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The following tribute was delivered by Professor Chinyere Okafor at the Feminist Roundtable in honor of Professor Mary Kolawole at the African Literature Association conference in Knoxville, Tennessee, USA, May 25, 2023:

Ululation in Honor of Professor Mary Modupe Kolawole
by
Professor Chinyere G. Okafor,
Wichita State University, Wichita, Kansas, USA

@ALA Conference 2024, Knoxville, TN, USA

Professor Modupe Mary Kolawole departed from this world on the 16th of February 2021 in Nigeria where she was a full professor of languages and literature at Kwara State University, Malete-ILORIN, Kwara State, Nigeria. News of her passing travelled with expressions of shock, questions, and laments in a world barely recovering from the trauma of the covid-19 pandemic. Modupe would never support sadness or queries to the Ultimate Spirit, so I have chosen to focus on my notable memory of her at Cornell University’s Africana Studies and Research Center where we were both Rockefeller Humanist-in-Residence Fellows in 1991-2, and occasional meetings at conferences, which accorded me appreciation of her as a person and a scholar.

When I met her in 1991, she introduced herself to me as Modupe, but she also went by Mary. I got to know her more as we shared an office at the Center. Her gentle demeanor, permanent smile, and affability stand out in her personality. Some know her as their loving mother, so I am not going to intrude into that space ruled by Folake Taylor and Temiloluwa Kolawole, whose childhood stories were fondly shared with me at break times in Hoyt Fuller Room of the Center. I will not speak about her kindness to students who called her Mama and a model for teaching and mentoring. I will not speak of her as a wife, even though she shared stories of her marital abode overshadowed by the suzerainty of the Holy Spirit. Her loving husband, Professor Deboye Kolawole, later added evangelization beside his scientific prowess.

In addition to anecdotes about personal issues, my discussions with Modupe centered on our research that intersected on the poetics of African oral and written literatures and performance. Women’s social, political, and economic activities in different ethnic nations of Nigeria and Africa came up frequently in the debates about feminism, womanism, and afrocentricism. I began to appreciate Modupe as a woman who wore many hats as professor, researcher, author, mother, wife, and person of faith. My focus in this memorial is on her as a renowned literary professor and African feminist scholar whose academic prowess was rooted in research in oral and written literatures as well as her knowledge of Nigerian and Yoruba folklore and folkways.

In Kwara State University website, Kolawole described herself as “a professor of English, Literary Studies, African Cultural and Gender Studies.” My interaction with her and reading of her works reveal feminism as the uniting factor in her academic output. As a stance for the development of women and their children (men and women), feminism frames the literary and cultural discourse of Kolawole’s research, papers, and service including her religious activities replete with her counsels that strengthened many in their endeavors. Mary’s religiosity may suggest the so-called meekness of some women of the bible such as Esther and Miriam acclaimed in Christian circles, but I hasten to qualify their humbleness as packages of their determination, focus, and strength. Modupe also identifies with the drive, activism, and foresight of African heroines who blended the terrain of marriage, motherhood, and leadership in the spirit of omumu ideology derived from fecundity and creativity. Growing up, she admired the guts of her grandmother, who was noted for hunting down anyone that hurt her grandchildren, be they teachers or strangers. Her grandmother’s audacity ignited Mary’s interest in stories of heroic women such as Madam Efunroye Tinubu (c. 1810 – 1887) and Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti (1900-1978) from her Yoruba background as well as other heroes beyond her ethnic region.

Her research in African folklore exposed her to numerous prototypes of female assertion and leadership all over Africa during different epochs of African history from precolonial to modern, which constituted the backbone of her academic achievement. In her outstanding book, Womanism and African Consciousness, she emphasized the contribution and leadership of women in the fight against imperialism foregrounding numerous examples such as the Igbo and eastern Nigerian women’s war against the colonialists, women’s mobilization during the Zimbabwean war, Kenyan women’s contribution to the liberation struggle, and South African women’s engagement of apartheid. She emphasized their strength in combating multiple infringements from traditional patriarchies as they fought the imperialistic strangulation of African peoples.

Professor M. Kolawole’s gusto in Womanism reveals her passion for women and gender. This passion has been with her since childhood when her feminist father refused to uphold the expected silent presence of women which would have lent voice to inferiorization of women. Modupe’s motivational story was the conversation she heard between her father and his friend who tried to convince him not to send her to school but to save the money for the boys. Her father rejected the advice because Mary was his first child, and he was not sure that the boys would be brilliant like her. This incident was the bedrock of Modupe’s motivation to fight for women through her teaching, service, research and publications.

