Grandpa,
An astute man. I had the opportunity of staying with him before he went to be with the Lord and I can rightly say that all the stories I heard about him were true. He had a vibrant personality and was a funny man. I remember how he made everyone laugh all the time. I heard stories of how he would always be at loggerheads with people because he always sided with the truth. If you were against the truth, you cannot be his friend; for two cannot walk together except they agree. He was a neat man even in old age. He never had his meals except his room had been cleaned each morning. He was a disciplinarian and without doubt, very prayerful.
He prayed every morning and even before taking his meals. His voice would be heard every night holding vigils and praying for us all; I'm sure the neighbours can attest to this fact. Even at that age, papa still fasted regularly and instructed us on when to do so with him. Whenever I would go to his room to greet him, he never failed to ask how my studies were and how I was faring. He were a caring man. He dished out advice to me every opportunity he had, telling me stories of people he knew who were in the same career path as mine. Advised me on hardwork in all I do and never to follow shortcuts and always prayed for me. One thing he always said was God should always be number one and living this life without him is as good as not living at all.
Thank you for leaving a good legacy. I pray you rest in the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Adieu Grandpa.
Your granddaughter, Blessing Okiti

Grand Pa,
God loves you more, that is why He took you from us. We planned that we will come visit you during the holiday but we heard you had gone to be with God. We will miss you greatly. We remember when we attended your 95th birthday, you carried us on your lap and played with us.
Continue to rest in the bosom of God.
Goodnight grand Pa.

Ochuwa and Oshioma Omokpo {grand children}

Papa adieu, Papa adieu, Papa adieu.
Thank you for the love you showed me. You took me as not just a son in-law but a son of the family. Words are not enough to express your qualities as a great father.
Thank you for raising my wife, your daughter {Felicia} in the fear of God.
You will be surely missed.
You came, you saw and you conquered.
Adieu till we meet at our Creator’s feet,

Arc Aimanesi Omokpo {son in-law}

Dear Grandpa,

It makes me sad that you have gone to be with the Lord but we thank God for long life.
I saw some pictures we took when I was about 2 Years old,and i found them a lovely reminder of you. I love the way you smile, because you smile a lot.I will miss that smile .
During your 100th Birthday celebration, you looked so healthy and strong, dancing with us all. I will miss you Grandpa.

Continue to rest in the bosom of your maker till we meet again.
Your Grandson,
OKIKIOLUWA OBASA

Dear Grandpa,
You were a wonderful man who lived his life working for God and your family. I heard a lot to stories about you in your youth and how you worked fearlessly for God. I love that I had the opportunity to know you. You were an incredible, intelligent and an amazing man. I love you and I miss you.
Rest In Peace with your maker.

Grandpa, I didn't know I'll miss you this much.


My handsome, strong, active, principled but absolutely loving and caring Grandpa.
A man after God's heart till the very end. Your strong personality and your fearless resolve that it was God and no other is worth total admiration. You made it clear to everyone who came across you and it was palpable.
I remember my mum telling me the story that the day I was born, you were woken up by the angel of God and was asked to pray. You didnt take the instruction for granted, you remained on your knees praying till you were told in the morning that Augustina had to bed safely. So many children born same time as I passed on in the hospital but I was diacharged home healthy.

You were always so concerned about the welfare of ALL your children. I remember whenever I called to check on you, you'll ask about school, life, work and you were genuinely interested in how I was faring. You were so proud of your DOCTOR and it gladdened my heart.

Thank you grandpa for the consistent prayers and for standing in the gap for your children and generations to come. Thank you for your positive impacts in our lives, we will never take it for granted. I will never forget your instruction, "none of your children must serve any other god except JESUS".

My tears are that of joy, knowing you have gone to rest in the blossom your heavenly father. Rest in peace GRANDPA!!! TILL WE MEET AGAIN, I LOVE YOU DADDY

Dearest Papa,

I can say I am blessed to be married to your 4th daughter and 7th child. The day I first met you,I thought to myself, how handsome you must have looked while much younger. My wife resembles you strikingly. One of the things I love about you, Daddy(I don't have in-laws but family),is how you penned letters to us in the early years of our marriage particularly the phrase("make una no fight ohhhh").

