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This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend, Peter McInerney, 78, born on September 3, 1936 and passed away on January 18, 2015. We will remember his boisterous laugh, his sage advice that came from his heart and his warmth and strength wrapped in an endearing yet indomitable spirit.

January 18
January 18
We are thinking of you on this day of rememberance. Bobby, Amy, Ray and I miss you.
January 18
January 18
Hi Dad, 
Will stop by to visit at Saint Doms later with Bobby. Been rereading your notes and cards and taking comfort in the gentle wisdom. Seems I am missing it more than ever now. With infinite Love and Gratitude. Knucklehead #2 
September 10, 2023
September 10, 2023
Apologies, Late again with the note ...Upholding the McInerney trait it seems. Loved spending a few moments with you at Saint Dom's on your special day -though after 8 yrs I seem to struggle more with this concept of being apart. Miss you - so proud to be your son, knucklehead #2.
September 4, 2023
September 4, 2023
Hi Dad, we're all thinking of you today on what would have been your 87th birthday.  You are sorely missed but your transcendent laugh and one-of-a-kind personal touch will live on.  Please say hi to Mom and Stephen for us and let them know they are in our thoughts and prayers as well. 

Love, Knucklehead #3.
September 4, 2022
September 4, 2022
Holding you close in our hearts and minds on your Bday - Kei gave me your book of Irish Poems earlier this year and I have been doing my darnedest to memorize "Said Hanrahan" as you did....have aways to go. Of course I am certain Bobby would have it memorized after two readings. So whisper me the words whenever I attempt to recite parts of it. Miss you every day.
Love #2 knucklehead.
January 21, 2022
January 21, 2022
Thought of you today after listening to Memories by Maroon 5!
January 18, 2022
January 18, 2022
Hi Dad, number 3 knucklehead here... I can't believe it's been 7 years since your passing. We're still all struggling with the passing of number 1 in 2020 and getting ready to celebrate his final burial at Arlington National Cemetery. I know you were so very very sad to see him so early but so very very proud of him now. All of us now get the honor of striving to live up to the incredible example you and Stephen gave us all on living an honorable, purposeful life while helping those see the light along the way. Here's to looking to your light above and raising a glass of cheer for a life well lived!  Slainte! Love David
January 18, 2022
January 18, 2022
Dad, number two knucklehead here... during these past couple of years without you and Stephen as my anchors - I am definitely feeling more adrift and without a working compass. The only saving grace in this seems to be a "slowing down" for me - (Yes, I know it is relative) and increased sense of just "Let it be". I now understand a little more clearly what, for all those years, you were trying to get me to learn to implement in my life. As you know, knuckleheads are not quick to change. You are sorely missed by all here and that sense of loss is only multiplied by 100 with Stephen's leaving us too. Love you forever. #2 son
January 18, 2022
January 18, 2022
Peter,
Wish I had something profound, enlightening or enduring to say but sadly I am lacking in words today. Just, that you are missed. Yep, missed. dd
September 3, 2021
September 3, 2021
Dad, our loss feels even greater during this anniversary day - I know you were there with all of us for Stephen's Memorial service and probably got a kick out of the fact I used Stephen's Eulogy for you as the framework for the eulogy we did for him. Bobby and I started by re reading your Eulogy and watching the video of Stephen delivering it at your service. Bobby wisely commented that most all the thoughts and words Stephen delivered for you could be used word for word in describing Stephen's character and impact.
In that, you and Stephen remain a huge inspiration for us each and everyday. Love you forever, Brian and Bobby
September 3, 2021
September 3, 2021
Peter, I remember attending a conference where an inspirational speaker said that we surround ourselves with whom we continue to learn about life’s lessons.You have been one who have generously given to many about self examination.I hear your voice almost daily about things that really matter to me and about others whom we love. I regret that I never expressed my thanks to you. Bless you and here isanother birthday that you are still in ours hearts.
Kei
January 18, 2021
January 18, 2021
Dear Dad,
You are missed more than ever -
Though I know you are nearby guiding me/us, with Stephen being gone too, the void in my heart feels greater still.
Could be related to the incredible sadness we are experiencing here with the pandemic and the attacks on our democracy by our own people. We are in desperate need of the type of wisdom, leadership, and integrity you and Stephen shared.
September 3, 2020
September 3, 2020
Happy Bday Anniversary Dad. You are missed this year more than ever as it is a complete shit-show here in the US. than God you left us with Irish Citizenship too as we may need to retreat to the old homeland depending on what happens later this year. I pray you and Stephen are sharing stories and laughs....We still can't believe he left us. With all we are in Love, Brian and Bobby. PS  I uploaded my favorite photo of your two....
January 18, 2020
January 18, 2020
Dear Brian, Kei and Bobby,

