July 9, 2023
July 9, 2023
Always thinking about you Phil.
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Phil Hellyer 45 years old , born on June 28, 1975 and passed away on July 9, 2020.
Phil leaves behind a best friend, wife and soul mate, Linda. Two step daughters Nicole and Noelle whom he loved. Many friends and family who loved him deeply, I guess the question would be, who didn't love Phil?
He had a beautiful smile, his hugs were the best and he could always be depended on. Phil loved to help, he was generous of spirit and had a talent with listening.
He never met a dog he didn't love, I'm sure our beloved dog Judy was there to greet him.
Camping, music and the ocean were what made him tick. Bob Marley was in his soul, the Monterey Jazz Fest a favorite destination and he loved to watch, "A Christmas Story".
Tow truck driver, firefighter, or auto repair shop owner, he always tried to do his best.
He is loved and will be greatly missed by all.
Phil leaves behind a best friend, wife and soul mate, Linda. Two step daughters Nicole and Noelle whom he loved. Many friends and family who loved him deeply, I guess the question would be, who didn't love Phil?
He had a beautiful smile, his hugs were the best and he could always be depended on. Phil loved to help, he was generous of spirit and had a talent with listening.
He never met a dog he didn't love, I'm sure our beloved dog Judy was there to greet him.
Camping, music and the ocean were what made him tick. Bob Marley was in his soul, the Monterey Jazz Fest a favorite destination and he loved to watch, "A Christmas Story".
Tow truck driver, firefighter, or auto repair shop owner, he always tried to do his best.
He is loved and will be greatly missed by all.
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July 9, 2023
July 9, 2023
Miss you more than words can say. Many marvelous memories dance in my head. Love you Phil.
July 9, 2022
July 9, 2022
Phil…I hope Russell has visited you! And that you are talking cars and dogs! Both of you were souls made of love (and engine grease) and we miss you so much.
July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
I deeply miss you Phil. One day we will have taco's and tequila shots together.
July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
Phil was amazingly courageous, always said thank you and most importantly that he loved me as he went through his journey with cancer. In his last few days, even when he didn't have a voice, he told Noelle and I that he loved us. The most beautiful words I have ever heard. A few days before he left he looked at me with the most profound love. I asked him if it was love that I saw and he said yes. I will never forget that. It is the small things....and I love you can mean the world.
July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
This morning it is a year since Phil passed away. I want to use this day to celebrate Phil's life. When asked what attracted me to Phil, I said his kindness. Even though I thought he was the most handsome man ever, his kindness is what won me over. We didn't have a memorial for Phil because of Covid, so I chose to do 365 days of images in his honor. Thank you to everyone for the love and support you have shown my family during this year. Please help me celebrate my best friend, my love and my husband Phil. i miss him but i know he would want me to celebrate what we shared. The most beautiful love story every, I'm positive of it. To Phil! I love you with all my heart and I will always miss you. You were splendid in everyway!
July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
Missing you today, Phil! We did not know you long, but you touched our lives in so many ways! Your sense of adventure, insistence on fun, tremendous smile and loving heart showed us how to live amid life’s unexpected challenges. Your star shines brightly today and always. Janet and Russ
February 8, 2021
February 8, 2021
I'm deeply saddened to learn of Phil's passing. We hadn't been in touch for quite some time, but I know he went thru a lot - and Linda was always by his side. Phil loved adventure, and he was supportive of my adventures, too. I remember how he loved his camper van. How blessed he was to have found such a companion in you, Linda - on this adventure we call life. He was so helpful with my car troubles when he had the shop. I remember making him lunch once - spicy tuna rolls, as I recall - and he was gracious in receiving them. I'll always remember his smiling face, even when things got tough. Miss you, buddy!
July 26, 2020
July 26, 2020
Phil was the kindest, most gentle, loving man I have ever met. There is absolutely no words to express the sadness I feel at this time. I know I was one of the luckiest people in the world to get to share life with him. His laugh was something I aimed for, his smile I lived for and I miss his hugs most of all. I love and miss you Phil.
July 17, 2020
July 17, 2020
Phil was one of my true friends. When I found out he was going to run his own shop a few years ago I was very excited for him. He took on the challenge and succeeded. We spent most days talking on the phone about tips and advice on repairs. Truly a remarkable person, husband, father, and friend. One day we will both be wrenching together. I will never forget him.
I never forgot those taco's we promised to cook once you got better, we will do that once we meet again Phil. I promise.
I never forgot those taco's we promised to cook once you got better, we will do that once we meet again Phil. I promise.