Recalling my first meeting with you,I expected some drillings,rather you welcomed me so well to my surprise and you only asked one question, which was directed to my wife to be.The question was not only straight forward but amazingly short and simple. The question was "do you love this man"? That Love and God's grace is keeping us. Thanks for always praying for us like you prayed so much that day,interjecting the prayers in Yoruba.Your prayers have sustained us and I know the prayers will linger forever in the name of Jesus Christ.

I also recalled our engagement/traditional marriage, I was a bit troubled. I had wanted and prayed all my life against the introduction of strange and ungodly traditions or practices into anything I would do. I was more worried because even the hosting parents sometimes have no control of sudden turn of events by relatives in some that I had experienced before then. As a Pastor I had preached against such practices that negates Christian doctrines,and even though your daughter assured me that no strange practices would occur as her father was strictly against such practices.The Traditional engagement was done and all that took place were prayers and nothing against the Faith. I could not be more proud of that day and all the other times I have known you.

I have not seen anyone as strong as you were. When your children celebrated you some 5 years ago,I had to plead with your children to allow you sit down as you stood up and danced to gospel tunes for over 30 minutes without being tired at over 100yrs old. You slept well Papa(believers don't die),and I know your children will all live to a good old age and fulfil the desires of their hearts.
Thank you for giving me the privilege to be part of your family,which I am proud of anyday and anytime.
Adieu Daddy.

Papa, you were a kind and caring man. Principled and would not tolerate any untoward behaviour from anyone. You were active, hardworking and strong by the grace of God. You were super neat and loved to do your things yourself.

For a long time i wondered how you were comfortable being on a side alone, till i grew up and realised that you were not alone , but had Jesus Christ on your side, and so confidently always stood on the side of truth and justice.

I recall how you would wake everyone up with that bell at dawn, o that bell !!, and all would run to the prayer room. God help you if you were late. Till date "Eeyo ni nu Oluwa, eeyo" (Rejoice in the Lord, rejoice) remains one of my favourite choruses.

Thank you for the advice, prayers and care to me and my family. You never ceased praying for all, till the last minute of your life.

You left legacies money cannot buy, touched lives you came in contact with positively .You accounted well for the long life God gifted you with.
Sleep well and goodnight Papa
Your daughter, Josephine Obasa

TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR FATHER.            Though your death is painful, it was a glorious exit from the earth after great works for God and humanity in Ivbiodohen,, Okpuje and the entire Iuleha. A man who choose to abandon the gods his father worshipped and followed the way of the Lord and nurtured all the children to follow the same way of the Lord.                      You patiently waited for me to come before leaving the planet earth. Eight (8) days of my arrival you passed on in my hands on that faithful morning at about 11:45 am on the 18th of June, 2022 Hence I now have peace of mind. Now that you are out of our sight, we shall meet in the great marriage supper of the Lamb, Jesus Christ, where will we meet to part no more.                            Until then, may your soul rest in peace.   PAPA, OKI AMIEGBE. 

 Broda ma yoah logba le, Pius yioah lo gbale, oyoah ona Mase en otoh ikhu kpon la re vbu egbe. 
  Your 2nd Son,                        Rev, ALAMU OSEROGHO ROBERT.         





TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER IN - LAW            lndeed he was a good and special farther in - law. He was so fond of me so that whenever I come home or called him he will discuss with me as a father and daughter and prayed for me and my family. I love you papa and will greatly miss you. .Papa rest in peace. Oki evbie!   Your 2nd daughter in - law.                Mrs Blessing E. Robert.    

Tribute by Mrs Sophia Andrew-Essien
 (Pa Pius Alamu's Granddaughter)

