Phil was a Renaissance man - I realized that at once in 1989 when the chairperson of Schalick's Science department was also my assigned art department head. I will never forget our first handshake- I could not help but look down at that massive strong hand and not think" oh my, Michelangelo would have carved this" But I did not yet know how much Phil was as gentle as he was strong.
And so it began.
I don't know if Phil ever realized what it took for me to stay even a little bit ahead of his art knowledge especially during class observations - he truly was a lover of all things Renaissance- the sciences, the arts, music, theatre , and like men of that era, he was also a romantic Maxine, I know first hand how much time, thought, research and care he put into every birthday, Christmas gift, Valentine sentiment and anniversary surprise. He wanted nothing but the best for his first love and he never fell short of finding it, making it or " improving " upon something purchased. And then there was his second love , Chris. You we're by every measure of the phrase the apple of his eye.He loved and supported , praised and adored everything you were everything you created and everything you dreamed of. And Chaz, I hope you realize the remarkable respect and trust he had in you when you asked for her hand and he obliged- nothing but the best for his little girl either . You were in every sense of the word a son to him and I know he rests in perfect peace knowing that you will be a strong new head of the family.
And then the two of you blessed Phil with the next greatest gift on earth past our own children .... you gave him a beautiful spirited grandchild .My last visit with Phil is a cherished memory .I sat by his side at Dodges Market for Bills birthday party this spring and was transported back 30 years in time when he would tell me Chris' ' most recent accolades. He had the very same glow of love the very same look of pride as he shared stories and images of his granddaughter. Charlize" amazing art portfolio - ine that launched her into a scholarship seat of honor at her parents alma mater.
They say to live on in the heart of those we leave behind is to live forever. And Phil surely will live forever. He will be there in every whale watch video that thrills me, every Father Christmas statue And nutcracker on the mantle, every Limoges gilded egg I envy, and every leaf I pick up from the ground that I cannot yet identify.
Dear Phil-
Thank you for everything you were to me- You taught us all how to live with our eyes, our hears and our minds wide open. I could not have been the art teacher I was without your guidance nor the artist I am without your insights and advice.
I will miss you Phil and thank you for always having time for me when I needed you .You we're a blessing in my life and I was honored to call you my friend.
Love , Carolyn aka Mort