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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Phillips Perkins. We will remember him forever.
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April 19
April 19
So great to see the bouy named and launched, a very fitting memorial to life where he loved it
February 9, 2022
February 9, 2022
I was so very sorry to hear about Phillips.  He was sooo young. I am glad you boys remained so close...you are so lucky for that. I will always remember and hold in my heart the days on 27th. Phillips was always so sweet and funny even back then.  It's no wonder he grew to have such a wonderful circle of friends and found such a lovely wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love. Barbara
October 24, 2021
October 24, 2021
One year on and your words still inspire us, that twinkle in your eye still warms our hearts, your devotion to Eileen still humbles us and we still have you on speed-dial - we really miss you.
October 22, 2021
October 22, 2021
A year later but not easier… we are all missing our Phil a lot and thinking of him every day. Sending lots of love to Eileen and Phil’s family. You ll always be in our heart, Phil.
October 21, 2021
October 21, 2021
Last October 21st Coni and I were deeply saddened to learn of Phil's passing - a year ago to this day. Shocking, surreal and unbelievable are words that immediately come to mind. With countless (and amazing) shared experiences I evolved to consider Phil my Best Friend over a period of time spanning nearly 30 years. I would not be at all surprised if others would make the same claim. Best way I could describe him? Through his wisdom and conduct he simply made you want to be a better person. During the past year Coni and I have gained strength and comfort from frequent visits with Eileen getting to know her (and extended family) much better. We believe Phil would have wanted that. For now and forever Phil, Eileen and their families and friends we have met over the years will be in our thoughts and prayers.
March 25, 2021
March 25, 2021
Our love and support goes out to Eileen and the families. While we never met Phil, Eileen joyfully relayed stories of Phil's latest endeavor, usually involving a boat. We heard of Phil prepping for the Transpac Race many times. Although both lived abroad, we were fortunate to see Eileen between her travels to Hong Kong and to Ireland. Our hearts go out to you, Eileen.
-Diane & Kenneth
February 28, 2021
February 28, 2021
Phil was such an energetic and vibrant man. Positive, skilled, smart, considerate, generous with his time and knowledge and unpretentious. The first time he raced on our boat in Hong Kong, he gave no indication of his exceptional skills. But with a quiet word here, a gentle suggestion there and his understated but increasingly obvious trimming and tactical skills, by the end of the race everyone on the boat was looking to him for leadership.
We are sad to lose Phil. Our only regret about Phil was that he didn't stay in Hong Kong and we didn’t have more time with him.
January 8, 2021
January 8, 2021
Katie & I wish send our deepest condolences. Phil will be missed greatly as he was a important part of our lives over the years. He always had that smile and reassuring attitude that allowed all who new him and interacted with him to feel at ease. I will especially miss his laugh and comradery on and off the race course along with the fun conversations at the Club.

We all miss Phil greatly, sending our love and prayers to all in the Perkins family, Chip, Katie and family.
  