I will always cherish the sweet memories of my grandpa. True l lived with him for only a short period of time, but there are some of those memories that are still fresh on my mind.
Papa was a very good Christian. He taught me to sing, dance and clap for Jesus. My being in Christ Jesus today, is because someone laid the foundation. My grandpa did.
My grandpa had plenty of food in his house, having been a successful farmer and a great hunter. I was fed sumptuously as a child by him.
Grandpa was a kind and loving father. He could give you anything you asked from him, but he was a man you needn't take for granted. Otherwise, his strict nature would pop up and you'd be in for it. So, at a very tender age, l learnt to thread softly.
Grandpa was a wonderful local 'surgeon'. There was this fateful day l had a fall and broke my knee. While l was reeling in pain, two able- bodied youth, had been commanded to hold me down and with a sharp blade in grandpa's hand, the 'surgery' began. Without any form of sedative whatsoever, the knee 'endured' over 50 tiny cuts. I was told that was to allow a free flow of blood to avoid likely blood clot. But that was not all. There were hot coals of fire, waiting to be administered next. But guess what! My knee healed and very fast too. Decades after the 'surgery', l have never had any pain from the knee.
I remain grateful for grandpa's loving care. I will miss him. In particular, l will miss his odd-time phone calls and his prayers.
I pray the good Lord to rest his soul in perfect peace. My husband and children will forever cherish him.
ADIEU GRANDPA!
   -Mrs Sophia Andrew-Essien
    (Granddaughter)

My late brother-in-law, affable Pius Alamu and I struck a most convivial relationship from that early July day in 1954 when he came to our modest home in Umuodafe-ukwu, Igbuzo on a hunt for one Miss GLADYS. Although awe inspiring in his glistering police outfit, his manners bore the marks of caution. All the same, my boyish instinct conjured up some fear for a 'police visit' from Asaba in those days pushed the stoutest of hearts into some speed beats. In wobly gaits however, I walked two blocks down the road to our neighbour's house where my sister and her bosom friend, Aunty Irene Ewujowo were pondering, in their girlish demeanor, the exploits of the dieing day. 'Sister, a police man is looking for you", I said in a voice suddenly rendered husky by FEARS: the fear of receiving a smack across the buttocks from a big sister, Ada Nnem who frowned at the rush of naughty boys, and the fear that I might be inadvertently risking my sister's 'safety's by thus getting the police after her. Luckily for me though my sister and Aunty Irene, in unison, exclaimed "PEE ALAMUNSON !" in petulant delight. What a relief did I feel !! I got a bottle of Crola and some biscuit into the bargain. My big sister and I would recall this event in later years and chuckle over the fact that the liaison therefrom yielded NINE joy-giving kids. P. ALAMUNSON had a kindly disposition that was garnished with an infectious smile towards all and sundry. That may have helped him scale the threshold of a century on mother earth. Now that you have gone to savour a well-deserved rest, let it be in perfect peace, please God.

Tribute by Mrs Grace Uwajeh
(Pa Pius Alamu's 1st Grandchild)

My grandfather was a very good Christian. I remember as a young child then, how he would on Sundays, gather the whole family into a large room in the house which he dedicated as an Altar to God, for Sunday services. He had a sonorous voice and loved to worship and sing praises to God, particularly in the Yoruba dialect. I still remember some of those songs: Eyo Ninu Oluwa Eyo; Baba O dariji mi o; Eyin Baba logo ki e tun yin Omore logo. There were a handful of them really.
Though grandpa had large farm plantations, but he loved hunting a great deal. Once in every week atleast, he would kill large games and feed us large. There was no lack with grandpa. He sure made my early childhood very memorable.
As early as in those days, l recognised that my grandpa was a strict disciplinarian. No child or grandchild of his, or, even other children in the community dared to put a wrong foot forward where he was. It was worse if any of us dared to miss the Sunday service without any cogent reason.
However, despite my grandpa's stern nature, he was a very loving man. He gave me a pet name which l still remember, 'Omomo'.
My siblings and l stayed only a shoŕt time with him in the village but guess what? He contacted us very often. During the last few years of his life, he prayed for us as though there's no tomorrow. He prayed and prayed and blessed us. And l can testify that they were answered prayers.
Grandpa! Your Omomo is pained by your demise and l miss you already. My husband and your great grandchildren join in prayers for the repose of your soul.
Adieu my grandpa
      - By Mrs Grace Uwajeh
       (Pa Pius Alamu's first grandchild)

We can only thank God for you, PA. You lived to become the oldest man in the community like your own father, my grandfather. You left that legacy. Rest in peace!

Dear Grandpa
Even in your death, I will miss your wisdom of many years of experience and pure love of an understanding Heart.

You Fought Through Many Battles and Won, You left a Legacy Worth Emulating of never Worshipping Any Idol or being part of rituals and sacrifices in the Land.