At Cornell, our fellowship research was enriched by the intellectual ebullience of African scholars at the Africana Center such as Ali Mazrui, Micere Mugo, Don Ohadike, N’dri Assie-Lumumba, Salah Hassan, and Nanji, as well as the robust diasporic input of James Turner, Locksley Edmondson, Robert Harris, and Ann Adams. The controversial invisibility and voicelessness of African women came up in seminars organized by Nanji at Hoyt Fuller Room. Mary’s voice was heard as she laid the foundation for further academic pursuit which did not stop at Cornell. She soared in academia and made her voice heard across continents. She did not disappoint her father and regretted that he did not live long enough to see her soar beyond his imagination. Had her father conceded to the inhibitive notion of his friend, Modupe would not have had the foundation that propelled her across the globe including the following:
 
Cornell University (USA) - Rockefeller Humanist-in-Residence Fellow.
University of Kent (UK) - Commonwealth Visiting Fellow,
University of Cape Town (SA) - Research Associate at African Gender Institute.
Nordic Africa Institute (Sweden) - Researcher.

No doubt, Professor Kolawole has made her family and all of us proud. For the academy, she left a robust legacy of books and other publications that engage the voices of African women through oral and written literatures to elicit their communication of identities unique to African women that shaped their brand of feminist engagement long before the term feminism was coined in early nineteenth century France. Kolawole employed her strategic position at the intersection of feminism with gender and cultural studies to great advantage in expounding African women’s audibility and identity. She left the academy with numerous publications including the following:

Womanism and African Consciousness. Africa World Press, 1997.
Gender Perceptions and Development in Africa.  Arrabon Academic Publishers, 1998.
Zulu Sofola: Her Life & Her Works College Press Publishers, 1999.

I take pride in celebrating Professor Mary Modupe Kolawole, and the remarkable impact she had and still have, with this parting verse inspired by the spirit of her scholarly message:

A gentle wind touched the lip of my left ear.
Her touch was like drums as it made its way,
In my head compelling me to mark her words:
In or out of the room, she holds the yam and knife,
Dead or alive, her voice carries bitter nuts and honey.
Please respect the voice. Voice is God’s gift to women.

October 30, 2023
October 30, 2023
My dear Mummy! Not a day goes by that I don’t reminisce about you, whether it’s with Daddy or Temi, Layi or Jordan, or internally. I see so much of you in me, and lessons I learned passively by being your child. You took care of Daddy. You were his peace. You taught me how to be a good wife. So when Layi tells me that I’m a good woman, I know I learned from the best. Continue to rest in peace.
June 27, 2023
June 27, 2023
My beloved sister, what else do I say. As my sister you put up your best to see me through in my journey to life. You are always there for me. I will forever remember you. No one can replace you in my heart. Continue to rest in peace my blood.
February 17, 2023
February 17, 2023
Though you are no longer with us in flesh, we are confident that you are with us in spirit. You're very much alive in our hearts. Thank you for being a wonderful mother.
February 16, 2023
February 16, 2023
Continue to rest on in glory..Blessed are the memories of you always
February 16, 2023
February 16, 2023
May your soul continue to rest peacefully and in eternal glory.