December 9, 2020
December 9, 2020
I worked with Phil for 7 and a half years in San Francisco. My first year, he spent an hour a day guiding me through the labyrinth of Bank of America. Everyday that I saw Phil when I was leaving the bank, I said "Phil, I love working with you". I meant it! He taught me a phrase "Don't swing at that pitch". It was a philosophy that has guided me professionally and personally that meant to not take offense, even if meant, to not respond out of emotion, and to not respond at all at certain times. He also used the phrase "That's my story and I'm sticking to it". It was a great way of making a statement subject to the knowledge at hand. I miss him greatly.
November 28, 2020
November 28, 2020
We were neighbors with the Perkins family in Sea Cliff while Phillips and I were in high school. Phil, Jon, Ruth and I spent many a Saturday afternoon goofing off on the tennis courts, and then meeting up again in the evening for bonfires on Baker Beach. He was so fun to be with, loved telling stories and laughing through them, and yet he was calm, grounded at the same time. One of my clearest memories is Ruth and I waiting outside his house one afternoon to walk to the courts, and he poked his head out of the second floor window asking us to wait while he finished his chemistry homework.  He kept poking his head out every few minutes, with his big smile, to say just a little longer, he had to get it right. He was so disciplined! He was a wonderful friend, extraordinarily kind, and a good soul. My condolences and love to Eileen and the Perkins Family. May Phillips be in peace.
November 28, 2020
November 28, 2020
My memories of Phillips start at the Golden Gate Bridge where we (Chris, JP and Phillips and my brothers - Ethan and Zach) waited to board the bus to the San Francisco Yacht Club and then spent many summer days sailing El Toros, FJs and Rhodes 19s. During those perfect dreamy summers, we burned our noses from the constant sun and learned how to sail. I can see Phillips - "Cheekie" with his big dimples and smile as we messed around on the boats. We "shower checked" each other - that was when we marked a pen on our arms and then checked the following days to see if we had bathed. Sometimes flipping in the boat would help rid of the mark. I can hear Phillips' chuckle as I write and guide me when I got into trouble flipping lasers on the city front. When we weren't sailing, we (Phillips, Jon and Elizabeth Watts) played tennis up at Burke's school or messed around on the beach. In 6th grade, Phillips put on his formal suit and made it to dancing school. We made the best of  those awkward middle school years. Our lives intertwined at College Sailing Regattas - a huge relief for me to see friendly Phillips (and Chris) on the race course. Your lovely gentle way will always be with me. Sending oceans of love to everyone in the Family.
November 13, 2020
November 13, 2020
What a loss for all of us.
Phil may be the most decent person I’ve ever met. Nothing more need be said about his smarts but coupled with his gracious, warm manner and generosity of spirit, he was a delight to be around. Always that big smile and always up for an adventure. I first met Phil at the BA/Sec-Pac merger in 1992. He was most welcoming to a BofA operations person – clipboard in hand - scouting out office space for our EC2 group.
Phil and I talked a lot about Labradors! I love the yellow females and he was tickled hearing that I would deliberately tag along the Guide Dogs for the Blind folks, conducting their training in the financial district. Mostly yellow female, hearing the dogs’ names being called confirmed to me that the smartest guide dogs are yellow females. Phil wasn’t buying it and always defended the black males!
Many years later, at a BALI co-worker’s wedding in Portugal, Phil mentioned that he had kicked off his flipflops to walk the beach but they had been stolen on his return. When I expressed annoyance, he responded that he felt sure the person needed those flipflops way more than he did, so no worries. A small measure of his big heart.
My deepest sympathies go out to Eileen and their families. Phil will long be remembered most fondly.
November 9, 2020
November 9, 2020
Phil, will miss your skill and good humour, especially on a down wind leg. Our prayers for you and your family. Lorcan
November 9, 2020
November 9, 2020
I'll certainly hold fond memories of Phil's sense of humor, warmth and positivity along with his competitive spirit on the Lick Wilmerding Tennis Team. I'm grateful to have played alongside Jon and Phil and witness their strong bond.  My condolences to the Perkins family
November 7, 2020
November 7, 2020
There just aren't enough Phils in the world. Kind, humble, talented, bright, and a smile that always lit up a room. My deepest condolences to his entire family. The StFYC has lost a very treasured member.
November 7, 2020
November 7, 2020
A few days ago, my wife asked me if I knew someone named Phillips Perkins. I told her that I went to high school and the first year of college with someone by that name. I told her that while we weren't close friends, I remember Phillips being one of the true good guys, someone who I couldn't say a negative thing about (which is very unusual for me). My wife then told me of Phillips' passing and I was stunned. The last time I saw him was probably 1983 at UCSB and I can see from the testimonials here that he lived his life as I remember him-a man who brought goodness to the world, his family and friends. Rest in peace, Phillips, and may your memory be a blessing.
November 7, 2020
November 7, 2020
Our deepest condolences to Eileen and the Perkins family. Phil will be missed dearly but will be remembered and cherished by all the amazing memories that he leaves with each of us.
November 6, 2020
November 6, 2020
My wife Julie and I are heartbroken by the loss of Phil. We knew him as a kind and wonderful friend. We enjoyed many fun sailing activities with him on the J/105 that we owned with him and the fun New York Yacht Club cruise on Peter and Peggy Noonan's boat.
November 5, 2020
November 5, 2020
My deepest condolences to Eileen and the entire Perkins family. What a tremendous loss for everyone. I met Phil in 1984 on the UCSB Sailing Team and was fortunate to learn sailing techniques from him and his brother Jon. Phil was a true gentleman; patient, kind, smart and always had that special smile on his face. I hold fond memories of those years sailing with him in Santa Barbara and off the city front and I will continue to do so. May peace be with the entire Perkins Family during this difficult time.
November 4, 2020
November 4, 2020
Dear Family of Phil, We, along with so many, admired and respected Phil for all the good and true reasons expressed in his obituary. A genuinely Good person in this age when they are the most scarce. We shall miss his wonderful smile, wit and presence very, very much. We share your sadness.  With love, Gaby and Glenn
November 3, 2020
November 3, 2020
Extremely intelligent, highly experienced and a charismatic and eloquent leader. Those were my first impressions when Phil interviewed me back in the summer of 2011 in the old Canary Wharf offices in London. As I grew to know him since then, I added thoughtful, magnanimous, understanding and considerate to that list. Phil was responsible for a large group of people but somehow always had the instinct to know where he was needed and who might appreciate his attention. In 2017 when I was pregnant and closing an important matter, I received a note from him. I expected it to be a request for update on progress. Instead he thanked me for my efforts and told me to pace myself and prepare for my next exciting delivery. That was Phil.