A grandpa is a person who brings alot of warmth, happiness, wisdom, and love to every soul that he touches.
One Thing You Imbibed into me I will never Forget and let go of is Hard work Pays.
I am grateful for having such a wonderful and Exceptional grandpa like you.

You're Forever In My Heart ❤️
Your Grandson
Daniel Alamu

Tribute to my dear father Pa Pius Alamu

  My dear father, you have gone to rest in the bossom of the lord. You were a good, kind and loving man. You were a God fearing and loving man. You taught all your children the way of the lord and not to serve any other God. You were a teacher, a smart, a very strong and hard working man. You devoted your life into serving God. You did various work for God and your community. You were the community secretary for years.

    I never called you daddy but instead I called you BRODAMÉ. You were my father, my best friend, my storyteller. You mere a peacemaker. You were a discplinarian and an examplar. You cared for all your children. You blessed and prayed for all your children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. You were a guiding angel to all you children. You were a great farmer and hunter. You lived peace fully even with all your enemies. I am sure you are resting in the bossom of the lord our God.

    I miss you so much and I wish every minute that I could have seen you and heard your last words before your demise and be a better daughter.

ADIEU papa
ADIEU BRODAMÉ
ADIEU my best friend
    Rest in perfect peace until we meet to part no more. Good bye and Good night my father.

   Your daughter,
   Patricia Olohitare Alamu

Tribute To My Father

Papa, you were a dad that was beloved and lovely to all.
You came to the world, saw and indeed conquered all the vicissitudes of life and lived it fulfilled.
The indelible marks you left behind shall ever live in our memories.
  
    I love you Dad and shall forever do till we meet to part no more.
I am so rest assured that you are called to glory and may your soul continually rest in the bosom of our merciful Lord.
Adieu Papa.
                   Prince Goodluck Iruafemi Alamu.

Tribute To My Father

 Baba Ese O

Omorenghenmen O rhue was how I used to greet my father.
It is an honour to be a daughter of Elder Pa Pius Ehimikhuae Alamu, the patriarch of Alamu family,  a man of honour and dignity.
Papa you were a multifaceted man blessed with so many qualities.
I know you to be a God fearing man who loved God so much so that you served him from your youth all through to your old age and till the last day he called you home. You had a family altar (church) in the house where we all gathered and you taught us the word of God and other issues about life and godliness. You also taught us moral values. You were a clergyman that remained prayerful until the hour of death. No wonder God stood by you and fought uncountable battles for you.
Today , everyone of your children serve God. This for me is the best inheritance any parent can bequeath to his family - the gift of salvation.
I recall that before you passed on, you told me to tell my siblings and the entire family that after your departure from this world, no one should deviate from serving God. You stressed that serving God with pure heart and clean hands should be kept as a legacy in the family , that the coming generations will adhere to. You then prayed that we will all enjoy the benefits of serving God.
I therefore use this medium to deliver this message to all of Alamu family. Please do not say you were not told.
Papa, you know I loved you so much so that I was never offended in you.
You were my friend, my gist partner , my advisor, my intercessor, my raconteur (story teller). 
Papa you sent all your children (male and female) to school even at a time so many people did not consider it necessary.  We are grateful to you for educating us.
Papa you were of good character, full of wisdom, you were cultured, disciplined, brave, objective, courageous,  truthful, prayerful, hardworking, neat, pious, kind-hearted, fair in your judgements, a no nonsense man who was very protective of his children, you were a defence for your family spiritually and physically.
A man of honesty, integrity and of strength. You lived a life of contentment - never desirous of vain glory and never envious of anyone.
Thank you for inculcating these qualities in your children.
Papa, you were a community leader who served your community all your life.
 
   Papa, you were good at sharing what you had with everyone that came your way. You reached out to so many people and you were acknowledged and recognised for this.
Thank God for the grace of longevity.
Thank you for praying for all of us - children,  grandchildren , great grand children and the entire family till the end.
Thank God for a life well-lived.
Papa, you came, you saw and you conquered.
Your memories live on.

   Since the day you passed, I was assured that you went straight home to be with the Lord.
Rest on Papa in the bosom of God Almighty, till we meet to part no more.
Yes, you lived long but I still miss you so much.
I love you Papa.
Goodnight Papa.
Adieu my father and my friend.
     