July 16, 2020
July 16, 2020
I have never had the opportunity to meet Phil in person, but I saw how much happiness that he brought to Linda and Noelle and Nicole. I saw how big his heart was when he was pet sitting. I saw how much life you all packed in to the time he had. I cry for you all because I know how much he will be missed. But I know this with all certainty you will meet again. He was such an amazing man and I am truly blessed for knowing him even if it was just on Facebook. You are all in my prayers I love you.
July 15, 2020
July 15, 2020
I did not have the chance to meet Phil in person but I am looking forward to the day I get to meet Linda. Phil and Linda are huge fans of my family’s restaurant, Ruddell’s Smokehouse, in Cayucos. I learned of them both and their story from Linda’s blog. She takes so many great photos and has some amazing ones at the smokehouse. It has been a joy to connect with them and watch them make the most of life. I am very grateful for the opportunity to follow along and to share our special food with a special family. We will smoke chicken and salmon in his honor. I lost my dad 2.5 years ago, and I know that there is a special place in heaven for these wonderful men gone too soon. Thank you, Phil, for all of the joy you have brought to the world.
July 15, 2020
July 15, 2020
Phil was the grounding force in all of our adventures....cooking food, driving us safely home, telling us it was time to go home (and it WAS time to go home, LOL!). He was the first example of a 'good' guy I had in my life. The way he loved Linda and treated their relationship was something new to me. I have so many memories of nights filled with laughter, great food, games, music, and good drinks! Sometimes when Kurt and I are serving dinner, we still say 'This ain't no ******** restaurant!' and laugh, loving that memory of Phil. Phil, you will be missed greatly, but you left a big presence, and I know your energy/soul will be with Linda always.
July 14, 2020
July 14, 2020
I can see Phil’s bright smile and relaxed energy. I think of him hanging out in a chair behind the event booth! Laughing and making everything light and fun!
The love between Phil and Linda was always sweet, adventurous, and beautiful.
Phil was strong, courageous, and truly an inspiration.
He will be so missed.
The love between Phil and Linda was always sweet, adventurous, and beautiful.
Phil was strong, courageous, and truly an inspiration.
He will be so missed.
July 13, 2020
July 13, 2020
Love of my life, best friend, soul mate. Phil loved helping others, had a tender heart and a beautiful soul. He cared and loved me to perfection. I am trying to pull myself together enough to write about him, but my world has fallen apart a bit. I miss you already Phil. He never missed an opportunity to tell Noelle and I that he loved us during his final days. I will continue to feel the warmth of his hugs, the tenderness of his words and the passion of his kisses.
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July 9, 2023
July 9, 2023
Always thinking about you Phil.
July 9, 2023
July 9, 2023
Miss you more than words can say. Many marvelous memories dance in my head. Love you Phil.
July 9, 2022
July 9, 2022
Phil…I hope Russell has visited you! And that you are talking cars and dogs! Both of you were souls made of love (and engine grease) and we miss you so much.
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Feet in the river of life
July 9, 2023
by Janet Flink
When Russ and I saw the photos of you and Linda at Big Sur we promised ourselves we would return there, some of our first dates together were there. We never made it back.
But, in May this year, I returned with my niece and we sat in Big Sur River with Linda and remembered you. You are still inspiring us
But, in May this year, I returned with my niece and we sat in Big Sur River with Linda and remembered you. You are still inspiring us
Dear Phil
December 25, 2020
Today is the first Christmas that I have spent without you. The week leading up to Christmas was difficult, I remember all of our trips at Christmas, all the laughs and all the love. I wondered how to navigate the holidays without you. You would be proud of Noelle, she has held my hand and guided me through this. You were on our minds, I wore your sweatshirt today that made me feel a little better and connected to you. I miss you, I keep you in my heart and I know that you are with me.
Merry Christmas Philly,
I remember and I carry you in my heart.
Merry Christmas Philly,
I remember and I carry you in my heart.
Colorado Color
October 28, 2020
Phil always wanted me to see the color of the fall leaves in Colorado. We had traveled the 70 across the Rockies once before but it was late and although we saw snow, he continued to tell me how he wanted to show me the yellow leaves.
My daughters and I just go back from a trip and we visited Colorado, we took moments each day to remember Phil. This day we stopped on the Colorado River and just took in the color.
Happy Anniversary Phil, 23 years ago you began to give me happiness, joy and love. I have the fondest memories of our "I do, I do wedding 15 years ago. Today I'm left with the love and memories and I continue to love and miss you. The color of the foilage was breathtaking.
My daughters and I just go back from a trip and we visited Colorado, we took moments each day to remember Phil. This day we stopped on the Colorado River and just took in the color.
Happy Anniversary Phil, 23 years ago you began to give me happiness, joy and love. I have the fondest memories of our "I do, I do wedding 15 years ago. Today I'm left with the love and memories and I continue to love and miss you. The color of the foilage was breathtaking.