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After a year-long battle with cancer, Preston spent his last few days talking and singing with family and friends, then slipped peacefully away. We are sad that he is gone, but thankful that he is finally at rest.

We thank all of the friends and family who have called and sent messages and letters the past few days; your loving words and thoughtfulness have been a great encouragement. 

Those wishing to leave a message or story on this site are welcome to do so as we celebrate the memory of Preston. We will hold a memorial with family and friends sometime next year when we can all be together.

Donations in Preston's memory can be made to the LEAP Center@KFEE (P.O. B ox 1184, Kosciusko, MS 39090. www.kfeems.org).

Dear friends:  Each morning, we read the tributes and stories that have been posted here. It is such a joy to hear all of the personal ways that Preston/Dad has touched your lives, and we thank you for taking the time to share.  Much love, Ann, Jonathan, Kathryn, Carol
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
I met Preston when he taught a class on Islam for the Institute For Continued Learning at Dixie State University. You had to get to class early to assure getting a seat--he was a great teacher. I especially appreciate the help he gave me with a WW1 class while I was out of town. He will be sorely missed.
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Buster was a long time friend and high school classmate. I was saddened to hear recently that he had cancer and sorry to hear of his passing.
I am praying for his family during this time.  He will be truly missed by the Class of 61!!!
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Ann, So sorry to hear of Buster's passing. We were classmates since he came to Kosciusko. We were on the cafeteria run together in 8 and 9th grade I believe. We were also in the Jr. Play "Arsenic and Old Lace"
with other classmates. Even as a high school classmate he was one of my heroes. I wrote to him several times while he was at West Point and when he was stationed in Turkey. When I visited Kosciusko would try to get up with him when you'll lived there. He is one of the very best our class produced.
He and your family will always be in my prayers. Happy he is finally with the Lord reaping his just reward. Sincerely, Shelley Joseph. Will Never Forget his "Southern,Rich, Mellow Voice", and many acts of kindness he showed to so many in need and the friendship he extended to me. 
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Preston's passing created a significant void for our family. We want to pass on our sympathy to you, Ann and the entire Hughes family., My friendship with Preston started in 1966 when we were Junior lieutenants in Vietnam. That friendship is something that I have cherished since that time and will continue to cherish it for all my days.

Ann, Bubba and I treasure the time that we have spent together and will pray for you and your family.

Hutch and family
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Grandpa, you will be missed. Fishing, hiking and camping will not be the same. I would never be able to say I have hiked the Appalachian trail if it wasn't for you taking me there. One day I will finish it but for now I will look back and remember the fun had.
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Ann,
I am so sorry to hear of Preston's passing. I had just sent him an email yesterday inquiring about a visit to Mayo he had mentioned previously. He and Curt were very dear friends, and now they are together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your dear family at this time. 
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Ann, I am heart broken. I didn't even know he was in "the battle". I pray for peace and comfort for you and the children and grandchildren.
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
True and I were so sorry to hear of his death. Buster was a true friend and no matter what he said; he was Mr. Kosy High to me. He exhibited that by his actions when he returned to live there after retiring from the military. A gentle man, so honest and loyal to whatever cause he pursued. Our prayers are with Ann and their family.
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Preston's passing is a loss to all who knew him. The legacy he leaves is a wonderful family and the example of an amazing soldier, teacher, and gentleman. 
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
When Meltem, Ozan, and I moved to the area in 2018, Preston reached out to me, having heard through the Dixie State grapevine that I was newly arrived from Turkey. He invited us into his home, shared his memories of Turkey with us, and asked with genuine interest about our thoughts and feelings regarding the Turkey of today. He even invited Meltem and me to speak to one of his classes at Dixie. We could not have asked for a kinder, warmer, more generous spirit to welcome us to our new life. "Allah rahmet eylesin."
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Dear Ann and family,
So many memories of happy times together In Kosy, DC, and my first trip to Istanbul and Ankara. Other trips that I lived vicariously when Bruce and Emily and others would come home from a tour of your second home. He will be missed. Love to you all, my heart is filled with sorrow, but I know he is with the Lord. Laura, Andrew, Susan, and Jack.
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
Dear HUGHES Family, I am honored and blessed to have known your husband & father. He was truly a blessing in my life. I am truly sorry for your loss. Preston will be missed and he will never be forgotten, may his soul rest in peace. My condolences.
Orhan Coskun
May 23, 2020
May 23, 2020
Preston Hughes, a spiritual man of peace:
Preston is a spiritual giant, loving mankind, his friends and especially his family.
A man of peace is welcome anywhere and everywhere that divine power exists.
May the Peace that surpasses all understanding be with us all as Preston goes forward and ahead of us
May 23, 2020
May 23, 2020
From: Scott Hill

Soldier , rest! thy march is done;
Thou hast reached the camping ground:
Battles fought and victories won,
Thou a conqueror's wreath hast found.

Death has claimed thy form alone;
And thy spirit liveth still,
Working in diviner ways
After God the Maker's will.

Thou hast battled for the right,
Bravely fought and nobly fell,
Martyred in defence of truth,
Loved by thee so long and well.

Reverent is this tribute placed
By a loyal, stranger hand,
On this soldier's casket, one
Called to die for native land.

Simple though its words and few,
'Tis a tribute of the heart,
Due to one who bravely bore
In dear Freedom's strife a part.