                Your Daughter,
                Eunice Omorenghenmen Asikhia
                 Nee Alamu.

Tribute by Pa David Isagua (Pa Pius's Kinsman)

Elder Pius Alamu was a very good kinsman
that the whole community loved. He hailed from the Oyen Family and was the oldest in both the Osaije community in Ivbiodohen as well as in the entire Okpuje-Iuleha clan, before his departure in June, 2022.
Elder Pius was one of the first recruited officers of the Nigeria Police Force in those days. He returned home thereafter and engaged himself in the development of Ivbiodohen. He was infact, their first secretary and made right some obvious wrongs. You couldn't fault Pius. When he fought for a cause, he would fight it hard. He hated injustice.
He was very accommodating, kind and loving. I will miss him.
Adieu my brother! Adieu my friend! Adieu my kinsman!
    -Pa David Isagua (Pa Pius's Kinsman)

Tribute by Oaikhena Okhuevbie (Pa Pius' kinsman)

Pa Pius Alamu was a very good father to me. I will never forget how he came to my rescue when almost the entire family pursued me for what l knew nothing about. But for him that God used to save me, l would have been long dead.
I thank God Almighty for the life of Baba in that old as he lived, none of his children died before his eyes. They all outlived him and are all hale and hearty. 
Baba took proper care of me and my family in ways that l cannot count, the gains of which l cannot measure. Every minute l ever spent, sitting with him in his parlour, l had left with a 'bowl' full of wisdom. I will forever be grateful for that.
I pray the good Lord to remember Baba for his good works and grant his soul eternal rest. Amen.
     - Oaikena Okhuevbie (Pa Pius' Kinsman)

Tribute by Solomon Alamu (Pius' First Born)

My father was a man sent to this Planet Earth to do great exploits. He was gifted with wisdom, strength and authority to govern his household and community.
Soon after leaving the Nigeria Police Force, my father, a very strong and hardworking man, engaged in large scale farming and hunting. He satisfied his family to the best of his ability. He also participated in community affairs and was infact, the secretary for many years.
His own root, the Oyen family, still speak of his generosity, how he formed the habit of sharing assorted food items to them, even including the sharing of cash.
My dad, who was popularly called 'broda mè', was a man with a big heart, loving and kind and a very big disciplinarian. No nonsense with him.
My father was a good Christian, who rose to become an Elder in God's vineyard. Up until the month leading to his demise, he still forwarded his tithe, faithfully.
Daddy, your demise has no doubt left me with the onerous responsibility of assuming your role as the head of the home.
I promise to carry out those duties responsibly and to the best of my ability, God helping me.
I love you daddy and miss you dearly.
Adieu! Adieu!! Adieu!!!
    -Pastor Solomon Alamu (Pa Pius' Eldest Child)

Some deaths bring sorrow, but to us, it is a celebration of life well spent. Uncle was a discplinarian and an exemplar with astute ability to pursue what he believed in. He was a wonderful uncle and a great man of virtue. May his soul rest in perfect peace ️️️️ Amen

AN EXIT OF AN IROKO TREE ( A TRIBUTE TO MY GREAT DAD)
I write this tribute with great joy in my heart of the passing to glory of my father; Pius Ehimikhuae Alamu.
Father, you were a defender, a shield, a provider and a protector to us all. You were fearless and God-fearing till the very end. You served God with love and fear in your heart and thus left a generation that knows only the Almighty God. You taught us how to pray, read our bibles and sing always with psalms and hymns unto God endlessly until your last breath. You were a disciplinarian who strictly applied the rod to teach us all good morals which speak boldly today.
As a child brought up by you; you stood boldly to train your girls even in the face of opposition and today that has made the difference in our lives. Even in difficult situations, you persevered and conquered all. Due to your wisdom and intelligence, you were appointed a spokesman for the community. You were a politician glued to the truth of what you believe.
Papa, I am bold to tell the world that you left a godly generation. You taught us what it means to love. He was a neat man even till death.
You wrote on my mother’s bus “move not a step without God” and you lived by those words until your death. You see my husband as a son and not a son-in-law. You pray for him and prophesy on him godly blessings as you do all.
You loved my mother, your children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, your only brother and his children. You treated us as one big family. I am glad you lived to a ripe old age without blemish. You were a good man with a large heart. You are a light that has gone out; an iroko tree that has fallen by God’s will. I pledge dad that I and my household will serve the lord forever. That godly legacy will not die. My dearly beloved father, Rest In Peace, in the blossom of the lord and live on forever. I love you papa. Till we meet again to part no more. What a father indeed.
Adieu Papa.
Adieu Brother meh.
Your Daughter,
Augustina Okiti