September 2, 2022
September 2, 2022
Mama was a great teacher. She taught me in the late 1980s in Ife. She was forever at peace with her students. She was a model in teaching and mentoring. May her soul continue to rest in peace.
- Lasisi Olagunju
March 15, 2022
March 15, 2022
Proff, may your gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace. To the family you left behind, God will continually be their strength in Jesus name.
March 10, 2022
March 10, 2022
Prof Mrs Kolawole. Your humility, perseverance and closeness to God were outstanding. You are missed always by family and friends.
February 19, 2022
February 19, 2022
Prof (Mrs) Ebun Modupe Kolawole, you will always be remembered and cherished. Enjoy eternal rest with the Almighty God.
May the peace of God abide with all the people you left behind.
Adieu till we meet to part no more.
February 17, 2022
February 17, 2022
It's a year already! Trusting that her good works on this earthly plain continue to abide and that the family remains in peace with her passing. It is well!
February 16, 2022
February 16, 2022
The Glorious exit of our dearly beloved mother is a year today, and all glory must be to God Almighty who it has pleased to spare our lives to still be on this earth. We fondly remember you, Professor Mary Ebun Kolawole, today as we cannot but express that we miss your sincere expression of love to all and sundry, and your peaceful relationship with everyone that crossed your path on your journey of life. We can only just continue to thank God Almighty for giving you to us and for taking you at the time He did. Your remain a model for us as the lessons that your life has become we cherish and learn from as we continue with our various journey until God says it is time for us also to come home. Continue to rest in the Lord Mummy K. 
February 16, 2022
February 16, 2022
It's so hard and difficult to believe that it's already a year ago that Mummy joined the saints triumphant. How time flies! Though we grieved but we're however comforted that, 'it's well with you where you're just as it's well with us all and our souls' ❤❤
February 16, 2022
February 16, 2022
Daddy Prof Kolawole, Temi and Sister Folake my thoughts are with you today 1 year on as our dear mummy rests on the bossom of our Lord. Mummy we miss you. Till we meet again.
February 16, 2022
February 16, 2022
I can't believe it's a year already..Mum, may memories of you continually be of joy, kindness and the warmth you showed all around you. Continue to rest in our Lords bosom..
February 16, 2022
February 16, 2022
My wife and I remember you today and always for the good works and the impactful life that Prof Mrs Kolawole lived. She was called home into the glory with the Lord a year ago today. For a Christian, that she was, it was only a transition to a better life. The last one year could not have been easy for her husband, our own Community leader, Prof Deboye Kolawole. But my wife and I always remember him, the children and grandchildren in our prayers. May the gentle soul of Prof Mrs Kolawole rest peacefully as we pray that the Holy Spirit would help Prof Deboye Kolawole to continue in the faith and finish his own race strong and well. From Johnson Bamidele & Gloria Oluwakemi Adewumi; Asiwaju & Yeye Asiwaju of Oko
February 16, 2022
February 16, 2022
Continue to sleep well dear Mummy Kolawole, very hard to believe a year has gone by since you went to be with the Lord !!!
You are always loved !
You will always be fondly remembered !
May God continue to sustain Daddy, Folake, Temi and the entire family and all the loved ones you left behind.
March 17, 2021
March 17, 2021
POSTING FOR KEMI OGUNSAN NEE BANJO:

Dear Aunty,
I can hardly find the words to describe you. You loved the Lord, carried His presence and shared your faith. There are many of us who will sing to you in heaven: “Thank you for giving to the Lord....” You will be sorely missed. You are with the Lord whom you loved so dearly & shared so faithfully. I was blessed at your “Tuesday” fellowship/bible study whenever I had the opportunity to come. I always knew I would experience Jesus there and learn at His feet. Thank you aunty for being such an example and for being an open book for all to read that He lives in you.

Much love ❤️
Kemi
March 15, 2021
March 15, 2021
It was with a very rude shock on Friday, 12th March, 2021 (the day that your remains was interred) that I got to read about your demise through an online post! Prior to this day, on Wednesday, 10th March, 2021 I wanted to call you and wish you a happy 72nd birthday but the Holy Spirit asked me not to call you. I was greatly disturbed by this instruction but who am I to question the move of the Spirit? I never knew that as at that day you had gone to meet your redeemer!

I was introduced to you by Prof Oyin Ogunba in 2000 when I came over to OAU, Ile-Ife for my M.Phil programme. You Supervised my work for the programme and in 2005 when I came back for my PhD, you still accepted me as your student for the doctoral programme. I saw the virtue of humility in you and I learnt this from you!

You were a womanist to the core and an uncompromising daughter of zion. Adieu Mummy and continue to rest till the resurrection morning!
March 12, 2021
March 12, 2021
Adieu Professor (Mrs) Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole, a foremost scholar in English and Literary studies , gender studies and a distinguished professor. Your simplicity nature to life is a treasure that many that have had formal and informal experience with you will forever cherish about your person. I had the opportunity to have served in some university's committees with you in Obafemi Awolowo University, of which I attest to your exemplary life style and humility per excellence. May your gentle soul rest in peace.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Mom, your birthday celebration was beautiful. I can only imagine that you were looking down on us, pleased. Rest on with the angels. You earned it.

It’s me, your favorite daughter,

Folake.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Professor MEM Kolawole – In Memoriam

I had known Professor Mrs Mary Kolawole by reputation – her formative theoretical works being parts and parcel of the critical toolbox of Feminism, in general and African Feminism/womanism, in particular!

But our first close meeting came in January 2010 when I joined the new Kwara State University (KWASU) as professor and Head of Languages and Literary Studies. I’d been away from Nigeria for more than two decades, and I arrived back home with lots of apprehension and trepidation.