We are thinking of Peter on this anniversary. Bobby, both of your grandfathers love you very much. Peter is not forgotten.
September 28, 2019
September 28, 2019
I thought of you today as I often think of you when I think of my favorite sister, Keiko. In fact I went to see you the last time I was in SF and looked all over the wall but couldn’t find your name. I turned around and Ha! There you were on the opposite wall at St. Dominic’s. I put my hand on your name and thought about the days on the boat and the kids calling you Captain MacAroni! And Scott declaring that he was your First Mate...such fun times. And K2 calling to other sailors on the Bay.
Seamus misses you too!

Well, back to the sewing room... Hugs with hugs...
September 5, 2019
September 5, 2019
Hi Dad... Just a quick note to say we we're thinking of you on your birthday... As usual a couple of days late.  We lit a candle for you at St. Mary's, had a toast to you and said our dinner prayer with a special mention for Grandpa Mac's birthday. 

We miss you and know you're offering your sage advice with humor to all those who joined you in heaven.  
Love, Dave Barb Declan and Fiona
September 3, 2019
September 3, 2019
Your sister, Maura, and I chatted this morning. She had a mass for you
on your birthday. It seems that many family members are visiting Dublin
this year that it brings back memories of our many trips there with the
entire clan. We are all thinking about you.
January 23, 2019
January 23, 2019
Hi Dad,
We had the Annual Grandpa Mac Dinner at the StFYC - it continues. Met a couple of friends who shared more stories about you and Kei. There was much debate of which grandchild looked more like you with comparisons to your photo - I voted it was Connor, but it turns out they all have your good looks. Next year we might have to see which has as much charm as you. It was another memorable event - we could definitely feel your presence.  You are missed terribly - so much it hurts at times.  With Love from all of us - Brian
February 4, 2018
February 4, 2018
It is three years since Peter has left us and though I have many stories, this is my first entry. Peter was the most gentlemanly gentleman along with Peter Jennings who we chatted over champagne at a black tie event years ago. Since I was an admirer of Jennings’ work in
journalism, Mac grabbed Jennings over so that I could meet him. I was speechless, but the two men enjoyed a most joyful conversation filled with jabs and wit. Along came a woman who asked Jennings if they were brothers, even though they differed in their coloration. Both answered “yes” and laughed. It was a memorable evening.
September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017
Miss you Peter. Miss the 328e too. Also, still looking after Bmac for you. Boy do you owe me for that. Chat later. dd
April 16, 2017
April 16, 2017
I have nice memories of Peter. We used to play racquetball together during the Mosler years in SSF. He was a very friendly guy, always pleasant to talk to with a very open door policy. Condolensces to the family
January 18, 2016
January 18, 2016
Thinking of Peter and his mischievous charm and wit on this anniversary of his passing and missing him very much.
April 22, 2015
April 22, 2015
FR: Peter Francis M[a]cInerney, PhD
San Francisco
pmacinerney@yahoo.com