I fondly remember excitedly sharing photos of my long awaited Elkhound with Phil during one of his trips to London. We laughed when he showed me a photo of his Shadow and we realised our dogs were both called Shadow, and we had each happened to give them that name simply because that was what they looked like to us.

Phil didn’t just establish an international business, he created an international family. We work in a special place in large part because of the calibre of man Phil was. I feel very grateful to have had the benefit of his advice and experience during the relatively short period I knew him. It was a privilege to have been in his sphere for a time.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Eileen and the Perkins family.

Natalie Phanekham/The Gilchrists
November 3, 2020
November 3, 2020
My deepest condolences to Eileen and the Perkins family. I will also remember and cherish the time we had with Phil when working in Dublin, Ireland. Phil was a great colleague, mentor and friend. He will be missed deeply. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. 
November 2, 2020
November 2, 2020
Phil, you are missed. I think about you every day. We got the boys together last weekend and spent an hour talking about the old days. We recited "Streets South of Market" from High School, your 21st birthday stories and our many adventures after that...you will be in our thoughts forever....love you!  
November 2, 2020
November 2, 2020
Phillips, brother, we are going to sorely miss you. I first met Phil in 1982 where we sailed for the UC Santa Barbara sailing team. And since that time, our paths have crossed so many times, most always with the common thread of sailing, the St. Francis Yacht Club, and being on the water. We raced FJs, J-24s, J-105s and more, and through it all, Phil was always a class act. The kind of man you could inherently trust with anything, and know with utmost confidence that it would be handled in the best manner possible. Phil always had a smile and an easy going demeanor. He was an accomplished and competitive sailor, but always had a word of encouragement or tip to pass on the those who raced against him. I will cherish our time together always.
November 2, 2020
November 2, 2020
Phil taught me to be kind first and foremost. Those yearly handwritten Christmas cards were an example of how he treated those who worked for him as individuals; and even though we lived and worked in different continents, he managed to be a great influence and a mentor to me. 
November 1, 2020
November 1, 2020
I first met Phil in 2009 when I began working with the Dublin aircraft team. I was immediately struck at how warm, friendly and just downright generous he was. Not just materially, but generous with his time also. He always took the time to know you, understand what makes you tick. It was personal. It didn't have to be, and often isn't, but he made sure it was.

Phil then moved to London and we had a period working a little more closely. As it turned out we both lived in Wimbledon and shared a love of cycling to the office. We discussed the freedom it provided from the noise of daily life, combined with a healthy dose of adrenaline courtesy of central london traffic! I was surprised and flattered in equal measures when Phil came to my desk one evening and suggested we ride home together, but of course I took him up on the offer, and we shared numerous journeys home whilst Phil was in London.