No doubt he lived a good ripe old age and a fulfilled life. He was an Uncle with many fangs. We grew up to know Christ through his family altar as the patriarch. In fact, l personally enjoyed his Yoruba hymnal litanies which l have started missing. He was the community Secretary for several years as part of his community service. In his social life, he was neat, well organized and dexterous. As a politically inclined and sagacious actor, he was known as opposition leader in his days. He never waived or crosscarpeted no matter whose ox was gored. He is a case study of political ideology of note. A no nonsense, intelligent and disciplinary uncle. To this end, in life, there is time for every thing, Eccles 3:1ff. We find solace in the fact that my uncle is with his Creator. Adieu Uncle.

The quality of a father can be seen in the goals, dreams and aspirations he sets not only for himself, but for his family.
Father’ is the noblest title a man can be given. It is more than a biological role. It signifies a patriarch, a leader, an exemplar, a confidant, a teacher, a hero, a friend. I join your children to call you "brother meh" as they fondly called you, I am very proud to be one of your daughters. Your prayers for me during one of your birthdays I attended will not be forgotten in a hurry. Brother meh thanks for being there for me.
I have the assurance that the God you served with your whole heart will forgive your sins and grant rest for your soul . Amen.

Tribute by Henrietta N. Alamu (Pa Pius' First Daughter)

My dad, as l knew him, was a good man. I liked the fact that he loved his family and stood as a shield over his children. I remember someone called me on learning my dad had passed on, said to me that what he liked most about him, was the extent he went to protect his children; how he would sit in the front of his house, wielding a big stick, and asking anyone who came around, who they were, who their parents were and what business they had in his house. The guy reminded me of how none of the 'intruders' dared to return again.
My dad was a strict disciplinarian. You would have read the tribute of a cousin of mine, who said that wether or not, you were his biological child, you were in for lashings of kobobo if you mis- jived.
My dad was a no-nonsense man and he often dealt squarely with persons he believed were in the wrong. He was very clear on issues, very outspoken and would stand firmly on what he believed was right. I must, however, admit, that his stern qualities put him at loggerheads with people that abhorred the truth. Thankfully, that won't matter anymore.
My dad was a good Christian. He made sure like Joshua said in the Bible in Joshua 24 verse 15d, that every member of his household, serve the Lord. It shouldn't be at all surprising that among his children are both male and female pastors. It should interest you also, to know that already, one of his grandchildren is an ordained pastor.
My dad was a man who God endowed with strength and vigour all through his lifetime. Even in his last days, when it was obvious he was on his way out, he continued in his energetic swagger. He would recite Psalms 23 over and over again, decreeing and declaring blessings on us.
But then came that fateful morning of June 18, 2022 and he was heard saying, 'l have completed my race and ready to meet the Lord God Almighty'. His meal, in front of him was untouched. That was very unsual. And with a slight slanting of his neck to the side, he was gone, so peacefully.
When my turn to depart this Earth shall come O Lord, l ask of Thee, Thou King of Heaven and Earth, to take me in same peaceful manner as You did with Pius Alamu. His passing on was sweet.
ADIEU PAPA! Rest on peacefully till we meet to part no more.
          - Hetty Alamu

Tribute by Rev Raphael Oizimende Dr

Oh so God has called him home? A life well spent in God with well cultured children. Apart from the missionaries who planted the Anglican Church in Ivbiodohen, he was the second person who brought another Church, all to ensure that Citizens of the Kingdom of God in Eternal life will have a good proportion of people from Ivbiodohen and the entire Okpuje land. Today, the seed he sowed has yielded fruits. As it stands today, it is difficult to count the number of Churches in Ivbiodohen alone, aside the ones in the entire Okpuje land. The Holy Spirit has been helping to fan the fire of Revival that was kindled by these men. If Jesus waits a little bit, l believe that every house is going to be a Church in Okpuje and the whole of Iuleha land. This is the desire/will of God the Father. Amen and Ise. May the soul of the departed rest in perfect peace.