Soldier! rest in hallowed peace;
Though affection's tear may fall,
Patriot hearts may yet rejoice
That thou heardst thy country's call.

Green around thy head shall twine
Evermore the unwithering bays;
And thy name, with freedom joined,
Shall be whispered oft with praise.

Poem by Phoebe A. Hanaford

Sleep tight old friend, for it is our turn to take the watch. You taught us well, and we thank you for it. 
Scott Hill
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March 27
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Dear Hughes family.
I would like to inform you that dad "Hüseyin Azmi Ateş" has passed away and is hopefully with him in afterlife.
March 27
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Dad, Thinking of you on your 81st birthday. You left us so many great memories. I still try to emulate you by reading poems and scripture at the breakfast table. And I still listen to lots of 1940s music which always reminds me of the songs you and Mom would sing together. Most important, I try to pass on your knowledge of and appreciation for our noble democratic experiment that is the United States of America. Thanks for everything, Dad. Love, Jonathan
March 27
March 27
I miss you grandpa, I wish so much that I could share with you how things are going in life right now. I like to think that you would be happy seeing how far I have come and how hard I am working. When I actually applied myself I really was able to get through school and find a place where I can put my intelligence to use. I hope you are letting people win sometimes at speed scrabble up in heaven.
His Life

Preston Hughes, Obituary

May 23, 2020
Preston Hughes (77) passed away in Santa Clara, UT, on  May 23, 2020. He was the son of Preston L. Hughes (deceased), from Gladys, VA, and Mary Kate (McNeel) Hughes (deceased) from Louisville, MS. He is survived by his wife of 49 years, Ann Hughes, and his three children, Jonathan, Kathryn, and Carol, and nine grandchildren.

Preston was born in 1943, in Washington, DC. He grew up in central Mississippi, where he attended elementary school  in Louisville and junior high/high school in Kosciusko. He was a member of the undefeated Kosciusko High School football team of 1960. Graduating from Kosciusko High School in 1961, he entered the United States Military Academy at West Point, NY. In 1965, he graduated from the Military Academy and was commissioned a Second Lieutenant in the Field Artillery.

He married Ann Grimshaw, from Cedar City (Enoch), Utah, in 1971 in Watsonville, CA, while he was studying Turkish at the Defense Language Institute in Monterey. Their marriage was blessed with three wonderful children:  Jonathan (Michelle) Hughes, Kathryn (John) Boogaard and Carol (Scott) Hill, and with nine very special grandchildren, whom he loved dearly. 

During a military career spanning 27 years, Preston served two years in Vietnam and 13.5 years in Turkey. Among his assignments in Turkey were three years as Assistant Army Attache in Ankara (1975-78) and eight years as the NATO Liaison Officer to the Turkish General Staff (1981-85 and 1988-92). Ann was by his side throughout those years in Turkey, during which two of their three children were born. All the family came to think of Turkey as a "second home," and they recalled often and with great fondness the memories of the places and people they came to know during their years in that beautiful country.

Upon retirement from the military, Preston and Ann settled in Kosciusko, Mississippi. Their children attended universities/college there: Jonathan to Mississippi State University, Kathryn to Millsaps College and Carol to the University of Southern Mississippi. 

Preston's post-retirement activities in Kosciusko included helping establish a tutorial program called the LEAP Center and a biracial men's club called The Club. He also taught American Government as an adjunct instructor for Holmes Community College. Ever the "man in the ring," Preston ran for state Senate in 1995, an experience that allowed him to create broader and deeper bonds to the people of Mississippi.

In 2009, Preston and Ann moved to Santa Clara, Utah. His activities since 2009 included teaching American Government and Introduction to Islam as an adjunct instructor for Dixie State University. He also taught courses on Islam in the Institute for Continued Learning (ICL) Program, and he was a volunteer at the VA Home in Ivins, leading discussions on current Events. He attended the Good Shepherd Presbyterian Church in St. George.

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March 27
I have fond recollections of Preston. He was one of my closest friends at West Point and after. He was a faithful Christian brothers. I look forward to seeing him in Heaven. 

Sincerely in Christ
Gwynn Vaughan
USMA 1964
Matthrw 6:33
July 20, 2020
  • I was sorry to hear of Colonel Hughes’ passing from my daughter Shemika who is a friend of his lovely daughters Kathryn and Carol. I remember years ago in Ankara, Turkey Col Hughes was the speaker at a high school graduation. I was hanging on to every word. It was the most meaningful one I had ever heard. Later I desired a copy of it and he was gracious enough to give me one. Sometime later I preached a sermon and the next day at a gathering he singled me out and told me he enjoyed my talk on yesterday. It meant so much coming from such an eloquent speaker. All of you have my deepest condolences and I am sorry it has taken me so long to share. May God keep you all in comfort and peace!

Preston Hughes: A Man of Action

June 20, 2020
Preston didn’t waste much time when taking action after making a decision.One afternoon in the midst of a card game we showed Preston a brochure of an interesting sea adventure.He looked at it briefly and said, “let’s do it.”He immediately called and made reservations, without a second thought.We resumed the game and a few weeks later were on a small yacht cruise of Slovenia and the Dalmatian Coast of Croatia.One of our most enjoyable journeys with Ann and Preston.

 

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