I recall on one ride he vanished and I worried he'd beed squeezed out as we passed a van, but he popped back up a few seconds later having sensibly hung back, and flashed a grin at me as he explained "I wasn't gonna make that!". On another, Phil played agony uncle as I moaned about the divorce I was going through. I'm still not sure what made me think it was appropriate to discuss such matters with the boss of the entire team, but I tell myself it was Phil's warm and caring nature that disarmed me - it was about the people, not just the job, and he was happy to just chat and offer advice.

I will miss you Phil, and it leaves me very sad knowing you have left us, but we get to keep many positive, funny, and inspirational memories, and for that I feel very grateful. My thoughts are with Eileen and the Perkins family.
November 1, 2020
November 1, 2020
Phil was the ultimate class act!! He was a great boss, mentor, and most importantly, a great person.  It didn't matter where you ranked in the company, he treated everyone the same and made everyone feel both welcome and important. He will be missed. 

Occasionally, but not often, I might disagree on a business issue. Phil would ask me a few questions and before I'd even realize it he had me agreeing with his position. Very smart man! God bless Eileen and the Perkins family.
November 1, 2020
November 1, 2020
Phil was one of the first StFYC sailors that I met back in the late 80's. Phil was such an inclusive person and immediately introduced me to the Perkins Family and many other StFYC sailors that are still some of my closets friends today. Phil and I became close friends since then...we owned boats together, in each other weddings and through the years sailed either together or against each other. Phil was no doubt the best of the best. Phil's legacy as a sailor will endure for a very long time. I feel Phil's largest legacy that he leaves behind is his role as the "Super Uncle" to his Nieces and Nephews. These now young adults (Tess almost there) have had the gift of Phil being in their lives. This will never go away. Phil's accomplishments on and off the water play at a very high standard that we rarely see but Phil's friendship and Super Uncle status will be with us forever. Phil will indeed be missed but never forgotten. I know when we think of Phil...good thoughts will prevail.
November 1, 2020
November 1, 2020
Phil was a good friend and wonderful colleague who will be sadly missed by all of us.   Lifting a glass a great guy 
October 31, 2020
October 31, 2020
Whether it was personal related or the most complex financing structure, Phil was always there to listen, discuss, showing his genuine concern to help out in finding the solution for you. He is one of a kind and it is absolutely my true honour to have known and worked with Phil for the bulk part of my career life. Phil, rest in peace... My heart goes out to Eileen and the family.
October 31, 2020
October 31, 2020
Phil was simply world class. He was an extraordinary mix of super smart, a leader, a great listener, a kind, warm and considerate person who loved the job and the team he worked with. He took enormous pleasure in the successes of those who worked with him and could be the life and soul of a party, had a superb sense of humour and was a better story teller than the best Irishman. I remember the relish with which he told me about a celebration night in London, when one of our team had done some break dancing at the end of the night; I can still hear him chuckling as he told me about it.

May the wind be behind you as you sail to a better place, dear boss, colleague, friend.

Adieu
October 31, 2020
October 31, 2020
Phil was an extraordinary, delightful and thoughtful young man in the lives of the Bekins family. We have fond and fun memories of being together at Tinsley Island - - playing volleyball, bocce, water skiing, and flying spinnakers off our boat. My heart aches in the realization of our loss. As a mom, my heart goes out to Grace - - as well as his wife and loving brothers -- who are so close as a family.  With love and gratitude for the time we had together.
October 31, 2020
October 31, 2020
Phil, I am so sad to know you have departed. So difficult to accept this.
I was introduced to you at Security Pacific Leasing's first offsite in San Francisco in 1990. You were so warm and friendly and made me feel welcomed. You helped me buy tons of Archie comics for my daughter - going extra mile for friends like me who live miles away. You were so hospitable - I enjoyed the sailing experience you organized for the team and dinner at your parent's home. And I met Aileen there. There were so much jokes and laughter from you. It is hard to forget someone who gave so much to remember. My condolences to Aileen & the Perkins family.
October 31, 2020
October 31, 2020
Seeing Phil's smile brings back all of the wonderful childhood memories at Jr. Sailing. He was always supportive and willing to take a chance racing with me.  We will miss him dearly but cherish the amazing memories that eventually shaped our lives.
Hugs to the family!!
October 30, 2020
October 30, 2020
Phil, you will be missed... the greatest boss ever and a true leader. He recruited me and many others onto the team in Dublin. He was a great mentor and a pleasure to work for. We traveled together and had great fun along the way, whether to Doha, Paris, HK or London, he was great travel companion and always full of chat. We will really miss him and his stories of sailing and adventures on the sea. Our heart goes out to Eileen at this difficult time, we are here for you, Frank, Lynn & Family, Slane Ireland
October 30, 2020
October 30, 2020
Dear Jon and Family,

