Brisbane
Peter was cremated in his Scout uniform at Mt Thompson Crematorium in Holland Park on Tuesday 18th November 2014 following a family gathering and viewing at Simplicity Funerals in Woollongabba.
Memorial Service - Newcastle
An evening Memorial Service to celebrate Peter's life was conducted at Glenrock Scout Centre on Sunday 23rd November 2014 and included a ceremony to scatter Peter's ashes at the Sundial rockery garden overlooking Glenrock Lagoon. Red, Green and Gold balloons representing his time as a fireman in the RAAF, and as a member of the Scout Association were released following the scattering of ashes by Trevor, Andrew, Leila and grandchildren Theresa and Amber.
Peter Griffith, a long time scouting friend of Peter’s, lead a 'campfire' during which family and friends joined in singing Peter’s favourite Scout songs before enjoying a wonderful supper.
Our sincere thanks go to:
Delma and Bill Tape, Vasu and Santee Santhanam & Shan Nathan who generously provided the supper and their time in setting up on the day; Kevin Allen who greatly assisted in securing the venue and coordinating the scouting community to assist on the day; Peter Griffith for organising and leading the campfire; Dan Harrison, Kevin Allen and Graeme Pike who told us wonderful tales from Peter’s life; and Grahame Pricter for arranging the ashes ceremony.
And finally, to all who attended the service. We enjoyed meeting each of you and hearing your stories about how Peter touched your life.
We were truly blessed to have him as our father.
With love and appreciation always,
Trevor, Andrew and Leila
and our extended families.
Tributes
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To the time that we three John, self and Peter were in Twickenham when the sirens sounded, and the German plane flew low overhead. We John and I literly threw Peter down into the air raid shelter.
To the walk we all took with Mum in the countryside near Keiwa, by a memorial for something and a photo was taken of us. So someone else had to be there.
To the time that Peter was on the pillion of the BSA 650 cc on the way back from a trip to I think Newcaastle with Mum who was moving up there, we had towed the motor bike on the back of the car.
And the most important memory was that Peter who was the conductor on the number 8 tram to Toorak was chattering up Kaye who was working for the Patons. It was through these chats that Kaye finally phoned me at the Port Melbourne Police Station, which commenced the 100 day romance which lead to our marriage on the 11th of January 1956.
While we drifted apart during the following years, us in PNG and Peter abroad, we kept in touch.
We both miss both Peter and Kotha.
Love from Kaye and Michael.
Please be proud and comfort yourselves that you had such noble souls as your parents to guide and be the example they were to you & many like me too. Can you hear the songs as you read this: That's what they were in relating to life here on transitory earth, the world we are now in. How very thoughtful of Pete to share these beautiful songs.
He got a quick relief to join Kotha who would have been waiting for him in the astral world,not wanting him to suffer his disabilities further & also not to pain you children further.Many blessings to all of you for the love and care you gave your exemplary parents when both were needed very much. Leila I love you & thank you for all the updates sent.
Both Kotha & Pete will be remembered by all those who got know them.
Farewell dears. Aum Shanti
A life well lived.
Graham and I are very thankful that he was surrounded by loving family and friends and that he had a painless and peaceful death. You were special.
Leila has been keeping us posted with all the photos and news...you have a beautiful family who will continue the love, joy that you and Kotha cherished them with. Morris and I will always remember you for your humble ways, humble smiles and a wonderful sense of humour....
I have been especially thinking of last Christmas when Kotha was very sick but still managed to come down from 5B to our party and that Andrew went to so much trouble to bring you and a plate of food to our party. I'm sure Kotha was instructing him and making sure everything would be perfect.
Our Christmas party this year will be tinged with sadness because we will have you both on our minds.I wish you love and happiness Peter, thank you for all the care and support you have given the Mater over the years. We have missed you this year and hope your road ahead is quiet, comfortable and full of your loving family.
All my love. Janice Croft, on behalf of the nurses and staff or 4C CMH
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You will always be in our hearts
Please be patient.
Final resting place
Respecting Peter's wishes, his ashes were scattered at the sundial at Genrock Scout Centre, Newcastle on 23 November 2014 following a memorial service with family and friends. This plaque was placed on the memorial wall at Glenrock Scout Centre, in recognition of Peter and Kotha's commitment to the Scout Movement in Newcastle.
Life in Pictures
'Life in Pictures' is a tribute to Peter and contains images from his early years through to his last days in hospital. The backing music is a collection of some of his favourite songs. 'Life in Pictures' was included as part of Peter's memorial service.
One day in April
Last year (2013) Kotha & Peter came down to Melbourne, for what appeared to be at the time, one last visit. They were transported around Melbourne by Preeti, Vimala and Subra, and Preeti took these very special photos which I cherish.
Everyone came to my humble little abode and we spent some time chatting, then went out to an Asian restaurant in Elsternwick, which ensured that Peter would not have to walk all that far.
It was a grand night with good food, though I recall Kotha informing the attendant that the Laksa had too much salt in it. Ha ha. She was just saying.
Peter was in good form, his usual cheery, cheeky self and it was a night to remember with lots of hugs.
I miss them greatly.