My distinguished loved namesake. Even more handsome than I! Wish we'd met -- had his St. Francis sailboat rammed my South End rowboat we'd done so. Now that I know something of that Mr. P. F. McInerney, his example will strengthen me to work hard not to disgrace our name.
March 10, 2015
March 10, 2015
I am so saddened to hear of Peter's passing. He was my boss at the South San Francisco office. I also knew him when we all still worked at Hermann Safe Company on Market Street. He was always so kind and encouraging. May God comfort all of those who loved him. Joyce (Carr) Berger, Snohomish, WA
February 11, 2015
February 11, 2015
Your finally at peace Peter, no more pain. We have comfort in the fact that you are once more in the arms of Mam and Dad (Stephen and Annie) who adored you so much. Forever in our prayers. Love always Maura and Eugene
February 10, 2015
February 10, 2015
Peter's light will shine in our hearts. His wit, joy for life, love, good food and good times. We will miss him. Our thoughts are with you at this time of loss. Sending warm hugs, Judy and Gary
February 7, 2015
February 7, 2015
Dear Brian, Kei and Bobby,
We met Peter 17 years ago. He was a fine gentleman, courtly and wise. A wonderful father to Brian and his brothers, husband to Kei,father-in-law to Amy and grandfather to Bobby. Bobby loved both his grandfathers very much and we will all miss him. We considered him part of our family. Sincerest condolences, Ray and Howard
February 6, 2015
February 6, 2015
With condolences to the McInerney Family on your sad loss. Noirin (sister in law) and I had the privilege of meeting Peter and his delightful family in 1977 on a visit from South Africa. Peter introduced us to the unique history and character of San Francisco. With his humour and charm, he was the perfect host and tour guide taking us along with
family to wonderful places of interest. We distinctly remember the Napa Valley wine tours, the beautiful art galleries and museums and Marine World Africa. Then the many delightful restaurants from the top of the Hyatt Regency Hotel for brunch to quaint Mexican cafe's.

After a tour of the Spanish Missions established by Jesuit Junipero
Serra at Carmel we finished off with a little "light refreshment" at Clint Eastwood's Hogg's Breath Inn.

With Peters commentary on his beautiful city on the bay, we fell in love with San Francisco. His four boys were fun to be around, full of that exuberance that is so characteristic of happy youngsters. Peter was very proud of each of them.

For that short time Peter brought great joy and hospitality to Noirin and I.
He will be remembered for his warmth and sincerity and was a true son of Eire. Fondly remembered. "Beannacht De ort"

David and Noirin O'Connor.

" Some people touch our lives only briefly - while others make a    .
  lasting impression and are never forgotten".
February 5, 2015
February 5, 2015
I have many fond memories of Peter while working at Mosler. What instantly comes to mind was his unique ability to address a group and make every individual feel that his attention was focused primarily on you. Peters’ meetings were always an occasion, people looked forward to seeing him and hearing what he had to say. No matter what the concerns were going in you always left in good spirits feeling your cause was heard an a resolution was close at hand. I also enjoyed his appreciation for fine food and wines. I remember on one occasion after a regional sales meeting Peter invited the group to join him at Alioto’s for dinner. After the waiter reeled off a list of Italian specials he asked for the drink order. When it came around to me I asked for a Coors or a Bud Lite. Peter looked at me and said Bob, this is fine Italian food I’m sure you would probably enjoy a nice glass of wine to go with that Italian dish you just ordered but if you insist on a beer at least please order an Italian one. Waiter make that a “Moretti”! To this day I can still hear him pronounce it with his Irish brogue, More-retti and I still always order one whenever I’m out enjoying a fine Italian meal. He will be missed.
February 5, 2015
February 5, 2015
Whilst I never had the pleasure of meeting Peter, I met his son Dave, a true friend, to whom I wish my deepest sympathy, and also to his family. RIP Peter, from another Irishman, in Eire.
Slainte, Liam
February 5, 2015
February 5, 2015
I met Peter while I was General Mgr at Mosler in SF. He was probably the best manager I ever had the pleasure of working with. He was always at his best in meetings, was friendly, effective and everyone liked him. I remember going to the US Open with him when he came to my office and said, "It's slow today, let's go watch the golf, my son is working there"...naturally I couldn't resist and we had a great day...it sure was sad finding this news about his passing...my sincere condolences to all his friends and family
February 4, 2015
February 4, 2015
Dearest David & Barbara, Geoff and I are sending our love to you both, the kids and all of your family. We pray for the Lord's peace that passes all understanding to cover you during this time of sorrow.
February 4, 2015
February 4, 2015
I would like to express my condolences to his family and loved ones.. Working with Peter over the years at Hermann Safe Company and Mosler Safe Co. ( the 40 some years ) he always took time to say Hi and see how we're doing.. I will have to say, he was generally just a real nice person! He will missed. ( From one Irishman to Another)
February 4, 2015
February 4, 2015
"People have asked us many times if we miss friends when we're sailing. I wonder if they really mean miss. How can I miss something I actually have? Probably they mean long for. Yes, I can long for friends, but i don't think that's bad or painful. That type of yearning is due to an appreciation for someone and is a catalyst for feeling thankful. Ashore, on the other hand, where it appears as though everything is available all the time, I often miss the feeling of longing." (Deborah Shapiro, from TIME ON ICE - about the Northern Light's Anarctic Expedition 1989-1992)
-We will always long for you Peter!
Dennis & Siobhan
February 3, 2015
February 3, 2015
Sincere thoughts - - Few passings of 'distant' friends have moved me as did Peter's. He was a special leader and friend during a few short years at Mosler ..... a kind and compassionate gentleman.
May God comfort his family and close friends.
February 2, 2015
February 2, 2015
The service for Peter will be held on February 6th at 12:30pm at St. Dominic’s Church in San Francisco, followed by a Memorial at the Saint Francis Yacht Club. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in memory of Peter McInerney to the American Cancer Society or The American Heart Association.
February 1, 2015
February 1, 2015
Feeling blessed to have been able to share in Peter and Kei's final Christmas together. Even though he was obviously very ill, he still managed to entertain us and worry about how we were enjoying our trip. That's how Peter will be remembered most for his kind and generous spirit. Our condolences to Kei, Stephen, Brian, Mark & David
February 1, 2015
February 1, 2015
Dave and Barb,