News of Phil's passing was shared to a small group of Cal Sailors who love you and love your family. My heart goes out to you all. Thinking of you during this most difficult time.
October 30, 2020
October 30, 2020
We are absolutely devastated about losing Phil, our boss, team mate and friend of many years. Phil was very special and is irreplaceable. We are mourning the loss with his beautiful wife Eileen and Phil’s family. We are thinking of you and are with you in spirit.
Irada, BALI team, Dublin, Ireland
October 30, 2020
October 30, 2020
I believe the first time I met Phil was at his wedding, July 29, 1995, the day he married my cousin Eileen in a beautiful ceremony at a beautiful church in a beautiful neighborhood in San Francisco. There was a lovely soloist at the church, the reception was at the San Francisco pier, and the next day there was brunch at Phil’s parent’s home, which overlooked the Bay and the Golden Gate bridge. My main impression was that Phil was a good-looking guy, with very gracious parents, and he seemed to have a lot of brothers. Over the years I would see Phil mainly on Huberty family occasions. Phil’s love for Eileen and his joy in their life together was obvious, as was Eileen’s pride in Phil’s sailing accomplishments. You could see the delight they both took in describing their travels to Ireland and Hong Kong and their place in Montana. I always asked Phil about his job, and he was very patient with my feeble attempts to understand the international airline finance business that took him around the world.

The last time I saw Phil was at the wedding of my sister Elena to Rick Thurber three years ago in Portland, Oregon. Phil and Eileen and the rest of us from out of town stayed with Rick and Elena in rooms at the Paramount Hotel in downtown Portland. My favorite memory is about a dozen of us partying into the night on the rooftop balcony of The Nines, a cocktail bar and restaurant on Pioneer Square. We were all having fun—Phil and Eileen, Rick and Elena and their close friends, my partner David and I, and Patti and PJ. It was a celebration of life and love I’ll always remember.
October 30, 2020
October 30, 2020
Every time we ever met up with Phil, we always left saying "what a genuinely nice guy." Our condolences to Eileen and his entire family.
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
Wit, wisdom, passion & compassion = Phil Perkins. Not enough Kleenex in the box to go on. Fair winds my friend. Fair winds.
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
Phil and I worked together at SPLC/BofA. I valued his friendship and sense of humor. I am sad to hear the news of his passing.
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
In times of stress, one sees people as they truly are, and in this regard, Phil showed himself to be a gentleman. We were sailing on his boat, the J105 Good Timin'. I was trimming main, and somehow completely flubbed the tack, getting my leg pinned by the traveler so I couldn't move. Rather than yell at me for screwing up, Phil said, "you okay?" with a note of concern in his voice. Just a small moment, but it spoke volumes.