Tribute by Comrade Ogbo Rotimi Joseph

Hmmmmm! The iconic PIUS ALAMU. He was respected and dreaded by his contemporaries. I'm not too sure if he mingled with the people to do Oimiyan nor did he attend church services with the rest of the people, rather,he had a family Altar where he summoned the celestials with a small Bell during worship/devotion. This made him a sort of an enigma. He was a puzzle! In all, he was a successful community man who enjoyed the support of his literate wife who was popularly called MISS. God gave him long life. May his soul rest in peace.

Tribute to my darling husband by Mrs Gladys Adaweyin Alamu (nee Chigbue)

My husband, Pius Ehimikhuae Alamu, was a loving and kind husband. We met in Asaba, Delta State, where my parents lived. He was then in the Nigeria Police Force while l was a student at the Teacher Training College, Ubiaja. I was on holiday from school when our paths crossed. At first, it was an innocent meeting of two people liking each other as mere friends. Before we could say 'Jack Robinson', the relationship blossomed and before we knew it, we were married.
We were a young couple in love although he was much older than I. I remember clearly that l never called him by his name. Rather l called him 'D' for darling. He responded alike.
As a policeman, my husband had a 'barrage' of postings; from Asaba - Ogwashi-Uku - Agbor - Ile-Ife and many more. I must confess that these transfers were not pleasant and especially for a young marriage as ours. By the way, our first child, a son, was born in Ile- Ife.
Somehow, FATE was at work. Far sooner than expected, he left the Police job and we returned to Ivbiodohen, his home town. There he went into a large-scale farming and was doing well. But as it is natural, not too many people like the progress of others. In no time, some envious persons would set fire on his cocoa, cashew as well as his other plantations. They did this many times over and especially near harvest times.
However, if the hoodlums thought he would be devastated by their share wickedness, they failed woefully. Like the strong man that my D was, he surged on with equanimity because ha had Jesus Christ who was his Rock by his side .He added the hunting of big games to his earnings while on my part, l did teaching and sewing to complement his efforts. We couldn't be called rich as in rich, but we had enough to eat and drink and to care for our children. So we were not poor as purposed by those destructive elements.

The Lord blessed our marriage with nine (9) lovely children. And to the glory of God, my husband lived long enough to see our children's children up to the fourth generation.

My husband and l remained fond of each other even up to the hour of his death. He would hold my hands very warmly and say to me : eghayo me, e se. He spent the latter part of his days praying for his family. I remember that day before he took a bow, he said to me and two of his children that were by his side, 'l have completed my race and ready to meet the Lord'. The breakfast in front of him was untouched. We thought that was quite unsual for a man with an awesome appetite. But lo! He turned his neck sideways on his bed and he was gone, peacefully.

Adieu my darling husband. Rest on in perfect peace until we meet to part no more

Daddy daddy, you were a wonderful father us all, even when my father is there you always discipline us like your own biological children, I remember vividly anytime we go to church late or we did go at all, our koboko is waiting for us behind the door, ohhh, what a memory, we always called you BRODAMEN. You are such a disciplinarian, no no sense taking father, I love you so much daddy, keep resting on BRODAMEN till we meet to part no more. Adieu papa

My dear Father has gone home to be with The Lord he loved and served till the end. Papa, I remember you always sharing meat for me and my cousins from your meals and giving me the biggest portion as last born. It was my job to distribute the meat to my cousins. Our home was always a place of love and unity and I pray that the love be fully restored to the entire Alamu family as we lay you to rest peacefully, broda meh.

As I write this, I smile remembering how you will always ask me "hope no trouble oh!? " whenever we speak on phone. Thanks for being the best dad ever, always protecting us and praying for us. I already miss hearing you say "Felly Orh". I miss you greatly but I am happy you are now resting peacefully in the bossom of The Lord and watching with the cloud of witnesses. Love you forever papa. ADIEU PAPA!

Your last daughter,
Felicia Omokpo (nee Alamu)