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father and father-in-law. I know how painful the loss of a parent can be. May the Lord give you peace during this challenging time.
January 31, 2015
January 31, 2015
Beautiful slideshow with a lovely collection of memories. The world has lost someone so very special. With condolences, Yvonne & Niklas Andersson.

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January 18
January 18
We are thinking of you on this day of rememberance. Bobby, Amy, Ray and I miss you.
January 18
January 18
Hi Dad, 
Will stop by to visit at Saint Doms later with Bobby. Been rereading your notes and cards and taking comfort in the gentle wisdom. Seems I am missing it more than ever now. With infinite Love and Gratitude. Knucklehead #2 
September 10, 2023
September 10, 2023
Apologies, Late again with the note ...Upholding the McInerney trait it seems. Loved spending a few moments with you at Saint Dom's on your special day -though after 8 yrs I seem to struggle more with this concept of being apart. Miss you - so proud to be your son, knucklehead #2.
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February 6, 2015

My fondest memories of Peter were when myself and my wife Fiona met up with himself and Kei in San Francisco , when we were on our honeymoon. He made our time so special, especially when  himself and Kei brought us out sailing between Tiburon and  Sausilito. We were joined by Mark and Tammy. Peter was such marvellous company, so gregarious and fun loving , himself and Kei were a very special couple.   

Peter and Kei visited  Ireland in 1999 to attend my sister Aislings wedding to Paul. That was 1999 and I know he had a fantastic time, I remember well New Year's Eve (millennium eve) in our home, the party went on well into the early hours everyone had to sing a song,those who did not know the words were handed a songbook. 

Peters version of "Nancy Whiskey"was brilliant he was really in his element he looked so happy being with his sister (my mum) Maura and the rest of his Irish Family and that is the way I would love to remember him The Picture of Happiness. 

Myself and Fiona would like to personally send our condolences to Kei, Stephen,Brian, David and Mark and their families on their sad loss and hope to meet up with you all in the not too distant future.

Eugene

So many great moments.. love to hear the stories behind them

February 1, 2015

I love all the pictures coming in.   We'd love to hear the stories  you have around them if you can share....Thanks, Dave.

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