Beyond that, I knew Phil for over 40 years of junior sailing and sailboat racing. Always a good guy, always wonderful to have around. We'll miss you, Phil!
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
I first met Phil when Bank of America merged with Security Pacific Leasing. The International Leasing Group was loaded with talent. Phil’s had two great strengths above all: (1) He was unflappable, even when challenged, and (2) He understood, really understood, the most complex international finance structures ever completed...And could explain them in detail and concisely. Phil only worked for me for a short time, but when I realize how young he was at the time, he really could have done anything to which he set his mind.RIP
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
I first met Phil in 1989 shortly after he started at SecPac.You knew pretty quickly he was a special guy.We had ten great years working together and I only heard him raise his voice once during a crazy trip to Latin America.It was indeed an honour and privilege to work and know Phil.A wonderful man loved and admired by everyone. They don’t make guys like Phil anymore. He will be sorely missed by all.
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
My heart goes out to Eileen and all the Perkins, we will miss Phil severely. May God bless you all and comfort you!
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
Phil was the first person I hired at Security Pacific. And, no offense to any subsequent hire, because the bar is impossibly high, he was the best person I hired at Security Pacific. He had been at PWC, and was on the Chevron audit. They gave him the unit that audited the tankers. He told me a story in our interview about going into the control room and seeing all the vessels on a giant computer display. As a sailor, this led to his next logical question- "where are the sailboats?" "They are too small for us to bother with". I never forgot that story. I'm sure Phil did not either. Phil was always looking for the interesting, for the unusual. And he had people skills way beyond the norm. I remember many wonderful lunches with Phil at his brother's place in the Ferry Plaza. And I will always remember Phil. The world is smaller without him. Smooth sailing, my friend.
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
Phil was smart, funny, savvy, caring, patient and hardworking. He always had the right thing to say and I treasure my time working with him.  He was indeed the best of us. 
October 29, 2020
October 29, 2020
Phil was a remarkable guy --smart, capable and a good person to be around. Highly regarded, he was positive and offered friendly greetings to all those with whom he came in contact whether it be the person emptying the trash, another coworker or a client. Phil cared about others and we cared about him. It was rare to see Phil without a big smile and hear a friendly word. He would talk about Eileen, the dogs, the horses, sailing adventures among other things. One could sense his love of family. Phil will be sorely missed and for me with a thankful smile reflecting on the times shared. He will not be forgotten by those who had the privilege to know him. 
October 28, 2020
October 28, 2020
Phil was the best of all of us.  He brought us together and made us feel special. it’s hard to accept that we have to manage without him. 
October 28, 2020
October 28, 2020
I met Phil as a fresh new face in our Finance Department at Security Pacific Leasing in 1989. We traveled together through various phases of our careers and the world over these many years. He was a warm, giving colleague, friend and confidant. I loved his humor, council and perspective with every conversation. He is irreplaceable. I am so grateful to have known him.
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April 19
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So great to see the bouy named and launched, a very fitting memorial to life where he loved it
February 9, 2022
February 9, 2022
I was so very sorry to hear about Phillips.  He was sooo young. I am glad you boys remained so close...you are so lucky for that. I will always remember and hold in my heart the days on 27th. Phillips was always so sweet and funny even back then.  It's no wonder he grew to have such a wonderful circle of friends and found such a lovely wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love. Barbara
October 24, 2021
October 24, 2021
One year on and your words still inspire us, that twinkle in your eye still warms our hearts, your devotion to Eileen still humbles us and we still have you on speed-dial - we really miss you.
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Phillips Johnson Perkins Obituary

October 28, 2020
Phillips Johnson Perkins passed away at his home this week after a brief illness. With his passing, we mourn the loss of an exceptionally compassionate, insightful, humble, patient, funny, savvy and gracious soul. The tremendous breadth and depth of his impact on others is evident in the overwhelming sentiments being shared by those whose lives he touched. Phil saw and brought out the best in others, and he had a unique ability to recognize the funny side of humanity. Our world will not be the same without him, though his generous spirit and legacy will live on in the hearts of those who received his gifts.

Phillips was born on January 19, 1964, the son of Grace Johnson Perkins and Dr. Roland K. Perkins. He graduated from Town School for Boys, Lick Wilmerding High School in San Francisco and from UC Santa Barbara with a degree in accounting. At Santa Barbara, he met his beloved wife Eileen Huberty while on the UCSB Sailing team; they were married at St. Vincent de Paul Church in San Francisco in 1995 and celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary this past summer. 

Upon graduation from UCSB, Phillips joined the accounting firm of Price Waterhouse, where he became a certified public accountant. He then joined Security Pacific Leasing Company, which subsequently became Bank of America, where he worked for the past 31 years. Most recently, he served as Managing Director for Bank of America running the International Asset Finance and Global Commercial Air Businesses for the Bank’s Leasing group. In this capacity, he established the Bank’s Leasing business in Ireland and substantially grew the business in Europe and Asia Pacific. This role, which involved extensive international travel, included a 5-year period in which he and Eileen lived in Dublin, Ireland; London, England and Hong Kong. As a result of living in and overseeing offices in countries around the world, Phil developed very dear friends around the globe, including colleagues with whom he worked at many different hours of the day and night. 

