May 10, 2021
May 10, 2021
I only met Phillip this year, and even after only having known him for a couple of months, Phillip's impact on me has been immeasurable. When I first met Phillip and our pledge class, I was in an environment where I felt slightly out of my element and I mainly kept to myself, but even with me being a complete stranger to him at the time he still came up to me and gave the most hearty greeting and introduction that it was impossible to not instantly feel at home and know that I had just found a good friend.
I'm a fairly closed off and reserved individual, and it is usually really tough for me to open up to people about the struggles of my past. However, when it came to Phillip, his warm and caring nature allowed me to instantly relax and feel so secure that I was able to easily open up to him. Being able to confide in him was so comforting and made me feel like he helped to lift the weight of the world off my shoulders, and I don't think there are many people out there besides Phillip with a superpower like that. Phillip also opened up to me and it helped me feel as though I was not alone and he knew how I felt, and I can only hope that the words that I shared with him helped him even a fraction as much as his helped me.
Over the few short weeks I knew Phillip, I never had a single bad interaction with him. Every single time I would see him, Phillip would look at me with the biggest smile on his face and he would always go out of his way to stop what he was doing and greet me. With me being in ChemE and him being in CS, he understood how tough academics were for both of us and he would always ask me how my day went and how my work was going. We would then proceed to discuss our work, bust each others chops and make some jokes about each others majors, and he would invite me to join the games he was playing with others. It was interactions like these that I value deeply as he always displayed how genuine and personal his bond with you was.
One of my favorite memories of Phillip came during a paintball outing that our friend group had gone on together a little while back. It was the fourth game of the day and me, Phillip, and the rest of the team were walking back out to the woods together discussing our game plan after we were easily beaten by our opponents in the round prior. Someone suggested that we send a small group into the more secluded back area of the woods to ensure that the main group didn't get flanked from the rear again by our opponents. Of course, Phillip was the first to volunteer and I wanted to take the rear too so I offered to join him. After the game began, he and I separated from the group and proceeded to go on our hunt, eventually we spotted someone through the brush and we instantly took cover behind a large log. Unfortunately, one of the opponents had ran around to the other side of us and we were pinned down. After an intense firefight, both our opponents eventually left and Phillip poked me and asked "Yo dude did I get hit?" I then proceeded to turn around and see that he had such a big paint splatter on his head that I thought he was joking. I then responded "Uhhhh... Yeah man you got hit." He then complained about how much that sucked and how he thought he got out unscathed. He then told me good luck and said the he knew I had it in the bag, and even through a mask I just knew from the look on his eyes that he was smiling from ear to ear. He then left me to finish the game and I proceeded to have my best performance of the day, and the first person to congratulate me after the game was Phillip after he heard how good I did after he left. It's moments like these that highlight how funny and friendly Phillip was and how much of a pleasure he was to be around.
Phillip was an amazing person. He was a light in all of our lives and I am crushed that such an incredible individual blessed us all with his presence and left us so soon. He carried such a unique charisma with him that he had instantly became friends with everyone in our class, and acted somewhat as a glue that bound us together. You could tell that he wanted nothing but the best for us and was excited to grow and succeed with all of us. I think I speak for everyone in our class that losing Phillip has taken a piece of all of us with him and it will forever be difficult for the class to ever feel truly whole again. For us, losing Phillip does not feel like losing a friend, to us Phillip was family. As a member of our family, it feels like we truly lost a brother, someone we felt we had known for our whole lives and would know forever into the future.
From the bottom of our hearts, we love you Phillip. You will always be missed and forever remembered.
Rest in peace.
I'm a fairly closed off and reserved individual, and it is usually really tough for me to open up to people about the struggles of my past. However, when it came to Phillip, his warm and caring nature allowed me to instantly relax and feel so secure that I was able to easily open up to him. Being able to confide in him was so comforting and made me feel like he helped to lift the weight of the world off my shoulders, and I don't think there are many people out there besides Phillip with a superpower like that. Phillip also opened up to me and it helped me feel as though I was not alone and he knew how I felt, and I can only hope that the words that I shared with him helped him even a fraction as much as his helped me.
Over the few short weeks I knew Phillip, I never had a single bad interaction with him. Every single time I would see him, Phillip would look at me with the biggest smile on his face and he would always go out of his way to stop what he was doing and greet me. With me being in ChemE and him being in CS, he understood how tough academics were for both of us and he would always ask me how my day went and how my work was going. We would then proceed to discuss our work, bust each others chops and make some jokes about each others majors, and he would invite me to join the games he was playing with others. It was interactions like these that I value deeply as he always displayed how genuine and personal his bond with you was.
One of my favorite memories of Phillip came during a paintball outing that our friend group had gone on together a little while back. It was the fourth game of the day and me, Phillip, and the rest of the team were walking back out to the woods together discussing our game plan after we were easily beaten by our opponents in the round prior. Someone suggested that we send a small group into the more secluded back area of the woods to ensure that the main group didn't get flanked from the rear again by our opponents. Of course, Phillip was the first to volunteer and I wanted to take the rear too so I offered to join him. After the game began, he and I separated from the group and proceeded to go on our hunt, eventually we spotted someone through the brush and we instantly took cover behind a large log. Unfortunately, one of the opponents had ran around to the other side of us and we were pinned down. After an intense firefight, both our opponents eventually left and Phillip poked me and asked "Yo dude did I get hit?" I then proceeded to turn around and see that he had such a big paint splatter on his head that I thought he was joking. I then responded "Uhhhh... Yeah man you got hit." He then complained about how much that sucked and how he thought he got out unscathed. He then told me good luck and said the he knew I had it in the bag, and even through a mask I just knew from the look on his eyes that he was smiling from ear to ear. He then left me to finish the game and I proceeded to have my best performance of the day, and the first person to congratulate me after the game was Phillip after he heard how good I did after he left. It's moments like these that highlight how funny and friendly Phillip was and how much of a pleasure he was to be around.
Phillip was an amazing person. He was a light in all of our lives and I am crushed that such an incredible individual blessed us all with his presence and left us so soon. He carried such a unique charisma with him that he had instantly became friends with everyone in our class, and acted somewhat as a glue that bound us together. You could tell that he wanted nothing but the best for us and was excited to grow and succeed with all of us. I think I speak for everyone in our class that losing Phillip has taken a piece of all of us with him and it will forever be difficult for the class to ever feel truly whole again. For us, losing Phillip does not feel like losing a friend, to us Phillip was family. As a member of our family, it feels like we truly lost a brother, someone we felt we had known for our whole lives and would know forever into the future.
From the bottom of our hearts, we love you Phillip. You will always be missed and forever remembered.
Rest in peace.