April 15
April 15
Missing you everyday mommy Pam especially our laugh and selfie together :( Sending our love and kisses in Heaven ! We love you always <3 Love from all of us ! Matt, Ellen, kids and grandkids.
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, PJ Hunter, 73, born on January 28, 1945 and passed away on April 15, 2018. We will remember her forever.
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April 15
April 15
Thinking of you today, we sure miss you.
April 15
April 15
Missing you, very long 6 years !!
January 28
January 28
Happy Birthday Mom! You will always be an example of love and kindness that is hard to achieve in real life. I miss calling you and listening to all the love and excitement in your voice. I’m sure everyone does.. Happy Birthday again! We all love you!!
January 28
January 28
Hi sweetie, Wishing you a Happy Birthday!! Love you and Miss you.
January 28
January 28
Happy heavenly birthday Pammi , Miss you , and love you always !!
April 15, 2023
April 15, 2023
Love you, Mom! It's been 5 years, but the memories have not faded. I think of you often and feel your positive spirit.
April 15, 2023
April 15, 2023
Missing you, Love you always !!
January 28, 2023
January 28, 2023
Happy Birthday Pammi, I miss you, Love ya !!!
January 28, 2023
January 28, 2023
Happy Birthday Mom! We miss and love you so much! Monty was just sent up to be by your side until we get there.. Hope you enjoy his company as much as we did!
January 28, 2023
January 28, 2023
Happy birthday in Heaven Mommy! Say hi to Monty and lola for me. We missed and love you so much!
April 16, 2022
April 16, 2022
I miss you so very much Pammi You will live on in my heart forever, Love you always !!!
April 15, 2022
April 15, 2022
PJ has now been gone for four years. I, and the other old hands in the Benton County Republican Central Committee, miss her both personally and professionally. She was a very bright light. JHD
January 28, 2022
January 28, 2022
Happy Birthday, Mom! I wish we could celebrate in person, but your positive, creative, fun, and loving spirit is ever-present. Love you so much!
January 28, 2022
January 28, 2022
Happy Birthday Pammi, I miss you very much. Love you always !!!
January 28, 2022
January 28, 2022
Happy birthday to the best Mom in the world! Sure do miss you! Tell Grandma and Grandpa hello for me. Love you!
January 28, 2022
January 28, 2022
Happy 77th birthday in Heaven Mommy Pam!! I know you are enjoying it with all other Angels including my mom. We all missed and love you ! Please continue watching us from Heaven.. with all our love : Matt, Ellen , kids and great grandkid Carter . Sending hugs and kisses to you!
January 6, 2022
January 6, 2022
To Pam's Family, I was searching for old friends on the internet and found this posting. I met Pam her first few days at OSU in Sept,1962. We dated and I "pinned" her later that year - My fraternity sang to us outside Snell Hall in the rain. We spent Christmas in Long Beach, but she was not able to return to OSU for Winter Term. So, we tried the "long distance" relationship for about a year with her visiting me in Corvallis, and me visiting her in Long Beach and both writing many letters. But in the long run, it just wasn't "meant to be". I have many wonderful memories of Pam, she was special. But it sounds like she had a good life, and for that I'm grateful.... PS, you can add knitting a sweater to her list of achievements. I believe I was gifted her first attempt!
April 15, 2021
April 15, 2021
You will always be super girl to me Love you and miss you very much !!!
January 28, 2021
January 28, 2021
Happy Birthday, Mom. I hope you were able to celebrate with Grandma and Grandpa while watching over us. We miss and love you so much!
April 15, 2020
April 15, 2020
Hello mommy in Heaven ! Been 2 years . Still missing you everyday. Looking at the Palm tree I bought in memory of you 2 yrs. ago by our pool and telling Matt it’s growing . I thought I loss that memory when we brought that little tree in the pot and died inside our moving truck from Seattle to AZ because it’s too cold. But I never lost hope and keep watering them and praying it will come back . One day , I saw it’s coming back and start growing. I was so happy ! Feels like miracle. We named it Pam tree! If only I could bring you back easy like that I will mommy but I know you’re in a better place now . Please continue watching over us . Me ,Matt and your grandkids miss and love you so much.
April 15, 2020
April 15, 2020
I miss you so much Pammi, All my Love forever .Not only were you a great Sister inlaw but you were a great freind I will never forget, you will always be in my heart &Until we meet up again, Hugs to you !!!
April 15, 2020
April 15, 2020
Only two years since we lost PJ? It seems like forever....Yet the memory of her beautiful face, her kindnesses and her support are always with me. Thank you for a spot to recall how much she meant to us.
January 28, 2020
January 28, 2020
Happy Birthday, Mom! Garland, Hiyan and I enjoyed a pancake dinner tonight at Elmer's. I'm sure you know we left a seat open for you. Love you, tons.