Outside of work, Phillips was a passionate sailor and sportsman. He was a member of The St. Francis Yacht Club, where he served on the Board of Directors and Finance Committee and established a young members’ group. His name is inscribed on many of the Club’s most notable trophies, including Yachtsman of the Year, the Aldo Alessio Perpetual Trophy and the Commodore's Cup. He was also a member of the San Francisco Yacht Club, where he grew up sailing in the Junior Sailing program – later serving as a Junior Sailing instructor. Phillips, his brothers and friends competed in sailing regattas around the world, and he won the International Knarr Championships (IKC) four times crewing for his brothers Chris and Jon. He served as chairman and host of the IKCs at the San Francisco Yacht Club in the summer of 2019, which reunited longstanding friends and competitors from Norway and Denmark. Phillips sailed in the Transpac Race from California to Hawaii three times, in the Newport to Bermuda race twice and in the Pacific Cup. He particularly loved to race on SF Bay, where he masterfully navigated ever-shifting currents and winds. Though he loved to win, he was the consummate sportsman and would be the first to help his adversaries put away their sails at the end of a regatta (and to join them for a beer). In addition to sailing, Phil was also an avid bicyclist and hiker with regular weekend rides up Mt. Tamalpais, and hikes in the Marin headlands. He also enjoyed fishing, playing tennis and golfing.

As much as Phil loved his work and sports, he especially loved connecting with people. He developed close friendships in every facet of his life, including childhood, college, neighborhood, professional, and sports circles. With his quick wit, he drew endless laughs. Beyond this good humor, his extraordinary kindness and empathy allowed him to effortlessly say and do the right things at the perfect moment. This kindness extended to his dogs, who were an extremely important part of his life.

Of all his many loves, family was at the very top of the list for Phil. He is survived by his wife, Eileen Perkins (Marin County), his mother, Grace Johnson Perkins (San Francisco), his three brothers: Roland (Boston), Christopher and Jonathan (both of San Francisco), and their wives, Adelene, Brooke and Sonja. He is also survived by Eileen’s two sisters and their husbands: Terri and Taymour Ravandi (Davis, CA) and Patti and PJ Smith (Orange County). In addition, he is survived by nine adoring nieces and nephews: Macie, Michael, Roland, Grace, Charlie, Johnny, and Tess Perkins and Brendon and Matthew Smith. Phil made time to play every imaginable game with them throughout their childhoods (and beyond!), which featured prominently during the annual cousin sleepovers that he and Eileen hosted. He is also survived by many close Johnson family aunts, uncles and cousins, and dear family friend Ute Bowes. Phillips is pre-deceased by his father, Dr. Roland K. Perkins, and his father, mother and sister-in-law, Roy, Margaret and Donna Huberty, all of whom cherished him.

There will be a small, private funeral and burial at sea for Phillips, with a celebration of life ceremony for his many friends and family at a later time – we hope within the next year.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in his memory to the Belvedere Cove Foundation to support deserving junior sailors.
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December 10, 2020
Phil and I are both left handed, but whereas Phil plays left handed golf, I play right handed golf.

So we're sailing in the Whidbey Island Race Week and it's our lay day on Wednesday and so Phil, Chris, my father and I decide to play some golf on the island.

None of us have brought our own clubs, but we figure we can rent some at the golf course.  We ask the golf course employee if they have rental clubs and he sends us to a room that's got all kinds of junk mixed in with the rental golf clubs.  Phil and I search high and low and all we can find are right handed clubs.

Phil says "screw it, I'll play right handed."

After shanking every shot for two holes, Phil decides he's had enough and he stops playing and just walks the rest of the course with us.  To me, this is true Phil.  Always willing to give something a try, even when it seems impossible.

Picking up the pennies

December 9, 2020
I miss Phil everyday, sometimes all day, but usually mostly in the morning, afternoon and evening. I can not believe my little brother is gone. Way too soon. We had many more regrettas to sail and Mount Gay & tonics to drink at the YC afterwards. But, he does still also make me smile many times a day when I think of all the great times we had, childhood and adult. I hope those memories are as vivid in the future as they are now. To help keep the memories vivid for me, here is a quick recollection about Phil and I learning to dive.