At the first Senate meeting that I attended upon touching down in Ilorin and at the temporary site of the new university, I sat opposite Prof Kolawole and we exchanged fraternal greetings. In the course of the meeting she slipped a note to me across the Senate table asking: “Prof Abodunrin, are you from Offa by any chance?” I wrote back that I was indeed born of an Ibadan mother and an Offa father. She couldn’t wait for the meeting to end before coming to have a chat with me: “Are you by any chance related to one Oluremi Abodunrin”? She asked. Auntie Oluremi is indeed my paternal Aunt and I told her that Auntie Olu, as we affectionately called, is my father’s younger sister and now known as Mrs. Oluremi Odepe! Jesus is Lord!, she exclaimed, and where is she now? she concluded. Prof Kolawole and my auntie were apparently classmates at the famous and prestigious Saint Faith Girls College, Kawo, Kaduna and they were the only representatives of the newly created Kwara State in the school in the mid-1960s! I reached for my mobile phone and got through to my Auntie who had relocated to Ibadan from Kano after her retirement after more than three decades in the administration of the Nigerian police force!
“I’ve got a pleasant surprise for you here, Auntie,” I told her when I got through to her.
I handed the phone to Prof Kolawole and a more than thirty-minutes banter ensued between the two schoolmates who hadn’t heard from one another for more than four decades! “Take great care of my nephew and his family” my Auntie admonished her mate as we embarked on settling back into the Nigeria of our birth. My wife and our two children, Adedayo and Aderonke, soon got to know Prof and Prof Mrs. Kolawole and the rest as they say is a lot of pleasant history and reminiscences. Prof Mrs Kolawole would drive into our abode without notice and her driver would unload sumptuous provisions – mostly assorted Euro-modernist delicacies – that she claimed our “aje-butter” kids must not be deprived of! She’ll also envelope stashes of Naira notes separately for both of them. Upon getting the news of Prof Kolawole’s transition to glory from another KWASU compatriot, Prof Murtala Awodun, and after my wife and I had absorbed the rude should of it all, I reached out to our daughter, Aderonke, at her present Boston, Massachusetts, USA abode and shared the grim news with her:

“Oh No, Daddy, that’s terrible news indeed! Grandma shouldn’t go like that!” she wailed.
“Absolutely love” I responded. Gone too soon is indeed not a cliché for our accomplished literary scholar, seasoned academic, prolific author, mother and grandmother – to name just a few of the accolades one could attach to this illustrious daughter of Kwara State. At KWASU, I had the singular pleasure and honour of working closely with Prof Kolawole. As head of department and later acting Provost of the College of Humanities, Management and Social Sciences, I relied fully on her wealth of experience in academic and administrative matters. She guided without hesitation or prejudice – her sole aim being how to see the nascent institution to fruition and development.

Rest-in-perfect-peace our Mama Africa and forerunner!
We love you but the good Lord loves you more!
Sun re O!

Prof & Mrs. Olufemi Abodunrin
Department of Languages
University of Limpopo
Sovenga 0727
SOUTH AFRICA
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
Mummy it's just sort time I came to your house as personal driver but you take me not as your driver but as a son . Your departure pains me but I can't hold you wait.we love you but jesus love you more. Good nite mama.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
I didn’t know Prof. Mrs Kolawole personally, but I admired her beautiful and gentle demeanor from afar. Reading some of these tributes, it is clear that she was indeed a gentle, kind and Spirit-led woman who made such a positive impact on many. What a beautiful and inspiring testimony of a life lived to the fullest!

Please accept my condolences. May God strengthen, comfort and encourage you all. May her legacy continue to bless and inspire, and May her soul continue to Rest In Peace. Amen.

Love, Bomi.
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
My Dear Aunty is how I addressed you. Painful to think I would now not see you to thank you for so many things one of which has remained one of my greatest testimonies.

I joined the youth fellowship held in your house weekly after a host of other friends had attended the week before and had received the baptism of the Holy Spirit. Oh I wasn't going to be left behind. I showed up ready to receive and as you prayed within seconds before you laid hands on me I was speaking - gosh was I hungry or what?

Your response to me was so encouraging and sealed my convictions about faith in God.
You were astonished as you thought I had been speaking in tongues for a while and you contemplated asking me to assist in laying hands but I was deep in it so you let me be.
That was the beginning of my journey as a Christian and I thank you for that experience which has formed by back bone in faith.

My dear aunty, as you join the cloud of witnesses I pray we who mourn your exit will continue to make you proud. Above all, may we make it to heaven to spend eternity in bliss with you .

I pray Folake, Temi and Uncle will be comforted by the sweet holy spirit as they continue to fight the good fight of faith.

We love you and surely know we are sending off a true soldier, a matriarch.