May 12, 2019
May 12, 2019
Hi, Sweetie, Happy Mother's Day!!
We all love and miss you.
We all love and miss you.
April 15, 2019
April 15, 2019
Mom,
I love and miss seeing you, but I know you’re still with us always.
I love and miss seeing you, but I know you’re still with us always.
January 31, 2019
January 31, 2019
PJ was so creative! Whenever Republican Women needed a design to sell wreaths or advertise a flag-waving event, PJ would create exactly what we needed! She was able to make the project interactive, which was so helpful in recruiting help for events. Wow,, how we miss her! Having her gone from us emphasizes to us how important it is to have dedicated people who are willing to give time and resources so that our events have a strong impact! PJ was so generous with her time and resources. She gave her best efforts toward strengthening our nation and our community. Her lasting legacy is one of love and service.
Jean Nelson, past president
Benton County Republican Women
Jean Nelson, past president
Benton County Republican Women
August 21, 2018
August 21, 2018
Wonderful friend…dedicated club member…tireless worker…creative contributor.
Words cannot adequately express the many attributes that PJ brought to Benton County Republican Women.
Our hearts are heavy with grief as we remember that she is no longer with us.
We deeply miss her smile and her love.
PJ made BCRW a positive force in the community with her rare talent and dedication.
• We were proud to ride on her beautifully designed floats on July 4 and Veterans Day.
• As our graphic artist, PJ created and maintained BCRW’s informative, beautiful website.
• For programs and events, for meetings and the County Fair, and for socials, PJ’s posters and pictures made everything special.
• A true patriot, PJ made sure that our military and America were always properly honored with banners and signs.
• She taught history to the community with her library displays for Presidents’ Day and Constitution Day.
• PJ was a great fundraiser. She designed beautiful political and patriotic buttons for BCRW to sell.
• When PJ’s health began to fail, she devoted her limited strength and the vast majority of her time to BCRW and the Benton County Republican Party. PJ’s wonderful husband Garland was protective of her, but supported her in giving her energy to BCRW's patriotic activities. Garland knew how important these activities were to her.
PJ was a true friend to everyone in BCRW. She was gracious and careful of the feelings of others. Her loving spirit and strength were a combination that inspired all who knew her.
DEAR PJ,
THANK YOU for your true friendship and your great example! WE LOVE YOU!
Members of Benton County Republican Women look forward with faith to
that great day when we will be resurrected and reunited at the feet of our Savior, Jesus Christ. We will embrace each other and praise the Lord for His sacrifice that heals all wounds and dries all tears. Until then, dear PJ, know that your memory lives bright in our hearts.
Words cannot adequately express the many attributes that PJ brought to Benton County Republican Women.
Our hearts are heavy with grief as we remember that she is no longer with us.
We deeply miss her smile and her love.
PJ made BCRW a positive force in the community with her rare talent and dedication.
• We were proud to ride on her beautifully designed floats on July 4 and Veterans Day.
• As our graphic artist, PJ created and maintained BCRW’s informative, beautiful website.
• For programs and events, for meetings and the County Fair, and for socials, PJ’s posters and pictures made everything special.
• A true patriot, PJ made sure that our military and America were always properly honored with banners and signs.
• She taught history to the community with her library displays for Presidents’ Day and Constitution Day.
• PJ was a great fundraiser. She designed beautiful political and patriotic buttons for BCRW to sell.
• When PJ’s health began to fail, she devoted her limited strength and the vast majority of her time to BCRW and the Benton County Republican Party. PJ’s wonderful husband Garland was protective of her, but supported her in giving her energy to BCRW's patriotic activities. Garland knew how important these activities were to her.
PJ was a true friend to everyone in BCRW. She was gracious and careful of the feelings of others. Her loving spirit and strength were a combination that inspired all who knew her.
DEAR PJ,
THANK YOU for your true friendship and your great example! WE LOVE YOU!
Members of Benton County Republican Women look forward with faith to
that great day when we will be resurrected and reunited at the feet of our Savior, Jesus Christ. We will embrace each other and praise the Lord for His sacrifice that heals all wounds and dries all tears. Until then, dear PJ, know that your memory lives bright in our hearts.
May 11, 2018
May 11, 2018
Dear Garland and family,
We met P.J. in the Spring of 2017. The increasing divisiveness between the 2 political parties prompted us to reach out for some honest and constructive communication.
P.J. arrived at our first meeting, of course wearing flip flops. This was her first outing following her cancer treatments. She shared that she was briefly delayed because she had to jump start her car.
P.J. was well informed on issues and freely expressed her views. It was delightful that we were able to come together and have such an open, honest, and respectful conversation. Over the course of a year, additional Republican women joined our group and we have developed sincere and caring friendships. She never missed a meeting and expressed how she sincerely enjoyed the challenging conversation and laughter.