After college (or nearing the end for Phil) in 1985, Phil and I began to reconnect after moving back to San Francisco. He lived on Sacramento St and I was a mile away on Perine. One day we were talking and we decided it would be fun to get our scuba diving certifications. How do we do that? Turns out we had a childhood friend that lived down the street who was a scuba dive master and instructor. We called up Alex Margolin and made arrangements to do some diving. We did our pool work down in the rough neighborhood of Hillsborough in my Uncle Phil’s pool. Man that was living. We had a great scuba instructor, incredible sunshine and our own pool. What could be better. I can remember Uncle Phil opening the slider to the house every half hour or so asking if we were all safe and having fun. Big thumbs up from everyone.

Well one of the exercises that Alex had us do was to pick up pennies in the bottom of the pools deep end, ten or twelve feet deep or so, no big deal. A slight twist was Alex deposited all of our scuba gear and masks in the bottom of the pool with the pennies. The exercise was to get us comfortable with jumping in, holding our breath, putting on our gear underwater, clearing our masks and then picking up as many pennies as possible. Piece of cake. Well Alex made one mistake. He made it a competition and he forgot that brothers duel to the death and fight to win at all cost.

So Phil and I jump in the pool and start to get our gear on. I am rushing but also monitoring Phil ‘my buddy’ as you are always taught to do while learning to dive. Phil was definitely a better athlete than I was but I would always compete on brute force (and usually win).To tell you the truth, Phil was probably also smarter than I was back then but that is not part of this story. So Phil has his scuba gear on and is picking up his (my) pennies. I have my air going but I am still clearing my mask when Phil spins his back to me. Like a good buddy I give his gear a quick check to make sure all is OK. Then it occurs to me. He has won or is going to win at any moment unless I use some of my bigger brother brute force. A quick thought about an underwater struggle with our dive instructor for sure watching and Uncle Phil possibly watching, I decide I have to come up with a better plan. Then it hits me, a perfect plan, no violence. I turn Phil’s air off and wait. The five seconds or so it took for the plan to work went by like a year and then Phil spins around and looks me right in the eyes. I smirk and then slap all of the pennies out of his hands and give him a brother ‘bye bye’ wave. Phil goes shooting to the surface and I barely can contain myself as I slowly pick up ALL of the pennies. Victory was mine. Well the reception on the surface was a bit chilly and I really do not remember who won the fist fight. That was a great day in the pool with Phil!

Phil and I went on to dive Monterey, Catalina, Kona and many other spots in Hawaii over the past thirty-five years. Phil never got me back for slapping the pennies out of his hands but I was always prepared and ready to accept his revenge.





This is gonna be interesting...

October 28, 2020
Where to begin to recount a memory that could evoke our wonderful Phil.   It is not possible as there are so many woven into the tapestry of all of our lives.

“This is gonna be interesting” is a phrase I have often heard from Phil starting the very first week we began working with one another in 1996.  But I cannot tell that story! Since then I have heard him utter those words in so many situations we faced together - I cannot hear him say it in my mind without smiling.  One of the times was after a day sailing on SF Bay with a bunch of people, none of whom had a clue about sailing a boat, especially me.  It had been a picture perfect day on the bay with colleagues from around the world as Phil always welcomed our teammates into his home and out for fun around the Bay Area after work.  As we approached the yacht harbour at the end of the day, I noticed out of the corner of my eye Phil trying to start the motor, he tried a few things making small urgent motions and then ...  nothing.  He stood up to the wheel with a boat full of people talking and laughing and drinking their beer and wine and having a great time,put his shoulders back and said quietly to himself under his breath, which I could only just hear,  “this is going to be interesting”.  I shook my head and waited to see how this one would turn out!  Of course being Phil he expertly tacked his way up through the crowded yacht harbour and turning towards the slip, he dropped the sail and we coasted in stopping an inch before the dock.  No one had ANY idea and we all enjoyed the final moments of our cruise whilst Phil, calm and cool - brought us home safely and with finesse.  It was great fun working with such an accomplished sailor!  Always admirable under pressure and by his nature more worried about the comfort of people around him than himself - he is sorely missed - one-of-kind - our Phil.

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