Thank you for impacting so many of our lives as we grew up on OAU Staff Quarters

Rest in peace aunty
March 8, 2021
March 8, 2021
POSTING FOR JOHN OLUKAYODE ADEWOYE (From Facebook):

I lost my dearest Sister to the cold hands of death on 16th of February. She was more of a mother to me than she was an elder sister. She was a mother to everyone of us. I remember staying with her around 1976 and how she went all out to ensure I was comfortable. She ensure i Dont lack anything for my boarding School at Govt. Secondary School Bacita and her connection to UAC of Nig PLC, where I worked for 3 decades. We will really miss you, I in particular will miss you. I am only comforted in knowing that you are in a better place. I pray God keeps everyone she left behind and grant her eternal rest.
March 8, 2021
March 8, 2021
POSTING FOR OLUSEGUN BAMIDELE (From Facebook):

Sometimes ago in 1979, I went on a visit to a family of 3 at the then Kwara State College of Technology, Ilorin. (now Kwara State Polytechnic, Ilorin). On getting to the house, I counted about 13 people living in that house. These are people from daddy's and mummy's relations. "Go and put your bag in the room", mummy said but I told her that I was asked to deliver a message and that I don't have the intention to stay, which of course was a lie. That is the kind of woman Mummy was. Always accommodating.

That's one of the reasons why I always see her as an Angel among men. Rest on mummy, you're alive in our hearts...
March 8, 2021
March 8, 2021
POSTING FOR TIMOTHY BAMIDELE:

Tribute to Mummy, Professor (Mrs.) Mary Ebun Kolawole

Sincerely, I don't know where to start and what to say that people have not said about Mummy.In 1981 when I came to Ile-Ife to join the family, Mummy welcomed me with opened arms not minding the population of relations already residing with them. 

My tributes started with the above story to make people understand the kind of relationship I had with the deceased. To the glory of God, Daddy Kolawole and Mummy, Professor Mrs. Kolawole were instrumental to my being in Obafemi Awolowo University today.

Mummy was accommodating, a real family person, she never spared scolding us when we erred but always with love. We were encouraged to move forward in our academics and glory be to God, everyone of us that lived with them are all graduates and doing well in our various field. The house was always opened to those who wished to stay with them.

Mummy was a mother, a sister and confidants to us.

When I broke the news of her death to my children, they wept bitterly knowing how good she was to them.

We miss you Ma, the children of Mama Bilewumo Bamidele especially, miss you but we thank God for allowing us passed through your care.

May your gentle, kind, soul rest in peace in the bosom of Our Lord Jesus till we will meet to part no more.

She came, she saw and conquered everything except death. Of course she could not have been an exception as a mortal. She left indelible foot-prints on the sands of time by positively impacting on so many lives that comes across her way ( including me)

Mummy, my soul weeps as you departed. I know God has prepared a resting place for you. We will for ever keep you in our hearts. Continue to rest in Peace Mummy.

Timothy Afolabi Bamidele
March 7, 2021
March 7, 2021
A tribute to Prof Mrs Kolawole
It was such a pleasure to meet Prof Mrs Kolawole, Folake & Temi’s mum. An accomplished woman, a Christian role model, a great mother and a loving wife. She raised outstanding children and was always kind to all. Mummy you will be sorely missed but your legacy lives on. Rest in Peace mummy. May the lord continue to keep watch over your family.
March 6, 2021
Prof Mrs Mary Kolawole was an embodiment of poise and dignity. She welcomes everyone with her charming smile and was a pillar of strength for her husband. Kemi and I adore both for their scholarly ability and humility.

Prof Mrs Mary Kolawole will be greatly missed by Oko Community and we pray that God shall comfort her husband, children and grandchildren. May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace
March 6, 2021
March 6, 2021
I got to know ‘Mummy’ as she was fondly called, during the last few weeks of her life. ‘Mummy’ was assertive, knowledgeable, Godly and close to her family. and exuded confidence and one couldn’t help but fall in love with ‘Mummy’.
It is an honour to have been a part of Mummy’s care team and to have made her comfortable during the last few weeks of her life.
Mummy loved her children, extended family and friends and always prayed and sang hymns even till she could speak no more.
Your husband, children and extended family; friends, acquaintances, loved ones and my team and I will surely miss you, ‘Mummy’. You were a rare breed, a gem and I pray for the repose of your soul in eternal life, Amen.
Rest on ‘Mummy’

March 6, 2021
March 6, 2021
POSTED FOR PASTOR YINKA ADENIYI-RAJI:

I met Prof. Mrs. Kolawole through Folake while I was teaching in Moremi High School, Ile Ife. 
A passionate soul winner and a prayer warrior, Mrs. Kolawole invited me to Full Gospel Bussiness Men's breakfast meeting where Dr. Okey Onuzoh ministered and I gave my life to Christ.
Mrs. Kolawole followed up on me ensuring that I was planted in a Bible believing church. She would visit and pray with me. She invited me to a monthly interdenominational meeting where I met Pastor E.A. Adeboye as the preacher of that monthly meeting. Today, I am a full Pastor in the RCCG.
I am eternally grateful for the roles you played in my spiritual life.
Psm 116: 15 "Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints."
Goodnight Prof. Mrs. Modupe Kolawole, till we meet at the Master's feet.
I pray that the Kolawoles be comforted by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Pst. Yinka Adeniyi-Raji
TEXAS, USA.
March 5, 2021
March 5, 2021
POSTED FOR MRS. AJE:

TRIBUTE To My Darling Friend.
Since I met you and lived as a neighbour, you have been part of my family. When my mother was still alive, you used to come and sing and dance with her as if she was your real mother.
You were a loving, easy going, gentle friend! A friend in need, and a friend indeed.
Your demise was a great shock to me, on hearing you have passed on to glory, I was asking God questions, but the Holy Spirit asked me that who am I to query God when He has taken your friend to rest?
You took me as your own sister and I will always remember your love for me.
I thank God that you were a devoted Christian, and you taught people who moved closer to you the way of Christ. You lived a life worthy of emulation by all standard. Glory be to God. We shall meet again on the resurrection morning to part no more.
May God take care of your darling husband, children and all people that you left behind.
Ore mi owon ao pade lese Jesu, nibiti koni si ipinya mo.
Chief (Mrs) J.M. Aje. JP, MCSR.
March 5, 2021
March 5, 2021
Mummy... I wonder how many ‘children’ (of which I was one) passed through your care in Ile-Ife. You and daddy received us with open arms year after year. With resilient faith, you unapologetically followed the Savior, inviting others to join you as you mentored many. I remember you as a no-nonsense, pragmatic, thoughtful, warm, highly organized, God-fearing person. A woman whose life mirrored the wonders and glory of God. Your many achievements were veiled by your humble and gentle disposition. Your relationship with daddy was beautiful to watch. You will be dearly missed. In the words of a hymn, ‘The strife is o’er, the battle is done’! Rest well mummy in the bosom of your Lord. Thank you Folake & Temi for sharing your beautiful mum with us. May the Lord strengthen and comfort you daddy and the whole family. Peace.
(Lola nee Ogunwale)
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
May her soul rest in perfect peace and give the whole family, church and friends
the fortitude to bear the irreplaceable loss
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
POSTED FOR MRS. ADEWUSI:

TRIBUTE TO LATE PROFESSOR(MRS.)  MARY EBUN MODUPE KOLAWOLE.

On the 17/2/2021, I heard the shocking news of your departure. Till now, it still feels like a dream to me and I still can't believe you're gone.

We met in England almost three decades ago and since then your family and mine have remained very close.  You and your darling husband have remained by our side in both our joyous and sombre moments. And when I saw you in October 2020, I never imagined that would be the last time I would see you in this world.

Thank God for your spiritual life which was full of service to   your maker. You were a very humble and respectful   person   despite your life achievements. You were extremely loving and caring to your family, friends and associates.

Professionally, you were very active   and dedicated, so it is no wonder that you gained recognition within the Common Wealth and earned you the singular honour of meeting Queen Elizabeth The Second, the head of the Common Wealth, face to face.

To say that we miss you is an understatement.  I pray to God Almighty to comfort and uphold your husband, children, grandchildren and your entire family in Jesus name. Amen. 

Continue to rest in perfect peace my beloved friend and sister.
From: Mrs A.F Adewusi
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
POSTED FOR SOLA AND REMI AFOLABI:

Tribute to Mummy Prof MEM Kolawole:
We are comforted by the words of an Anglican hymn;

"Angels, sing on, your faithful watches keeping;
sing us sweet fragments of the songs above,
till morning's joy shall end the night of weeping,
and life's long shadows break in cloudless love.

Angels of Jesus, Angels of light,
singing to welcome the pilgrims of the night!"

"Angeli Jesu, Angel'Mole,
Won nkorin ayo pade ero lona."

Rest well, Mummy.
Sola and Remi Afolabi.
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
POSTED FOR STANLEY JEGEDE:

02 March, 2021

Professor Deboye Kolawole
Ilorin, Kwara State

CONDOLENCE MESSAGE

It is in solemnity and utmost reverence that I commiserate with you on the call to glory of your beloved wife - Professor (Mrs) Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole (JP).