We treasure our flip flop buttons, and P.J. will always be with us.
With love,
Hannelore, Barb, and Pam
We met P.J. in the Spring of 2017. The increasing divisiveness between the 2 political parties prompted us to reach out for some honest and constructive communication.
P.J. arrived at our first meeting, of course wearing flip flops. This was her first outing following her cancer treatments. She shared that she was briefly delayed because she had to jump start her car.
P.J. was well informed on issues and freely expressed her views. It was delightful that we were able to come together and have such an open, honest, and respectful conversation. Over the course of a year, additional Republican women joined our group and we have developed sincere and caring friendships. She never missed a meeting and expressed how she sincerely enjoyed the challenging conversation and laughter.
We treasure our flip flop buttons, and P.J. will always be with us.
With love,
Hannelore, Barb, and Pam
May 5, 2018
May 5, 2018
Dear Pam,
May our loving thoughts and prayers reach you. As the caregivers of your mom, we are blown away by the news that you are not with us anymore. We will always remember the kindness that you have given to each of us and your warmest smile. You have our greatest appreciation from our hearts to all that you have done to us. You brought love, inspiration, laughter, joy, loyalty, and generosity whenever you came and visit all of us at Long Beach, CA. We deeply miss you, but we know that somewhere in heaven you are the angel of our lives and the happiest soul there can be. We love you so very much!
Loving you,
Nida
Mercy
Zayna
Precy
Lyra
Lea
Elvie
Florence
Elizabeth
May our loving thoughts and prayers reach you. As the caregivers of your mom, we are blown away by the news that you are not with us anymore. We will always remember the kindness that you have given to each of us and your warmest smile. You have our greatest appreciation from our hearts to all that you have done to us. You brought love, inspiration, laughter, joy, loyalty, and generosity whenever you came and visit all of us at Long Beach, CA. We deeply miss you, but we know that somewhere in heaven you are the angel of our lives and the happiest soul there can be. We love you so very much!
Loving you,
Nida
Mercy
Zayna
Precy
Lyra
Lea
Elvie
Florence
Elizabeth
May 3, 2018
May 3, 2018
Possibly the most kind lady I've ever met! As a friend of her son Matt, from the first time I met Pam she welcomed me with that warm smile that never seemed to leave her face, and no matter how long it had been since I had seen her she always made it feel like it was just yesterday. Thank you so much for always being so warm and welcoming Pam! We have all been blessed to know you, you are and always will be missed with fond memories. See you on the better side Pam!
April 28, 2018
April 28, 2018
Pam was my employee at The Gift Hutch in the late seventies to mid eighties and it was there that she met Garland and they eventually married. She was a working business partner from 1985 to 1991 at Ambiance Unlimited in Corvallis and a silent partner/investor for another 20 years after that
Most importantly she was a wonderful friend for over 40 years and I will never forget her beautiful big eyes, sweet smile and her fun easy going personality
I am so grateful she and I talked on the phone in early February since we hadn’t spoken in several years Busy lives and a thousand miles can make those “catching up” phone calls too infrequent. I did not know she was having health issues and she didn’t mention it I am so thankful our last conversation ended with “Luv Ya’s”
Thanks PJ for enriching my life and so many others lives as well!
Luv Ya Darwin
Most importantly she was a wonderful friend for over 40 years and I will never forget her beautiful big eyes, sweet smile and her fun easy going personality
I am so grateful she and I talked on the phone in early February since we hadn’t spoken in several years Busy lives and a thousand miles can make those “catching up” phone calls too infrequent. I did not know she was having health issues and she didn’t mention it I am so thankful our last conversation ended with “Luv Ya’s”
Thanks PJ for enriching my life and so many others lives as well!
Luv Ya Darwin
April 26, 2018
April 26, 2018
Rest In Peace, that’s what they say...you fought the battle, and you were winning, I guess everything that happens is meant to be, but I sure do miss you, our late night conversations and your upbeat demeanor. Man, this is rough, still not real, my heart is broken and I feel for Garland and your family. I will never forget ya, and your grandson, Ty, we both hold you in our hearts. Love ya Gram
April 24, 2018
April 24, 2018
I am heartbroken to learn of PJ's passing. I met PJ through her work with the Benton County Republican Women nearly 15 years ago. Even though I was a candidate/elected official in the other party, PJ always greeted me (and my children!) with kindness and an open heart. I have long admired the beauty she brought to her work and the community through banners, color and design. More importantly, I admired her giant smile, outgoing nature, commitment to the community and magnetic kindness. Our community will feel her loss and so will I. To PJ's family-- thank you for sharing her with us. She made everything better.
