The First TIme Ever I Saw Your Face: Naveen's Arrival
A moment that is forever embedded in my memory is when Jiddu first met his first grandchild, my son, Naveen. Jiddu came by plane when Naveen was just two weeks old. My husband brought him from the airport while I stayed home with our new baby. He was wearing a hat and a light jacket. As he entered the threshhold of our house, he put down his suitcase, his head down in silence and held the baby. He was silent for a long time -something I later discovered is very unusual for him. I just remember him taking in the moment - so overcome by happiness.
Labor of Love: Shaan's Arrival
Before our second child, Shaan, was born, Jiddu came in advance of his birth. Shaan was the only grandchild blessed to have 3 grandparents present for his birth--my parents and Jiddu! And that too, on a snowy day in January! On the night he was born, Jiddu and my parents came to the hospital and held baby Shaan. Laith was with me in the hospital. It was late in the night when my parents called Laith and me. Jiddu was not doing well - he was having nausea and vomiting and he was worried to bother us. My parents were concerned enough that they felt we should be called. Laith went home to see him and determined that he needed to come to the hospital. Jiddu was admitted in the same hospital and Laith was moving between the maternity and geriatric wards. Poor Jiddu! He had a case of gastrointestinal illness but thankfully recovered quickly. Despite his health, he still came to help us and see his grandchildren - in his own way - this was his labor of love!
Make that Two Baptisms!: Milan's Arrival
When we were expecting our third child, I fondly recall how we told Jiddu and Nana that they would be having a fourth grandchild (Milan). We told him and Nana via face time. Naveen, our oldest, proudly showed the ultrasound picture and told them it was a boy! We were slightly worried he might think we told him too late since it was already 20 weeks into the pregnancy! Instead, Jiddu was beaming. He said "It's good for me! I don't have to wait so long for him to arrive!!!!" With a huge smile on his face and beaming with happiness, Jiddu told his friends and family--my favorite story is that he had already spoken to Abuna to schedule the baptism for Melinda (Milan's cousin). He went back to Abuna and said, "Make that TWO baptisms!!!" His joy had been quadrupled!.
Beautiful Beautiful Beautiful Boys
One thing that I quickly discovered I have in common with Jiddu is that we are both emotional people (in a good way). I had received as a baby shower gift Celine Dion's latest album - a CD of music for new moms. One of the songs was "Beautiful Boy." We spent a lot of time together because I was on maternity leave and he was visiting. We would listen to this CD, tears streaming down our face - he thinking of his son (and perhaps his grandson) and me thinking of my new baby.