And for a woman of faith who gave so much to the world of family, friends and close associates that she leaves behind, more poignant is my offered consolations. As I am privileged to commit to memory, the opportunity to share a light yet learning moment with her and yourself in Ilorin not too long ago, in the company of Chief Cornelius Adebayo.

Sir, I understand that yourself as well as Folake and Temi would be overwhelmed by the sense of irredeemable loss, as often as the priceless and loving times shared with such a treasured one comes to mind;

However, it is my ardent supplication that the Almighty grants you the divine strength to withstand the grief, and to revel in the wonderful life that she lived as well as her undeniable accomplishments as an author, mentor, life partner and mother.

Once again, my prayers are with you, your children as well as the entire family, and may her soul rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord.

Sincerely,

Stanley Jegede
Executive Chairman
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
Dear Mum,

Though we are sad that you had to leave we are however comforted by the fact that you are in a better place. You have fought the good fight of faith and i am certain that your crown of glory awaits you. Thank you for everything you lived for. Continue to rest till we meet at the bossom of our Lord .
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
POSTING FOR RAYOKE OLAREWAJU (SISTER):

Prof. (Mrs) Mary Ebun Modupe Kolawole
My Beloved Sister, Mentor, Child of God, Cheerful giver, Builder, Counsellor, Comforter, pacesetter, great educationist, a mother indeed.

You are a light that shines in darkness and darkness never comprehended it.

You thaught me to be responssble and bring joy to others’ lives.

My mother used to call u "Ebun,Ibidunni,Asabi Ajirinnibi, Oteletola".

Sister I love you dearly but Jesus loves u better. I release you to the divine owner, till we meet again at Jesus feet. Sister I miss you. But I am comforted by your glorious exit. To God be the glory for ever and ever.

From Rayoke Olugbemiga Olarewaju.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
The News of Prof Mrs Dupe Kolawole or Mummy Folakes (as we called her) Transition leaves me sad and short of words as it did many people. We thank God for her life and legacy. She was a woman of great faith and passion. She spared no effort or resource in teaching , encouraging , blessing, nurturing , discipling and supporting many many many people in the Faith, especially the OAU community / All souls Chapel Children. I can proudly say that I am one of those people. I clearly remember one of the Sunday school songs she taught us " All the way to Calvary he went for me" , she thought us the Hausa version of it and I can still hear her beautiful voice in my heart though she has now left us to be with Our father in heaven. Each time I sing that song I always remember her, she taught us this song more than 40 years ago !.
We are so sad that she has now left us , but we are comforted by the fact that we know where she has gone , for we understand that to be absent from the body is to be present with God.
My deepest condolences to the entire Kolawole family.
I pray that God will grant eternal rest to her precious soul, that God will hold Daddy , Folake , Temi and The entire family close , Comfort them and be their everything at this difficult time.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
POSTED FOR CROWN HILL UNIVERSITY STUDENT AFFAIRS:

The Students' Affairs Unit expresses her sincere condolences to our father, the Vice Chancellor of this great University and the entire family on the exit to glory of our dearest CHUSA female Patron, our mother, a renowned scholar of repute and a prayer warrior, Prof. Mary Modupe Deboye-Kolawole. Your simplicity and impeccable personality will forever linger.
We love you, our female Patron but God loves you more. Esun re o.

Dean of Students Affairs, Crown-Hill University.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
I am still stunned and truly in denial. Words appear inadequate to express my feelings about this exceptional angel. Mama Prof MEM Kolawole was an encourager, a worthy mentor for younger female academics. I remember how GOD used her to facilitate my first; outside Africa, academic Conference/Workshop to Sweden. On that trip, she was so selfless and committed to ensuring that the two younger colleagues (a friend and I) had a successful outing.
Prof MEM Kolawole (I always loved her initials) was a true child of GOD. She would always greet me with a warm smile and made me feel welcome either at home or in the office. She was so special to a lot of us, and I truly hope she knew. Indeed, the elephant has fallen.
May her soul rest in peace and may GOD grant the family, especially Prof, the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
POSTING FOR ENGR BAYO OLADELE:

TRIBUTE TO PROF. (MRS) MARY MODUPE KOLAWOLE.