April 23, 2018
April 23, 2018
I honestly believe the world lost one of the most amazing,caring and genuine person I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. You had a way of making everyone feel special. I will miss you horribly and you will always have a spot in my heart. I love you and will remember you my aunt......thank you for being a part of my life
April 17, 2018
April 17, 2018
I can't believe you are gone.. I hope that you are in a better place and one day, we will all be back together to enjoy it with you. Thank you for all of the love and happiness you brought to our lives. Your memory will be cherished and your joy will be missed for the rest of my life. Until then.. We will see you on the other side. Say hello to Grandpa for me. Love you Mom!!!
April 17, 2018
April 17, 2018
I really miss you Mommy. I tried to keep busy but whatever I do , your beautiful face still popping out in my brain especially when I sleep at night. I can hear your voice saying “I love you guys!” Every time we talked on the phone and I say “Hello Mommy”! And you always respond back “ Hi! How are you ? “ I missed those voice . I’ve been looking all our selfies together and I can’t count them because there were too many ! And you never complain taking selfies with me anywhere we go. You are very sweet and such a happy person that’s why I guess we really get along. I felt like I’m just having a dream but I know you are in a better place now and watching over us. All of us and all your grandkids will be missing you! Opening presents on Christmas Day and playing Gestures with you and Monopoly with the kids is so fun. Thank you for all the love and for being my second mom. We love you forever Mommy! May you rest in Paradise.
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Missing you everyday mommy Pam especially our laugh and selfie together :( Sending our love and kisses in Heaven ! We love you always <3 Love from all of us ! Matt, Ellen, kids and grandkids.
April 15
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Thinking of you today, we sure miss you.
April 15
April 15
Missing you, very long 6 years !!
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January 28, 2020
by Jean Nelson
I found a video yesterday of Benton County Republicans' float in the 2016 Corvallis 4th of July parade. It brought back great memories of PJ's skill in taking materials from years of Republican floats and events and making each years' contributions beautiful and inspiring. We had a lot of fun on those 4th of July, Philomath Frolic, and Veterans Day Parade floats! Probably the most fun was the Veterans Day Parade because we honored those who served our nation with cheers and special buttons designed and created by PJ, Garland and Stella. The audience was always so responsive to us! Although we had a few rainy, miserable parades, most of them produced the best weather of the week, and we all felt very blessed.
PJ liked to use the theme of LIBERTY on some of the floats, and that increased our feeling of patriotism, as we all cherish the liberty that the United States of America gives us. PJ gave 1000% to every project that she undertook. With a great husband as her support, she contributed her best efforts even when her health was failing. PJ, you will always be in our hearts. We have an everlasting bond with you. With love, Jean Nelson
PJ liked to use the theme of LIBERTY on some of the floats, and that increased our feeling of patriotism, as we all cherish the liberty that the United States of America gives us. PJ gave 1000% to every project that she undertook. With a great husband as her support, she contributed her best efforts even when her health was failing. PJ, you will always be in our hearts. We have an everlasting bond with you. With love, Jean Nelson
Memorial Service
May 12, 2018
At PJ's memorial service, on the 5th of May 2018, there were about 100 people who came to show their love and admiration of her beautiful spirit, in recogniton of her life and sorrow for her passing. Proof that she was well loved and cherished by all of her friends, colleagues and family members. Everyone celebrated her life and many spoke of the great memories they enjoyed with her. It was truly a blessed day and an amazing turnout of all the people who deeply cared for her. It was a bright and sunny day which was a testament to her life.
April 28, 2018
I met PJ in 2000 when I got involved with the Benton County Republican Party. I have two vignettes that display several of her characteristics.
In the early 2000s I, and others, were helping PJ prepare a float for the Veterans Day parade. PJ, as usual, was working meticulously. As the afternoon dragged on and helpers started leaving, I began to wonder when we would be finished and tried to get PJ to hurry because I felt guilty leaving her to finish the job. PJ gave me a very dirty look. I then realized that PJ was going to do what PJ was going to do, and that was to make that float as perfect as she could possibly make it. I left and never felt guilty again about leaving PJ to finish a job.
Several years later, PJ, Stella Guenther, and I were reorganizing the Republican storage trailer. I had to lift a heavy piece of lattice and place it on two hooks on the wall. I got the lattice up on the wall but it was not level – not that it had to be. PJ looked at the lattice, wrinkled her nose, and said, “John’s work”. At that point, I realized that she expects everyone else to do things to her standards. I leveled the lattice.
PJ was very skilled at her craft. Her work was nearly perfect and she expected the same from others. She was a loyal steadfast Republican, a fierce patriot, a gracious beautiful lady, and a very dear friend. I, and many others, will miss her a great deal.
John H. Detweiler