What a shock your death has inflicted on us! Your departure has indeed left us speechless and dumb because it was so sudden and most unexpected. But who are we to question God on the issue of death? We believe you have completed your assignment and fulfilled your purpose in life. God has therefore called you home at His own time. We have no doubt you are now in a better place and are being celebrated. You will be missed greatly by all of us. We are consoled however because you knew, loved and served the Lord Jesus Christ with all your heart and strength.
My family appreciates and specifically thank you for the devotional messages you committedly sent everyday to Mama Bimbo in far away Canada for about a year. They were indeed of great spiritual blessings to her and the entire family. We also thank you for the unique love and support you gave our dear brother, your beloved husband while here which no doubt contributed immensely to his enviable achievements in life. The close relationship you had was just exemplary. We assure you that the Lord will uphold him and also grant him the grace to hold fort and keep intact the legacy you both built together. God will continually renew his strength and ours too.
Good night and fare thee well. Continue to rest in perfect peace with the Lord till we all meet in glory someday.
Adieu!
Engr Bayo H.Oladele & Family.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
*TRIBUTE TO AN UNFORGETTABLE FAITHIAN! PROFESSOR MARY EBUN KOLAWOLE.*

Our beloved Mary,
You are unforgettable, first because you belong to that Class of the Unforgettables (1962 - 1966) of St. Faith's College, Kaduna, an Anglican girls' secondary school now known as Govt. Girls' Secondary School, Kawo, Kaduna.

Together, we were part of the solid foundation of sound Christian values; first class academics; rich and varied extra - mural education and a bonding of cross culture friendships and loving relationships, steered by the foundation Principal of the school, Miss Mary Harvey and her team of extraordinarily dedicated teachers.

From this engendering foundation, not lacking in creative teenage pranks, we went forth to build our paths in life, in each of the *roads taken,* to fulfill God's purpose for each one of us.

Our dear unforgettable classmate, Mary, being endowed from early on in life, you took to the academic route which saw you transversing through major universities in Nigeria and abroad where you acquired more knowledge and laurels. The global sphere was your stage where you built up others in your chosen fields of Literature, Gender and Development.
We give God the glory that your footprints in these areas continue to speak volumes and to bear fruit.

In all these
, your path crisscrossed with other Unforgettables and other Faithians, both in the immediate years after St. Faith's and especially in later years. We remember your unique voice and smile; your kind friendship which extended to other family members and the shared love of Jesus Christ.
One of us, remembering you, asserts, and we all agree, that it is not how long we live but how connected to our Maker, God, we have been. We thus affirm that you connected well with our Lord Jesus and for that we thank God for your faithful and beautiful life which we all enjoyed in different ways!

One of such ways was your active participation and input in the Faithian WhatsApp platform. Lately your participation in that group focused on blessing us with scriptural homilies. Younger members of the group who arrived in St. Faith's long after we left, grew to love and respect you for your sincere inputs.

May God continue to comfort and encourage your family, friends, acquaintances, and your school mates who mourn your departure.
We however, "do not mourn as those without hope' remembering that "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saint."

Stay in the bosom of our Lord Jesus till we meet at His feet, our beloved Mary.
Hallelujah!

*The Unforgettable Class of '66 and on behalf of the Faithian family.*
February 27, 2021
February 27, 2021
TRIBUTE TO AN ICON:
Prof (Mrs) MEM Kolawole.

Your sudden departure was shocking and painful to Oko-Irese people, the university community, Grace Theological Seminary Ibadan/Omu-Aran campus, and also to the body of Christ at large. This is the seminary you and your husband laid the foundation with your sweat.
You left us with some assignment unmarked and unfinished discussion on the way forward. In no doubt, your parting has left a vacuum difficult for any body to fill.
Your faith was legendary and the sacrifice it produced will always have a voice in the affairs of men without discrimination.
We take solace in the fact that you lived a fulfilled Christian Life characterized by love, uprightness and humanity. Your footprints in your relatively short life are indelible on the sands of time. We shall soon behold you in the glory of God's reward for the services rendered with utmost dedication here on Earth.                                               God has you in His arms, but we have you in our heart.
"Baba Deboye e ku aroju,
Ta laroni to ngbe ni duniyan ti o ni logba tan...
oju atun 'rari lalede orun.
Adieu. Rest on Mama.

Pst Dr JKFarinde
Grace Theological Seminary Ibadan.
February 27, 2021
February 27, 2021
It is painful that I could not see you before you left this world to eternity.
Mummy used to buy stockings for me when I was very young @ Iludun, around 1987 thereabout.
I was just telling daddy last year that I will come around to say hello to her.
The memory of your generosity still lingered in my heart!
May the Almighty God give daddy the fortitude to Bear the loss!
The separation is for a while,we meet someday @ the feet of Jesus to part no more!
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